FabSwingers.com forum: are you a blocker?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

do you block many people or do you live and let live?

when we open up profile and look for men we always put in profile put 'nik is hot' in subject title.

we reckon 75% dont ,so we block them no matter what they look like.we also say nik only wants athletic men,but we get messages off non athletic men.

also repeat messagers who we are not interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"do you block many people or do you live and let live?

when we open up profile and look for men we always put in profile put 'nik is hot' in subject title.

we reckon 75% dont ,so we block them no matter what they look like.we also say nik only wants athletic men,but we get messages off non athletic men.

also repeat messagers who we are not interested in."

Ah but what if nik aint hot tho? would you then nt be askin peeps to tell lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use to be a serial blocker now we have the advantage of the notes thing we just use that instead xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Block function is great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really use the block thingy to be honest. Much prefer to wind them up abit really and let them block me giving them the satisfaction. In all honesty tho I couldnt really careless as letts face it there is far far more to life than just revolving around this site 247 a day

lol he says after being in forums all feckin week end haha

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Serial blocker here, fed up when folk don't read our profile before messaging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i think she's hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block, specially if they message more than once cos they have forgotten, there are certain things in messages that also make me block....or no pics in message will make me block.If they haven't noticed the heading saying I'm NOT meeting - block

sometimes, they don't even have to message me and I'll still block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have noone at all on my block list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block if delete multiple time and then keep looking at profile for pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do.

If someone has sent any stupid messages or just add themselves we usually do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block peeps whose forums posts I do not like, to prevent them from snipping at me via PMs when I post something not to their liking.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Blocking removes from searches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use to be a serial blocker now we have the advantage of the notes thing we just use that instead xx"
Me too

, the private notes tab is an excellent tool

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By *ush_tushWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

The only time i block is when they've messaged me many times and forgotten - and i tell them im blocking beforehand and its accepted. My BIG pain is when someone gets arsey because I say I'm not interested, i go to block them and the fekkers have already blocked MEA .....grrr makes my blood boil that does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah - you have to REALLY piss me off to get a block off me

actually, just checked and there is 16 on mine - all single males - tho in fairness 3 of them are guys who have secondary profiles who they then used to get thru

am sure there was some couples there too - i guess the must have me blocked too

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i dont see blocking as anything to do with being offended or considering someone rude...i never understand why people do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have only blocked a couple of people for repeating messages when already been told sorry not interested. If we get messages that don't interest us then we just ignore them generally

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

"i dont see blocking as anything to do with being offended or considering someone rude...i never understand why people do

I only block those I consider rude

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

im not, but Em does.

we only have 3 people on it now anyway, and they will never be taken off.

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

i've noticed sometimes it's a case of: who dares first lol.

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By *acciWoman
over a year ago

leeds

I block if i get a nasty message,if i know i wont meet the person or if someone arranges a meet and cancels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine must have at least over 100, just due to the amount of men who simply harass me and choose to ignore my profile.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I've been on this site since 2008 or 2009 whichever it was....... and I have less than a dozen on my blocked list.

I can't be arsed blocking people for this that and the other.

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

We block if it obviouse they have not read profile get sick of being polight at times x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"do you block many people or do you live and let live?

when we open up profile and look for men we always put in profile put 'nik is hot' in subject title.

we reckon 75% dont ,so we block them no matter what they look like.we also say nik only wants athletic men,but we get messages off non athletic men.

also repeat messagers who we are not interested in."

I am a serial blocker...anyone who doesnt use the code I ask them to use.... or dont fit my criteria.....I find it easier to block and delete the message to save any potential abuse....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do what we feel is right at the time for the individual. Sometimes a delete and move on is easiest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only block if they offend me

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

i basically block idiots lol !

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By *nJ_NW_cplCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Have never felt the urge, or had the need, to block anyone,yet xxx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No not serial blockers here.....only have a few on ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block people who can't take no for an answer. block people who are rude. block anyone that is a timewaster.

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We do as we say in our profile, which is to block anyone who adds us as friends without prior contact or if they fit into our 'we're not looking for' list. It gets rid of the annoying people who try to re-add or message you multiple times a week.

We also recently discovered private notes. Fantastic tool!

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By *thyorksCouple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

Yep us too, we block if it's clear they have not read our profile .

Also add a note to there profile so we know why..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do as we say in our profile, which is to block anyone who adds us as friends without prior contact or if they fit into our 'we're not looking for' list. It gets rid of the annoying people who try to re-add or message you multiple times a week.

We also recently discovered private notes. Fantastic tool!"

private notes and the hotlist(even tho i dont find them 'hot' lol

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

If people cant be bothered to read our profile properly we block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ive blocked a few today,i had a obvious copy and paste message again off the same man so blocked him

also not reading profile correctly and asking to be our friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have no one on my block list now did have one person ... see no point as thay can get new names and still mail and look at profiles if thay like ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have started to block more recently that when I started...mainly abusive guys, but occasionally ones that message pretty much weekly and I just have no interest in meeting. I don't take offence at being blocked though, I know some guys use it if they've been turned down to prevent messaging the same people again...plus some will just not be interested in meeting me! Works both ways really...too many people take offence from it, not worth the stress! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only really block people who arrange to meet then don't turn up, anyone that doesn't get the message when I say I am not interested in meeting them, those I feel uncomfortable about either through chatting or having met and anyone abusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block those who do not read profiles , who believe you are there for their benefit, do not take no for an answer and try to push your boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think she's hot

Would look hotter without socks on, let alone odd socks!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have loads on our block list, it is for us the easiest way to remember wo we dont want to contact or be contacted by.

this could be due to having had contact and found they were not for us, or even simply disliking the personality that has come across on the forum or chatroom. We have even blocked people who have made it clear in their profiles that we are not their type. We do not do it as a punishment, just a way to ensure we do not accidently start conversing with them so as not to waste our time or theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If some one is abusive or rude

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By *ridgestockCouple
over a year ago

derby

got 867 on our block list and love every second of it(stamp out the idiots)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a blocker

Block someone who's forum posts I don't like

Has too many spelling mistakes

Singles men who only have pics of them with their cock in some woman's face

Men with no pics

One's who's daily status I don't like

One's who have meet today plea's - every day

One's who mention Sydney university

Depends really on what mood I am in lol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"got 867 on our block list and love every second of it(stamp out the idiots)"

867 - That's more of a book than a list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes we block, no one wants contact with a twat!

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By *utty tartWoman
over a year ago

the house of sin

ive been on site since week 1 of it openin and i have ,2 secs i need open another page to look durrrrr..

omg i have 8 people, n i can remember why i blocked them all... they were ignorant n disrespectfl in chat , n i didnt wanna see there waffling on in there

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

We block people who send us a friends invite without telling us why..or send a generic one..

Or single males who cant muster anything better than 'want to watch me cum' etc in the chatrooms..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We block people who send us a friends invite without telling us why..or send a generic one..

Or single males who cant muster anything better than 'want to watch me cum' etc in the chatrooms.."

can I ask it via the forum then???? hehehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive been on site since week 1 of it openin and i have ,2 secs i need open another page to look durrrrr..

omg i have 8 people, n i can remember why i blocked them all... they were ignorant n disrespectfl in chat , n i didnt wanna see there waffling on in there

they sound good enough reasons to me

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Im not a serial blocker

If I do block its normally because someone has given me the creeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think thay soon get fed up if you dont mail back , lol its better then a block i find x

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

"We block people who send us a friends invite without telling us why..or send a generic one..

Or single males who cant muster anything better than 'want to watch me cum' etc in the chatrooms..

can I ask it via the forum then???? hehehehe"

Tutututututut!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only one on block list so far and thats because he keeps adding me every day, i have my rules on friends list and people dont read profiles, am sure the list will grow because this site seems to be full of nutters, cheaters and real pain in the the asses! however there are a small % that are genuine and looking for decent respectfull fun and its winding those out which takes time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv loads blocked. cant be bothered with nutters that cant or wont read a profile and message me numerous times even though ive been nice and said not interested etc. now just block them.

ive now even put a word to say on my profile and if its not mentioned in messages i dont read the content or see who messaged i just delete. if i recognise name as repeat offender then block it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto here guys, we tell single guys twice in our p

ie to put Creamslut1 as subject title and like you a good 75% don't bother. And also like you, we block, no questions asked. For us the fact they don't oblige us shows they will have absolutely zilch respect for my disabilities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got blocked tonight after sending someone my pic - think the ugly bug must be around!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got blocked tonight after sending someone my pic - think the ugly bug must be around!!! lol

awww sorry i'll unblock you now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last person we blocked sent us a message saying they wanted me to fuck Mrs Artful and come up her so he could lick it out of her.

He wasn't as polite in his message so we blocked him as that's not our thing and also found it distasteful and disrespectful.

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