FabSwingers.com forum: dirty bitch and slut name calling

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wanted to know you ladies' views being called a dirty bitch or a dirty slut during sex or around playing, does it offend you or turn you on even more being called that?

A few years ago when I was with a woman, one evening she was turned on being told what a dirty slut she was during sex and told me afterwards she enjoy the name calling and then a week later, same thing happen, she did her nut on me and got upset about it, when I say it, I do mean in a nice way without be abusive.

I always feel walking on egg's when I mention it hoping not to upset anyone, it's a touching subject for you ladies?

BTW, I dont mind being called a dirty fucker by them, I quite like it though, lol

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

some like , some really don't i find; i do name call when fucking sometimes; often ends ironically in a nice cuddle lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you ask if its their thing before hand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really for me to be honest, but then i just dont like the vocal stuff during sex at all, i like a guy to just shut up and get on with his job, i dont wat a conversation sexual or other wise lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why don't you ask if its their thing before hand?"
yes i think men should .ask..some hate being called a whore or a slag ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some guy called me a fat slut mid shag once, not that long ago actually, and was genuinly suprised i got dressed and left, he even asked me what was wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top tip-

there is a world of difference between

"I love it when you act like a fithy whore"

and

"you are a filthy whore"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being called a dirty bitch or filthy slut during sex , especially on a meet as that's exactly what I am , it's different sometimes with my partner as different types of sex wouldn't warrant it ie tender and loving sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why don't you ask if its their thing before hand?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a bit sad realy, so no i dont think its a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Top tip-

there is a world of difference between

"I love it when you act like a fithy whore"

and

"you are a filthy whore""

Yes that's exactly it!!! I've been trying to get my head round that for ages, but you explained it perfectly. I hate being called a slut. I am my man's slut... but not 'a' slut, if that makes sense. I do things for him but that desn't mean I'll do it for everyone.

Thank you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some like it some dont, much like anything on here...there is the EASY answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

right time, right place its delicious, wrong time wrong place its revolting

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Dirty bitch - actually dont mind it, although like most things it depends HOW it is said.

Dirty slut - hate it, hate it, hate it.

In case you hadnt guessed - I dont like it.

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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Top tip-

there is a world of difference between

"I love it when you act like a fithy whore"

and

"you are a filthy whore""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it, if it's my Sir but I think I'd deck anyone else haha.

I echo the sentiment 'Right time, right place'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think its a bit sad realy, so no i dont think its a good idea."

What makes it sad? If someone enjoys it and gets turned on by it then go for it i say.

I personally do not get turned on by name calling, tugging my hair yes, pinning my arms down yes

That said i would not be offended if it was said in the heat of the moment and i would let it pass, after all it's for them to enjoy as well as me

Sarah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the name calling during sex, don't find it offensive at all within the right circumstance. Also love the use of the words cunt, cock etc.

Everyone one of us is different soem like it some don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Top tip-

there is a world of difference between

"I love it when you act like a fithy whore"

and

"you are a filthy whore"

namecals _heira:

U utterly fantastic sexy fuckA

see even i have a romantic side

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I love the name calling during sex, don't find it offensive at all within the right circumstance. Also love the use of the words cunt, cock etc.

Everyone one of us is different soem like it some don't

Oh trust me I have a mouth like an old docker in the right circumstance....but I hate 'slut'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know how to describe it. I'm not a fan of talking in the bedroom unless it's fuck me, I'm going to cum, or asking for position changes

Only one person called me all sorts of filthy names and I enjoyed it. No idea why!

Although I think what was said about the difference earlier about ' i love it when you act like a filthy slut' and 'you're a filthy slut' kinda hits the nail on the head though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not like derogatory name-calling when I play, on the phone, cam, or otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love being told in dirty slut by certain person but only cos im his dirty slut or kinky bitch etc. if anyone else did it i think i would be offended as we have a trust built up and know that its just role play and bit of fun in the heat of the moment etc

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

Nope, don't like it and likely to leave.

I cannot see how words like dirty, filthy, nasty - as I have seen in profiles and messages - relate to the kind of sex I /we enjoy.

I tell people before a meet what I don't like.

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i love being told in dirty slut by certain person but only cos im his dirty slut or kinky bitch etc. if anyone else did it i think i would be offended as we have a trust built up and know that its just role play and bit of fun in the heat of the moment etc"

U...er...em...I like ur tattoos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate it. Being called sexy etc are much better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U...er...em...I like ur tattoos"

thanks babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U...er...em...I like ur tattoos

thanks babe

I'll say anything for a shag...whOOOps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some like it some dont, much like anything on here...there is the EASY answer"

Actually some like it sometimes from some people.... another time they will rip your balls off and feed them to you

IF you want to do this know your audience and her mood!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

two people can call me whatever they want, kev tends to call me a tart, Sir a slut, i love both, its a compliment from them and makes me horny and happy.

Name calling needs trust and knowledge of the person, i wouldnt recommend it for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do not like derogatory name-calling when I play, on the phone, cam, or otherwise.

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people like it, some don't. I don't mind playing along if it's requested but unless asked, I don't use such terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some like it some dont, much like anything on here...there is the EASY answer

Actually some like it sometimes from some people.... another time they will rip your balls off and feed them to you

IF you want to do this know your audience and her mood!"

I'm a castrato...so fuck off x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Meet- doesnt offend me or annoy me, but would choose not to be called either.

OH- He can call me whatever he likes

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By * am originalMan
over a year ago

bristol

I like to be calleld a dirty slut, and if you play with my nipples when Im sucking ur cock Im even more of a slut...

Try me...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys for the interesting views/replys, seem some like it and some hate it.

Guess it's best to ask first or wait for them to turn the air blue! lol, maybe I made a mistake not having my words coming out in the correct way or she was in a bad mood at the time!

Cheers all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you have to ask and then you know its coming dirty rude chat some find it erotic. ... but how would a man like to be called rude names having sex ? like dick head ? small cock ..... scum sucker..... he may not like .... only if he is into it , lol

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By *ampopotwoCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Mrs Tampopo is more than happy to be called a horny bitch, but call her hun or babe and you're in big trouble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it comes down to intent I guess. Lady joy likes me to call her slut during sex and refers to herself as a slut often, doesn't mind our guests on gang bang nights using it as a compliment

But if a stranger or someone else says it in a bad way she really hates it and thinks of it as a verbal equivalant of someone groping her ass and an invasion of her sexual identity.

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Love being called names, if I'm having rough sex, love a lot more too if in the right mood lol. The dirtier the better sometimes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone called me a slut or whore when we had only just met . I would not like it . But hot often calls me his horny slut as we are fucking. For me its the fact I know trust and find him totally horny .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i normally find lasses who are into this will normally ask at some point or prompt it somehow !

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