FabSwingers.com forum: First Message. Honest guy asking.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What kind of Message really catches a ladies eye? What's a good icebreaker? I am struggling but very talkative when I get over the initial first message.

By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

There's no magic formula but there's a few frequent no nos for a first message.

No cock pics.

No sex talk.

No copy paste messages.

Read the profile a couple of times before you message, make sure you really do have a few things in common.

Mention the common interests, be polite, humerous if that's your style, sincere.

Include a face pic if it's asked for or not.

Once sent, forget it and delete your sent message folder.

Be patient.

Be hopeful.