FabSwingers.com forum: How old is old?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just reading some profiles and 1 in particular made me think the lady in question is 43 and she states older lady seeking younger..

43 older? I'm 47 does that make me a fossil? Lol

What's your opinion on when you become old?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I classify myself as old in fab terms. In general though I think of 80 plus as old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes 47 nearly 48 classed as old on here but no worries

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By *0something1965Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"Yes 47 nearly 48 classed as old on here but no worries

Real old and Fab old are two different tbings!

I dont feel Real old (unless i try to bend over to pick something up (or look at myself in the mirtor and wonder who THAT old geezer is!))

But i certainly feel Fab old

lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 51 im not bloody old

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By *0something1965Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"Im 51 im not bloody old

Meh - you're pretty old!

Kidding! Lol - youre just pretty hehehehehe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well she is older compared to who she is seeking, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You as old as you feel! I’m bloody 24 again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im 51 im not bloody old

Meh - you're pretty old!

Kidding! Lol - youre just pretty hehehehehe x"
lmao thank you x

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I am 36 feel 86 at times but still think i am 21 at others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So at 46 I’m old never!!

Isn’t there a saying your only as old as the man you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99 is old, as that’s Fab’s stop age in preferences.

43 is considered older to me, but I’m only 26.

You’re only as old as you feel and all that anyway!

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I think on here, 45 could be seen as marker between young and old.

Certainly 45 seems to be a cut-off point for a lot of people, which has limited my chances somewhat

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By *ohnjamerMan
over a year ago

bandon

Well l am 65 that must make me pre historic

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

In the eye of the beholder.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"So at 46 I’m old never!!

Isn’t there a saying your only as old as the man you feel

No. It’s ‘you’re only as old as the woman you feel’.

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex

I have no idea, When I was 25 I probably thought 50 was old, now I'm nearly 50 I don't, strange dat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So at 46 I’m old never!!

Isn’t there a saying your only as old as the man you feel

No. It’s ‘you’re only as old as the woman you feel’."

Haha I knew it was something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh bugger

I'm 53 today

Does that mean no one wants me now!

Crap

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By *ohnjamerMan
over a year ago

bandon

Kissingkelly,that body is not old

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By *onim54Man
over a year ago

st helier

I’ve often wondered about the age thing . I’m on my 60’s and most consider that old but often forget with age comes experience and it doesn’t mean we’re all pipe and slippers

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By *onim54Man
over a year ago

st helier

"Oh bugger

I'm 53 today

Does that mean no one wants me now!

Crap

Nope ! ????

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By *onim54Man
over a year ago

st helier

"Well l am 65 that must make me pre historic"

??????likewise

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex

"Oh bugger

I'm 53 today

Does that mean no one wants me now!

Crap

Happy aging, and I doubt it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think 43 is old, I’m 36...depends on the person too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I classify myself as old in fab terms. In general though I think of 80 plus as old"

My thoughts exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 42 and hell no am not old!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting old is when the value of the Christmas presents you receive is less than those you give..

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

If you can smell piss then they’re old

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm quite happy to acknowledge and accept that the older one grows the fewer people one will appeal to sexually. When I was 30 I didn't want sex with 60 year olds, now I'm in my 60s why should I expect it to be different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissingkelly,that body is not old"
oh believe me it is but thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just reading some profiles and 1 in particular made me think the lady in question is 43 and she states older lady seeking younger..

43 older? I'm 47 does that make me a fossil? Lol

What's your opinion on when you become old? "

There is a difference between "old" and "older"

Is the lady in question saying she is old?

No,she's just saying she's seeking younger.

There's your difference.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

71 and 66 here, and still fucking and swinging happily. You are as old as you feel! One of our first full swaps - over 15 years ago - was with a couple in their mid 70s and they were very hot indeed.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

72 in years but still have the desires of 25 year old....!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bluddy ancient according to fab and my grandkids,generally I'd say 80s is old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What annoys me is when i get a message from a guy in his 30s saying oh i love an older woman.. am 42 yes im older than him but saying an older woman makes me think of a wee old lady lol

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Yep "Old" on here seems different to when we go out, but it is what it is.

Sometimes I feel it, sometimes I don't but I never think it & I guess that is the important part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just reading some profiles and 1 in particular made me think the lady in question is 43 and she states older lady seeking younger..

43 older? I'm 47 does that make me a fossil? Lol

What's your opinion on when you become old? "
46 is old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg..put me down now..i feel ancient..only discovered swinging 3 years ago..just getting into my stride..don't tell me it's over before its really begun...knackers yard here i come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again,older doesn't mean old,it just means born before

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I (Mrs.) thought I was old when I started this lifestyle 25 years ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck me im 47 get me in a care home

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

For fab 50 is viewed by most younger couples as being old.Yet most younger men when not in a couple are more than happy to chase a woman in her late 50s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age...... just a number

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We are M 53 F 57. We don’t feel old and have a very active life outside of here. But on here and the scene in general, we do feel old. To the point that we have discussed leaving the scene totally.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"So at 46 I’m old never!!

Isn’t there a saying your only as old as the man you feel

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GOD i hope not my hubby is 65 .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"We are M 53 F 57. We don’t feel old and have a very active life outside of here. But on here and the scene in general, we do feel old. To the point that we have discussed leaving the scene totally. "
please don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 59 and still enjoying private meets and enjoying fun at the clubs and sex cinema too. But I don’t feel old, I can keep it up and stay hard plus I have a nice tongue too to keep these sexy ladies and couples happy

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

49 here... But remember guys, your only as old as the woman you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess I'm officially old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our 50’s, don’t give a crap, we are getting far more action than lots here....

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By *reengirl911Couple
over a year ago

inverness

Duncan has just turned 51 and not many people want to meet someone over 50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are that shallow I wouldn't want to meet them anyway!

I'm 57. Happier now than ever, know what I like and like what I have. It's all relative!

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By *aughty50sCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

If there's one thing that swinging has confirmed to us, it's that age has little relevance. It's the person that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there's one thing that swinging has confirmed to us, it's that age has little relevance. It's the person that counts

So so true,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

93 and a half is just that little bit too old

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By *neamigoMan
over a year ago

should read 58… mistake with my age , cannot change it

You are as old as you mentally and physically feel ... trite I know but true ...

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By *0something1965Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"You are as old as you mentally and physically feel ... trite I know but true ..."

Not so much - try telling that to someobe on here who's set their Filters to 50!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 38 and I dont have age preference really but I really do get a little annoyed when guys who are less that 10yrs younger than me call me an older woman

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By *0something1965Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"I'm 38 and I dont have age preference really but I really do get a little annoyed when guys who are less that 10yrs younger than me call me an older woman

They shouldnt do that - thats a little disingenuous on tbeir part. "Older woman" is a type, not an age per se.

On the other hand when you say ypu dont have an age preference, thats a little disingenuous too, esp when your filters are set to 50

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By *aughtyDuetCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Late forties here and enjoying life............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 38 and I dont have age preference really but I really do get a little annoyed when guys who are less that 10yrs younger than me call me an older woman

They shouldnt do that - thats a little disingenuous on tbeir part. "Older woman" is a type, not an age per se.

On the other hand when you say ypu dont have an age preference, thats a little disingenuous too, esp when your filters are set to 50

Like I said I don't really have an age preference as I will chat to anyone.

But as my Dad is only 56 I try to not draw attention of men in that age bracket if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

47 is really old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're only as old as you feel and we are all achieving that slowly... A little older than your teeth..assuming that you have them

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

It's entirely dependant on the person thinking it. To an 18 year old, a 35 year old is old. To a 45 year old, a 65 year old is old. Its subjective

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By *armupartistMan
over a year ago

York

"71 and 66 here, and still fucking and swinging happily. You are as old as you feel! One of our first full swaps - over 15 years ago - was with a couple in their mid 70s and they were very hot indeed."

Well said and keep on, keeping on!

I've added you to my favourites list although I see you don't do 'single' men?

My playmates on here have been 'older', 60+ but enjoy this great lifestyle!

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

What ever age you are there is always someone older so why worry about it.

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

"Just reading some profiles and 1 in particular made me think the lady in question is 43 and she states older lady seeking younger..

43 older? I'm 47 does that make me a fossil? Lol

What's your opinion on when you become old? "

You are as old as you feel; we're over 60 and having the time of our lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not have sex with a guy your age because he would be too old for me but in the same time you are about the age of my parents and I don't think they are old. So I agree real old and fab old aren't the same

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

99 +vat

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

There's many a good tune played on an old fiddle,

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