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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you into kissing on meets? as in on the lips etc? or do you prefer to leave that to just between you and your other half and not meets?

we love kissing on meets and would find it really hard not to kiss on a meet, it makes it more intense and gets everyone in the mood (well in our eyes it does and other we have met too).

We have chatted to a few people on here and the most tend to be happy to kiss on meets and only about 25% say no they dont kiss,

whats your view?

thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a general rule.. no I dont.. I dont need it.. dont get much from it..and certainly on a quicky meet I dont have time for it.. as I just get my mouth straight on them.

I havent met any couples so dont know but I find kissing a woman a bit well naff..

I do with regular meets kiss them sometimes.. but not often.. I prefer to have my body kissed than be kissed..

Love to kiss my Master.. Makes my head swim, the world spin and mmmm can make me cum.. other men and women just dont do that to me.. not even slightly.. I get no physical response from it.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have had meets where no kissing has been involved

given the choice, kissing would always be involved though

it makes the difference between an OK and an excellent meet to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

couldnt possibly meet a guy/cpl and not kiss?

to me sex and kissing go together. its such a turn on when done rigt that is lol

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have had meets where no kissing has been involved

given the choice, kissing would always be involved though

it makes the difference between an OK and an excellent meet to me "

but you see my best meets is when its 5 or more guys.. really is no place for kissing then

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we always kiss

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

oh god yes, dfk with tongues and spittle exchange please. so intimate !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"couldnt possibly meet a guy/cpl and not kiss?

to me sex and kissing go together. its such a turn on when done rigt that is lol

auds xx"

same with us, we have in the past been chatting to people and have really got on and we are almost at the point of meeting and they say they dont kiss on meets and it might seem bad but we turn around and say were probly not for you then as it would be hard to stop ourselves from kissing if we met, we could stop ourselves but its part of the passion in a meet with us,

plus things tend to start off with a simple kiss to get everyone in the mood so would be so hard not to be able to do that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have had meets where no kissing has been involved

given the choice, kissing would always be involved though

it makes the difference between an OK and an excellent meet to me

but you see my best meets is when its 5 or more guys.. really is no place for kissing then

cali "

ur just greedy

i prefer 1 on 1's or threesomes cos you do get that 'intimacy' with the other person(s) that is lost in group situations

am not knocking groups though as they can have their horny highpoints too

it's just a different kind of meet

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I've passed by profiles where it sez no kissing....respect to cali but on a couple or single meet then couldnt not kiss...n if i had5 blokes id want a good snog off all of them, but thats just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we kiss mmmmmmm, i (the fem)would find it very hard to be in a situation where i am intimate with someone, but not allowed to kiss them, so we do not put ourselves in that position.

We do understnd that some people like to keep it for just themselves, but it would not work for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't imagine having a meet and not kissing. It just wouldn't work for me ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"couldnt possibly meet a guy/cpl and not kiss?

to me sex and kissing go together. its such a turn on when done rigt that is lol

auds xx"

+1 Wouldn't meet if there was a no kissing rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both love the kissing part, but also love fucking the other person while they kiss there partner. That's hot x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

were not against people who dont do kissing on meets were just saying its a must for us on meets to be some kissing involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

ur just greedy

i prefer 1 on 1's or threesomes cos you do get that 'intimacy' with the other person(s) that is lost in group situations

am not knocking groups though as they can have their horny highpoints too

it's just a different kind of meet

"

I just have never found the need to kiss.. I am already in the mood..and it doesnt turn me on.. I sometimse do it because it looks good but I have to fancy them in a certain way.. Not every guy I fuck I fancy enough to want to kiss.

Cali

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We wouldn't meet anyone if they weren't comfortable with kissing. It's the kissing that makes the sex passionate and sex isn't fun without any passion.

Group sex may be different as it's more about being used than being passionate, but that's a different kind of fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I can't see why people don't if they are single. Granted maybe for couples but there are more intimate acts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing, but some are strange kissers.

I especial like the kissing when my cock goes in for the first time that meet.

Nice and gentle, then when all nicely relaxed and wet, then I can move on to the fucking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We got chatting to a woman on here the other day and all was going well, we told her were looking to do our first mff with another female and it was looking like she would be the woman to help us with that,

then.... the moment came where she said ''oh by the way i dont do kissing on meets'' as she had noticed on our profile that we love kissing on meets, she the went on to say ''i will kiss your mrs but sorry wont kiss the mr'' now would of made my cock explode seeing her kiss mrs-mids i wont lie but not being able to involved in the kissing put a big downer on it,

even mrs-mids said no straght away to meeting her because of the ''no kissing me'' comment, her words were well why is it ok to kiss me but not you? anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

ur just greedy

i prefer 1 on 1's or threesomes cos you do get that 'intimacy' with the other person(s) that is lost in group situations

am not knocking groups though as they can have their horny highpoints too

it's just a different kind of meet

I just have never found the need to kiss.. I am already in the mood..and it doesnt turn me on.. I sometimse do it because it looks good but I have to fancy them in a certain way.. Not every guy I fuck I fancy enough to want to kiss.

Cali "

am the opposite

it has been known that if i don't fancy them that much, i get the kisses in first just to see if it makes me any hornier lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wouldn't meet anyone if they weren't comfortable with kissing. It's the kissing that makes the sex passionate and sex isn't fun without any passion.

Group sex may be different as it's more about being used than being passionate, but that's a different kind of fun x"

I dont tell meets no kissing btw.. and I think it depends what sort of sex your after.. raw dirty sex.. is a need thing.. not a passion thing.. yet to be honest I find the experience very passionate... to have a guy walk in.. see he wants me.. tell him to get undressed or undress him..( I tend to stay clothed) look at him.. and run my tongue over him.. maybe kiss and tease his legs, or tummy etc...

I understand that some people like kissing..and actually I am more likely to kiss on a 3sum if its with myself and Master and one other.. but when I meet without nmy Master I dont feel the need or want to kiss.

I have done... with 2 men.. both regulars that I have had a 3sum with my Master there.. Was the sex better with kissing.. dont think so.. it was better because we were comfortable and it was more relaxed.

I notice in clubs that there is very little kissing between others.. or in my experience.. perhaps its the fact I have very much club type sex but at home..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have two types of play/meets clubs and private meets, for me private meets are much more personal and i put a lot more effort into them, because im going to be spending time with them and them alone things like kissing is much more important and i find things like attraction is more important too

Then theres club meets, because at clubs things tend to be more spare of the moment and sex just never is the same, they tend to be in a room, quick play and back out again things like kissing isnt as important to me, nor is attraction, i have played with guys in clubs that i wouldnt even want to kiss if im going to be honest

But on a private meet yes i do love kissing because i wouldnt meet someone privately that i wasnt attracted to and didint want to kiss, thats not to say i wouldnt kiss in a club if i pulled a good looking guy i fancied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have had meets where no kissing has been involved

given the choice, kissing would always be involved though

it makes the difference between an OK and an excellent meet to me

but you see my best meets is when its 5 or more guys.. really is no place for kissing then

cali "

see it does depends on the meet and all meets have their place

I like a good gang bang every now and again but lets me honest they are a little clinical, things like kissing and guys giving oral to women just dont happen in a gang bang its all just the woman sucking and fucking and if im in the mood i love that

But on a 1 on 1 meet i do like the intamacy of personal setting, i would fully expect a guy to give me oral and kiss me if i met him 1 on 1 but i wouldnt in a gang bang

It just depends meet to meet for me and who im meeting etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I like a good gang bang every now and again but lets me honest they are a little clinical, things like kissing and guys giving oral to women just dont happen in a gang bang its all just the woman sucking and fucking and if im in the mood i love that

But on a 1 on 1 meet i do like the intamacy of personal setting, i would fully expect a guy to give me oral and kiss me if i met him 1 on 1 but i wouldnt in a gang bang

It just depends meet to meet for me and who im meeting etc"

See I like to have quick fuck none intimate sex with meets.. its about the sex for me..

I tend to prefer to keep intimacy for myself and Master or a very few people.. however its more to do with the fact that I am a cum slut and love to get covered. I have had and loved a guy walking in.. me sucking him, face covered and out again in a few mins..more than a guy coming in and doing lots of things to me.

and I dont find gangbangs clinical I find them the height of erotic pleasure but it goes to show, what turns one of us on.. doesnt work the same for another.

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah but im billy no mates if i didnt kiss on meets id never get a kiss lol

I do understand those who prefer not to kiss on meets or even those who soft swing, i would be perfectly happy to have a partner and meet others who only did oral and kiss, shag my own fella so long as i was getting it, but being single i dont get that from anyone else so everything i do sexually is with a none partner so things like kissing and sex is more important to me, but as i have said no on all sex sessions, it depends person to person

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

in fact, if no kissing then i don't meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in fact, if no kissing then i don't meet. "

i wouldnt on a personal meet, if i spoke to someone off here with a view to meeting and they say they didnt kiss i wouldnt meet them, but i will play in clubs and not kiss

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough


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yep, same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry deleted due to typo and re posted lol

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By *onandsallyCouple
over a year ago

Pembroke


"couldnt possibly meet a guy/cpl and not kiss?

to me sex and kissing go together. its such a turn on when done rigt that is lol

auds xx"

X 2

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Kissing and sex go together, so why deny yourself the pleasure? Swinging is all about maximizing pleasure, after all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing and sex go together, so why deny yourself the pleasure? Swinging is all about maximizing pleasure, after all!"

but what if like me kissing doesnt give you pleasure.???? I do with one person but with others it doesnt...

cali

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By *agjonMan
over a year ago

leeds

Love kissing, couldn't do a meet without

Kissing , done right is such a turn on!!?

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By *oodGoshCouple
over a year ago

North London

We completely agree with mids-couple. We were also chatting to a really hot couple who seemed compatible in every way, then they mentioned no kissing and it pretty much killed it for us.

We just can't imagine being totally fine with touching, licking, etc every part of another person's body and yet having an issue with a little kissing at the same time.

For us, it's as much a part of being in the moment as it is making noise when you're having fun. If we had the 'no kissing' rule in the front of our minds at our meet, we'd struggle to properly relax and have everybody enjoy themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't imagine having a meet and not kissing. It just wouldn't work for me ...."

+1

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

There's gotta be kissing! just taking of your clothes and getting down to sex is OK for a quickie on a Sunday morning before going to church! Not kissing before a long sexy evening seems so cold!

Sit next to other partner, hand on knee, up leg to waist and from there, kissing the neck and working round to full on snogging.. From there everything else just flows..

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

we started off as a stricly no kissing couple, then one time we decided something was missing and to see if the kissing made any different.

must say it depends on if the other person is a good kisser as Em said it did nothing for her, and it certainly did nothing for me. he just started chewing her face off, and seemed to be getting a little carried away, t the point i had to check where he was 'lodging' himself as he was rubbing against Em intimately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We were expecting loads of people dead against kissing to be fair but great that so many people feel the same way as us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It tends to be newbies who don't wanna kiss and surely down the line it would change ?

Kissing is definitely an integral part of good sex and we wouldn't bother meeting if it was a no no from a couple. Having experienced the no kissing rule in the past and saying to each other on the way home - wtf was that all about ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It tends to be newbies who don't wanna kiss and surely down the line it would change ?

Kissing is definitely an integral part of good sex and we wouldn't bother meeting if it was a no no from a couple. Having experienced the no kissing rule in the past and saying to each other on the way home - wtf was that all about ? "

agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing on meet has to be done makes the meet better

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We find it difficult not to kiss - it was our number one rule (not to) when we started but that had gone by the board before the end of our first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ...love kissing on meets and would find it really hard not to kiss on a meet, it makes it more intense and gets everyone in the mood (well in our eyes it does and other we have met too).

"

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I LOVE kissing on a meet - deep, passionate, plenty of tongues, frantic (and sensual too - love both), it's so horny and adds to the whole excitement of the meet. A meet with no kissing would be.... disappointing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing on meets is all good with us, there are more intimate things to keep to your selves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had anyone ever met someone who after telling them how much you love kissing and how much it turns you on, only to find upon meeting they can't kiss for toffee and their technique actually makes you cringe, only to then have them chasing your unwilling lips around the bed all night because they think their lapping at your face like a st bernard is actually turning you on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's gotta be kissing! just taking of your clothes and getting down to sex is OK for a quickie on a Sunday morning before going to church! Not kissing before a long sexy evening seems so cold!

-)"

See this is my point.. I don't do more than quickies, so surely my no kissing is fine lol... I don't have a no kissing rule.. I just don't tend to do it... I have moved away and dislike men that try to kiss me while I'm laid down on my back... Will just suddenly get on my knees lol. Much prefer it like that with meets anyway.

I think it doesn't matter if you do or don't as long as everyone is looking for the same.

I'm much more sensual and tactile when I play with master physically there...

CAli

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I like kissing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing and snoging untill my mouth hurts xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing is a must for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd find it very hard not to ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd find it very hard not to ... "

i would if i was really attracted to them, i think id end up leaving before i broke their rules and got a bollocking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd find it very hard not to ...

i would if i was really attracted to them, i think id end up leaving before i broke their rules and got a bollocking lol

"

Time waster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd find it very hard not to ...

i would if i was really attracted to them, i think id end up leaving before i broke their rules and got a bollocking lol

Time waster "

kiss my.....erm...... arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a very important part of play time fun for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd find it very hard not to ...

i would if i was really attracted to them, i think id end up leaving before i broke their rules and got a bollocking lol

Time waster

kiss my.....erm...... arse "

Yum! x

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Theres nothing more arousing than a really good kisser, from gentle licks, kisses and nibbles on an extended neck to gentle soft kisses and suck on a beautiful bottom lip all the way to full on lip bruising snog ya face off! I love them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

ur just greedy

i prefer 1 on 1's or threesomes cos you do get that 'intimacy' with the other person(s) that is lost in group situations

am not knocking groups though as they can have their horny highpoints too

it's just a different kind of meet

I just have never found the need to kiss.. I am already in the mood..and it doesnt turn me on.. I sometimse do it because it looks good but I have to fancy them in a certain way.. Not every guy I fuck I fancy enough to want to kiss.

Cali "
sorry what? you dont fancy the guy enuf to kiss him ,,,but youl shag him anyway???

seriously?

so any old random shag will do then ehe?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Kissing for me is more intimate than having sex in a way - yeah we do on meets but there has to be a really special chemistry and really really really special oral hygiene lol

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Depends how you play. We don't do private meets but play at a club. We don't feel the need to kiss there as encounters tend to be unconventional ... group sessions in the dungeon, quickies in the cinema etc

So no - we don't kiss, generally speaking.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Kissing for me is more intimate than having sex in a way - yeah we do on meets but there has to be a really special chemistry and really really really special oral hygiene lol "

*must remember to give teeth an extra special clean and mouth wash*

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I've not met up with anyone that didn't kiss - but if they said no kissing - I would respect that

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By *wingersrus465Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Depends how you play. We don't do private meets but play at a club. We don't feel the need to kiss there as encounters tend to be unconventional ... group sessions in the dungeon, quickies in the cinema etc

So no - we don't kiss, generally speaking."

I wouldn't want to kiss anyone in a club, however a threesome or foursome is more intimate and I could not imagine not sharing a sexy kiss, such a turn on for me xx

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I love kissing x x I agree a club meet it is not so important , but a personal meet kissing I find intensifies the meeting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is essential...........

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

cant fuck without kissing, its sensual and erotic.

To those who wont i always wonder why its ok to put their cock in my mouth, but not their tongue.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"

ur just greedy

i prefer 1 on 1's or threesomes cos you do get that 'intimacy' with the other person(s) that is lost in group situations

am not knocking groups though as they can have their horny highpoints too

it's just a different kind of meet

I just have never found the need to kiss.. I am already in the mood..and it doesnt turn me on.. I sometimse do it because it looks good but I have to fancy them in a certain way.. Not every guy I fuck I fancy enough to want to kiss.

Cali sorry what? you dont fancy the guy enuf to kiss him ,,,but youl shag him anyway???

seriously?

so any old random shag will do then ehe?

"

Woahhhh, respect other's viewpoints, and their honesty please.....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I find it rather funny that so many people go on about no kissing on meets yet will let every other sexual function happen without a 2nd thought

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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I couldnt imagine going on a meet and not kissing , with both male and female . Its all part of the excitement for me , i adore kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

ur just greedy

i prefer 1 on 1's or threesomes cos you do get that 'intimacy' with the other person(s) that is lost in group situations

am not knocking groups though as they can have their horny highpoints too

it's just a different kind of meet

I just have never found the need to kiss.. I am already in the mood..and it doesnt turn me on.. I sometimse do it because it looks good but I have to fancy them in a certain way.. Not every guy I fuck I fancy enough to want to kiss.

Cali sorry what? you dont fancy the guy enuf to kiss him ,,,but youl shag him anyway???

seriously?

so any old random shag will do then ehe?

Woahhhh, respect other's viewpoints, and their honesty please..... "
erm its a forum? Im giving my oppinion. I never bad mouthed anyone? Was just wondering since the fem dosnt have to fancy the guy shes havn sex with anyone would do? Auds x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will happily snog women, but men, absolutely no way. Deep passionate kissing is just between us, that way l feel it makes our Marriage special. I love sharing my body with others, but need to keep something between us that is unique to us and for me it's all about the snogging!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Woahhhh, respect other's viewpoints, and their honesty please..... erm its a forum? Im giving my oppinion. I never bad mouthed anyone? Was just wondering since the fem dosnt have to fancy the guy shes havn sex with anyone would do? Auds x "

Nope.. I just need a hard cock to suck.. pretty similar to a group thing where I am blindfolded..

It depends what I am after.. but most guys I only give oral too..

and no not anyone would do.. I still have standards.. but I can fuck someone easier than kiss them..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cant fuck without kissing, its sensual and erotic.

To those who wont i always wonder why its ok to put their cock in my mouth, but not their tongue."

because mouths dont cum????

I was actually thinking about this.. The guys I have fucked or sucked in my life time are we will say triple figures to be nice.. Guys I have kissed.. are much less if you count properly to be honest the only man I have really ever kissed is my Master..

I am not counting pecks, half hearted but I always turned my head away.. and most of my early sexual encounters there was no kissing involved..and I just kinda learnt not to.. I do love kissing my Master... but because I didnt really kiss before..

Actually I remember my very first kiss which kinda happened but didnt as my sister interupted and that was that.. but really.. nope.. it was always straight to neck kissing and I would quickly get to cock sucking.

So its not a new thing to me with swinging..and I do like that I mostly do it with my Master..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if we are clubbing and playing with couples we sometimes kiss but on gang bang meets never do kissing does not fit with the theme of the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing s a must at meets as it sets the scene xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a bit of kissing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

god no!! kissing is between husband and wife unless you are single !! far to intimate. swinging for us is about pure sex!! not long sexy kisses while your other half looks on !! thats what your other half is for !!

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

love kissing, big part of foreplay we think xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"god no!! kissing is between husband and wife unless you are single !! far to intimate. swinging for us is about pure sex!! not long sexy kisses while your other half looks on !! thats what your other half is for !! "

many would say the same about sex though i reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing is a must, no other way for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it interesting how divided we are about this subject? lol, it was a very good question OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

ur just greedy

i prefer 1 on 1's or threesomes cos you do get that 'intimacy' with the other person(s) that is lost in group situations

am not knocking groups though as they can have their horny highpoints too

it's just a different kind of meet

I just have never found the need to kiss.. I am already in the mood..and it doesnt turn me on.. I sometimse do it because it looks good but I have to fancy them in a certain way.. Not every guy I fuck I fancy enough to want to kiss.

Cali sorry what? you dont fancy the guy enuf to kiss him ,,,but youl shag him anyway???

seriously?

so any old random shag will do then ehe?

"
When one is a slut as in my case, then yes, l fuck any cock presented to me. So it's defo all about the shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"god no!! kissing is between husband and wife unless you are single !! far to intimate. swinging for us is about pure sex!! not long sexy kisses while your other half looks on !! thats what your other half is for !!

many would say the same about sex though i reckon"

yet many keep something just for them.. for me its my submission, for others kissing, some its anal, cumming inside anywhere..

for some kissing is needed for sex.. for others its not.. what matters is honesty and finding people that share your preferences.

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"god no!! kissing is between husband and wife unless you are single !! far to intimate. swinging for us is about pure sex!! not long sexy kisses while your other half looks on !! thats what your other half is for !!

many would say the same about sex though i reckon"

Can't understand this intimacy 'scale' thingy.

So kissing someones wife on the fanny lips is O.K but not on the face lips?

Sucking a guys cock is fine but no snogging?

Weird!

XXXX

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

Love a good snog. Can get me going (most of the time).

It has puzzled me as to why people dont like a good snog but will go down on someone.

May be my naiveity but prefer a snog than someone licking me out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it started with a kiss

and always will for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Can't understand this intimacy 'scale' thingy.

So kissing someones wife on the fanny lips is O.K but not on the face lips?

Sucking a guys cock is fine but no snogging?

Weird!

XXXX"

people outside of swinging couldnt understand saying you love someone, then fucking someone else.. its about personal perception..

What is heaven for one is hell for someone else.. kiss or dont.. just be honest with it so that you only meet people on the same wave length.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if the kissing doesn't work, the sex doesn't either. and can I just say, there are rather more people around that can't kiss than there should be!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must . I am a very sensual lady and believe my mouth and tongue are one of my fabulous tools. I would refuse to meet anyone who says they don't kiss. It's not like I'm asking anyone to hit my tonsils withtheir cum. Kissing is normally where we start after the getting drinks and to know you chat. Let the kissing commence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing's great! It's passionate, and you can climb onto his lap as you kiss and start taking clothes off as you straddle him/her...it all starts with a kiss for me

The only thing I wouldnt do is kiss in public, Ive always turned my head at the wrong moment (out of shyness I guess) and ended up with a kiss on my eyelid, or on my chin lol.

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

we always kiss, would seem odd not too, ju loves a good kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect everyone's choice but for me, if there is no kissing there is no point in meeting.

I just find it the sexiest thing to kiss a girl!

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the key that turns the ignition.....

......without it you get get the motor running

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

we had a meet on sunday. I am very much a kisser. Started off kissing my man. Sucking him etc.....the other man just rubbered up and slid in as i was soaked from kissing my man. Even while on top face to face with this man i felt no desire to kiss him and got the feeling from him he was ok with that. His lips never came within a inch of mine. Quite surprised as id never meet anyone (alone) who didnt kiss. Reckon that cos dave was there i didnt need to kiss him (other guy) and tbh spent too much time near screaming or with various cocks in my mouth to be able to kiss much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing and find it a real turn on. The previous quote re key to the ignition is 100% bang on !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we enjoy kissing during private meets and wouldnt want meet anyone who is not interested in....for us kissing is a part of it all ...however, we try to avoid the kissing on the group scenario..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what always makes me laugh is on here most couples would be devastated if they found their partner had kissed another person

outside of swinging most would be relieved it was 'only a kiss'

weird that isnt it?

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