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Sexy friends you don’t play with?

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By *ockdownnofun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hiding all away

Do any of you have friends who you share sexy stuff with but don’t actually play with?

We did until recently and miss it a lot. We met a couple at a (vanilla) party and got on well. Long story short - after we’d met socially a few times, we organised a visit to Xtasia (we’re members, they’d never been to a club). We had a great night and really enjoyed same room sex but didn’t swap.

We chatted and swapped some pics and videos over Kik after that and then they just disappeared. She resurfaced recently and we found out they’d split up. She’s got a new man who isn’t into this world at all and now we just chat vanilla stuff and have been acting like the club didn’t happen (which is fine - she’s a lovely person).

I miss having the ‘sexy friends’ thing though - does anybody else find pics/videos/same room stuff more erotic when it’s people you met in ‘normal’ life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a gay friend that I've known from school that I found out was on here, we share funny stories not sexy one though...

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By *ockdownnofun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hiding all away

Ooh, a Fab recognition!

I’ve only found one other couple I recognise from real life on this site. We actually know them quite well, too. I blocked them instantly because although she is really nice (and we were good friends when she was single), her boyfriend is an awful person. I haven’t even told my wife because if there was a chance they’d seen us first and he had perved on our pics, she’d be sick!

Did find a ex-colleague on another site, with full face pics on public display! That one was a definite instant block, for several reasons...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it came up in conversation...but someone did recognise me which was super awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooh, a Fab recognition!

I’ve only found one other couple I recognise from real life on this site. We actually know them quite well, too. I blocked them instantly because although she is really nice (and we were good friends when she was single), her boyfriend is an awful person. I haven’t even told my wife because if there was a chance they’d seen us first and he had perved on our pics, she’d be sick!

Did find a ex-colleague on another site, with full face pics on public display! That one was a definite instant block, for several reasons... "

But won’t your wife see this post?

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By *ockdownnofun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hiding all away

It’s unlikely - we used to both be on here a lot with our old account, but she got bored of Fab months ago so just lets me get on with the account now. I let her know if we get messages etc. but I’m not here much anymore either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met in a Kik swingers chat group and have quite a few friends like this that we're still in the same chat group with. Never played with any of them, but they're a great bunch of people that we speak to on a daily basis

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By *reenlanerCouple
over a year ago

bournemouth

We have friends into the lifestyle we share nude beach visit

Hot tub nights but we never play with them they are great friends and we want to keep it that way

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Most of my friends (male or female) at some point in time I've had sex with but my relationship with them is mainly non-sexual. In other words we may have slept together days, months or years ago but at present meet socially and chit chat quite openly and freely about sexual and non sexual stuff. Work related friends are different, the relationship is pure vanilla and quite boring.

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By *ockdownnofun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hiding all away


"We have friends into the lifestyle we share nude beach visit

Hot tub nights but we never play with them they are great friends and we want to keep it that way"

Yeah, totally understand. We know a couple who have at least dipped their toes into the lifestyle and are quite open about things, but we’ve decided to not mention to them (they don’t seem to be on here, thankfully). It’s weird, but because we knew them way before we ever talked about doing this, we’d rather they stayed fully vanilla friends and didn’t know we do the clubs...

We’ve shared a naked hot tub with other friends when we had all had a few, but they aren’t into this at all and we weren’t at the time - no sex happened until we got back to our separate rooms, it was just stupid fun. Might have been a gateway though, to be honest - we’d never been naked together in front of other adults before that but didn’t find it awkward at all.

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By *ockdownnofun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hiding all away


"Most of my friends (male or female) at some point in time I've had sex with but my relationship with them is mainly non-sexual. In other words we may have slept together days, months or years ago but at present meet socially and chit chat quite openly and freely about sexual and non sexual stuff. Work related friends are different, the relationship is pure vanilla and quite boring."

That’s fair enough - my best mate has this kind of life and I respect it completely. Hope you have a great time.

We’re at the ‘married a while, children and ever-decreasing social circle’ stage... also, we do know a couple who have taken steps into the lifestyle but because we’ve known them for ages (and they’re part of a larger friendship group who giggle about them a bit), we want to keep our dabblings secret from them.

There’s no pleasing us, essentially

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks

I'm kind of there now. I'm only on Fab cos my close friend suggested it! (one of his male friends is a Fabber) he even helped me set up the account and photographed my bra clad boobs for my original profile pic!

We're both recently divorced but the friendship predates that by a lot. It would be weird for us to play! But he was super curious about my trip to a club, and I think he's gonna come with me to try it out. We've agreed that we can cope with seeing each other naked, but we ain't gonna play together. I'm looking forward to it! Our naughty secret!

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By *n080971Man
over a year ago

Billericay

I get the 6.05 from Liverpool St home with a woman who used to be on fab and is now a “real life” friend, we have some truly outrageous and filthy conversations. We were once overhead and the guy opposite said “ I’d like to go to one of your parties “ .

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