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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone possibly help me with my little dilemma. Just recently I have been having trouble cumming. It's not that I'm not turned on, because I do get very turned on during sex, as would anyone. And I have no trouble with keeping a hard on. But when it comes to the crunch I can sometimes take ages to cum, which can be very frustrating sometimes.

Is there anything out there that can help me cum a bit sooner, or maybe even more than just once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you stressed, depressed or anxious?

If it's a recurring thing, go to the doctor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The main thing is, dont worry.

My husband does not always cum when we are playing with others.

He alwaws cums when it is just the two of us, but sometimes when we are playing with others it does not happen, it is not that he is not turned on - as he will be rock hard, but for some reason he just does not ejaculate.

He assures me it does not dampen his enjoyment of the fun in anyway, and we have had many positive comments from the fems he has been playing with as he litterally goes as long as they need/ want him to, with no worries about a premature ending lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you stressed, depressed or anxious?

If it's a recurring thing, go to the doctor"

I think it's because I always want to please. I'm constantly worrying if I am or not. Which causes me not to concentrate on myself and my needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being with people you don't know well or have reservations about might be the cause due to nerves or doubts you may have about them or the situation when playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you stressed, depressed or anxious?

If it's a recurring thing, go to the doctor

I think it's because I always want to please. I'm constantly worrying if I am or not. Which causes me not to concentrate on myself and my needs."

By relaxing yourself and being confident that you will please, you won't need to think about it and enjoy it more.

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

Try poppers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yip poppers sound like just the thing for you !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anything out there that can help me cum a bit sooner, or maybe even more than just once."

There's a medical study that links body mass index with ejaculation. The lower the BMI the easier it is to ejaculate earlier. I cannot post a link but google this: "Insight on pathogenesis of lifelong premature ejaculation: inverse relationship between lifelong premature ejaculation and obesity".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

Had this problem my self and I spoke with a doctor as it was starting to get me down and minx was warn out.. Its linked to stress and depression also if you are insecure.

Best advice is start taken day and night kalms to relax your self and stop masturbating...

When with a partner make sure the is foreplay first as this will always relax your body and mind...

I have suffered this twice once at 16 and once at 24 but it does pass once you relax and now am back to filling minx up....

Good luck

Scouse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone possibly help me with my little dilemma. Just recently I have been having trouble cumming. It's not that I'm not turned on, because I do get very turned on during sex, as would anyone. And I have no trouble with keeping a hard on. But when it comes to the crunch I can sometimes take ages to cum, which can be very frustrating sometimes.

Is there anything out there that can help me cum a bit sooner, or maybe even more than just once."

This is that reverse psychology thing isn't it.... hoping some woman is going to take it as a challenge!

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