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By *udeboy65 OP   Man
over a year ago

rotherham

Why can’t people just be straight with you if you’re not there type just say sorry not for them. Been chatting to a couple last few hours same interest and everything was going fine and they asked for a face picture which I sent them and they just block me

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

It happens a lot there choice am afraid to say don't take personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps “HE” didn’t fancy you ?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

It happens. Move on.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

The block immediately after a face pic is a dick move. I actually now just send a face pic as a matter of course so if they're going to block me it gets out of the way quicker and is less of a disappointment.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Always better to get the face pics out of the way first - saves a lot of time and disappointment.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Lots of reasons

Maybe they didn't fancy you/find you attractive .. Would you like to be told that?

Maybe they recognised you... You expect them to tell you that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Why can’t people just be straight with you if you’re not there type just say sorry not for them. Been chatting to a couple last few hours same interest and everything was going fine and they asked for a face picture which I sent them and they just block me "

Your mistake was to chat for a few hours before exchanging face pics.

If we've exchanged more than two sentences I want to have an idea of who I'm talking to. Even if theres no hint of a meet in conversation. I dont like talking to shadows about anything, they could be anyone.

For all you know this couple is a just another man. Or they find you uglier than a bag full of spanners. Either way, you'll have avoided wasting two hours of your life.

Lesson learnt?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

If you choose not to put up face pictures on your profile, it's a chance you're going to have to take, every time you get into conversation on here.

I get a few messages from faceless guys, once I get one and realise I'm not attracted to them, they don't take it too well me telling them. So it's easier just to delete and block.

As suggested send the face picture first

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yeah that has to be annoying.

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By *udeboy65 OP   Man
over a year ago

rotherham

Thank you all it is just a bit annoying it’s not bothered me but just wish people could be straight with you and they are local so maybe they have recognise me but we will never know and I always wait for them to ask for a face picture to see if they’re interested or not

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I always attach a face pic to my message...they either like it or it gives them nightmares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they knew you?

I don't think we've ever done that- I make the hubby be diplomatic because I hate saying no.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

They knew you, or they've been abused too much for saying no thank you.

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By *udeboy65 OP   Man
over a year ago

rotherham


"They knew you, or they've been abused too much for saying no thank you. "
That’s what I thought like I said we’ll never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Why can’t people just be straight with you if you’re not there type just say sorry not for them. Been chatting to a couple last few hours same interest and everything was going fine and they asked for a face picture which I sent them and they just block me "
lol well first of many then

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