FabSwingers.com forum: Straight Couples for Straight Couples?

By *isa2018 OP Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

We've been around for a while now and had lots of MMF fun, but still struggling to find that elusive straight couple with all round attraction.

We were hoping to meet a couple last week that we'd been in contact with for a while, and took a trip down to Exclusively Silks, but unfortunately a last minute family emergency meant they couldn't make it.

Is it mostly bi girl experiences that couples are after as it does seem almost as elusive to find a compatible couple as it is to find a single lady when you're not after any bi play.

How do others find it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're in the same boat, extreamly hard to find..

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We have some!

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By *ittlemisshotbotCouple
over a year ago

near you

I’m bi but more than happy playing straight if the other lady isn’t bi

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm half a couple and straight

We struggle with this too ,some will say they're happy playing straight then later bring up girl on girl ,so we stop chatting at the point.

We have had a couple of good meets ,but many have say they find straight swap boring .

It's the reason my partner & I have kept our single profiles .

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By *uncouple 321Couple
over a year ago

south West

We in the same boat to

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By *edjedi72Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

Same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both straight and find similar experiences with couples looking for ladies to play bi to start things off. That doesn't work for us at all.

We prefer straight forward partner swap and perhaps both ladies being pleasured by both guys and vice versa as an add on, but no bi play at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've been around for a while now and had lots of MMF fun, but still struggling to find that elusive straight couple with all round attraction.

Is it mostly bi girl experiences that couples are after as it does seem almost as elusive to find a compatible couple as it is to find a single lady when you're not after any bi play.

How do others find it?"

We’re just finding it tough to find any couples at all

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By *iker and Mare!Couple
over a year ago

Torbay

Same, also finding it tough to find couples (bi or straight) and also females

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By *aughtyAngels222Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire and East Scotland

My Wife is Bisexual but it has never stopped us having Full Swap with no FF interaction x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We've had no difficulty with finding single women we get on with, but couples are the difficulty for us. We were on here over three years before things worked out, not that we have the straight/bi issue you refer to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do straight couples look at my profile and message me??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, exactly this x
"I’m bi but more than happy playing straight if the other lady isn’t bi"

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By *EW2HERECouple
over a year ago

ERITH

We are looking for our first couple play also and like most of you find it hard to find another straight couple

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

Yes it gets interesting finding couples sometimes

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By *om_Sub69Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Same here xx

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

As to why it's more difficult to find straight couples:

Recent surveys show a big increase in people saying that they're non-straight, especially amongst the young.

Also, as the stigma has disappeared, a lot of people who would have previously said that they were totally straight aren't that bothered by a bit of same sex touching any more. In a threesome or foursome that makes things more relaxed.

But yeah, I don't get the thing about the two women putting on a show first. It just delays me getting my hands on the woman, and Em getting her hands on the guy.

Oh, and if any of you totally straight guys are wondering, cocks are weird. You're not missing anything.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

we are a straight couple and recognise the difficulty of getting that "all four in equilibrium" ... having a taste for single guys in MMF and group activity has been much less challenging x Anne

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

we same lots mfm but finding a straight couple very hard

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

We have kind of given up looking for couples. We struggle to find the attraction for all requirement.

L has bi curious in the profile. For us this means stroking and kissing, there is no other way of describing it here. We are put off by profiles that want a girl on girl starter for ten situation.

Anyway... Its singles for us for now.

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

It is hard this why we play solo sometimes in fact K has single profile.

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

"It is hard this why we play solo sometimes in fact K has single profile."

I'm confused. If K is bi, why would you be looking for entirely straight couples to play with?

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"It is hard this why we play solo sometimes in fact K has single profile.

I'm confused. If K is bi, why would you be looking for entirely straight couples to play with?"

Not couples but other singles.

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By *nicornExplorersCouple
over a year ago

north east

Female half is bi, does that mean we won't play with straight couples? No, we are open to that, we swap, so essentially just means no bi action.

We don't exclusively however look for that, but we also don't deter from it either, all depends on the couple bi or straight.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Why do straight couples look at my profile and message me??"

Use your filters and block couples if that's not who you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do straight couples look at my profile and message me??

Use your filters and block couples if that's not who you're looking for."
I have but strangely, some women messaged me through a single profile to represent one half of their hubby or boyfriend

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

It can be just as hard the other way around. Trust me

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By *iker and Mare!Couple
over a year ago

Torbay

We had no idea this would be so tricky and time consuming. There are mostly two types of people on here....

Hardened swingers that fuck anything. (No thanks)

Or penpals who occasionally indulge in a text when horny.

Surely there must be some chilled, fun, friendly, attractive others in our 30mile radius?

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"We've been around for a while now and had lots of MMF fun, but still struggling to find that elusive straight couple with all round attraction.

Is it mostly bi girl experiences that couples are after as it does seem almost as elusive to find a compatible couple as it is to find a single lady when you're not after any bi play.

How do others find it?"

I've been here as a single and a couple (not a fab couple).

We met couples and played same or separate room no bi girl play involved.

So it is possible

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By *ersuasion22Couple
over a year ago

Herts

"We had no idea this would be so tricky and time consuming. There are mostly two types of people on here....

Hardened swingers that fuck anything. (No thanks)

Or penpals who occasionally indulge in a text when horny.

Surely there must be some chilled, fun, friendly, attractive others in our 30mile radius?

The penpals thing cracked me up...We have a lot of that too! We're also looking for straight couples. Pity we're so far away.

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By *awty_TwoCouple
over a year ago

near Ashford, kent

We are in the same boat, looking for straight couples seems harder than bi fem couples finding a unicorn lol, and we are happy to travel x

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By *arried BifemWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

I’m bi but happy to play straight for full couple swap with my husband

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Bi Fem fun for us is an added bonus as apposed to essential. We've met plenty of straight cpls in clubs and had fun. X

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By *arried BifemWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

"Bi Fem fun for us is an added bonus as apposed to essential. We've met plenty of straight cpls in clubs and had fun. X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All straight here

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I will happily play straight if I am extremely attracted to the male half. Which happens 2 times out of 10 when meeting couples. So meeting couples where the lady is bi makes things much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do straight couple message me when I'm not looking for couples?

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

Although I am bicurious/bisexual...doesn't always mean that I would want to play with a girl in our dynamic. We are quite flexible and would always meet straight couples if there is the attraction on both sides there. I think it's all about adapting

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By *ersephoneHadesCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

While the female half of us is bi we are more than happy to play it straight and treat it like any other boundary. If the other couple says they are straight/curious will go by what they are comfortable with

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Trying to find another couple is so hard.

Too many variables when there’s 4 involved.

3 seems so much easier.

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By *isa2018 OP Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

"We have kind of given up looking for couples. We struggle to find the attraction for all requirement.

L has bi curious in the profile. For us this means stroking and kissing, there is no other way of describing it here. We are put off by profiles that want a girl on girl starter for ten situation.

Anyway... Its singles for us for now.

Just come back to this thread after a while. Your profile looks good but unfortunately we cant message you as outside your age settings.

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

We are very interested x

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By *edi123Couple
over a year ago

aberystwyth

"We are very interested x"

So are we but find there are sooooooo many fake accounts to find your way though before you find a couple and when you do they wtop chatting after a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're both straight, and yes, it is a struggle to find fully straight couples on here? It seems like the balance is definitely tipped in favour of couples with a bi/bi-curious female, although exactly how many of the females are actually bi/bi-curious is debatable, as there's probably a lot that have been pressured into it by the male half purely for his gratification?

We have met couples before who were supposedly 'straight' but then somehow as if by magic, turn bi, usually the female but on a number of occasions the male has proclaimed his desire to give oral or even more! Yes it's a struggle to find the fully straight couples, but keep the faith, you never know.....

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By *outhorkshirecoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Yeah finding it genuinely hard to find both straight in a couple near us, might have to spread our wings a bit !!!

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

My wife is straight, and it really puts her off when other women try to convince her to play bi. It's on our profile that she's straight and that should be respected. But in all honesty, I do wish she was at least curious.

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By *ravelcpleCouple
over a year ago

ipswich

"My wife is straight, and it really puts her off when other women try to convince her to play bi. It's on our profile that she's straight and that should be respected. But in all honesty, I do wish she was at least curious."

This is fine until your wife expects you to have sex with a guy I guess….!

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Mrs is straight here too and have come across the same problem where other couples almost expect her to at least kiss another woman.. when we say she's straight and doesn't play that way they seem shocked. We have had loads of mfm's etc but rarely play with couples these days but she loves cock so its all good

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We are both straight but only looking to watch and be watched, this is even more rare here

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

This is fine until your wife expects you to have sex with a guy I guess….!"

The difference here being that I don't try to convince her to do anything she doesn't want to do

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