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Met a girl on this site think she is the one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwwww

https://youtu.be/4m1EFMoRFvY

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

And if she sees this and doesnt feel the same then you've just completely scared her off. Things like this should be internalised

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By *uckfunCouple
over a year ago

North Coast

Oh my!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Do I need to buy a hat?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well weve met a few tines and weve chatted every day since we 1st met think she is my girl

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

This can be answered in two ways.

1. Congratulations

2. Oh dear

Either way good luck

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

One what?

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Well weve met a few tines and weve chatted every day since we 1st met think she is my girl "
Good luck , hope everything works out for you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for comments but i know she is my girl folk meet on pof or tinder we met on fab no big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if she sees this and doesnt feel the same then you've just completely scared her off. Things like this should be internalised"

Awkward!

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London


"Thanks for comments but i know she is my girl folk meet on pof or tinder we met on fab no big deal "

Sure you are not stalking her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why will i be stalking her

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"Thanks for comments but i know she is my girl folk meet on pof or tinder we met on fab no big deal "

You need to stop saying 'my girl', you dont appear to be an item yet and it's also possessive sounding. As I said, if the feelings you're saying are reciprocated then all well and good, but if they're not, I know if I was in her shoes, I'd be running a mile

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

some one once said to me . When you have found "the one" then stop looking. I think that was good advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for comments but i know she is my girl folk meet on pof or tinder we met on fab no big deal "

They are dating site.. this is a swingers site.. bit of a difference

Are yous going to be swingers? Would you be happy watching her fuck another guy?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Im happy "

Congratulations xxx

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By *uckfunCouple
over a year ago

North Coast


"Thanks for comments but i know she is my girl folk meet on pof or tinder we met on fab no big deal

They are dating site.. this is a swingers site.. bit of a difference

Are yous going to be swingers? Would you be happy watching her fuck another guy?"

Does she know you’re an item?

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By *uckfunCouple
over a year ago

North Coast

Is she the person who is your verification?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

That's nice, I hope it works out for you. If not it's going to be a bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why the silly comments i only posted because im happy meeting her tonight again

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Why the silly comments i only posted because im happy meeting her tonight again "

Hope it works out for you.

I think the reason people are commenting stuff is because you may not have worded it the best way, it does kind of sound like you've met her a few times, talked to her alot and just decided she's yours without her input.

I honestly do hope it works out for you.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Why the silly comments i only posted because im happy meeting her tonight again "

Mine isn't silly.

Have a nice time tonight!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Hope it all works for you

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you pal I hope it all works out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if she sees this and doesnt feel the same then you've just completely scared her off. Things like this should be internalised"

That's a learned behaviour! I definitely internalize these things like you said but I think it's so lovely when people feel able and comfortable to communicate their happiness and love

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By *uckfunCouple
over a year ago

North Coast

Have a great time, take it easy and don’t be clingy, she may not feel the same, as said before this is a swinger site not a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just relax and have fun. We met on here as a casual thing before realising we had both fallen for each other! It can happen

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Have a great time, take it easy and don’t be clingy, she may not feel the same, as said before this is a swinger site not a dating site."

This site can be anything you want it to be.

For many it’s a place to form relationships.

It’s actually rather lovely to hear when 2 people hook up and connections are made, and its nobody’s business if or how they continue to use this site.

V x

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck ??

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By *agenta400Woman
over a year ago

All over the shop


"Im happy "

Aaaaawww. You lucky people. Enjoy. I wish you both all the love in world.

Xxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's good for you m8 .remember that this is more a shagging site rather than a dating site x my theory is that you should never let your feelings bother you on here x it's really just a game x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's good for you m8 .remember that this is more a shagging site rather than a dating site x my theory is that you should never let your feelings bother you on here x it's really just a game x"

I disagree although obviously everyone uses the site differently. I think if you meet someone on here who is into the same things you are and there's a connection why shouldn't it become something more?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wanna know did you fall for her before or after you got laid asking for a friend.

Hope it work out for you though

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"That's good for you m8 .remember that this is more a shagging site rather than a dating site x my theory is that you should never let your feelings bother you on here x it's really just a game x

I disagree although obviously everyone uses the site differently. I think if you meet someone on here who is into the same things you are and there's a connection why shouldn't it become something more?!"

Exactly this, We had a meet & now have a girlfriend. Infrequent as she travels some distance to stay for a few days but pretty much what we were originally looking for when we joined a couple of years back.

S

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By *ix-foot-two-stuMan
over a year ago

Coventry

So long as you both communicate, are open about your feelings and goals, and want the same thing (which may or may not include sexual monogamy going forward) then I don’t think anyone should dismiss Fab as a place to meet a life partner.

If swinging is something that’s important in a committed relationship then I think Fab is preferable to the mainstream dating sites.

And despite what Obiwan says, emotions are largely uncontrollable in my opinion. It’s how you act on them which counts.

I get what’s made you post here. You’re excited about your feelings and you want to share. It’s a lovely moment. I hope it works out for you.

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By *uckfunCouple
over a year ago

North Coast


"That's good for you m8 .remember that this is more a shagging site rather than a dating site x my theory is that you should never let your feelings bother you on here x it's really just a game x

I disagree although obviously everyone uses the site differently. I think if you meet someone on here who is into the same things you are and there's a connection why shouldn't it become something more?!

Exactly this, We had a meet & now have a girlfriend. Infrequent as she travels some distance to stay for a few days but pretty much what we were originally looking for when we joined a couple of years back.

S"

Is she ‘the one’?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think she is the one we 1st met over a month ago weve fallen for each other

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Fingers crossed it works out for you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's great, OP, things like that do happen on here. I met my soulmate here, when I least expected. Just one piece of advice: make sure you are both on the same page regarding what you want and how you'd like to proceed. Communication is key in any relationship. And good luck, enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think she is the one we 1st met over a month ago weve fallen for each other "

I hope it works out for you both!

However I do think it’s best to keep it to yourself for now, incase she sees this and doesn’t like it, or she may well love it.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"That's good for you m8 .remember that this is more a shagging site rather than a dating site x my theory is that you should never let your feelings bother you on here x it's really just a game x

I disagree although obviously everyone uses the site differently. I think if you meet someone on here who is into the same things you are and there's a connection why shouldn't it become something more?!

Exactly this, We had a meet & now have a girlfriend. Infrequent as she travels some distance to stay for a few days but pretty much what we were originally looking for when we joined a couple of years back.

S

Is she ‘the one’?"

Early days yet but she's here for four days next visit & all that we wanted per the profile we have, as well as her being happy with the more mundane stuff of life that still needs to continue.

S

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Oakhill

Is she into BDSM, as you look like an interrogator.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am hopeless romantic, so I hope it all works out for you both.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Hope all works out OP. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's good for you m8 .remember that this is more a shagging site rather than a dating site x my theory is that you should never let your feelings bother you on here x it's really just a game x"

A game?

Dude unless you're a rock with zero about ya then unfortunately (or fortunately like us - we met via fab) feelings can slap ya up the face.

There's more to feelings than falling for someone, there are friendships to be formed where you genuinely care for one another too.

I think your post is quite ruthless and cold. That saddens me a little, people are people not pawns in a game.

Good luck OP, I hope all works out and you remain on cloud 9

P

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