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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What would be the first thing you send to a person you're trying to meet curious to see the way others approach it

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

NOT the same message to everyone that's one thing for certain all the losers do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing end of

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

A plethora of cock pics with the message, "How's U?". Works every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get "f*CK my throat" fairly regularly off men.

Women, unfortunately, do not make contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you bring your pussy over to play with mine as it's in a playfull mood x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get "f*CK my throat" fairly regularly off men.

Women, unfortunately, do not make contact"

Has that ever worked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can you bring your pussy over to play with mine as it's in a playfull mood x "

I'd say that's very good word play

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

Mention something in their profile which shows why you are messaging them, and what makes you different. You will probably leap from 1% read before deleted to a massive 2%. And some might get you a response! Keep being civilised. Good luck.

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Yeah struggle with this tried alsorts of methods none worked so far. And I never send cock pics first. I think it's the fact that men out number women 1000s to 1. So they can choose as they wish.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

It doesn't matter what you send.

The majority of women will check out a profile before even reading the message.

If there's nothing of interest, or they don't like what they see, it'll get deleted, probably unread.

Make your profile, the best you can

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By *hubarbandcustard1000Couple
over a year ago

Dudley

Personally I like witty and entertaining. If they dont get my humour then we wouldnt click anyway. So meh.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

One that worked with me was an insult it was done in a very crafty and amusing way. He got his reply... but in all seriousness, it was very clever and I would've met him if I'd fancied him, unfortunately I didn't.

So no matter what the message is, it will still require an attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my first time on this kind of site but i was open and honest with my very first message to a couple 2 weeks ago and happy to say we are meeting very soon. Yes we are here for fun and sex but honesty, integrity, and respect goes a long way.

Maybe I just got lucky?

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley


"This is my first time on this kind of site but i was open and honest with my very first message to a couple 2 weeks ago and happy to say we are meeting very soon. Yes we are here for fun and sex but honesty, integrity, and respect goes a long way.

Maybe I just got lucky?"

Geordieboy, you are either very lucky or very skilled at first messages, or maybe a combination of the two. But I think you have been on fora and listened to advice offered. Wish I had done this when I first joined!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't matter what you send.

The majority of women will check out a profile before even reading the message.

If there's nothing of interest, or they don't like what they see, it'll get deleted, probably unread.

Make your profile, the best you can

^^^ what she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is my first time on this kind of site but i was open and honest with my very first message to a couple 2 weeks ago and happy to say we are meeting very soon. Yes we are here for fun and sex but honesty, integrity, and respect goes a long way.

Maybe I just got lucky?

Geordieboy, you are either very lucky or very skilled at first messages, or maybe a combination of the two. But I think you have been on fora and listened to advice offered. Wish I had done this when I first joined!"

I took all the advice on board. Some knowledgeable people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like my first message to be polite and to the point without the porn style script if the first message is good then ill take the time to view the profile but sadly thats where most end as most dont have a profile or its again a porn script

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like my first message to be polite and to the point without the porn style script if the first message is good then ill take the time to view the profile but sadly thats where most end as most dont have a profile or its again a porn script"

I never mention sex in the first Messages. Best to get to know the person first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get "f*CK my throat" fairly regularly off men.

Women, unfortunately, do not make contact

Has that ever worked"

Not with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A plethora of cock pics with the message, "How's U?". Works every time "

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"What would be the first thing you send to a person you're trying to meet curious to see the way others approach it "

Most people look at your profile first. If they don't like your profile your message gets ignored or deleted.

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