FabSwingers.com forum: Bondage

By *hanger OP Man
over a year ago

brighton

Are you into bondage and if so, what sort, as there are som many variations?

If you are the sub, do you like it due to the feeling of helplessness or something else? If you are the top, is it from the feeling of control?

I like various forms of bondage, some conventional and others, as some of my pics show, less so!

By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Bondage is my absolute passion. Can't explain why, always has been, the sense of being restrained and bound just gets my adrenaline racing. Anything from simple cuffs and spreaders etc right through to intricate rope bondage. Went in a latex vac bed once, that was quite scary initially but once I realised I could breathe I was OK.

By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Bondage - all sorts. As long as it’s real and not token bondage such as a pair of velcro cuffs.

It’s always been there as far back as I can remember. I’d like to be able to describe exactly what it does for me, but I can’t, never have been able to.

By *REYTIMBERWOLFMan
over a year ago

reading

For me bondage in its purest sense is shibari rope work.

In addition... the tie isn't about restraint alone... its about the aesthetics too. That can be as great a stimulation as the restraint itself.

An artisitic tie to me doesn't involve american style hog ties. Tits tied so tight they turn purple... basically you are putting your partner in grave risk with sensory damage. I dont find it attractive or appealing that much... unless I was particularly revved up. But I do appreciate some recipients do like very hard ties and very hard sexual engagement/abuse.

One of the sexiest ties I have seen was a foot tie... side by side with individual loops around the toes and around the foot and ankles. A remarkable i.age that doesnt translate well to a written description.

Body harness are also very sexy with a good tie. I also like different ropes... i do like colour in the rope and soft/silky too. Harsh hemp I dont enjoy using but some like it used on them.

Wider bondage restraint options... I think leather is an amazing medium too. Ankles... wrists... collars... corsetry styles...

The smell of leather I just love. Its a double hit for me.

A less common form is heavy leather belts and straps... torso and pinning to objects ....

I do like nice bondage stuff but for me... I like to respect the bunny not abuse the gift on offer. Trust is a big big thing.