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"Breaking that barrier of first move and making conversation at a club is the biggest barrier. If you're invited to a thrresome the groundwork has been done already surely" Interesting view. What I will say is a lot of play happens in clubs without any conversation tbh. If you spend some time in the giant bed / orgies room stood politely on the sides with a hard on (and condoms to go) when someone else taps out there's a pretty good chance you will be waved on from the subs bench. Then a few of the guys we have played with 3sum style has been when they caught our eye in the play areas and we simply waved them over. For us walking into the clubs (that we go to) you go into the bar area first so its not really that much different (at that stage) to walking into any pub really for us anyway. Obviously it changes once you go to the changing rooms and then down / up to the play areas. Now going to somebodys house for the the first time (for us anyway) takes a bit more bottle and there's 2 of us to have each other's back so it must be scarier for some people who go on their own. At the end of the day you can chat and chat online but you'll never know exactly what you will walk into until you do. That I guess is part of the buzz to some extent. KJ x | |||
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"Single guys what's more nerve racking - Going solo to a club or going to a couples house for a 3sum?" Going to a couple's house for the first time, definitely. With a club there's no expectation of anything. You turn up, and whatever happens happens. For my first visit, I was expecting to not play. With meeting for a threesome, everyone is expecting the threesome. There's more pressure, and with new people you can't know how it will go. Even with a couple that you know, there's always the fear of having an off night and letting them down. | |||
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"Single guys what's more nerve racking - Going solo to a club or going to a couples house for a 3sum? Going to a couple's house for the first time, definitely. With a club there's no expectation of anything. You turn up, and whatever happens happens. For my first visit, I was expecting to not play. With meeting for a threesome, everyone is expecting the threesome. There's more pressure, and with new people you can't know how it will go. Even with a couple that you know, there's always the fear of having an off night and letting them down." This . Plus I always have a concern in the back of my mind about meeting a nutter, no matter how unlikely. | |||
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"Single guys what's more nerve racking - Going solo to a club or going to a couples house for a 3sum? Asking this because a few single male posters seem reluctant / nervous about going to a club alone but they don't (potentially) have the same apprehensions about going to someone's home for a meet. Just curious as a couple we find going to a single guys home or a couples home for fun probably more nerve racking than going to the club. KJ x " Club for me. Not necessarily nerve wracking, but not something I'm really into solo. If you've been invited for a threesome the groundwork has already been laid. I'm on fab because I don't really have time for clubbing. Of course, one of the first thing lots of people say is, 'Get yourself to a club..' | |||
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"Single guys what's more nerve racking - Going solo to a club or going to a couples house for a 3sum? Asking this because a few single male posters seem reluctant / nervous about going to a club alone but they don't (potentially) have the same apprehensions about going to someone's home for a meet. Just curious as a couple we find going to a single guys home or a couples home for fun probably more nerve racking than going to the club. KJ x " I would say or me going to a club - than going to someone’s house. I always meet in a bar/pub first - so everyone gets to know everyone else. So going to a couples house feels less of a burden. Going to club as single guy feels much more nerve racking as you are can just be standing there with no one too talk to/interact with. Reminded me of teenage age disco... | |||
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