FabSwingers.com forum: Stood up 3 times in 3 hours

By *oneyjule65 OP Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yeah...feel we want to leave..but will sleep on it...

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By *sland_kidMan
over a year ago

london, manchester, liverpool

Judging by your pictures.. i cannot understand how the hell someone can pass the chance to be with you

Their lost..

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By *ew year funMan
over a year ago

travel country wide.

More fool them, you look stunning x

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By *arkhorse66Man
over a year ago

bristol

No criticism but if you arrange 3 meets in 3 hours it does suggest neither you or the other party have had chance to really engage and assess or confirm compatibility and reliability. Much more likely people making decisions in haste and then getting cold feet.

Hope you have more luck next time

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

I would definitely meet you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah...feel we want to leave..but will sleep on it..."

Don't get disheartened by it .. Some people are not reliable on here . Go for the genuine ones that have a few varifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would definitely meet you both"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're mad!

Single or couple? Bet it's single!

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

"Yeah...feel we want to leave..but will sleep on it..."

Would you have met all three the same day?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Yeah...feel we want to leave..but will sleep on it..."

It happens, it's a numbers game some will bottle it some won't, I wouldn't but that irrelevant.

Don't take it personally happy hunting.

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By *omeotherknobheadMan
over a year ago

morecambe

shit as they say, happens

maybe review your selection process too, but don't run off. unless that's what you wanna do i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah...feel we want to leave..but will sleep on it..."

They must be fools then xx

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By *oneyjule65 OP Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Thanks everyone we are staying..just felt the need to let off steam...usually we are lucky so guess had to have a bad day eventually...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let that make yous leave x everyone's been there before. And it's definitely they're loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone we are staying..just felt the need to let off steam...usually we are lucky so guess had to have a bad day eventually...

Careful what you moan about. We got letdown by a bloke who, after we gave him our address texted us to say he “realised he had no car insurance”. We came on line and let off steam ( without naming him) and got a forum ban for 48 hours. Crazy world of fabswingers eh?

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By *oneyjule65 OP Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Thanks everyone we are staying..just felt the need to let off steam...usually we are lucky so guess had to have a bad day eventually...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His loss xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww thats a shame.

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

East London

Thats why you need to test their balls with a social first

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Oakhill

Eventually you had a hit before he run off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

68 verifications in 6 months...wow you're way above most people's average so not sure what you have to complain about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"68 verifications in 6 months...wow you're way above most people's average so not sure what you have to complain about? "

Maybe complaining about someone wasting their time, or is it acceptable in your eyes not to turn up for an arranged meet, because the couple has had a few meets already?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

84 meets in 6 months? I think you’re doing pretty well! Imagine if they’d all turned up??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"84 meets in 6 months? I think you’re doing pretty well! Imagine if they’d all turned up??

We only invite one at a time so when we get let down we have to start start all over again looking. Fortunately it’s not that common for us but when it does happen it’s frustrating.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've posted on another forum about being stood up by a lady who was double booked and had arranged another social at the same time she was supposed to meet me.

The general consensus was that this was "rude" to put it politely.

To be stood up 3 times in 3 hours says as much about the OP as it does about those who didn't turn up.

We all have our own level on fab and are free to choose who we meet and how often, so 60+ veris in 6 months is their business and I've no issue with that but arranging 3 meets within 3 hrs while posting the latest veri on the same day should answer the question about why some may get cold feet and not turn up.

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By *oneyjule65 OP Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

"84 meets in 6 months? I think you’re doing pretty well! Imagine if they’d all turned up??

Never thought of that...

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Fuck all night long

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By *oneyjule65 OP Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Just to clarify...the guy earlier was arranged as only time he could do that's the one who verified us & us him. Another meet had been arranged for some hours later he messaged to cancel...another guy messaged to say he would step in as met him before then he cancelled due to work. And yes another one asked to me but then decided to tell us he shy & wanted to meet at ours.

So maybe me using "stood up " wasn't the correct term.."let down" may have been more appropriate.. glad to say it doesn't happen often though.

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By *ister195Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Happens far to much. I had 3-5 no shows, an awesome meet with an amazing couple then had 10-20 no shows

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

Never had or been a no show. As you can see by my extensive list of 1 veri I am 100% reliable!

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

Sometimes stuff does happen in life, and as they say ‘things happen in 3s’ so hopefully your luck will change. Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t even manage one meet, never mind a social ha

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By *oneyjule65 OP Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Happens far to much. I had 3-5 no shows, an awesome meet with an amazing couple then had 10-20 no shows "

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By *oneyjule65 OP Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Never had or been a no show. As you can see by my extensive list of 1 veri I am 100% reliable! "

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By *oneyjule65 OP Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I can’t even manage one meet, never mind a social ha "

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I can’t even manage one meet, never mind a social ha

I've never been a no show. Conversely, I've had two no shows from women, one after a 45mile drive. My own fault just an avatar but then had the cheek to say I didn't look like my photos, so must have passed very close. And one got cold feet after I'd driven 70 miles. Can understand cold feet, but to not reply to your message "I'm here"

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