FabSwingers.com forum: Guys using single ladies just to get n into a club as a couple.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Purely in order to play with other couples and single ladies. Recently experienced this.

Is this common?

Has anyone othwr songle lady had this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Purely in order to play with other couples and single ladies. Recently experienced this.

Is this common?

Has anyone othwr songle lady had this? "

Ps excuae the typos!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

If you find a decent discount code, why not use it?

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Had a guy who messaged us to meet us in the Forest with his " fuck buddy". While chatting to them, found out they had been chatting online. She said she wanted to try doggin, but she dosnt drive. So he'd picked her up and took her. They didn't know each other, let alone were fuck buddies. Hense we dont meet fuckbuddies, or fwb. He was upping his chances, meeting as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone othwr songle lady had this?

Ps excuae the typos! "

I read this in the voice of the policeman from Allo Allo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well let’s face it the desperate will do anything!

I don’t see why men can’t just go on their own and get on with it! Their not 5 years old!

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

What’s the point in not going with a lady, saves standing about wanking

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

I used to go with single guys to clubs.

Many too afraid to go solo, but when a guy insists I pay half when I'm getting in for free solo I won't go with them.

They only want to get in as cheap as possible you're the golden ticket. It's not good enough they are already paying half for most clubs getting in as a couple they want it even cheaper. They usually end up going off on their own anyway. I've not gone to a club with a guy in a very long time. I've given up being nice taking club newbies it's not appreciated and even they are embarrassed to have been seen with me. So don't see why I should bother.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Does the op mean not playing with her.. or that the gent wanted them both to play with other couples ans single ladies as a 3sum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well let’s face it the desperate will do anything!

I don’t see why men can’t just go on their own and get on with it! Their not 5 years old! "

I'm quite happy going on my own but because most clubs prices work as women=free couples=free single guys £100 can't blame a guy going with a woman if he can find one to go with really

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Well let’s face it the desperate will do anything!

I don’t see why men can’t just go on their own and get on with it! Their not 5 years old!

I'm quite happy going on my own but because most clubs prices work as women=free couples=free single guys £100 can't blame a guy going with a woman if he can find one to go with really "
very few clubs are free for single ladies or couples

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Well let’s face it the desperate will do anything!

I don’t see why men can’t just go on their own and get on with it! Their not 5 years old! "

And it means they don’t have to pay stupid amounts at a hairdresser to make themselves look....

Clouds, silver lining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what if its a mutal coupling as genuine fwb that have played together and want to experience playing with couples?

And is the man really using the woman,it could be the other way round. Few ppl I know have club buddies they attend clubs with but not necessarily play together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well let’s face it the desperate will do anything!

I don’t see why men can’t just go on their own and get on with it! Their not 5 years old!

And it means they don’t have to pay stupid amounts at a hairdresser to make themselves look....

Clouds, silver lining."

Job done!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Well let’s face it the desperate will do anything!

I don’t see why men can’t just go on their own and get on with it! Their not 5 years old!

And it means they don’t have to pay stupid amounts at a hairdresser to make themselves look....

Clouds, silver lining.

Job done! "

Smiles

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I may a female at a club and I paid as a single guy; we played together and had a great time.

The club manager said that we could've got in as a couple but it hadn't occured to me at the time.

If I'm meeting someone at a club with the intention to play with them and to play as a couple then I don't see anything wrong with me paying the couples price.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Well let’s face it the desperate will do anything!

I don’t see why men can’t just go on their own and get on with it! Their not 5 years old! "

I've visited clubs with female fb's, not because I was penny-pinching or lacked the balls to go by myself (which I have done several times), but because my friends wanted to go with me, as a couple. I'm taking another of my friends soon, for her first time in a club, as she is scared to go by herself....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Dress as a TV, sure they get discount.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Purely in order to play with other couples and single ladies. Recently experienced this.

Is this common?

Has anyone othwr songle lady had this? "

It happens! Some guys are very honest about it offering a chaperone service, travel often accommodation and to pay for drinks in a win win scenario. If they are straight up about it then I don't see a huge issue as people can decline if they choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a FB that I have been to a club with. Met her on here, had regular fun and one day we talked about going to a club so we went as a couple. I drove and paid for it all, but that is more because that's the way I am if I take a lady out (wherever it should be, even a club!).

I agree there are a lot of men who want to try and get into clubs cheaply, generally because they think it is an easy way to have sex. I dont blame them for trying and there is no harm in doubling up to go but I'd be dubious going with someone I hadn't talked to or met a few times first. After all as a lady you are the one stuck with him for the night if he's a nob!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this a lot, they always say am shy or can you show me the ropes.I just block straight away

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

It astounds me that any man would, having been given the privilege of taking a woman to a club as a couple ,then behave like a single man once inside. Was the point just to save money?. There is so much more fun to be had as a couple.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Purely in order to play with other couples and single ladies. Recently experienced this.

Is this common?

Has anyone othwr songle lady had this? "

I guess it depends on expectations. Married couples who play alone would attend with this expectation.

I guess if your expectation was to play as a couple with other couples then fair enough.

The difficulty is that consent can be offered before attending, but withdrawn at anytime by either party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few club buddies. Some I play with and some we just go our separate ways. I've made some wonderful friends on the scene, they know they are safe with me and I'll have their back. So why not pay as a couple instead of a single guy?

Makes sense to us.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I have a few club buddies. Some I play with and some we just go our separate ways. I've made some wonderful friends on the scene, they know they are safe with me and I'll have their back. So why not pay as a couple instead of a single guy?

Makes sense to us."

Us? Schizophrenia.

Every time we met there was only one of you..... something we need to know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I suppose fab better get a mini bus for the wafes & strays and take them to a club! Then everyone will be happy! :-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes sense to us.

Us? Schizophrenia.

Every time we met there was only one of you..... something we need to know?"

Lol .. I've not seen you for ages. You need to keep up x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Makes sense to us.

Us? Schizophrenia.

Every time we met there was only one of you..... something we need to know?

Lol .. I've not seen you for ages. You need to keep up x

Keeping up isn’t the problem.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Dress as a TV, sure they get discount."

Certain club nights yes we do, especially for Bi Nights. However there's often clubs that put out nights in which we are excluded or not within the advert for admission prices. I feel on these nights I'm not welcome. That's why I generally have three clubs that I know actively encourage our attendance and I know other Tgirls will be around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m setting up a kik group, for those people that visit ABFABS regularly and those that do not but are thinking about it.

Purpose:

1)arrange a social meet at abfabs. This won’t be for long. Maybe 1hr to let people get to know each other. I understand everyone would want to play have fun at some point in the night

2) get to know people going to the club beforehand. Sometimes it’s nice to have someone you’ve been getting to know beforehand, and then to finally meet at the club. Can be daunting for some people to begin conversations out of the blue at the club.

3) share club experiences, and give each other advice about visiting clubs etc.

4) just a place for like minded people to chat and socialise.

5) I think it will be a great way to make friends in the scene!

Only going to have a selected few single males that go to abfabs. The rest of the kik group members will be couples and ladies that visit

If interested drop me a message !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes sense to us.

Us? Schizophrenia.

Every time we met there was only one of you..... something we need to know?

Lol .. I've not seen you for ages. You need to keep up x

Keeping up isn’t the problem."

Oh I know .. Lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Dress as a TV, sure they get discount.

Great chat to those that complain about pricing.

There is always a way!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I will only go to clubs with a guy I know and who I want to experience the night with for exactly this reason. I'm not someone's golden ticket in and don't see the point in two singles coupling up only to go their separate ways. Why not go on your own in the first place then?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I will only go to clubs with a guy I know and who I want to experience the night with for exactly this reason. I'm not someone's golden ticket in and don't see the point in two singles coupling up only to go their separate ways. Why not go on your own in the first place then?"

Should always be conditioners

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Dress as a TV, sure they get discount.

I'm fairly sure every club has nights/events where single males aren't welcome either, so don't feel special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to with a very good friend. As long as both are in the loop, then i see no harm.

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It think it can be beneficial financially and also for singles nervous about attending clubs as a single,

However I think you need to be careful as a single woman and perhaps have some knowledge of the person you intend to go with!

We know a lady from this site that chatting to a guy who asked her to attend a club with him as it was a couples night and offered to pick her up and take her and pay for any expenses during the evening,

and as soon as they got into the club he ditched her,

By the end of the evening he was nowhere to be found

But fortunately the club management took pity on her and paid for her taxi home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to with a very good friend. As long as both are in the loop, then i see no harm.

Holly"

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

If everyone had to go as male and female, imagine the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Conversely there are plenty of ladies out there using guys to get lifts etc to clubs and then ditching them when they arrive, on top of that we’ve not discussed the club female groupie who uses her charm to entice single guys and couples to attend a particular club, both of these are far more of a problem than single guys using ladies to get into clubs

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Or a female (dress for sex) try to go in as a man...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Conversely there are plenty of ladies out there using guys to get lifts etc to clubs and then ditching them when they arrive, on top of that we’ve not discussed the club female groupie who uses her charm to entice single guys and couples to attend a particular club, both of these are far more of a problem than single guys

using ladies to get into clubs "
good point lol!

Im only going by the lady I know and her experience,

I have no idea how often this sort of thing can happen but I'm sure there are also women willing to take advantage of men like you say!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Yeah these people are pretty shit too.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

What do those guys lose? They use the exact same amount of petrol as they would without the lady in their car. They pay less as well. So what is the problem?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

What do those guys lose? They use the exact same amount of petrol as they would without the lady in their car. They pay less as well. So what is the problem?"

But someone else sails in for free on their coat tails, taking advantage of the fact they want to get in at a cheaper price. More fool them of course, and different if it’s friends who pay their way at other times. But jack - in my view. Other opinions are available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get this a lot, they always say am shy or can you show me the ropes.I just block straight away"

That is how I feel. It was everyone's first time once.

I guess you felt the same too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not saying this to try and avoid paying, because I wouldn't expect the lady to pay. Its how I am.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Not saying this to try and avoid paying, because I wouldn't expect the lady to pay. Its how I am. "

Which is when you arrange to chat to people who are going. Or go with a friend. Definitely not someone you’re just asking to help you get in. Your situation is fair and understandable.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I like to help people.

Suppose it is the difference between feeling used, negatively or being positive, hey let’s have fun.

Just me.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"I like to help people.

Suppose it is the difference between feeling used, negatively or being positive, hey let’s have fun.

Just me."

Definitely that’s nice attitude. And for friends, sure. But you have to share a locker with that person. You’re associated with them. If they’re a dick, they’re your dick for the night.

I had one guy I’d met previously who attended an event with me who tried to arrange a threesome. In my hotel room. Without me. That’s not someone who merits my help.

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By *rustratedmissWoman
over a year ago

York

To be fair if I'm going with someone and we play together as well as apart then I have no problem whatsoever going as a couple. That said, I much prefer nights that include single men anyway.

My most recent visit, I went with a friend and we agreed we'd also leave together but also that we were both free to do whatever we wanted. We went in as two singles which was appropriate. As it was be got to play and I just sat chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go on my own no problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do those guys lose? They use the exact same amount of petrol as they would without the lady in their car. They pay less as well. So what is the problem?"

There dignity? And if you condone someone cadging a lift then dumping the driver once they get there. That’s awful and a really poor attitude, systematic if what’s going on x

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