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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you know if a person is genuine or not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know if a person is genuine or not x"

In Fab world or other?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Form your own ways of checking what they say. What evidence do they present, does it add up?

Ultimately the only way to know is by meeting them, but the more evidence you have, the smaller the risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My suspicions remain until we have spoken on the phone..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry in fab world

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside


"Sorry in fab world "
im genuine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If they have been photo verified should they have a icon next to their profile xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being verified, chatting in chat rooms and going on cam either on fab or using other methods such as Skype or kik does it for us, that's what we do anyway to prove we are genuine x

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

I like to have phone chat or face time to verify. Its simple

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If they have been photo verified should they have a icon next to their profile xx"

They do. Flag means photo verified, tick means cam or meet verified.

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By *YC SausageMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’ll only speak to people who have been photo verified and verified meeting in person within the last 6 months.

If they pass that test, then I presume genuine until proven otherwise.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"If they have been photo verified should they have a icon next to their profile xx"

If they have been photo verified they would have a green flag - if they have been in person or webcam verified they'd have a green tick.

Neither are absolute proof someone is genuine though - that can only come through a mixture of building trust via getting to know them in messages etc. and gut instinct.

It may also depend what you mean by genuine - is the person exactly as they appear in their pics is just one element - are they making claims that they can back up is another etc.

All too often on here when people bemoan fakes etc it comes down to not having done a level of due diligence and being blinded by the prospect of sex - when with a little bit of common sense being applied it could have been avoided.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all. Gemini man that’s why am asking for advice on here to sue my due diligence and not be blinded by sex

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Thanks all. Gemini man that’s why am asking for advice on here to sue my due diligence and not be blinded by sex "

Oh I know and apologies if you thought that was in any way directed at you - was more a general comment.

All you can really do is make as many reasonable checks as you can, spend time getting to know that person before suggesting meeting and trusting your gut instinct to a degree - if it smells fishy it usually is fishy kind of thing

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

I'm genuine. I'm alive, I can feel myself, I can taste the tea in my hand, I think therefore I am.. I must be unique and genuine.. lol

At least I have a few veris to prove I'm real..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do people even mean by genuine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they have been photo verified should they have a icon next to their profile xx"

I'm not photo verified

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By *leasure82Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

I hate to say it proving yourself on here is very hard. I am very genuine ask me anything I’ll tell you. The problem is when people do talk to on genuine people (I find with women myself) that because other guys have be arseholes or abusive just not nice at all it’s puts those people on edge.

Best way is give that person a chance if there is a chance a meet could happen have a videos call. There’s plenty of apps out there but oh don’t need to use your phone number on.

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell


"What do people even mean by genuine?"

Someone who really does want what they say they want, and then goes through with what is agreed.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Verifications by different people the more the less likely fake , also verifications where they are actual meets

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By *ikey341000Man
over a year ago

Durham

What’s the definition of genuine in this context?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know if a person is genuine or not x"

I am. Honest.

Are you convinced? Where and when shal we meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm genuine. I'm alive, I can feel myself, I can taste the tea in my hand, I think therefore I am.. I must be unique and genuine.. lol

At least I have a few veris to prove I'm real..lol "

This is a debate I tried to have with a philosopher friend of mine once.

We believe we are real, but if we were part of a "matrix-style" virtual reality, the complexity of the programming would have us behave as if we were self-aware, and we wouldn't necessarily know if we really were or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have no verifications and turn down single women...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a genuine lunatic who sees out vast quanti of time alone with his flock of cats and hot water bottle. That is me.

My definition of the word of infamy called “genuine” is being fucking honest.

Learn....

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I am very cynical until I see them at Starbucks or wherever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at the end of the day you will never truly know until the time youve been messed around .. there are fakes on here with veri's even photo veri's the forums are full of fakes as are the chat rooms ...go with you gut instinct and dont beat yourself up if you get it wrong every now and then and dont fall for the you must phone/email/kik rubbish to prove your real ..do what you want not what others want

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