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By *andy1555 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

Obviously this only applies to guys (singles and part of couples) who are interested in a TV/TS.

Would you be happy just receiving a handjob on a meet? Have not gone ‘all the way’ yet so just trying to gauge reactions if I wanted to take things slowly.

Would you be disappointed/expecting more, even if it was made clear beforehand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, a hand job is a hand job. Better than nowt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would agree with that.

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By *aling69Man
over a year ago

London

not bad for starters but a blow job is more sensual

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think the question can apply equally to any gender/category to be honest and far too much is made at times of going "all the way" or what a meet should consist of - ultimately so long as appropriate expectations are set beforehand and all are agreed, and most importantly everyone walks away smiling then why should it matter what does or doesn't happen.

Personally I prefer a "go with the flow and see what happens" approach and that works perfectly for me regardless of what happens

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

I think as long as that was agreed before hand, not to expect any more than that, there would be no issue. We have definitively had meets where that is all the guy has received, and there was no issues at all.

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I'd enjoy being told that before the meet, I'd have realistic expectation of what's to happen and choose somewhere suitable.

If you changed your mind then that's fine too. Only do what you'll enjoy with me people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pleasure is pleasure x

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I think as long as that was agreed before hand, not to expect any more than that, there would be no issue. We have definitively had meets where that is all the guy has received, and there was no issues at all. "

Sensible approach. I suppose you could describe her as a FB and myself know that the final pay off isn't always going to happen, but if we are both OK with that, what's the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love good hand job sum my hornist meets have consisted of getting wanked off no more but personally I love it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too & I loved it guys xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think as long as that was agreed before hand, not to expect any more than that, there would be no issue. We have definitively had meets where that is all the guy has received, and there was no issues at all. "
Me too loved it... Everytime Horny as...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea they can still be fun. Especially an oiled up hand job!

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By *rgentum DiaboliMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I agree with Mr Cum - a handjob is nice but a lubed up one is much much nicer. Makes it into a treat rather than an afterthought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very happy to receive a handjob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had meets where I've just given them one of my amazing BJs lol. I'm just that nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife only gives Hand jobs on meets after she’s been pleasured a few times. No oral no full sex....no complaints so far!

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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago

Broxbourne

Sounds good to me.

Ive only tried that really myself.

Im good with my hands, so im told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume that nothing is on the cards and that I'm only meeting for a social.

That leaves me open to unexpected snogs or even more as a bonus, particularly on a first meet.

A hand job would be perfectly acceptable on a second meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife only gives Hand jobs on meets after she’s been pleasured a few times. No oral no full sex....no complaints so far!

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth

I’ve never expected anything on a first date so a handjob wouldn’t be turned down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a lady for coffee and recieved an unexpected handjob in her car in Tesco car park.

It felt so nice at the time.. I got carried away and didn't notice until I finished, that there were two poeple in the cars parked in front of us.

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth

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By *ob_nwMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

nothing wrong with just a hand job, could be good for a first meet if thats what was agreed

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By *andy1555 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

Thanks everyone, really helpful. I may give more but all depends how comfortable I feel. Good to know that lots of you wouldn’t feel disappointed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously this only applies to guys (singles and part of couples) who are interested in a TV/TS.

Would you be happy just receiving a handjob on a meet? Have not gone ‘all the way’ yet so just trying to gauge reactions if I wanted to take things slowly.

Would you be disappointed/expecting more, even if it was made clear beforehand?"

I’d be happy if that was clear at the start, happy to help btw I’m near Cambridge and totally into taking things slow! D

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By *DGF20Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Had handjob and blowjob on first meet...why not, if we click

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By *hris I IsMan
over a year ago

Essex

Think I would prefer it tbh ha

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