FabSwingers.com forum: Height

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you check someone's height when they message you with a view to a meet?

A few folk must as I have been told I am too short!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you check someone's height when they message you with a view to a meet?

A few folk must as I have been told I am too short! "

Id like to think that people reject me because of my height. But I think it's because I look like Shrek and am boring as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, didn’t even know this was a thing

I’m very short - 5ft 1, I’ve certainly never been given that as a reason..

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By *axo25Man
over a year ago

lightwater

"Never, didn’t even know this was a thing

I’m very short - 5ft 1, I’ve certainly never been given that as a reason.."

Not sure it’s the same for lasses

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Always with single guys - I like my men tall...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never, didn’t even know this was a thing

I’m very short - 5ft 1, I’ve certainly never been given that as a reason..

Not sure it’s the same for lasses "

...well OP is a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't think it would bother a man if a lady is short or not.

And I can't see why so many womme are looking for men over a certain height.

If you fancy everthing else about them and you think the sex will be good, then why the heck not go for it?

It's just nsf and not as if it's going to be a life time partner.

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

"Do you check someone's height when they message you with a view to a meet?

A few folk must as I have been told I am too short! "

I always do, and it's one of the first things I check.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Do you check someone's height when they message you with a view to a meet?

A few folk must as I have been told I am too short!

Id like to think that people reject me because of my height. But I think it's because I look like Shrek and am boring as fuck"

Lucky you. I look like donkey but only from the waist up.

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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago

Evesham, Worcester, Pershore

Not really. If I'm honest, I only really look at the height of couples to work out who's who if they only use initials on there profile. Lol x

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Yes, Niki doesn't like tall guys, she thinks they look funny in jeans - 6'/180cm is around her max.

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

slut likes guys under 6ft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep! It’s essential for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really. If I'm honest, I only really look at the height of couples to work out who's who if they only use initials on there profile. Lol x"

Oh I do this too!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I am unashamedly heightest

Despite wording on my profile, the midgets still keep trying

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By *nsure2018Couple
over a year ago

BASINGSTOKE

"Do you check someone's height when they message you with a view to a meet?

A few folk must as I have been told I am too short! "

Dont know cant see your height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes I check height. im not quite 5ft 3

my preference is taller than me

once went on a date and we were same height, it felt so wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a playmate that was 4ft 2.. amazing guy and brilliant in bed!

I wish he was still on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm tallish but am not heightist in the slightest, suppose coming from an exceedingly tall family and working with tall guys know that height doesn't make a person any better or worse than anyone else in any way

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife

I check height.. I do like my men taller than me.. Im quite average for a woman at 5'6"

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I wouldn't meet someone shorter than me. I'm 5'6" and my ex is 6'6", kissing him gave me neck ache, so preferably shorter than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you check someone's height when they message you with a view to a meet?

A few folk must as I have been told I am too short! "

Guilty but to be fair it’s stated on our profile , so hopefully it’s read & one hasn’t got to explain & offend. My preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I do.

Height is a very attractive trait for me and if he’s like 5’8 I’m likely to not be interested.

Even though I’m a short arse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see what height has to do with anything a good personality is the most important for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you check someone's height when they message you with a view to a meet?

A few folk must as I have been told I am too short! "
of course...... I have particular height restrictions

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

On another dating site, my height is stated as 6'0", same as it is stated on here. Mainly because that is my height.

I had a date and the first thing she said to me was "you're taller than I imagined".

I said that my height is on my profile. She replied "yeah, but all the blokes I've met have lied about their height and are shorter than they say they are".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's one of the first things I check as I only like to meet guys taller than me

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Mrs is way over 6' in her stripper heels whilst I am a short arse.

Its usually the other way around. A tall bloke and a petite woman. But not us.

In the real world height isnt such a big deal. Fab however deals in fantasy.

So in my case I accept many woman will not be interested in me as I am not 6' whilst some guys are intimidated by my wife because she is 6'.

Thats the way it is and we dont lose sleep over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heights important to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been told a few times we are too short...maybe just another form of ‘filter’?

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Not at all heightist here. Nor when meeting with hubby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't see what height has to do with anything a good personality is the most important for me."

Height matters to some of us, equally as personality matters to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t bother me

I’m 6’2 but equally happy with companions of similar height or shorter...there’s always a way!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It's one of the first things I look at on a guys profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I used to live in Northampton too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't see what height has to do with anything a good personality is the most important for me.

Height matters to some of us, equally as personality matters to you. "

This. I've tried with shorter guys and I just feel huge next to them. I like tall broad guys where they can envelope me completely in their arms...and yes leg length correlates to arm length

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Height doesn’t bother me to be honest. I’ve never been with a guy same height or taller (as they are thin on the ground in my circle). Shortest guy i’ve met was 5ft 5 and actually doggy style worked out really well as he could fit between my long legs better.

I do prefer shorter men to be quite stocky/broad though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Height doesn’t bother me to be honest. I’ve never been with a guy same height or taller (as they are thin on the ground in my circle). Shortest guy i’ve met was 5ft 5 and actually doggy style worked out really well as he could fit between my long legs better.

I do prefer shorter men to be quite stocky/broad though.

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I have short legs and a long body

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

I'm 6 ft 4 and even those that I've met who checked my height before hand still go, ooo your tall

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By *aughtyDuetCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

I do prefer my male play mates to be taller and broader than me. Any shorter than 5’8 would make me feel more masculine and less sexy.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I do prefer shorter men to be quite stocky/broad though.

I have short legs and a long body

You have the inches where it matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one thing I've never even looked at when looking at profiles lol

I'm 5'11 but don't suppose height matters really

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By *lim Jim 69Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I luv the shorter lady.. just my pref

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

One of the first things i check. I like tall men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of the first things i check. I like tall men."

Just Aswell I’m tall as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of the first things i check. I like tall men."

Shame we are miles away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do as I prefer someone similar height to me.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

About 6ft is perfect mwah. Yes I do always

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Always with single guys - I like my men tall..."

Me three

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is sounding better all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always with single guys - I like my men tall...

Me three

What’s wrong with hospital uniforms ??

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Short arse here never had any issues lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfect picking up size

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Always with single guys - I like my men tall...

Me three

What’s wrong with hospital uniforms ??"

Ugly, ill fitting nylon things now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always with single guys - I like my men tall...

Me three

What’s wrong with hospital uniforms ??

Ugly, ill fitting nylon things now. "

Is it your uniform ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I don't care about height at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah I don't care about height at all"
really my 5'11 is OK then I've felt cheated by an inch for years and now I feel elated omg the weight off my shoulders

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Height is the first thing I look for, but that's due to me being 6ft

So I have it from the other side of being too tall for a woman

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Interesting to see it's mostly woman who check and reject based on height. My fella has been rejected several times as he's tall.

As a couple, it's no bother to us the other persons height.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heights doesn't matter to me, however it helps to check the possibility of easy kiss (lower or upper lips)

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Cumslut doesnt like tall men apparently - too difficult to kiss. Which is good because I'm a shortarse at 5'6

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By *ackieSteveCouple
over a year ago

Newbridge

"I am unashamedly heightest

Despite wording on my profile, the midgets still keep trying "

I KNOW RIGHT.

6ft minimum

10 unread messages from guys under 6ft

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

There's an old saying "we're all the same height lying down." Differences in height might affect some positions but people of very different heights can fuck happily!

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"On another dating site, my height is stated as 6'0", same as it is stated on here. Mainly because that is my height.

I had a date and the first thing she said to me was "you're taller than I imagined".

I said that my height is on my profile. She replied "yeah, but all the blokes I've met have lied about their height and are shorter than they say they are".

It’s certainly statistically impressive how many 6 footer guys are on here..

At the same time, it is, as I’m sure all will agree, very unfair that a physical attribute that no one can do anything about is so important to so many ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't see what height has to do with anything a good personality is the most important for me.

Height matters to some of us, equally as personality matters to you. "

not really equal.height doesnt sum up who you are as a person but personality does

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's one of the last things I check, not too fussed about height.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"There's an old saying "we're all the same height lying down." Differences in height might affect some positions but people of very different heights can fuck happily!"

It’s got little to do with the actual physicality.

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By *ockonmeMan
over a year ago

lincolnshire

I wouldn’t care less about height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im tall so like guys my height or taller. Its definitely a deciding factor for me.

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By *ockonmeMan
over a year ago

lincolnshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't see what height has to do with anything a good personality is the most important for me.

Height matters to some of us, equally as personality matters to you.

not really equal.height doesnt sum up who you are as a person but personality does"

But it is equal, it’s a trait that I find attractive, equally as a good personality is a trait you find attractive.

Some on here don’t care for personality, each to their own.

Some on here don’t care for height, each to their own.

People are entitled to be attracted to different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really. If I'm honest, I only really look at the height of couples to work out who's who if they only use initials on there profile. Lol x"

My guy is shorter than me so wouldn't work on ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look but just cause I am nosey... I like short guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On another dating site, my height is stated as 6'0", same as it is stated on here. Mainly because that is my height.

I had a date and the first thing she said to me was "you're taller than I imagined".

I said that my height is on my profile. She replied "yeah, but all the blokes I've met have lied about their height and are shorter than they say they are".

It’s certainly statistically impressive how many 6 footer guys are on here..

At the same time, it is, as I’m sure all will agree, very unfair that a physical attribute that no one can do anything about is so important to so many ladies. "

Why is it unfair? Are people not allowed to like different things?

Is it unfair that some men prefer Asian women? Is it unfair that some people prefer blue eyes, or big boobs, or an Irish accent?

Plenty of us are attracted (or not) to things people can’t change about themselves, it’s not unfair.

Nobody should be shamed for what they like, and nobody should be forced to change what they like because other people don’t like it.

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

I do have a preference for tall guys but that's not to say I would not consider meeting/ playing with someone less than 5'10"

So yes I check but no it doesn't always affect my response

Sara x

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Mrs is way over 6' in her stripper heels whilst I am a short arse.

Its usually the other way around. A tall bloke and a petite woman. But not us.

In the real world height isnt such a big deal. Fab however deals in fantasy.

So in my case I accept many woman will not be interested in me as I am not 6' whilst some guys are intimidated by my wife because she is 6'.

Thats the way it is and we dont lose sleep over it."

Being with a tall woman has always a bit of a fantasy, just a tad of envy.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was meeting, height was never a factor. I barely checked

Holly

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Mrs is way over 6' in her stripper heels whilst I am a short arse.

Its usually the other way around. A tall bloke and a petite woman. But not us.

In the real world height isnt such a big deal. Fab however deals in fantasy.

So in my case I accept many woman will not be interested in me as I am not 6' whilst some guys are intimidated by my wife because she is 6'.

Thats the way it is and we dont lose sleep over it.

Being with a tall woman has always a bit of a fantasy, just a tad of envy.

Him"

Well when you are looking for meets again get in touch.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Mrs is way over 6' in her stripper heels whilst I am a short arse.

Its usually the other way around. A tall bloke and a petite woman. But not us.

In the real world height isnt such a big deal. Fab however deals in fantasy.

So in my case I accept many woman will not be interested in me as I am not 6' whilst some guys are intimidated by my wife because she is 6'.

Thats the way it is and we dont lose sleep over it.

Being with a tall woman has always a bit of a fantasy, just a tad of envy.

Him

Well when you are looking for meets again get in touch.

Noted

Thanks for the fr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re both tall so being tall is a bonus but some good things come in small packages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think men do but I'm pretty sure alot of women do

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By *entishRobertMan
over a year ago

kent

If a woman has a height restriction on her profile, even if I fit the category, I leave straight away. I dont want to be with anyone that shallow.

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I, mrs, being nearly 6’ in my stocking feet, like my men to be my height but certainly do t use my preference as a condition of meeting xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a big woman and Im 5ft 7 so small men make me feel massive and unsexy.

Most men are taller than me and I dont wear heels so it's usually fine