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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was just wondering on others thoughts when you have searched all woman and couples in your area or within 30 miles and either wink or message them and they never reply or just delete your message,As it seems no woman are intrested is it worth the stay???

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

If you're not enjoying the ride its time to get off..

It's meant to be fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

either that or rethink what u write in ur messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them again just to make sure, or consider a longer commute.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I get it's ment to be fun but I don't really get enjoyment out of writing messages to get blanked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no local clubs or socials???...get known,get more meets(possibly)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You probably need to try a club or travel a little further. Can you accommodate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to branch out a little more. Leafing won't get you any meets.

Are you into bushes?

Sorry! Couldn't help it with the innuendos

Swinging and this site is, and can be very hit and miss, especially for single guys.

The qood and quick way is to meet at social events. Networking at a social certainly helps many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey mate. Definitely feel ur pain! I've found fabswingers to be friendlier in most cases than other sites but far less meets than others....strange eh? It's not everyones scene I've found swingers clubs better than all for meeting people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for the advice

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

you get out what you put in and "mailing people" is just one part of that..... it is all part of a bigger picture so to speak...

clubs... if not, why not?

the chat rooms... if not, why not?

Socials... if not, why not?

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

this site seems to all be about the long game, be prepared to play it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I get it's ment to be fun but I don't really get enjoyment out of writing messages to get blanked"

The harsh reality is this will often happen. Standing out isn't easy as many men send similar messages. The best bet is to put more pictures up, change your profile and look at alternative ways of messaging. Just don't post ideas or you will be back to one of many again.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Finding that the socials seem to way forward...

Go to clubs etc...

Broaden your horizons and look past the locals....

Hang in there and see who else might join....

Give in...

Its up to you

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I think your biggest problem is that most couples don't appear to want single males! Well, the ones we perv at don't! Yep, there are loads of single fems on here, but they are outnumbered by the guys many fold...

If it aint fun, either re-write your profile or messages you send out.. If it all fails, get back to the pub on a Saturday night where you will have a lot more luck and quicker too! Way more a sure thing that swinger ladies. Swinger ladies are very particular

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