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"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right What is your views? " Depends on the man they meet | |||
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"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right What is your views? " nobody plays first meet outside of a club | |||
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"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right What is your views? " Why ask _ieutenant? Hoping to get your balls in tonight? | |||
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"Seriously though, does that not depend on what you’re looking for. First meet is surely about are you compatible with each other, rather than the physical attraction " Not for everyone. I meet those I'm physically attracted to for sex. I gauge compatibility before agreeing to meet. | |||
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"We look for Mr 100%-right-for- tonight. It's easier for couples to feel comfortable with a stranger, they have each other, understandable that a sole female would be more wary " Completely agree with this | |||
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"My time is limited so while i normally meet for a drink first my intention is to have sex that night. " This is kinda how we feel.. so little time to ping pong and social.. if it feels right, then go for it | |||
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"We look for Mr 100%-right-for- tonight. It's easier for couples to feel comfortable with a stranger, they have each other, understandable that a sole female would be more wary Completely agree with this" We have social meets first always and some do lead to the bedroom ,but only because we are a couple ,im happy to do social on my own if hubby is working as ive done the homework .. | |||
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"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right What is your views? nobody plays first meet outside of a club " Rubbish! I’ve had more fun outside of clubs than in them | |||
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"In for a penny in for a pounding. " Haha. Women are always waiting for Mr Perfect to contact them. Best to have a social first. If you've travelled some distance and try to guilt someone into it,then stay locally. | |||
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"In for a penny in for a pounding. Haha. Women are always waiting for Mr Perfect to contact them. Best to have a social first. If you've travelled some distance and try to guilt someone into it,then stay locally." This is one of the reasons I will only meet locally. Most of whom I've met from out of the area have a massive sense of entitlement. | |||
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"nobody plays first meet outside of a club" Not true at all Disregarding precious sites, and just sticking with fab, I’ve met 13 women, 9 of which I’ve played with, of which 3 were on the same night as first meet. | |||
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"Wow, I very rarely play on a first meet. I prefer quality over quantity. Not looking to sleep my way through this site. Guess I’m a little old school much more hornier if you can get in my mind before you get in my pants " Are you playing cliche bingo? | |||
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"Wow, I very rarely play on a first meet. I prefer quality over quantity. Not looking to sleep my way through this site. Guess I’m a little old school much more hornier if you can get in my mind before you get in my pants " Just because someone plays on the first meet doesn't mean they go for quantity over quality. I'm also not looking to sleep my way through the site. Who said that those that have sex on the first meet haven't spent months getting to know who they're meeting? I find your assumptions frankly insulting and narrow minded. | |||
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"Wow, I very rarely play on a first meet. I prefer quality over quantity. Not looking to sleep my way through this site. Guess I’m a little old school much more hornier if you can get in my mind before you get in my pants Are you playing cliche bingo? " | |||
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"Wow, I very rarely play on a first meet. I prefer quality over quantity. Not looking to sleep my way through this site. Guess I’m a little old school much more hornier if you can get in my mind before you get in my pants Are you playing cliche bingo? " | |||
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"Are you playing cliche bingo? " If I am, guess I won It’s my wishes not to play on a first meet, and I shouldn’t be made to feel bad for not doing so. | |||
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"Ideally I like to have a social first. But if I've been talking to them for some time and we haven't actually met in the flesh, well I don't see what's wrong with plunging right on in there...it's thrilling....!!" Exactly, why not if that's what appeals? | |||
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"Are you playing cliche bingo? If I am, guess I won It’s my wishes not to play on a first meet, and I shouldn’t be made to feel bad for not doing so. " Did someone make you feel bad? | |||
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"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right What is your views? nobody plays first meet outside of a club " Aye! Every meet we've had has been first meet play outside of a club with single guys. | |||
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"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right What is your views? nobody plays first meet outside of a club Aye! Every meet we've had has been first meet play outside of a club with single guys." eau contrare | |||
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"I don’t tend to do repeat meets so if my underwear matches and you make me laugh you’re in luck! Lol" I didn't have you down as an underwear kinda girl | |||
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"A woman in a couple has a man with her. A single woman has to think about her safety more, so may take longer to gauge the guy. There are always exceptions - it all depends on the kind of woman you prefer. " I fully agree with your comment.safety is paramount as a single female.I am not advocating every single woman should ve fun on first meet.But expectation from single female is too high when meeting single guys.Remember fab is not a dating site. Please don’t get me wrong.I am not here to bash single female.just general views from guys here on fab | |||
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"A woman in a couple has a man with her. A single woman has to think about her safety more, so may take longer to gauge the guy. There are always exceptions - it all depends on the kind of woman you prefer. I fully agree with your comment.safety is paramount as a single female.I am not advocating every single woman should ve fun on first meet.But expectation from single female is too high when meeting single guys.Remember fab is not a dating site. Please don’t get me wrong.I am not here to bash single female.just general views from guys here on fab" I don't think you can claim to be speaking on behalf of other guys on here | |||
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"Wow, I very rarely play on a first meet. I prefer quality over quantity. Not looking to sleep my way through this site. Guess I’m a little old school much more hornier if you can get in my mind before you get in my pants Are you playing cliche bingo? " Hahaha | |||
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"A woman in a couple has a man with her. A single woman has to think about her safety more, so may take longer to gauge the guy. There are always exceptions - it all depends on the kind of woman you prefer. I fully agree with your comment.safety is paramount as a single female.I am not advocating every single woman should ve fun on first meet.But expectation from single female is too high when meeting single guys.Remember fab is not a dating site. Please don’t get me wrong.I am not here to bash single female.just general views from guys here on fab" Fab is whatever anyone who uses it wants it to be. No one is obliged to do anything and women are entitled to have any expectation they want. | |||
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"I've had sex with every man I've met from here the first time we met. Its not that hard to determine compatibility before you meet in person, and it's working out well for me so far. " Me too. Working like a charm in fact. | |||
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"I've had sex with every man I've met from here the first time we met. Its not that hard to determine compatibility before you meet in person, and it's working out well for me so far. " Yes! I'm exactly the same. Free time is so limited for me so when I do give up my time to meet someone I've pretty much decided there is a level of compatibility and "phwoarrr" factor. As long as they feel the same about me when we meet face to face, away we go. All good fun! | |||
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"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right What is your views? nobody plays first meet outside of a club " Sorry to disagree but I have to. In a former life I've been very lucky and met some lovely single ladies who have played on first meets. Maybe I'm different to some guys and am happy to chat for a while to get to know people first and am never looking for 'tonight' meets? And I'm always happy to meet in a public place and time of their choice first on a purely 'no expectations' basis. | |||
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"A woman in a couple has a man with her. A single woman has to think about her safety more, so may take longer to gauge the guy. There are always exceptions - it all depends on the kind of woman you prefer. I fully agree with your comment.safety is paramount as a single female.I am not advocating every single woman should ve fun on first meet.But expectation from single female is too high when meeting single guys.Remember fab is not a dating site. Please don’t get me wrong.I am not here to bash single female.just general views from guys here on fab Fab is whatever anyone who uses it wants it to be. No one is obliged to do anything and women are entitled to have any expectation they want. " Tell that to the fab moderator in Glasgow who closed my fem friends account for "treating it like facebook" Once banned you have no recourse for complaint. Lovely lady too. | |||
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"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right What is your views? nobody plays first meet outside of a club Sorry to disagree but I have to. In a former life I've been very lucky and met some lovely single ladies who have played on first meets. Maybe I'm different to some guys and am happy to chat for a while to get to know people first and am never looking for 'tonight' meets? And I'm always happy to meet in a public place and time of their choice first on a purely 'no expectations' basis." youre a saint among sinners is your name paul or peter? | |||
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"To date I have chatted to quite a few single ladies and couples on fab, several interested to meet... but when it comes to putting their money where their mouth is they are all actually fake and time wasters... try Tinder instead mate" I presume that was only a turn of phrase,as the man ends up paying, one way or another. Do you mean that when you try and make a firm date, even for a social, they're elusive or vague? I find more likely that the chat becomes more protracted until it disappears. I always put it down to her swithing to someone more charming/sexy/witty/donkey. I can't ever put it down to fakery | |||
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"We play with select single guys. They gotta have something about them, banter, sexual chemistry not just a “hiya”. However I must say the only single guys we have played with have been where we have met them at a club not through here x" Hiya? Damn, there goes my fave opening line. Wondered what (else) i was doing wrong. | |||
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" I presume that was only a turn of phrase,as the man ends up paying, one way or another. " What does this mean? | |||
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" I presume that was only a turn of phrase,as the man ends up paying, one way or another. What does this mean? " Hotels, travel expenses, meals out, entertainment. After all, this is more of a crap dating site than a hook up site. Not complaining mind you. | |||
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" I presume that was only a turn of phrase,as the man ends up paying, one way or another. What does this mean? Hotels, travel expenses, meals out, entertainment. After all, this is more of a crap dating site than a hook up site. Not complaining mind you. " I'm sorry you've had that experience but I've never once expected any man I've met from Fab to ever pay for anything I don't like socials anyway but if I did I wouldn't do them because I can't pay my way. I hope you don't mind my asking but can you describe what would be an ideal meet for you on fab? What would happen from first contact until the end of the meet? | |||
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" I presume that was only a turn of phrase,as the man ends up paying, one way or another. What does this mean? Hotels, travel expenses, meals out, entertainment. After all, this is more of a crap dating site than a hook up site. Not complaining mind you. " a crap dating site omg how very dare you this is the creme de la creme of dating sites | |||
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"We play on first meet, time is too limited. Although really starting to give up on Fabs. Limp dicks who can't get hard. Dicks that go soft as soon as condom comes out. Those who just wanna 'need my tits, like bread ready for proving' watchers and wankers. Cum on guys, full swap sex is what we're looking for. " You guys are pretty much exactly what we're looking for and can we find it? Can we, fairy cakes it's getting us down too. Way too much of just what you describe. | |||
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"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right What is your views? " Of all my meets, I’ve probably played on the first meet, 70% of the time. The reasons I haven’t played, would be due to a lack of connection/attraction face to face, or time and place constraints. The single females I’ve met have always been the most keen to play there and then, but even with couples I’ve always made a connection with via messaging prior to a face to face meet, so rarely do things not work out for all concerned The trouble with going to clubs is; you’re limited to who is in while you are, so if nobody floats your boat, you’re left twiddling your thumbs thinking I could be messaging people in Fab....... | |||
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"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right What is your views? " I don't even say hello sometimes, straight on my knees | |||
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" a crap dating site omg how very dare you this is the creme de la creme of dating sites " Um, fab only excells in chat. Most here are truly awful in their expectations. Ruins it for others. | |||
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