FabSwingers.com forum: spontaneous or a planner

By *egasus Nob OP Man
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Are you a spontaneous person or a planner.

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Depends....

Planner if I don’t know you

Spontaneous if I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually planner. And then I can get very anxious when things are not going according to my plans

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Mostly spontaneous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A planner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous in every part of life lol except work of course but ... probably

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Always spontaneous... when we plan, we over plan and it feels a forgone conclusion what will happen..

spontaneous means we are usually mid fuck and decide to go out dogging, or put a post up to find someone.. even if we don’t find anyone, that’s part of the thrill to us

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

If an opportunity arises I’m never one to turn it down but I do love planning things and the excitement and anticipation that goes with that

Lex

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By *egasus Nob OP Man
over a year ago

Wandsworth

I use to be spontaneous suddenly a planner now, so I have been told, which I noticed the same thing.

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By *as_no_ideaWoman
over a year ago

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A mixture of the two..

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I'm a mixture, depends what suits me at the time

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

A planner - even if that plan gets changed, I like to have a rough idea.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Planner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In swinging planning is important you need to get a good feel of what someone's temperament is like after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to build up and plan but every now and then spontaneous is cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely planners....the exchange of texts builds the sexual tensions

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

I have to be a planner, live too remote to be spontaneous

Most people want to meet "right now" and that's not good for me,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By choice a planner, but I react to spontaneity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous. Though.. I have to compromise and plan way more than I'd like to.

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By *entleman Blue EyesMan
over a year ago

Saffron Walden

I would love to allow more spontaneity into my life but I haven't quite planned for it yet...

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I plan to be spontaneous.

But sometimes -

I spontaneously plan things

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I do and like both. I plan to have spontaneous days, where I may have some ideas but try to do new or creative things. A day or so off from routine and fully loaded itineraries is refreshing

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Very much spontaneous which annoys many people!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Very much spontaneous which annoys many people!"

I imagine that you're bout to get bombarded with messages asking to meet now.

And no _ they won't have read your profile properly. Lol

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By *abybearandthebossCouple
over a year ago

COLCHESTER

We are both planners for sure.

We can be spontaneous, normally only if we have set aside a time to do that well in advance. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a mixture of both, I'm naturally impulsive and spontaneous however life doesn't always allow for such things so I have to plan in advance when I can be spontaneous!

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex

I like to plan my spontaneity meticulously.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Mostly spontaneous when it's to do with myself and wife

When it's to do with kids involved then its planned

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I was an over planer before and always getting disappointed so now it's spontaneous for me plus hubby love when I come home with a surprise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you a spontaneous person or a planner.

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spontaneous

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Swinging wise, spontaneous. "Let's go clubbing tomorrow!" sort of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frown is a man that plans and Smile is a spontaneous pain in the arse.

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By *4ScotMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Depends on my mood. I'm an anxious so and so, so the first meet with someone is always planned...as I like to feel as comfortable as possible.

After that planned or spontaneous is good

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