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Age, a barrier?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well at 52 I am beginning to feel that my playing days are drawing to an end.

couples/singles age requirements (which they are obviously quite right to request) means that some times I am too old for them, whilst many couples/singles of my age are looking for a younger stud.

Middle age it’s would appear, is a curse!

Do any of you similarly aged people still get genuine invites to play, Or is age the restriction I am experiencing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

62, but I manage......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age isn't a barrier here.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

54 and it's just a number, certainly not a hindrance to any activities I get up to through Fab

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

54 & 51..no problems for us but maybe it's different for single guys?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

54 here and may not physically be at my sexual peak but definitely attitude wise.

Hasn't been a factor on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm now the wrong side of 60 (though I've been told I look younger) & it seems a lot of people have an upper age limit of 55 or 60,which does limit the number of potential play mates somewhat.

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By *armupartistMan
over a year ago

York

At 73 I have a few friends on here but mostly hit the age barrier. A few moments ago I wanted to contact a couple, who live quite close but their age limit was 68...? How can you be that 'precise' almost pedantic... I am healthy and fitter than many even half age. Attraction, respect and skills are more important than age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes yes, sometimes no.

I'm 55 (56 soon) and come up against the 50 deadstop more often than not. Never had age restrictions myself and have had some great sex with older women.

Ones that slightly niggle are the 54yr limit, I'm 1 year older, 54 seems a random age to choose.

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By *armupartistMan
over a year ago

York


"My age isn't a barrier here."

No but you also have a very precise and narrow age limit on your profile - is there really a difference between 67 and say 73 (my age)?

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We are a bit older than the OP and yes, as you get older meeting new people gets less easy, but if you persist there's always people out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a bit older than the OP and yes, as you get older meeting new people gets less easy, but if you persist there's always people out there."

Wish I was in the Peak District

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As a couple we've found there are fewer options the older you get but if you read the threads from single men of all ages it seems that it's difficult at any age for many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age shouldn’t matter if you can still pro-form and there’s a connection there the game on.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Nope can say age is a barrier

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Join half the males on here OP and fiddle your age. Some knock off up to 20 years

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you go to a club no one knows how old you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well at 52 I am beginning to feel that my playing days are drawing to an end.

couples/singles age requirements (which they are obviously quite right to request) means that some times I am too old for them, whilst many couples/singles of my age are looking for a younger stud.

Middle age it’s would appear, is a curse!

Do any of you similarly aged people still get genuine invites to play, Or is age the restriction I am experiencing?

"

63 in body 28 in mind works for me also an open accepting attitude to others needs helps. Mr

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It is a barrier. As soon as I hit 46 my message volume decreased dramatically!!

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Am 55 and injoying age is a number and at least we are respectfull and don't get nasty when people say no like some lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you go to a club no one knows how old you are"

That’s true but my silver fox hair gives it away lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Join half the males on here OP and fiddle your age. Some knock off up to 20 years "

I just can’t do it lol as I don’t look younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age shouldn’t matter if you can still pro-form and there’s a connection there the game on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have age guidelines but no restrictions but tbh much older isn't really for me because the connection just doesn't seem to be there, plus more often than not they're in a relationship which also doesn't work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t put restrictions but prefer older as some couples have younger or older partners and then my filters block anyone younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a bit older than the OP and yes, as you get older meeting new people gets less easy, but if you persist there's always people out there."

Great that you persist and yes I believe you get there in the end . Shame British Rail lost the contracts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I see it it’s just a number if you like each other then go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a simple fact that men on here far outnumber couples and women so the odds are stacked anyway.

Age most definitely makes the odds much worse for guys over sixty - messages simply get ignored or worse, deleted with no acknowledgement

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"It is a barrier. As soon as I hit 46 my message volume decreased dramatically!!

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Really that surprises me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My age isn't a barrier here.

No but you also have a very precise and narrow age limit on your profile - is there really a difference between 67 and say 73 (my age)?"

Yes there's a big difference as 73 is the same age as my in laws and i would/have found that akward and offputting. My lower age limit is because otherwise its close to my childrens age. Anyone can message me though.

My own age causes me no problems on Fab .... that was the question asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefrr older men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 to 99, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it might get easier as I get older , I find most of the time I’m under the age limits !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a big thing for older lady’s but the mrs doesn’t and set the age limit on our profile.

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By *igtitcouple82Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Age is just a number as long as we all get on and have fun who cares! We both have a thing for those more mature than us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number as long as we all get on and have fun who cares! We both have a thing for those more mature than us "
100% agree with you on that one.

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By *evernmanMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes, it does get more difficult as you get older, but don't give up entirely.

I had a great meet with a couple last week, have played as a couple with a 40s woman, and have had some lovely times over the last few years in clubs, including being invited into a private room with a young couple.

Still hoping to meet the swinging partner of my dreams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not about age it’s about attitude , god help I should act my age or tha5 one week should go by without being called child or idiot for that matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have a problem with age as there are some sexy lady’s in their 50s and even 60s that I wanted say no to.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I've found that as I've got older, so has my age range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find we get practically no interest from couples. But we always get interest from single males.

Mrs looks late 30s and in better shape than most so it’s got to be clubs for us and then see if people can guess our ages.

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