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personality or looks ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

for my wife its personality.

for me its looks. am I shallow ?

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

It's how you are. Nothing to do with being shallow or not. You know what you like so go with it.

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

For me its personality to start but you have to be attracted to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my youth it was looks - now most certainly personality. Ages changes your priorities!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for my wife its personality.

for me its looks. am I shallow ?"

Depends what you’re looking for, if it’s purely physical then we all have our preferences, however if you have based all your relationships on look alone I think you’ve probably missed out somewhere along the line.

I personally don’t feel like I am really attracted to someone without connecting with their personality first.

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We find looks are what we go for. They must have a decent personality too, but this is fantasy fulfilment for us, we fantasise about people we find hot. They could have a great personality but if we aren't attracted then nothing going to happen.

I don't think it's shallow tbh - and 95% of the interest our profile gets is NOT because people think the Mrs has a nice personality lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks you can't fuck a personality after all.

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area


"Looks you can't fuck a personality after all."

Oh, you so can fuck a personality and an imagination!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must to be both. Great personality without physical attraction can only give a friend material. Physical attraction with shite personality is just extremely off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st of for me (MsC) is looks ive got to be physically attracted to a guy

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Looks may attract me initially, but it's the personality that will keep my interest

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I always thought it was looks for me but I've played with people that have not been my 'type' as such in clubs because their personality made them attractive to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think first instinct will always be looks. But personality will always win or loose any future plans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks attract me.. personality keeps me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has it be both for me.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Why do you care what others think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks attract me.. personality keeps me"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some great answers. I think if it's a one night thing, looks are more important. but longer term, they have to have a good personality to match.

my wife would go for charisma over looks every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality foe me I find a confident woman very attractive..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some great answers. I think if it's a one night thing, looks are more important. but longer term, they have to have a good personality to match.

my wife would go for charisma over looks every time.

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Has to be this.. when we find people on here its looks that are important, but sometimes ppl take bad photos, we've then seen them at clubs and ended up playing cause we love their personalities, and they actually aren't bad looking too.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Personality, there still needs to be an attraction.

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By *ames in LaoisMan
over a year ago

portloaise

It's both for me. But sexiness for me is more connected to personality. Sexiness is about attitude, openness, a bit of humour and spark.

I've slept with women that physically would tick every box but when it came down to it were seriously lacking in the other areas above and left everything feeling a little flat.

I find I can connect with a personality but less so with physical looks. And it's the connection that makes the sex.

And I also feel that sexy people look more attractive ultimately. It's all in the eye of the beholder as they say

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By *razoMan
over a year ago

Kent

It’s got to be a mix of both for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are important.

I don’t want someone I’m not physically attracted to.

I also don’t want someone who doesn’t have a nice engaging personality.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

If personality ticks our boxes we’re hooked, it’s about fun for us and hopefully them to

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Personality is always a winner for me....but you still need so form of physical attraction at least!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks, initially... I have to find them attractive... Good looks are no good with a crap personality though

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"Looks attract me.. personality keeps me"

This

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