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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When can you say that you are Bi or Staright or Gay. As a sex lover do we really have to put ourselves into boxes or it’s great not to mention anything and just keep having fun.

What are your thoughts ??

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Interests are complex and may not be static either, like much of human personality. Trying to fit billions of people into some simple labels, that different people interpret differently anyway, doesn't do justice to the brilliance that is humankind.

Some people, perhaps often those who have a simple understanding of themselves, demand or expect it of others. It's better that you work out how to explain yourself, preferably without just using narrow labels Imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When can you say that you are Bi or Staright or Gay. As a sex lover do we really have to put ourselves into boxes or it’s great not to mention anything and just keep having fun.

What are your thoughts ?? "

I have given up with the term Bi ... prefer sexually liberated. It's a shame they can't include that in your stats.

Gay there has to be a preference and I guess an emotional attachment. Bi is more difficult as it has a much broader context. In the end its down to perception and social conditioning - if you are a guy receiving a BJ and you were blindfolded does it matter who's giving it the result is hopefully the same. Same for the ladies does it really matter who’s giving ?????? if you couldn't see

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By *osmicRobMan
over a year ago

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By *osmicRobMan
over a year ago

Chorlton cum Hardy

I think we've all got a bit of 'bi-ness' in us whether you call it natural curiosity, penis fixation, subcontious desires or simply being turned on by seeing others being horny around you.

I guess everyone needs to draw a line for themselves.

Would I kiss a man, no!

Would I have oral sex, no!

Would I have intercourse with one, no!

Would I have a mfm and be turned on by the other guy sharing and pleasing a woman together, even if it involves touching his cock, yes!

Would I enjoy watching him wanking and cumming over her, yes!

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By *eesside lingerie wearerMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I like men, women and transgender. I think, if you like the person you are with , you are more likely to try different things. That's my excuse anyway ! X

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

This is a swinging site. I have no interest in your favourite food, which football team you support etc.

However t is not unreasonable to expect some honesty when describing your sexual inclinations.

Honesty is always the best. If you are bi or gay then stand up proud. It will get the best response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a swinging site. I have no interest in your favourite food, which football team you support etc.

However t is not unreasonable to expect some honesty when describing your sexual inclinations.

Honesty is always the best. If you are bi or gay then stand up proud. It will get the best response."

100% agree with this and I keep saying it on here and in private to my fellow bi and gay men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Brilliant reply give me so much peace of mind. Thanks for writing this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Much appreciated response

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So no labels just sex.. right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Agreed 100 prcent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Got you .x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield


"So no labels just sex.. right?"

You sound like a man who is desperate not to admit he's bi despite being attracted to TVs. A quick check of your profile confirms this. Straight but wants to meet TV/TS!

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By *unkhouser72Man
over a year ago

Gtr Manchester

I consider myself straight with bi tendencies, I don't fancy guys, I'm physically attracted to females and convincing tv, Ts, tg but not attracted to guys physically, however I have played alone with guys and enjoyed mutual fun ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brilliant reply give me so much peace of mind. Thanks for writing this "

Use the Reply + quote button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When can you say that you are Bi or Staright or Gay. As a sex lover do we really have to put ourselves into boxes or it’s great not to mention anything and just keep having fun.

What are your thoughts ?? "

I would prefer if the sexuality tick box on profiles didn't exist. It's irrelevant and people lie anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So no labels just sex.. right?

You sound like a man who is desperate not to admit he's bi despite being attracted to TVs. A quick check of your profile confirms this. Straight but wants to meet TV/TS! "

Fab straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I state bi, but in reality I’m open to experiences, I wouldn’t want to rule out anything (except anything illegal or poo) if it felt right for everyone involved and made everyone happy!

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

What ever you are its repectful to let someone you are intending to play with to know the score.

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By *yanShireMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

I’ve always said, why can’t the human population just have the label, “sexual”? Then whatever people do to act on that is between them and the other(S) involved. Doesn’t have to be more complicated than that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like what I like. But I have to choose a "category" so bi it is ??

Honestly it's about who the people are not their gender or sexuality

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Most of the guys I've met here are essentially straight. I don't think doing something that's considered bi automatically makes you bi

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

You need to be fully honest, I don’t want any gay men thinking they want to try a woman after a decade or 2 of being gay or be the first one ever had sex with even! it’s horrendous and I’ve had 2 guys do exactly that in the last 10 years it was so awkward and I felt like I was some experiment that went wrong

Being honest is the decent thing and sexuality open people attract others of the same mindset

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
over a year ago

West London

I’ve been ‘Straight’ for 20 years but recently sucked a guys cock and absolutely loved it. I’ve no idea if this makes me bi or curious or gay even, I’m still the same person just I’ve tried something new which I happened to like.

Labels are stupid, we just like what we like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been ‘Straight’ for 20 years but recently sucked a guys cock and absolutely loved it. I’ve no idea if this makes me bi or curious or gay even, I’m still the same person just I’ve tried something new which I happened to like.

Labels are stupid, we just like what we like "

I have made a few posts on the subject lol. I would simply say you are sexualy liberated. If you decide that you only want to date guys from this day on then say gay.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"I’ve been ‘Straight’ for 20 years but recently sucked a guys cock and absolutely loved it. I’ve no idea if this makes me bi or curious or gay even, I’m still the same person just I’ve tried something new which I happened to like.

Labels are stupid, we just like what we like "

Just makes you cock curious. Feels good tho hey

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
over a year ago

West London

Felt very good indeed!

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"Felt very good indeed! "

And I'm sure he wasn't complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to be fully honest, I don’t want any gay men thinking they want to try a woman after a decade or 2 of being gay or be the first one ever had sex with even! it’s horrendous and I’ve had 2 guys do exactly that in the last 10 years it was so awkward and I felt like I was some experiment that went wrong

Being honest is the decent thing and sexuality open people attract others of the same mindset

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Had a lot of women on here wanting to pop my cherry though, they know the score it is all in my profile. You may feel like that and that is definitely your right, other women not so much.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I don’t mind how guys describe themselves - that’s up to them, if they want to be discreet. It’s a bit annoying when a guy looks at your profile and then you find he’s blocked all men, but if that’s how they want it then it’s fine by me

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london


"You need to be fully honest, I don’t want any gay men thinking they want to try a woman after a decade or 2 of being gay or be the first one ever had sex with even! it’s horrendous and I’ve had 2 guys do exactly that in the last 10 years it was so awkward and I felt like I was some experiment that went wrong

Being honest is the decent thing and sexuality open people attract others of the same mindset

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Exactly my mindset. Once I realised I had a bi side I embraced it. Some advised me not to be open about it but I thought "to hell with the backlash" and stopped describing myself as straight in my profile.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I just say i am bi its much simpler than explaining all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bi playful

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By *adladnherCouple
over a year ago

NorthWest


"I’ve always said, why can’t the human population just have the label, “sexual”? Then whatever people do to act on that is between them and the other(S) involved. Doesn’t have to be more complicated than that! "

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