FabSwingers.com forum: When 'Fab straight ' becomes a problem

By *xpressionist OP Man
over a year ago

ST. ALBANS

Since joining this site, clearly stating I'm Bi I've had a fair few messages from straight men. I've noticed on similar threads that this is not unusual. However, it has caused a problem. I'm unverified, which puts people off, but yet I've had a couple of meets involving sexual activity with these 'straight ' guys. Being unverified I can't verify them yet. I'm probably answering my own question or simply venting my belief, but am I correct in assuming that they won't verify me just in case their wife looks at their couples profile and wonders where and how a man has given their husband such a glowing report? In the meantime I may be lucky to get a meet but it'll count for nothing with those who only meet people with verifications. I know people have a choice etc etc, it's the dishonesty that is the problem. One couple, I.e. the male stated that they wouldn't meet bi guys but messaged me quite graphically for some while! Sorry for the long whinge, just needed to get it off my chest.

By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Why not get picture verify go to club the manager will if you asked or go on cam in chat room there lots of ways just neex to think about it..

By *xpressionist OP Man
over a year ago

ST. ALBANS

"Why not get picture verify go to club the manager will if you asked or go on cam in chat room there lots of ways just neex to think about it.."

I am photo verified, at least that's what it said.

By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Why not get picture verify go to club the manager will if you asked or go on cam in chat room there lots of ways just neex to think about it..

I am photo verified, at least that's what it said. "

Well then there just letting you down gentle..

By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Why not get picture verify go to club the manager will if you asked or go on cam in chat room there lots of ways just neex to think about it..

I am photo verified, at least that's what it said.

Well then there just letting you down gentle.."

Not necessarily ~ some people only meet when people are verified by meeting in person.