FabSwingers.com forum: Single women at clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do couples actually think when they see a single woman in on couples night?

In my experience I may as well had two heads !! I think the one I have is decent but often find it really hard to even get a conversation going ??

Just wondered what couples really think when They see a single woman in on couples night??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do couples actually think when they see a single woman in on couples night?

In my experience I may as well had two heads !! I think the one I have is decent but often find it really hard to even get a conversation going ??

Just wondered what couples really think when They see a single woman in on couples night??

It is a club thing despite what people think clubs can be very isolating even for couples unless you know people there or a regular. People seem to think that clubs that everyone just joins in .... it's not true most people are looking for something specific from a club. We don't go to clubs much anymore for the same reasons as your post. Don't let it get you down get to know people on here .... have a chat , organised socials are much friendlier

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"What do couples actually think when they see a single woman in on couples night?

In my experience I may as well had two heads !! I think the one I have is decent but often find it really hard to even get a conversation going ??

Just wondered what couples really think when They see a single woman in on couples night??

Checkout the reviews on here for AtlantisEvolution in Stoke-on-Trent, very friendly and welcoming.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"What do couples actually think when they see a single woman in on couples night?

In my experience I may as well had two heads !! I think the one I have is decent but often find it really hard to even get a conversation going ??

Just wondered what couples really think when They see a single woman in on couples night??

We enjoy it. It's nice to break away from the conventional "couple meets couple" swinging where four people have to find common ground. We wish more single women would turn up. In fact we prefer those evenings when both single men and single women attend for the same reason.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We are happy to see women, men and couples and we would definitely chat to you...why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will always try to say hello, Chams seems to have the friendliest single ladies x

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We always chat to single women, they talk back with ease, and often play with them. On open nights makes a really refreshing change from the wanking zombies.

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

"What do couples actually think when they see a single woman in on couples night?

In my experience I may as well had two heads !! I think the one I have is decent but often find it really hard to even get a conversation going ??

Just wondered what couples really think when They see a single woman in on couples night??

Would a straight guy turn up to a gay event?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What do couples actually think when they see a single woman in on couples night?

In my experience I may as well had two heads !! I think the one I have is decent but often find it really hard to even get a conversation going ??

Just wondered what couples really think when They see a single woman in on couples night??

Would a straight guy turn up to a gay event?"

Not sure if that’s a question or a point if a point not understanding it sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do couples actually think when they see a single woman in on couples night?

In my experience I may as well had two heads !! I think the one I have is decent but often find it really hard to even get a conversation going ??

Just wondered what couples really think when They see a single woman in on couples night??

Would a straight guy turn up to a gay event?

Not sure if that’s a question or a point if a point not understanding it sorry "

I think their point is that you’re turning up to a couples night but you’re not a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy going to clubs but find that we end up having very limited conversations like "hello...that's interesting...really" it's not that folks are not friendly but thats about it, doesnt matter if it is singles or couples. We are not the sort of couple that go "hey wanna fuck" may be we'd get on further if we did.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Wed love to meet a single lady but not knowingly ever seen one at a club? Xxx

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"We enjoy going to clubs but find that we end up having very limited conversations like "hello...that's interesting...really" it's not that folks are not friendly but thats about it, doesnt matter if it is singles or couples. We are not the sort of couple that go "hey wanna fuck" may be we'd get on further if we did.

Don't know which Club this was but I'm sure most are friendlier than that? Try chatting to the barman.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Couples’ nights often mean couples and single women. It means no single men.

I don’t go to these because I really do not enjoy them but if there were solo women there I’d imagine the couples would mainly be thinking .

“Woo hoo”

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Wed love to meet a single lady but not knowingly ever seen one at a club? Xxx"

Checkout AtlantisEvolution in Stoke-on-Trent, single ladies go who won't go to the local pub on their own but feel safe at AtlantisEvolution.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Wed love to meet a single lady but not knowingly ever seen one at a club? Xxx"

Really?! There are always at least a couple in any club I’ve been to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples’ nights often mean couples and single women. It means no single men.

I don’t go to these because I really do not enjoy them but if there were solo women there I’d imagine the couples would mainly be thinking .

“Woo hoo”

V x

If you could the number of messages from couples asking do you meet alone "No". And the "we'd both love to share you" as if you're off the sharing menu.

Profiles saying "looking for single Bi female to share" lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What do couples actually think when they see a single woman in on couples night?

In my experience I may as well had two heads !! I think the one I have is decent but often find it really hard to even get a conversation going ??

Just wondered what couples really think when They see a single woman in on couples night??

Would a straight guy turn up to a gay event?

Not sure if that’s a question or a point if a point not understanding it sorry

I think their point is that you’re turning up to a couples night but you’re not a couple"

Ah I see well couples and single ladies nights usually same thing in my experience few or no single ladies go and I understand why when you feel like a two headed beast fir being there alone lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Couples’ nights often mean couples and single women. It means no single men.

I don’t go to these because I really do not enjoy them but if there were solo women there I’d imagine the couples would mainly be thinking .

“Woo hoo”

V x

You would have thought so but as mainly couples and typically the most boring nights I’ve had lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples’ nights often mean couples and single women. It means no single men.

I don’t go to these because I really do not enjoy them but if there were solo women there I’d imagine the couples would mainly be thinking .

“Woo hoo”

V x

You would have thought so but as mainly couples and typically the most boring nights I’ve had lol

They are it sounds good but if your a single female what is in it for you really ... just an object to be used ?

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By *mokeynbubblyCouple
over a year ago

poole

We know exactly how you feel, it's the same thing for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have vast experience at clubs (trying to rectify this though), but I'd not have an issue chatting to a single female on these nights; should the opportunity arise then I'd be delighted to do so. However I'd find it harder to approach a lady on her own and would hope that conversation would be able to start from e.g. a bit of idle chat at the bar. I think to actively approach a solo lady would feel a bit predatory to me as part of a couple. With more club experience my views may change on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have vast experience at clubs (trying to rectify this though), but I'd not have an issue chatting to a single female on these nights; should the opportunity arise then I'd be delighted to do so. However I'd find it harder to approach a lady on her own and would hope that conversation would be able to start from e.g. a bit of idle chat at the bar. I think to actively approach a solo lady would feel a bit predatory to me as part of a couple. With more club experience my views may change on this

The scenario of the post is single ladies on a couples and singles ladies nights in this istant there wouldn't be any solo males which is why it is difficult for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The scenario of the post is single ladies on a couples and singles ladies nights in this istant there wouldn't be any solo males which is why it is difficult for them.

Perhaps I should have explained that I have a FB I go to clubs with, so I'm always there as part of a couple

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"Couples’ nights often mean couples and single women. It means no single men.

I don’t go to these because I really do not enjoy them but if there were solo women there I’d imagine the couples would mainly be thinking .

“Woo hoo”

V x

You would have thought so but as mainly couples and typically the most boring nights I’ve had lol

They are it sounds good but if your a single female what is in it for you really ... just an object to be used ?

Actually can’t quite believe that’s your opinion of a woman in club. What’s in it for any woman that’s into sex with couples????? Holy fuck.... she may actually be enjoying herself and using couples for her own enjoyment.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"Couples’ nights often mean couples and single women. It means no single men.

I don’t go to these because I really do not enjoy them but if there were solo women there I’d imagine the couples would mainly be thinking .

“Woo hoo”

V x

You would have thought so but as mainly couples and typically the most boring nights I’ve had lol

Yeah it’s why I don’t do them...., the whole couple plus single woman does nada for me, but I know a few who love it

V x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Couples’ nights often mean couples and single women. It means no single men.

I don’t go to these because I really do not enjoy them but if there were solo women there I’d imagine the couples would mainly be thinking .

“Woo hoo”

V x

You would have thought so but as mainly couples and typically the most boring nights I’ve had lol

They are it sounds good but if your a single female what is in it for you really ... just an object to be used ?

V x

Chan e would be a fine thing but yes I like to play with no women. While her man watches and occasionally I’ll allow him to join in we all have our reasons

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"What do couples actually think when they see a single woman in on couples night?

In my experience I may as well had two heads !! I think the one I have is decent but often find it really hard to even get a conversation going ??

Just wondered what couples really think when They see a single woman in on couples night??

I refuse to go to these nights as a single for this reason. I've found them the unfriendliest night I've ever attended. You're either treated like an object or a wanton hussy that's after all the men. This is also why I won't arrange to play with couples anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples’ nights often mean couples and single women. It means no single men.

I don’t go to these because I really do not enjoy them but if there were solo women there I’d imagine the couples would mainly be thinking .

“Woo hoo”

V x

You would have thought so but as mainly couples and typically the most boring nights I’ve had lol

They are it sounds good but if your a single female what is in it for you really ... just an object to be used ?

V x

That wasn't my opinion but an experience of how some couples view a single woman in a club, in the context of the thread

"'I don’t go to these because I really do not enjoy them but if there were solo women there I’d imagine the couples would mainly be thinking .

“Woo hoo”'"

but it is open to interpretation I guess

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Odd this, when we see a single woman in a club, we just chat (try stopping L chatting), no preconceived ideas, nothing planed, just meeting as if in a pub (how Pervy to think any other way).

Now if she approached us in play areas thoughts might go off at a tangent slightly.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We're always happy to talk to anyone in a club, I'd always assumed that single ladies would be inundated on any night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've often thought about going to a daytime club alone but I am nervous over it as I don't want to be alone but then don't want to be preyed upon ethier.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Most couples are after meeting a fem so I imagine they'd be happy to see them in clubs.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I have ever nmbeen to k e club where there were a couple of single women you have more luck seeing a unicorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go as a single sometimes, other times with a fwb, usually I feel like I have two heads, it’s uncomfortable when others hear I’m not part of a couple, like I’m some alien creature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do couples actually think when they see a single woman in on couples night?

In my experience I may as well had two heads !! I think the one I have is decent but often find it really hard to even get a conversation going ??

Just wondered what couples really think when They see a single woman in on couples night??

You do realise that single men will treat you like an object. Most just want a fuck and go.

Couples how ever want to get to know people, chat, have a laugh and then if all parties are happy play.

We don't treat anyone like an object. We love to chat, have a laugh and all round good time, with anyone who's friendly, fun and nice looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet op had killer jugs

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