FabSwingers.com forum: Is their many married people on here without their partners knowledge

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I here theirs lot's of men

Don't know about women

Is it the excitement you do it for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea, the wife is fully aware.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*grabs popcorn*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should be interesting to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"I here theirs lot's of men

Don't know about women

Is it the excitement you do it for "

I hear there's lots of men.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

way too many! Always funny walking through town and a guy that’s been hassling you for not meeting with married guys spots you while he’s out with the wife and kids!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I here theirs lot's of men

Don't know about women

Is it the excitement you do it for

I hear there's lots of men....."

Lol that's quite embarrassing how did i do that lol

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Are you referring to the excitement of finding their partner devastated, heartbroken and filled with grief that their closest friend has betrayed them - maybe!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you referring to the excitement of finding their partner devastated, heartbroken and filled with grief that their closest friend has betrayed them - maybe!"

I am a single man just asking a question

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"I here theirs lot's of men

Don't know about women

Is it the excitement you do it for

I hear there's lots of men.....

Lol that's quite embarrassing how did i do that lol"

Happens..... (to me as well !!).

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

There are lots of women that are on here without their hubbies knowing

Funny tho cos they are the ones that get most possessive over meets so it seems ....

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By *inkyrobinMan
over a year ago

Close to you

"I here theirs lot's of men

Don't know about women

Is it the excitement you do it for "

Think there is also lots of cheating women on here aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my single profile,I also have a couples one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads and loads and loads and loads - both male and female.

My fwb is married. He's honest about this. He has his reasons which I respect. He is NOT unhappy in his marriage and has never done the 'My wife doesn't understand me' or 'One day we will be together' bollocks. He is a good mate who happens to be married.

I don't do liars though. Plenty on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads and loads and loads and loads - both male and female.

I don't do liars though. Plenty on here. "

Surely your fwb lies to his wife though?

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I'm married and hubby knows I'm here

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

You’ll find cheaters everywhere. Just never gamble what you can’t afford to lose. The grass isn’t always greener.

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By *inkyrobinMan
over a year ago

Close to you

"You’ll find cheaters everywhere. Just never gamble what you can’t afford to lose. The grass isn’t always greener.

Ed"

My grass is looking amazing and green at the moment

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"I here theirs lot's of men

Don't know about women

Is it the excitement you do it for "

Who told you about lots of guys? Is there a secret marker on the profile.

Folks circumstances and their reasons for being here are their business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm saying nothing until I see my solicitor

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By *r. JoystickMan
over a year ago

London

Probably tons. I'm not one of them, but you'd more than hazard a guess that plenty are hiding between the rafters!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I here theirs lot's of men

Don't know about women

Is it the excitement you do it for

Who told you about lots of guys? Is there a secret marker on the profile.

Folks circumstances and their reasons for being here are their business.

When reading profiles lots of people dont want to meet married men that's where i got my info from

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"I here theirs lot's of men

Don't know about women

Is it the excitement you do it for

Who told you about lots of guys? Is there a secret marker on the profile.

Folks circumstances and their reasons for being here are their business.

When reading profiles lots of people dont want to meet married men that's where i got my info from "

Ahhh that'll be from the sydney university study then..

If folk don't wish to meet married folk thats their preference, I'm not sure how that correlates to lots of marrieds on here though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately loads in the Northeast

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Probably loads and yes it probably is.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

They are all here looking for bareback sex surely everyone knows thats their thrill.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"They are all here looking for bareback sex surely everyone knows thats their thrill. "

Sweeping statement!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If they can’t accommodate they are usually married.

Not my reason for not accommodating - no Fab people over my threshold please.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they can’t accommodate they are usually married.

Not my reason for not accommodating - no Fab people over my threshold please....."

Todays award for the biggest contradiction goes to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are all here looking for bareback sex surely everyone knows thats their thrill. "

Whoever asks for bareback is an instant "Avoid". Noticed there are also people asking for "Breeding"!?!?! World takes all sorts to revolve I suppose!

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women just usually keep their heads down and get on with it, no bells and whistles here.

@OP everyone’s reason will be different, mine isn’t for the “thrill of it”... I think we’ve moved on from that illicit era.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"If they can’t accommodate they are usually married.

Not my reason for not accommodating - no Fab people over my threshold please....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For feck sake how many threads do we need to discuss cheating men and women yes the are many of both some admit to it some don't..

It's all down to what you will get involved in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they can’t accommodate they are usually married.

Not my reason for not accommodating - no Fab people over my threshold please....."

Seriously?? Do you even know what you’ve just said? Maybe one too many for you tonight!

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By *ilkey69Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I think this site is the most honest and everyone on here is genuine and truthful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All have our own reasons to be here married or not

Be truthful on profile and people can message or not if they don’t like the fact their issue simple

I sleep at night !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These people in relationships looking for sex are descusting.How dare they come on a swingers site looking for sex.Despicable.

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By *anOnFire69Man
over a year ago

The bedroom

Might be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they can’t accommodate they are usually married.

Not my reason for not accommodating - no Fab people over my threshold please....."

Not true. Three people I’ve met couldn’t and they weren’t married, they had children who they had over often and that was their home. Same reason I don’t accommodate. I will never ever mix fab and my real life and nobody will ever come into my children’s home or know where I live. Why can’t that be the same for men?

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By *duk70Man
over a year ago

langley

Oh dear oh dear, gives us honest guys a bad name

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"All have our own reasons to be here married or not

Be truthful on profile and people can message or not if they don’t like the fact their issue simple

I sleep at night !!

I was about to post something very similar.

People lie for many reasons and for many intentions.

Some to gain face others to hide truths and some know no other way.

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By *N69Man
over a year ago

nantwich

"These people in relationships looking for sex are descusting.How dare they come on a swingers site looking for sex.Despicable.

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By *anOnFire69Man
over a year ago

The bedroom

"I'm saying nothing until I see my solicitor

I'm with Secret Passion. Not with, but with her in this context.

I just made that more awkward than it needed to be.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't expect a lot of honesty on sites such as this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they can’t accommodate they are usually married.

Not my reason for not accommodating - no Fab people over my threshold please....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they can’t accommodate they are usually married.

Not my reason for not accommodating - no Fab people over my threshold please.....

Seriously?? Do you even know what you’ve just said? Maybe one too many for you tonight! "

I wouldn’t accommodate a random person off here regardless of my marital status - it’s my family’s home and it stays that way - I’m sure many single men feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they can’t accommodate they are usually married.

Not my reason for not accommodating - no Fab people over my threshold please.....

Seriously?? Do you even know what you’ve just said? Maybe one too many for you tonight!

I wouldn’t accommodate a random person off here regardless of my marital status - it’s my family’s home and it stays that way - I’m sure many single men feel the same. "

Do indeed

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"I here theirs lot's of men

Don't know about women

Is it the excitement you do it for "
get back under your rock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they can’t accommodate they are usually married.

Not my reason for not accommodating - no Fab people over my threshold please.....

Seriously?? Do you even know what you’ve just said? Maybe one too many for you tonight!

I wouldn’t accommodate a random person off here regardless of my marital status - it’s my family’s home and it stays that way - I’m sure many single men feel the same. "

Exactly this! So bloody contradictory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they can’t accommodate they are usually married.

Not my reason for not accommodating - no Fab people over my threshold please.....

Yes we don’t accommodate, yes we are married, to each other.

To assume “most” people who can’t accommodate are married is ridiculous, especially as you don’t accommodate yourself for whatever reason, maybe others don’t want fab people over there threshold eh?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"*grabs popcorn* "

Grabs a sit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t accommodate as we have kids, not because of any inane, silly or snobbish reason x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say 50% of people on here who make contact with me are in a relationship and playing away. That goes for the ladies as much as the gentleman. If they aren't upfront at first it soon becomes apparent once you start talking to them. We all have the option to say no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm saying nothing until I see my solicitor

I'm with Secret Passion. Not with, but with her in this context.

I just made that more awkward than it needed to be.

We just need to look at it from a outside point of view.

Conventionally in societys eyes non of this is the way married,single,cheats or who ever should act.

So for cheats to be judged by mem women who have random partners.Or married couples who let there partners fuck other people is hypocritical.

If it's only the cheats that are the descusting ones here then why do the swingers who are judging them keep what they are doing on here from there family and friends? Maybe they think when they don't tell there loved ones that they are here is morally above cheats.

All I'm saying is conventally on a level of morally wrong or right there's not a person here that can judge anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm saying nothing until I see my solicitor

I'm with Secret Passion. Not with, but with her in this context.

I just made that more awkward than it needed to be.

We just need to look at it from a outside point of view.

Conventionally in societys eyes non of this is the way married,single,cheats or who ever should act.

So for cheats to be judged by mem women who have random partners.Or married couples who let there partners fuck other people is hypocritical.

All I'm saying is conventally on a level of morally wrong or right there's not a person here that can judge anyone else.

Ooooh

I think you’ve just put the cat amongst the pigeons lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they can’t accommodate they are usually married.

Not my reason for not accommodating - no Fab people over my threshold please.....

Seriously?? Do you even know what you’ve just said? Maybe one too many for you tonight!

I wouldn’t accommodate a random person off here regardless of my marital status - it’s my family’s home and it stays that way - I’m sure many single men feel the same.

Exactly this! So bloody contradictory "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm saying nothing until I see my solicitor

I'm with Secret Passion. Not with, but with her in this context.

I just made that more awkward than it needed to be.

We just need to look at it from a outside point of view.

Conventionally in societys eyes non of this is the way married,single,cheats or who ever should act.

So for cheats to be judged by mem women who have random partners.Or married couples who let there partners fuck other people is hypocritical.

All I'm saying is conventally on a level of morally wrong or right there's not a person here that can judge anyone else.

Ooooh

I think you’ve just put the cat amongst the pigeons lol"

Definitely even if I don’t agree one bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well. I've met a few lied about being single. When I found out I stopped seeing them.

I once went for a coffee with a guy who was married and explained why he cheated. The more I got to know him. I genuinely think his wife knew.

Personally I don't want to be involved in someone else's cheating. Morally to me it's wrong. It changes the pleasure for me. I don't wanna be the cause of someone else's destruction. I met someone a couple of years ago. His friends wife found out he was cheating. She overdosed and slowly died in hospital. She refused to see him for the 5 days she was on life support.

As for me keeping my swinging life secret. I don't. But I fail to see how that is the same thing if you keep quiet. Do we tell everyone all our hobbies or is it only swinging we have to be open about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I here theirs lot's of men

Don't know about women

Is it the excitement you do it for get back under your rock."

Why is that then have i said something to offend you

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"If they can’t accommodate they are usually married.

Not my reason for not accommodating - no Fab people over my threshold please.....

Yes we don’t accommodate, yes we are married, to each other.

‘Their threshold’....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they can’t accommodate they are usually married.

Not my reason for not accommodating - no Fab people over my threshold please.....

Yes we don’t accommodate, yes we are married, to each other.

‘Their threshold’....

That’s your best retort?

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By *uckold couple for BBCCouple
over a year ago

just north of Birmingham

Well I certainly can’t say I don’t know, I drive her to her meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me! My wife is in India

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife knows & doesn't have a problem with me being here. I used to have a married fb who was doing it behind her husbands back,but it was her decision & as far as I know he never found out.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"My wife knows & doesn't have a problem with me being here. I used to have a married fb who was doing it behind her husbands back,but it was her decision & as far as I know he never found out."

What’s the thoughts on single people playing with married people? Just wondered......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m calling the grammar cops before I lose my shit.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m calling the grammar cops before I lose my shit. "

One of the grammar cops is here lol.

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"Loads and loads and loads and loads - both male and female.

I don't do liars though. Plenty on here.

Surely your fwb lies to his wife though? "

We were going to ask the same question.

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