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Who is likely to play with single guys on first meet here on fab? Couples or single female

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london

As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right

What is your views?

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

We don't play with single guys at all.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

We dont always look for Mr 100% right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look for Mr 100%-right-for- tonight.

It's easier for couples to feel comfortable with a stranger, they have each other, understandable that a sole female would be more wary

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By *owhambamMan
over a year ago

clacton

I’d be happy with a reply,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont forget alot of single womens profiles are still part of a couples dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have few times but only very soft play

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right

What is your views? "

Depends on the man they meet

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By *owhambamMan
over a year ago

clacton

Seriously though, does that not depend on what you’re looking for. First meet is surely about are you compatible with each other, rather than the physical attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right

What is your views? "

nobody plays first meet outside of a club

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By *ocodoughnutgirlWoman
over a year ago

Sea of jelly and doughnuts

Mostly for safety, I prefer first meet to be a social as a lone female.

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Yep, always looking for Mr Right

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right

What is your views? "

Why ask _ieutenant? Hoping to get your balls in tonight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though, does that not depend on what you’re looking for. First meet is surely about are you compatible with each other, rather than the physical attraction "

Not for everyone. I meet those I'm physically attracted to for sex. I gauge compatibility before agreeing to meet.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I actually like to meet socially first. Or at least have built up sone kind of friendship.

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By *owhambamMan
over a year ago

clacton

You must have great trust in your judgement

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

It depends on the circumstances. I've had a couple of excellent first meets where I've turned up at a hotel and gone straight up to the room.....I've also had a couple where I've made my excuses and legged it

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland


"We look for Mr 100%-right-for- tonight.

It's easier for couples to feel comfortable with a stranger, they have each other, understandable that a sole female would be more wary "

Completely agree with this

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

london

On here women can literally demand mr 100% right as they are getting hundreds of messages daily. Pick of the litter so to speak. Couples in my opinion have already found mr and mrs right so don’t have to be as picky. That being said I’m sure they are also inundated with messages and Inturn can choose mr right for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My time is limited so while i normally meet for a drink first my intention is to have sex that night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My time is limited so while i normally meet for a drink first my intention is to have sex that night. "

This is kinda how we feel.. so little time to ping pong and social.. if it feels right, then go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In for a penny in for a pounding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had several Mr RIGHT NOW

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

It goes 2 ways for us based off experience. IE guys don’t always look like their pics!

1) If the guy can host, we’re happy going to his. If there’s attraction we’ll stay and have fun. If there’s not then we reserve the right to leave.

2) If it’s a hotel meet then we insist on a social first. That way we can again assess attraction and fit with what we’re looking for. If all is good we can boom a hotel for another night. No one wants to be out of pocket for a hotel if things don’t feel right.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I've had sex with every man I've met from here the first time we met. Its not that hard to determine compatibility before you meet in person, and it's working out well for me so far.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Ive done both sides,it depends on the situation as it unravels, especially if it is a fantasy meet.

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

I've met a few guys so far. Some meets went straight into play, and they were mostly awful experience.

Since that time I don't play on first meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends more on the guy than if its a single or a couple some men you just get that not tonight feeling with them.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland


"We look for Mr 100%-right-for- tonight.

It's easier for couples to feel comfortable with a stranger, they have each other, understandable that a sole female would be more wary

Completely agree with this"

We have social meets first always and some do lead to the bedroom ,but only because we are a couple ,im happy to do social on my own if hubby is working as ive done the homework ..

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right

What is your views? nobody plays first meet outside of a club "

Rubbish! I’ve had more fun outside of clubs than in them

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"In for a penny in for a pounding. "

Haha. Women are always waiting for Mr Perfect to contact them.

Best to have a social first. If you've travelled some distance and try to guilt someone into it,then stay locally.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"In for a penny in for a pounding.

Haha. Women are always waiting for Mr Perfect to contact them.

Best to have a social first. If you've travelled some distance and try to guilt someone into it,then stay locally."

This is one of the reasons I will only meet locally. Most of whom I've met from out of the area have a massive sense of entitlement.

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Wow, I very rarely play on a first meet. I prefer quality over quantity. Not looking to sleep my way through this site.

Guess I’m a little old school much more hornier if you can get in my mind before you get in my pants

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By *eeBDMan
over a year ago

Wigston

I think a first meet is more likely to be a social so a couple as I've found they are more likely to meet a strange guy in a public place for a coffee than a single female due to safety reasons.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"nobody plays first meet outside of a club"

Not true at all

Disregarding precious sites, and just sticking with fab, I’ve met 13 women, 9 of which I’ve played with, of which 3 were on the same night as first meet.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

Sorry, miscounted, it’s 4. But I never expect or would push for a first meet play It’s just how things turn out, unless it’s been pre-agreed, and even then there’s always a get-out clause.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, I very rarely play on a first meet. I prefer quality over quantity. Not looking to sleep my way through this site.

Guess I’m a little old school much more hornier if you can get in my mind before you get in my pants "

Are you playing cliche bingo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never on a first meet,always social first...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, I very rarely play on a first meet. I prefer quality over quantity. Not looking to sleep my way through this site.

Guess I’m a little old school much more hornier if you can get in my mind before you get in my pants "

Just because someone plays on the first meet doesn't mean they go for quantity over quality. I'm also not looking to sleep my way through the site. Who said that those that have sex on the first meet haven't spent months getting to know who they're meeting? I find your assumptions frankly insulting and narrow minded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, I very rarely play on a first meet. I prefer quality over quantity. Not looking to sleep my way through this site.

Guess I’m a little old school much more hornier if you can get in my mind before you get in my pants

Are you playing cliche bingo? "

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

A woman in a couple has a man with her. A single woman has to think about her safety more, so may take longer to gauge the guy. There are always exceptions - it all depends on the kind of woman you prefer.

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

I wouldn't expect to play on a first meet. Attraction is more than just physical, you've got to like your playmates and that would need a social first. (In my humble opinion)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, I very rarely play on a first meet. I prefer quality over quantity. Not looking to sleep my way through this site.

Guess I’m a little old school much more hornier if you can get in my mind before you get in my pants

Are you playing cliche bingo? "

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By *aycee70Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

We have but really depends on the type of meet we after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally I like to have a social first. But if I've been talking to them for some time and we haven't actually met in the flesh, well I don't see what's wrong with plunging right on in there...it's thrilling....!!

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon


"Are you playing cliche bingo? "

If I am, guess I won

It’s my wishes not to play on a first meet, and I shouldn’t be made to feel bad for not doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideally I like to have a social first. But if I've been talking to them for some time and we haven't actually met in the flesh, well I don't see what's wrong with plunging right on in there...it's thrilling....!!"

Exactly, why not if that's what appeals?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you playing cliche bingo?

If I am, guess I won

It’s my wishes not to play on a first meet, and I shouldn’t be made to feel bad for not doing so.

"

Did someone make you feel bad?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right

What is your views? nobody plays first meet outside of a club "

Aye!

Every meet we've had has been first meet play outside of a club with single guys.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I don’t tend to do repeat meets so if my underwear matches and you make me laugh you’re in luck! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right

What is your views? nobody plays first meet outside of a club

Aye!

Every meet we've had has been first meet play outside of a club with single guys."

eau contrare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t tend to do repeat meets so if my underwear matches and you make me laugh you’re in luck! Lol"

I didn't have you down as an underwear kinda girl

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Never go with any expectations, just to enjoy. But I must admit I've been on first meets with people who are social only, never sex on first meet, that have resulted in sex on said first meet.

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"A woman in a couple has a man with her. A single woman has to think about her safety more, so may take longer to gauge the guy. There are always exceptions - it all depends on the kind of woman you prefer.

"

I fully agree with your comment.safety is paramount as a single female.I am not advocating every single woman should ve fun on first meet.But expectation from single female is too high when meeting single guys.Remember fab is not a dating site. Please don’t get me wrong.I am not here to bash single female.just general views from guys here on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman in a couple has a man with her. A single woman has to think about her safety more, so may take longer to gauge the guy. There are always exceptions - it all depends on the kind of woman you prefer.

I fully agree with your comment.safety is paramount as a single female.I am not advocating every single woman should ve fun on first meet.But expectation from single female is too high when meeting single guys.Remember fab is not a dating site. Please don’t get me wrong.I am not here to bash single female.just general views from guys here on fab"

I don't think you can claim to be speaking on behalf of other guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer single guys than getting with a guy who has a couple's profile. Too many jealous partner's out there who dont like their men playing with single woman. Its true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've played on a first meet in the past, all depends on the dynamic and if the meet hits off on a sexy vibe. I've been sat with people from fab who've hard a full conversation about dull life stuff then been surprised that I'm not gagging for it when they walk me to the car lol x it just has to feel good and right x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That made me laugh!

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"Wow, I very rarely play on a first meet. I prefer quality over quantity. Not looking to sleep my way through this site.

Guess I’m a little old school much more hornier if you can get in my mind before you get in my pants

Are you playing cliche bingo? "

Hahaha

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Except for three times of meeting first for a drink and one or the other choosing then and there not to take it any further, over 25+ years I can only think of one occasion that wasn't 'play on first meet'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my single profile I played at first meet every time. The guys I met we'd already been chatting for months so already new there was a mutual interest/attraction so by the time of meeting them I just wanted them.

Same with our couple profile. The single guys we've arranged to meet we always play as I'd have been talking to them for a while already so had established there was mutual interest/attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman in a couple has a man with her. A single woman has to think about her safety more, so may take longer to gauge the guy. There are always exceptions - it all depends on the kind of woman you prefer.

I fully agree with your comment.safety is paramount as a single female.I am not advocating every single woman should ve fun on first meet.But expectation from single female is too high when meeting single guys.Remember fab is not a dating site. Please don’t get me wrong.I am not here to bash single female.just general views from guys here on fab"

Fab is whatever anyone who uses it wants it to be. No one is obliged to do anything and women are entitled to have any expectation they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had sex with every man I've met from here the first time we met. Its not that hard to determine compatibility before you meet in person, and it's working out well for me so far. "

Me too. Working like a charm in fact.

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By *each honeyWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I've had sex with every man I've met from here the first time we met. Its not that hard to determine compatibility before you meet in person, and it's working out well for me so far. "
Yes! I'm exactly the same. Free time is so limited for me so when I do give up my time to meet someone I've pretty much decided there is a level of compatibility and "phwoarrr" factor. As long as they feel the same about me when we meet face to face, away we go. All good fun!

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By *each honeyWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To date I have chatted to quite a few single ladies and couples on fab, several interested to meet... but when it comes to putting their money where their mouth is they are all actually fake and time wasters... try Tinder instead mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet in a public place for a drink and a chat.... after swopping phone numbers, talking on the phone, messages, pics etc.

That could take a week or a day.

I often have sex with the guy on that first occasion but only if I’m attracted to him. I’ve walked away from several....

Over the years.... I’ve lost count of the number of one night stands I’ve had....I don’t think that’s a good or a bad thing, it’s just who I am, and I would hope on a site like this, I wouldn’t be judged for my sexual practices.

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right

What is your views? nobody plays first meet outside of a club "

Sorry to disagree but I have to. In a former life I've been very lucky and met some lovely single ladies who have played on first meets. Maybe I'm different to some guys and am happy to chat for a while to get to know people first and am never looking for 'tonight' meets? And I'm always happy to meet in a public place and time of their choice first on a purely 'no expectations' basis.

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By *exycouple68Couple
over a year ago

herefordshire

I played with a single man on a first meet and ended up marrying him

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Depends on the game really.

If its say tennis then either a single female or mixed double.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from a couple of men I had a social with and nothing else, I had sex with every man on the first time of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play with select single guys. They gotta have something about them, banter, sexual chemistry not just a “hiya”.

However I must say the only single guys we have played with have been where we have met them at a club not through here x

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"A woman in a couple has a man with her. A single woman has to think about her safety more, so may take longer to gauge the guy. There are always exceptions - it all depends on the kind of woman you prefer.

I fully agree with your comment.safety is paramount as a single female.I am not advocating every single woman should ve fun on first meet.But expectation from single female is too high when meeting single guys.Remember fab is not a dating site. Please don’t get me wrong.I am not here to bash single female.just general views from guys here on fab

Fab is whatever anyone who uses it wants it to be. No one is obliged to do anything and women are entitled to have any expectation they want. "

Tell that to the fab moderator in Glasgow who closed my fem friends account for "treating it like facebook" Once banned you have no recourse for complaint. Lovely lady too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right

What is your views? nobody plays first meet outside of a club

Sorry to disagree but I have to. In a former life I've been very lucky and met some lovely single ladies who have played on first meets. Maybe I'm different to some guys and am happy to chat for a while to get to know people first and am never looking for 'tonight' meets? And I'm always happy to meet in a public place and time of their choice first on a purely 'no expectations' basis."

youre a saint among sinners is your name paul or peter?

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"To date I have chatted to quite a few single ladies and couples on fab, several interested to meet... but when it comes to putting their money where their mouth is they are all actually fake and time wasters... try Tinder instead mate"

I presume that was only a turn of phrase,as the man ends up paying, one way or another.

Do you mean that when you try and make a firm date, even for a social, they're elusive or vague?

I find more likely that the chat becomes more protracted until it disappears.

I always put it down to her swithing to someone more charming/sexy/witty/donkey.

I can't ever put it down to fakery

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

Swapping not swithing, phones fault

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"We play with select single guys. They gotta have something about them, banter, sexual chemistry not just a “hiya”.

However I must say the only single guys we have played with have been where we have met them at a club not through here x"

Hiya? Damn, there goes my fave opening line. Wondered what (else) i was doing wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I presume that was only a turn of phrase,as the man ends up paying, one way or another.

"

What does this mean?

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"

I presume that was only a turn of phrase,as the man ends up paying, one way or another.

What does this mean? "

Hotels, travel expenses, meals out, entertainment. After all, this is more of a crap dating site than a hook up site. Not complaining mind you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I presume that was only a turn of phrase,as the man ends up paying, one way or another.

What does this mean?

Hotels, travel expenses, meals out, entertainment. After all, this is more of a crap dating site than a hook up site. Not complaining mind you. "

I'm sorry you've had that experience but I've never once expected any man I've met from Fab to ever pay for anything I don't like socials anyway but if I did I wouldn't do them because I can't pay my way.

I hope you don't mind my asking but can you describe what would be an ideal meet for you on fab? What would happen from first contact until the end of the meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I presume that was only a turn of phrase,as the man ends up paying, one way or another.

What does this mean?

Hotels, travel expenses, meals out, entertainment. After all, this is more of a crap dating site than a hook up site. Not complaining mind you. "

a crap dating site omg how very dare you this is the creme de la creme of dating sites

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We play on first meet, time is too limited. Although really starting to give up on Fabs. Limp dicks who can't get hard. Dicks that go soft as soon as condom comes out. Those who just wanna 'need my tits, like bread ready for proving' watchers and wankers. Cum on guys, full swap sex is what we're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We play on first meet, time is too limited. Although really starting to give up on Fabs. Limp dicks who can't get hard. Dicks that go soft as soon as condom comes out. Those who just wanna 'need my tits, like bread ready for proving' watchers and wankers. Cum on guys, full swap sex is what we're looking for. "

You guys are pretty much exactly what we're looking for and can we find it? Can we, fairy cakes it's getting us down too. Way too much of just what you describe.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We only play in clubs, and therefore I always play with a single guy or guys on "first meet", sometimes within first five minutes of meeting. Anonymous spontaneous sex is a real turn on for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From our experience as a couple, all our meets so far (both social and mainly play) have came about through clubs and an event that we hosted, so can't really comment on the arranging of meets on here.

From my more plentiful experience as a single I think all couples I've met have played on the first meet except one? This occasion was ages ago and when I got there I could tell that whilst the chap was keen, the lady was practically new to swinging and was absolutely bricking it?

So I was pleasant with them and had a sociable time, but she was still on edge so I told them that this probably wasn't for them right at this instant and parted amicably enough.

This was the only occasion tbf and with most couples, aside from the woman of a couple usually feeling safer with her man present they're probably also conscious of the fact that they'll have less available time to play when they're BOTH free so want to make the most of it more often.

With ladies, I've had play meets on the vast majority of first times with them, I think there was 3 occasions that stand out when I didn't; one due to simply not having the time or location on my meet's lunch break, one due to her having a hard and fast rule about only a social first so I only cleared an hour free after work which wouldn't have been long enough and the third instance merely because we weren't compatible so on the odd occasion it does happen!

I've had other socials with ladies, but they all turned into play meets. Tbf I think my high ratio of "play on the first meet" was down to striking up a bond and connection with them over time beforehand which I viewed as essential most of the time?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right

What is your views? "

Of all my meets, I’ve probably played on the first meet, 70% of the time. The reasons I haven’t played, would be due to a lack of connection/attraction face to face, or time and place constraints. The single females I’ve met have always been the most keen to play there and then, but even with couples I’ve always made a connection with via messaging prior to a face to face meet, so rarely do things not work out for all concerned

The trouble with going to clubs is; you’re limited to who is in while you are, so if nobody floats your boat, you’re left twiddling your thumbs thinking I could be messaging people in Fab.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As for me I think couples are more willing to play at first meet with single guys. As for Single women.they always look for Mr 100% right

What is your views? "

I don't even say hello sometimes, straight on my knees

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By *hefluxcapacitorCouple
over a year ago

leicester

We have played with single guys in a club before, one that we had just met, had a little chat, we all liked each other so we got down to business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play on first meet it’s just hard to find the right guys

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Because of distance we have done ,when you travel 2 hours or more it makes sense ,but saying that when usually have chatted with the guy a while and still have a cuppa/social first ,and because of said pre chats we always go ahead all about the homework make sure connection is about there in person you will know 100 percent ..

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


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a crap dating site omg how very dare you this is the creme de la creme of dating sites "

Um, fab only excells in chat.

Most here are truly awful in their expectations.

Ruins it for others.

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