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By *andb13 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bradford

So which do people think is better.

A club

Or

A meet at hotel or home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Club

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

a club

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Club, fun night out and social whereas a hotel is sex only and if doesn't work, no vibe etc awkward escape

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Club, you never know what will happen or who'll be there. It's the trepidation of entering the club, then the excitement of whatever act you decide to partake in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So which do people think is better.

A club

Or

A meet at hotel or home?"

Definitely club.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Has to be a club by a mile as you can get away if things go bad.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Club

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Hotel

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

It really depends CD what sort of meet you are looking for. If you go to a club you may not hook up with anyone...at a hotel presumably you have made arrangements with another couple...and its going to be quieter and more intimate. We like both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely club for us...like some have said no vibe at a private meeting be it hotel or home awkward to.escape.sometimes

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By *indMasterUKMan
over a year ago

All over England

Club... more variety! Spice of life they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A club!

You’re more likely to meet someone that you wouldn’t even of considered through pictures!

Sometimes pictures don’t show someone in the best light!

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Hotel or home. I don’t like the club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club meets

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

Club for the most part, depends if it’s weekend or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club xxx

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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Only really experienced with clubs, varied experiences over the years. Never had much luck arranging meets, not for the lack of trying.

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

Depends what you are looking for really. Generally I would say a club as it is almost certain there will be people there. A hotel meet, if you are arranging it, can easily fall flat if you get a no show (not that has EVER happened here on Fab, eh??). Sure, at a club there may not be many there, or many / any that you feel you connect with or are attracted to. But at least there are people and the worst case is that you end up having a bit of a social chat. Best case - you get fully spent, fucked senseless and you get a number of contacts that allow you to go for the hotel option next time more secure in the knowledge that they are likely to turn up.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Club, Club, Club

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Club.

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By *rank40Man
over a year ago

London

All the women are saying club I guess I may be going to one of these clubs one day now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the women are saying club I guess I may be going to one of these clubs one day now"

Try chams in Oct for the BBW party

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By *rank40Man
over a year ago

London


"All the women are saying club I guess I may be going to one of these clubs one day now

Try chams in Oct for the BBW party "

We can go together to give me my first club experience

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

A club for us. We prefer the atmosphere and having a drink and a chat before and maybe after. It's more of a night out for us away from normal life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t do clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither, public meet go from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever meet in clubs these days as i love the social side to swinging..The only time i meet outside of a club is if i have met them before and then its a hotel meet for special occasions or a house meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club always

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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"All the women are saying club I guess I may be going to one of these clubs one day now"

I'm guessing it's due to the safety factor but yes, give it a go.

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By *rank40Man
over a year ago

London


"All the women are saying club I guess I may be going to one of these clubs one day now

I'm guessing it's due to the safety factor but yes, give it a go."

Will do! , I guess I have not gone to a club yet because I have nobody to go with lol weather it be a guy friend or lady friend

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Club every time.

We now will not consider private meets at all.

Slightly different when we are at Cap d'Agde but we regard the place as just one big swinger club anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

home/hotel by a country mile we do like clubs sometimes as it breaks things up but clubs all the time nah not with the click that are in most lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club for me

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Private meets; you can't beat a nice clean, cosy bed, for spooning in afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private hotel meets .

More intimate . No worries about same fingers going through multiple pussies and cum.

Always safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the women are saying club I guess I may be going to one of these clubs one day now

I'm guessing it's due to the safety factor but yes, give it a go.

Will do! , I guess I have not gone to a club yet because I have nobody to go with lol weather it be a guy friend or lady friend "

I never understand why people think you have to go with someone?

Lots of men and women go alone, it's no big deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the women are saying club I guess I may be going to one of these clubs one day now

Try chams in Oct for the BBW party

We can go together to give me my first club experience "

No problems x

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"All the women are saying club I guess I may be going to one of these clubs one day now

I'm guessing it's due to the safety factor but yes, give it a go.

Will do! , I guess I have not gone to a club yet because I have nobody to go with lol weather it be a guy friend or lady friend

I never understand why people think you have to go with someone?

Lots of men and women go alone, it's no big deal."

My first time was as a single male, wasn’t the greatest experience but that was an error in judgement on my part and didn’t choose the right club/ event for me. Second time around I went as a single male to a more suitable event for me and it was brill. Haven’t looked back... I think as long as you do your due diligence it’s not half as daunting as it need be. Proper planning.... you know the rest

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