FabSwingers.com forum: Condoms

By *esicupids OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Not to sound like a Debbie downer but this being a swinger site where we all experience multiple partners; why is that most people we make contact with don’t want to use condoms and even the photos rarely show people using condoms?

Please say that this is a minority subculture and not the norm?

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By *hamCouple30Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

All our expenses are using condoms. Most of the pics are wife and husband fucking.

I really think bareback with strangers is a rare thing.

Thank God

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be a fool, wrap your tool

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Bareback is not rare. I think we should encourage those who like to play that way to be open about it. That way everyone has the opportunity to make a choice.

We've met quite a few singles and couples with safe sex on their profile who have asked for unprotected penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just guys either, I reckon an easy 75% of women I met on an old profile wanted bareback and that included those who were married. Just ordinary folk.

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By *duk70Man
over a year ago

langley

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

All of our bare back photos are just us ( gf and bf) we do not play bareback with anyone else and I would have thought that was the norm.

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By *ora 123Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Always use condoms not fair to either party to take the risk. Why would you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s crazy how many want to bb me and are unhappy when I insist!

Condom. No exceptions!

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

Should see my collection of condoms. One for every excuse guys use.

Condoms too small?, I got various sizes, regular, large, extra large, King size and super kingsize (which would be like fucking a baseball bat! Doubt il come across someone who needs those but there if I need em)

Allergic? I have spermicide free and latex free

I've got flavoured, ribbed and dotted and few tingle like ones and others.

Various brands too pasante, durex, skyn and such

I'm prepared for nearly all eventualities except extra small rare I find someone who doesn't fit regular. They can bring their own.

Men who say their cocks too big are full of shit.

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By *ora 123Man
over a year ago

Basildon

"Should see my collection of condoms. One for every excuse guys use.

Allergic? I have spermicide free and latex free

I've got flavoured, ribbed and dotted and few tingle like ones and others.

Various brands too pasante, durex, skyn and such

I'm prepared for nearly all eventualities except extra small rare I find someone who doesn't fit regular. They can bring their own.

Men who say their cocks too big are full of shit.

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would love to try on for size. Shame bit far away. Xxx

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

"Should see my collection of condoms. One for every excuse guys use.

Allergic? I have spermicide free and latex free

I've got flavoured, ribbed and dotted and few tingle like ones and others.

Various brands too pasante, durex, skyn and such

I'm prepared for nearly all eventualities except extra small rare I find someone who doesn't fit regular. They can bring their own.

Men who say their cocks too big are full of shit.

would love to try on for size. Shame bit far away. Xxx"

I currently have about 80 at least, over 35 regular

I always look for fun brands and flavours to try. I avoid banana and pina colada tho

One of my favorite flavoured ones I wish I could restock are the chocolate ones which were chocolate coloured and smelled delicious and tasted just like chocolate not the nasty cheap flavour. But place I got them doesn't stock them any more.

Condoms which I won't use are lamb and such, being vegetarian they have to be veggie friendly.

Ive been after ribbed and dotted in kingsize. Not seen any yet though locally.

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

Stir away from people not wanting to use condoms! if you get exclusive, which I think this site is not for it, then can do without but until then safety first! not worth getting something for a shag's sake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrap it up guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it shocking how many don’t have sexual health checks regularly

Women especially not knowing that they need swabs from any hole that’s sexually active

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always use condoms

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By *acksmith22Man
over a year ago

cannock

Yes keep it covered

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We intended to use condoms with others when we started swinging but over the years have gained some very good friends and we BB together. That's an informed choice for all of us, and it adds a different dimension to group-sex.

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I always have condoms available if a meet should have "forgotten" to bring any....Yes that does happen!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should see my collection of condoms. One for every excuse guys use.

Allergic? I have spermicide free and latex free

I've got flavoured, ribbed and dotted and few tingle like ones and others.

Various brands too pasante, durex, skyn and such

I'm prepared for nearly all eventualities except extra small rare I find someone who doesn't fit regular. They can bring their own.

Men who say their cocks too big are full of shit.

Love this!!! No bareback!! Look after yourself!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should see my collection of condoms. One for every excuse guys use.

Allergic? I have spermicide free and latex free

I've got flavoured, ribbed and dotted and few tingle like ones and others.

Various brands too pasante, durex, skyn and such

I'm prepared for nearly all eventualities except extra small rare I find someone who doesn't fit regular. They can bring their own.

Men who say their cocks too big are full of shit.

Would love too see your secret little stashes haha. Sounds good from just a condom starter haha x

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

"Should see my collection of condoms. One for every excuse guys use.

Allergic? I have spermicide free and latex free

I've got flavoured, ribbed and dotted and few tingle like ones and others.

Various brands too pasante, durex, skyn and such

I'm prepared for nearly all eventualities except extra small rare I find someone who doesn't fit regular. They can bring their own.

Men who say their cocks too big are full of shit.

Love this!!! No bareback!! Look after yourself!!"

Thanks

, who says condoms have to be boring too

I'm always looking for fun ones. Although I have yet to find a decent glow in the dark ones.

I love the textured condoms too but most are in regular size only

always hunting its fun trying them out.

I'd seen the Chinese ones with fun nobbly bits but they have a massive failure rate going by reviews just a novelty item, so I never bothered purchasing them but may try them one day with my exclusive playmate.

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

"Should see my collection of condoms. One for every excuse guys use.

Allergic? I have spermicide free and latex free

I've got flavoured, ribbed and dotted and few tingle like ones and others.

Various brands too pasante, durex, skyn and such

I'm prepared for nearly all eventualities except extra small rare I find someone who doesn't fit regular. They can bring their own.

Men who say their cocks too big are full of shit.

Would love too see your secret little stashes haha. Sounds good from just a condom starter haha x "

I may come up with some fun way of displaying them I have pictures since I'm not in them I can't post them on my profile. I get through a lot average 4 or 5 per play session

always replenishing my stock though

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By *esicupids OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Should see my collection of condoms. One for every excuse guys use.

Allergic? I have spermicide free and latex free

I've got flavoured, ribbed and dotted and few tingle like ones and others.

Various brands too pasante, durex, skyn and such

I'm prepared for nearly all eventualities except extra small rare I find someone who doesn't fit regular. They can bring their own.

Men who say their cocks too big are full of shit.

Would love too see your secret little stashes haha. Sounds good from just a condom starter haha x

I may come up with some fun way of displaying them I have pictures since I'm not in them I can't post them on my profile. I get through a lot average 4 or 5 per play session

always replenishing my stock though"

Thanks for restoring our faith in humanity lol

So we’re not alone in trying to be safe and getting crappy excuses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done... It's nice to be well prepared...

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Singles are usually good and play safe ..

I find it mainly couples who ask for unsafe sex..

I think the guy likes his wife filled before he fucks her or likes going down on her afterwards..

Usually cuck couples..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not just guys either, I reckon an easy 75% of women I met on an old profile wanted bareback and that included those who were married. Just ordinary folk. "

I would echo this. Id say 70% single women want bareback even when they emphasise “safe sex only” on their profile. Then id say 90% want bareback and even pressure single guys to go bareback.

Genuine experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should see my collection of condoms. One for every excuse guys use.

Allergic? I have spermicide free and latex free

I've got flavoured, ribbed and dotted and few tingle like ones and others.

Various brands too pasante, durex, skyn and such

I'm prepared for nearly all eventualities except extra small rare I find someone who doesn't fit regular. They can bring their own.

Men who say their cocks too big are full of shit.

Would love too see your secret little stashes haha. Sounds good from just a condom starter haha x

I may come up with some fun way of displaying them I have pictures since I'm not in them I can't post them on my profile. I get through a lot average 4 or 5 per play session

always replenishing my stock though"

Haha feel free to show me by PM

might learn a thing or two off you haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms always unless its a relationship. Not worth the risk or the worry and stress.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

All anyone can do is protect your own sexual health and let everyone else worry about theirs.

At the end of the day, the only person's sexual history and health any of us ever have knowledge of is our own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures on profiles with unprotected sex with different partners puts us off straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be safe can't be otherwise always at least 1 in my wallet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not just guys either, I reckon an easy 75% of women I met on an old profile wanted bareback and that included those who were married. Just ordinary folk.

I would echo this. Id say 70% single women want bareback even when they emphasise “safe sex only” on their profile. Then id say 90% want bareback and even pressure single guys to go bareback.

Genuine experience"

I find it's the other way round pressure from guys and they always try i forgot to get some or just don't bring enough. I also keep plenty

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By *exyangeleyesMan
over a year ago

london

Anyone who thinks about not using a condom during intended intercourse with a stranger they have just met raises suspicion in my book?

Or am I reading too much into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bareback is not rare. I think we should encourage those who like to play that way to be open about it. That way everyone has the opportunity to make a choice.

We've met quite a few singles and couples with safe sex on their profile who have asked for unprotected penetration."

Totally agree

The further it is reviled and criticised, the more people will lie

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By *r FirecrackerMan
over a year ago

London

"All our expenses are using condoms. Most of the pics are wife and husband fucking.

I really think bareback with strangers is a rare thing.

Thank God "

This^^^^^^^^

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Never for us, instant turn off and we're not interested in anyone that does

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

Bareback is common among couples, the thought of another man cumming inside your lady can be a massive turn on for both male and female who participate. Unfortunately, it does have its risk, hence STI’ s are on the increase particularly in the over 50s. It’s a matter of choice and safety. You should always set the boundaries before a meet.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Never for us, instant turn off and we're not interested in anyone that does

Does bareback that is, condoms always for play

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By *andCberksCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

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By *hangerMan
over a year ago

brighton

Of course, there are some people that say they always use condoms when with anyone other than their partner and there are others that say (fab) safe only like all the guys that say they are (fab) straight, but actually want the fuck guys!

Many people say safe only until asked if the like to bareback, then their attitude to safe only seems to magically change!

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

If a guy has no condom he is shown the door. No excuse. He turned up for sex without one so had no intention of using one. You wouldn’t turn up for a game of golf without your clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn’t it up to the couple involved to say weather or not they use protection

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

It’s up to all involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Singles are usually good and play safe ..

I find it mainly couples who ask for unsafe sex..

I think the guy likes his wife filled before he fucks her or likes going down on her afterwards..

Usually cuck couples.."

utter rubbish nearly all cuck couples i know play safe

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Should see my collection of condoms. One for every excuse guys use.

Allergic? I have spermicide free and latex free

I've got flavoured, ribbed and dotted and few tingle like ones and others.

Various brands too pasante, durex, skyn and such

I'm prepared for nearly all eventualities except extra small rare I find someone who doesn't fit regular. They can bring their own.

Men who say their cocks too big are full of shit.

Would love too see your secret little stashes haha. Sounds good from just a condom starter haha x

I may come up with some fun way of displaying them I have pictures since I'm not in them I can't post them on my profile. I get through a lot average 4 or 5 per play session

always replenishing my stock though"

You can post them on your profile as long as you are in the pic too.

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

We have always respected other people’s wishes when it comes to safe sex. Mr B and I make sure we are totally clean and STD free because we enjoy bareback sex with others. We are very very picky about who we have sex with, we don’t fuck around. Neither of us has the ingredients or equipment in which to make or bake buns so the fear of baby making is crossed out with us lol

S x

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

"Should see my collection of condoms. One for every excuse guys use.

Allergic? I have spermicide free and latex free

I've got flavoured, ribbed and dotted and few tingle like ones and others.

Various brands too pasante, durex, skyn and such

I'm prepared for nearly all eventualities except extra small rare I find someone who doesn't fit regular. They can bring their own.

Men who say their cocks too big are full of shit.

Would love too see your secret little stashes haha. Sounds good from just a condom starter haha x

I may come up with some fun way of displaying them I have pictures since I'm not in them I can't post them on my profile. I get through a lot average 4 or 5 per play session

always replenishing my stock though

You can post them on your profile as long as you are in the pic too.

I know that. I've not felt sexy enough to do a fun picture with them. Didn't see point faffing around to do a plain one. But many have seen my collection on the chatroom my ziplock baggies of condoms.

I made promise to do special pics celebrating my 1k fabbed ones still haven't gotten round to it now I have 7 to do. Just not been in the mood to enjoy it I suppose I could do one of the photos as a special involving condoms lol

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By *mandajane01TV/TS
over a year ago

Ballymena

"All of our bare back photos are just us ( gf and bf) we do not play bareback with anyone else and I would have thought that was the norm."

You can fake bareback photos, just roll it on far enough to cover the part that’s inside take the photo and roll it on fully for the fun

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Condoms which I won't use are lamb and such, being vegetarian they have to be veggie friendly."

Lambskin condoms are also not very good at preventing the spread of infections. Particularly with viruses, which are small enough to get through. So not recommended for most swinging purposes whether the swingers involved are vegetarian or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve seen plenty of profiles who want bb only.

Very unsafe. I would never fuck bb with a stranger.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Should see my collection of condoms. One for every excuse guys use.

Allergic? I have spermicide free and latex free

I've got flavoured, ribbed and dotted and few tingle like ones and others.

Various brands too pasante, durex, skyn and such

I'm prepared for nearly all eventualities except extra small rare I find someone who doesn't fit regular. They can bring their own.

Men who say their cocks too big are full of shit.

Would love too see your secret little stashes haha. Sounds good from just a condom starter haha x

I may come up with some fun way of displaying them I have pictures since I'm not in them I can't post them on my profile. I get through a lot average 4 or 5 per play session

always replenishing my stock though

You can post them on your profile as long as you are in the pic too.

Maybe we could do a safe sex pic challenge at some point then? I think that would be really cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always jump in puddles with my wellies on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never carry condoms to a social as I never assume I'll be in a position to need them. If I know it is a second meet and we are going to be intimate, I get them in.

I view it that if I turned up for a coffee with condoms, it would come across as arrogant and that I assume sex was on the menu. If we are past that stage, then I know I need them and get them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't die of ignorance. Or any other STI.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I always have a few condoms in my purse as I've learned from experience guys don't always have them with them

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By *andCberksCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

You also no it's possible to get an STD or STI from receiving oral sex without a condom or dental dam. Herpes can be easily spread from one partner to another during oral sex

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"I never carry condoms to a social as I never assume I'll be in a position to need them. If I know it is a second meet and we are going to be intimate, I get them in.

I view it that if I turned up for a coffee with condoms, it would come across as arrogant and that I assume sex was on the menu. If we are past that stage, then I know I need them and get them."

We do always the optimist lol

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By *tarf1shWoman
over a year ago

Bracknell

I take my own....no excuses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex for me, *always*, and I make sure to provide the condoms on any meet. I expect anyone I meet via swinging to use condoms on their meets with others or else I won't meet them. If they're in a couple I might make exceptions as long as the only bareback they have is with their primary partner and they both use condoms with casual partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally yes of course I’d love bareback with everyone, but that’s reckless! I’m reality I always wrap up for casual sex. I don’t think we should be negative about bareback as it encourages people to lie and that isn’t good for anyone!

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Safe sex for me, *always*, and I make sure to provide the condoms on any meet. I expect anyone I meet via swinging to use condoms on their meets with others or else I won't meet them. If they're in a couple I might make exceptions as long as the only bareback they have is with their primary partner and they both use condoms with casual partners. "

How do you know they only bareback each other tho, how do you trust them? People test but after the deed why risk then wait? Do people wear chastity belts and you keep key for 3months so no play with others inbetween testing? Baffles us. I know plenty do take PREP but lots bet don't. Just a risk too far but each to own

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By *ill.willMan
over a year ago

To be honest it feels like 100 times better without us probably the reason why most ask.

However agree with what others are saying, play safe unless with a trusted regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be more than happy to use condoms and dental dams for oral. Wouldnt bother me at all going home knowing i have done everything to stay healthy and happy.

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