FabSwingers.com forum: Turn offs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey

We are fairly new to the forums (couple of weeks or so) and only our second post. So please do forgive us if this thread has been started before.

But we see a lot of threads on turn ons and the things we like, Just interested in what everybody's thing that automatically turns you off is ?

Think we all have something if not several things that are a huge “Oh hell no”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our turn offs are...

1. Poor grammar/text speak

2. Messages that just say "hi"

Let's at least make some effort here...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Our turn offs are...

1. Poor grammar/text speak

2. Messages that just say "hi"

Let's at least make some effort here..."

Instantly checks our grammar and hides in corner

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Our turn offs are...

1. Poor grammar/text speak

2. Messages that just say "hi"

Let's at least make some effort here...

Instantly checks our grammar and hides in corner

But totally agree with you on the text speak and the stupid one lined messages

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

For us

1. Arrogance

2. Bad hygiene

3. Dirty chat before we have even spoken

4. 150 cock pics in all different angles

5. Submissive men

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For us

1. Arrogance

2. Bad hygiene

3. Dirty chat before we have even spoken

4. 150 cock pics in all different angles

5. Submissive men

Mrs"

Well that’s 5 points I can’t argue with at all

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

People who think they are fantastic... hold the phone ?!nobody is fantastic ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People who think they are fantastic... hold the phone ?!nobody is fantastic ok

Again totally agree

This post might show me that myself and Mr are more fussy than we thought lol

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"People who think they are fantastic... hold the phone ?!nobody is fantastic ok

Again totally agree

This post might show me that myself and Mr are more fussy than we thought lol

I like your honesty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People who think they are fantastic... hold the phone ?!nobody is fantastic ok

Again totally agree

This post might show me that myself and Mr are more fussy than we thought lol

I like your honesty

Hey it’s our honesty that gets us in trouble sometimes, And that’s not always a bad thing

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Demanding people, whether near instant meets, irrespective of having discussed much - if anything at all, or for their peculiar needs to only be satisfied, etc.

Profile pics that mostly contain other people's bodies, rather than themselves

Profile pics that are like 2nd hand micro jigsaw puzzle pieces from a charity shop, that would need you to assemble them in your imagination - filling in the body parts that got missed, as many pieces are missing. (intentionally omitted?). Again, this is thoughtless, assuming you'd meet someone who you've no clue how they look and if you even find them attractive)

Very messy/dirty home photo backgrounds

Profiles with fill in later, type content

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"People who think they are fantastic... hold the phone ?!nobody is fantastic ok

Again totally agree

This post might show me that myself and Mr are more fussy than we thought lol

I like your honesty

Hey it’s our honesty that gets us in trouble sometimes, And that’s not always a bad thing

Bend over and let me kiss you

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Our turn offs are...

1. Poor grammar/text speak

2. Messages that just say "hi"

Let's at least make some effort here..."

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

1) Hows U or Hows you, really hate this.

2) Guys that contact me and address me as sir or master often attaching pictures of themselves wearing bondage gear. My profile states 'Strictly Vanilla'

3) Guys who think they are the exception to the rule.

4) Text speak, this is fine between friends and close relations but in a situation where it's someone you don't know, trying to chat you up, it shows a real lack of effort.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Forgot to add

5) Drug using, legal or illegal.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Pictures with a woman holding her vagina open

Pictures after a guy has cum and it's in his stomach

The incorrectly spelt messages in text speak 'u meetin' 'ur fit' etc...

Just endless cock pictures on a profile

No full stops after a sentence

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Agree with everything so far. As far as mentioning grammar I think you're quite brave as, whenever I've (Mrs) touched on that subject before I get annihilated!

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

People with excessively high opinions of themselves. People who post up massive lists of dislikes but don't seem to like anything. People who constantly post about how boring the site is or that they need entertainment so you message them and they ignore the message.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Agree with everything so far. As far as mentioning grammar I think you're quite brave as, whenever I've (Mrs) touched on that subject before I get annihilated! "

it's my own grammar, I haven't left any full stops.

I have no issues with others

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By *amRod64Man
over a year ago

Gravesend

Open pussy shots with cum....yuk

Poor hygiene

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Agree with everything so far. As far as mentioning grammar I think you're quite brave as, whenever I've (Mrs) touched on that subject before I get annihilated!

it's my own grammar, I haven't left any full stops.

I have no issues with others

Lol x

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Singal Male, hey want to suck this? And cock photo.

Well no not really I'm a man and not into sucking cock. This is a couples profile so there are two of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lists of demands but nothing about themselves or what they offer as a person. Sense of entitlement. Poor hygiene.

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By *unscot44Man
over a year ago

Stepps (Glasgow)

instant turn off's for me are arrogance, rudeness for no reason, bad hygiene and lack of a sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Webbed feet

Cock eyes

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By *nsure2018Couple
over a year ago

BASINGSTOKE

1000's of verifications as if they are here to fuck the whole site

People who send friend requests without reading your profile just to see our friend only pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Singal Male, hey want to suck this? And cock photo.

Well no not really I'm a man and not into sucking cock. This is a couples profile so there are two of us. "

We get this crap daily

They normally get a sarcastic reply and then get blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our turn offs include.

1. People who think you want to play with them, just because you say hello.

2. People who treat others disrespectfully. This can include being disrespectful to us or when we witness it happening to other people.

3. Self righteous people.

4. People who clearly love themselves more than they could ever love another...

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Anything covered in cum, especially when it looks lumpy.

Dribbling cocks.

Gaping holes.

Dirty or untidy backgrounds.

Arrogance.

Ignorance.

Lack of humour.

Forum ‘white knights’ who change their views to suit the person they’re trying to impress.

Drug users, particularly those who boast about it.

Dirty fingernails.

Long fingernails on men.

People who call themselves sexy, hot etc. (They rarely are!).

Usernames along the lines of cumdump, pusdydestroyer etc.

Seems I’m quite hard to please...

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Our turn offs include.

1. People who think you want to play with them, just because you say hello.

2. People who treat others disrespectfully. This can include being disrespectful to us or when we witness it happening to other people.

3. Self righteous people.

4. People who clearly love themselves more than they could ever love another..."

All spot on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anything covered in cum, especially when it looks lumpy.

Dribbling cocks.

Gaping holes.

Dirty or untidy backgrounds.

Arrogance.

Ignorance.

Lack of humour.

Forum ‘white knights’ who change their views to suit the person they’re trying to impress.

Drug users, particularly those who boast about it.

Dirty fingernails.

Long fingernails on men.

People who call themselves sexy, hot etc. (They rarely are!).

Usernames along the lines of cumdump, pusdydestroyer etc.

Seems I’m quite hard to please...

Lou x "

Oh the user names are a big turn off for me

Why would I let a man near Mrs called PussyDestroyer etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything covered in cum, especially when it looks lumpy.

Dribbling cocks.

Gaping holes.

Dirty or untidy backgrounds.

Arrogance.

Ignorance.

Lack of humour.

Forum ‘white knights’ who change their views to suit the person they’re trying to impress.

Drug users, particularly those who boast about it.

Dirty fingernails.

Long fingernails on men.

People who call themselves sexy, hot etc. (They rarely are!).

Usernames along the lines of cumdump, pusdydestroyer etc.

Seems I’m quite hard to please...

Lou x "
This

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By *ockdownnofunCouple
over a year ago

Hiding all away

Agree 100% with poor grammar/messages that read like they were written by a child.

A big one for me is anything that mentions “daddy”. I’m open minded, but some things are just plain wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey

We are fairly new to the forums (couple of weeks or so) and only our second post. So please do forgive us if this thread has been started before.

But we see a lot of threads on turn ons and the things we like, Just interested in what everybody's thing that automatically turns you off is ?

Think we all have something if not several things that are a huge “Oh hell no”

"
feet anything about feet even as a measurement

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Ranty/aggressive profiles.

Poor grammar.

One way conversations.

Just to list a few.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey

We are fairly new to the forums (couple of weeks or so) and only our second post. So please do forgive us if this thread has been started before.

But we see a lot of threads on turn ons and the things we like, Just interested in what everybody's thing that automatically turns you off is ?

Think we all have something if not several things that are a huge “Oh hell no”

feet anything about feet even as a measurement

I must say I never seen the fascination with feet but not a turn off for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

One of ours is profiles that say safe sex only and their pictures are full of unprotected sex pictures with different men/women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of manners or teeth

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lack of manners or teeth

Manners are a must have

And teeth are you talking bad teeth or too much teeth during a blowjob ? I’m thinking both lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lack of manners or teeth

Manners are a must have

And teeth are you talking bad teeth or too much teeth during a blowjob ? I’m thinking both lol

Yh bad teeth, but now you’ve mentioned it, the latter also. That can be forgive tho

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By *aughtyNipplesWoman
over a year ago

newport, shrops

Absolutely

to a lot of the above....

Spelling/grammar

Agressive comments (inc passive/aggressive ones) when I don't reply

Harassment and back to back messages when I delete

Messy backgrounds...I inspect the pics looking for clues of relationships if they state single (make up, dressing robes, female shopping bags)

Dirty/long nails...seen some right scratters on here...then they usually state good hygiene or that they expect it from a potential meet! WTF

This is actually probably my biggest turn off...EVER!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely

to a lot of the above....

Spelling/grammar

Agressive comments (inc passive/aggressive ones) when I don't reply

Harassment and back to back messages when I delete

Messy backgrounds...I inspect the pics looking for clues of relationships if they state single (make up, dressing robes, female shopping bags)

Dirty/long nails...seen some right scratters on here...then they usually state good hygiene or that they expect it from a potential meet! WTF

This is actually probably my biggest turn off...EVER!

Agree and like your detective work

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

We said this before..but..

Poor quality pics

Tied boobs until they go blue..

Words written on bodies

Chipped nail varnish.

Fussy ain't we

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We said this before..but..

Poor quality pics

Tied boobs until they go blue..

Words written on bodies

Chipped nail varnish.

Fussy ain't we"

Agree apart from words written on bodies this is actually a turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text speak.

People who want too see your pics but have none whatsoever on their own profile.

Or people who are looking to meet during the daytime and when you tell them you can't because you are working, they say can you not take the day off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Text speak.

People who want too see your pics but have none whatsoever on their own profile.

Or people who are looking to meet during the daytime and when you tell them you can't because you are working, they say can you not take the day off

Plus

For me anyway, pierced vaginas/Cocks.

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By *verReadyGirthMan
over a year ago

city centre

Eyepatches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Bareback pics on single profiles

2. Mmmmmmmm messages

3. Massively long messages about how I'm going to get my pussy destroyed

4. Arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly any exceptions to the turn offs mentioned so far. We have so much in common!

(Bravo to the man who said "webbed feet & cock eyes"... best laugh I've had today!)

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Just pics of ladies on couples profiles

Really graphic messages from people you have never spoken to.

Calling me hun/babe/nawty etc

Not reading my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey

We are fairly new to the forums (couple of weeks or so) and only our second post. So please do forgive us if this thread has been started before.

But we see a lot of threads on turn ons and the things we like, Just interested in what everybody's thing that automatically turns you off is ?

Think we all have something if not several things that are a huge “Oh hell no”

feet anything about feet even as a measurement

I must say I never seen the fascination with feet but not a turn off for us

"
smelly cheesy feet aren't a turn off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I'd try my luck.

Hi.

Hows you.

Any message with any combination of the above.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Stupid males who can’t string along a intro, without there penis in there hand, why it’s never going to happen for the poor deluded creatures

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Rude people ...Arrogant people ...Spelling police ...Poor hygiene....Budgie smugglers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sycophants, those who try too hard and petulance just switch me off dead.

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth

"Our turn offs are...

1. Poor grammar/text speak

2. Messages that just say "hi"

Let's at least make some effort here..."

Not just me with grammar issues then ?

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"We said this before..but..

Poor quality pics

Tied boobs until they go blue..

Words written on bodies

Chipped nail varnish.

Fussy ain't we"

Oh yes tied up blue boobs! Yuk x

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

In addition to the above:

Men who think they are owed sex by women because they have registered on this site or because they have paid for a supporter pass. I have even heard from one who thought I owed him sex because he was a verified user! I kid you not.

Men who think they need to talk to a woman in a crass manner because "this is a swinging site".

Men who send the same message to 100 women on the same day but do not understand the reply.

"I am not quite what you seek, but..."

Men who try to impress a woman by the size of their penis or the amount of sperm it produces.

Men who think all women are submissive.

Men who treat women like unpaid prostitutes and who tell everyone they will go to a paid one if they do not "get a meet".

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Can I touch

You fancy five minutes in sauna before I go

Sitting so you can’t move

Judging with other men

Walking in a room to one say I’m going first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In addition to the above:

Men who think they need to talk to a woman in a crass manner because "this is a swinging site".

Men who send the same message to 100 women on the same day but do not understand the reply.

"I am not quite what you seek, but..."

Men who try to impress a woman by the size of their penis or the amount of sperm it produces.

Men who think all women are submissive.

Men who treat women like unpaid prostitutes and who tell everyone they will go to a paid one if they do not "get a meet"."
spot on this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"1. Bareback pics on single profiles

2. Mmmmmmmm messages

3. Massively long messages about how I'm going to get my pussy destroyed

4. Arrogance

“Massively long messages about how I'm going to get my pussy destroyed” if they do this you are pretty much certain that the sex will be shit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I touch

You fancy five minutes in sauna before I go

Sitting so you can’t move

Judging with other men

Walking in a room to one say I’m going first "

Think you just put us off ever visiting a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In addition to the above:

Men who think they need to talk to a woman in a crass manner because "this is a swinging site".

Men who send the same message to 100 women on the same day but do not understand the reply.

"I am not quite what you seek, but..."

Men who try to impress a woman by the size of their penis or the amount of sperm it produces.

Men who think all women are submissive.

Men who treat women like unpaid prostitutes and who tell everyone they will go to a paid one if they do not "get a meet"."

All good points

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Some of things that put me off.

Usernames

Cock pictures

Single men profiles with other women

Open pussies, ass holes

Verfications sometimes

Winks

Messages that go straight into sex chat.

Meet me now updates

Morning horn updates

Men who move from one women to another in the forums.

That's for starters

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Oops I’m guilty of winks ...

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Oops I’m guilty of winks ... "

Some people like them dont take any notice of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly different to other posts here but garlic breath or curry breath or just nasty ass breath in general .. . kills me if ive met them .. i’d be off on my toes

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"Oops I’m guilty of winks ...

Some people like them dont take any notice of me

But I do take notice of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics of men’s arse holes

Couples profiles were all the ‘wife/girlfriend’ pics are mirror selfies.

Men in women’s underwear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics of men’s arse holes

Couples profiles were all the ‘wife/girlfriend’ pics are mirror selfies.

Men in women’s underwear

I agree pal .. like why would you want to post your ring piece

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Pics of men’s arse holes

I agree pal .. like why would you want to post your ring piece

? "

That would depend on the target audience really, personally I love an nice arse and a nice rimmable hole, though probably more appropriate on a gay site rather than a site which is mostly straight/Fab Straight and mildly Bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people with endless lists of demands in their profile.

People whose profiles take longer to read than war and peace.

Gapers

Photos of a woman having a bare back gangbang.

Mirror selfies where the mirror has toothpaste splatters on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The......

‘WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. If you are from any institution using this or any Adult Friend Finder site or its associated sites for projects -you do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future if you have or do, it will be considered a violation of our privacy and will be subject to legal action. This also applies to any other group or individual who make copies or removes any of my photos for any purpose without our written consent.’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1, profiles pics that just have have nude and crude pics,

2,seperate room swapping,( not for us)

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

1. Cock shots in pfp

2. Women in photos on a single male profile

3. Lots of explicit veris (are we tripadvisor)

4. Meet me now messages

5. Lots of filth in first message

6. Inability to take no for an answer

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"The......

Omg yes!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beards, any facial hair is a hell no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that just agree with you and won't say it as it is but big turn on for me is a woman that says it as it is won't take shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beards, any facial hair is a hell no "
except eyebrows, eyebrows are good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beards, any facial hair is a hell no except eyebrows, eyebrows are good

Oh Bollox!!!! I've just shaved one off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

random “meet now” messages at silly o’clock

A “hi” message with a picture of a cock attached

Being called a slut by somebody who’s never met us

Just to list a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor hygiene

Poor manners

Past meet pics

Poorly taken pics

Negativity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pushy people.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Prince Alberts and other cock and balls piercings.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Why do some guys feel the need to sit on the bog and photograph their cock? No, just no.

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By *atisfying jackMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Ignoring my profile which specifically states no messages from men or tv/ts

In the last 2 days I've had 12, all of which have the same content.

Suck you dry

Swallow your cum

All along those lines.

That and rude/arrogant people, there is no need.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

"Ignoring my profile which specifically states no messages from men or tv/ts

In the last 2 days I've had 12, all of which have the same content.

Suck you dry

Swallow your cum

All along those lines.

That and rude/arrogant people, there is no need. "

Sounds like people doing a wind up, most of us non straights wouldn't act like that, there is no point, plenty on here that are either gay or swing both ways, that said plenty on here that say they are straight yet are quite happy for a bloke to give them a blow job.

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By *ovfuncoupleCouple
over a year ago

Coventry cv6

Not reading profiles properly.

Silhouette as a profile picture.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Silhouette as a profile picture.

lots of people have silhouette profile pics yet have pictures in their public gallery, I don't get why they don't set a profile picture

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Dirty filthy fingernails that clench around their dick as if its strangling it...I realise some of our turn offs are others turn ons, but this my least favourite sight on fab...

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

I don’t mind the (hi or hello) these were designed to be an opener in a polite conversation in a normal society and on the street or in a social situation people say hi or hello and how are you , this is good manners , and people who say that they dislike this on a text is a little annoying because it’s difficult to approach even on here and might be shy, would you like someone to greet you socially by (rude or sexual) remarks like what some are demanding on Fab .. no chance , always try to be nice as doesn’t cost the earth

RANT OVER

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Negative people ....positivity is so much more sexy

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"Negative people ....positivity is so much more sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other than the physical things, my main turn offs are:

- Negativity or pessimism.

- Jumping the gun and talking about meeting before even saying hello.

- Evading questions or giving “after you” type responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad hygiene

Bad smells

Stuck up

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

In with regards to fab:

Dick only public pics

Pics where their room is really messy in the background

Boring introduction message

Over sexualised intro message

Copy and paste generic messages

No pic profiles

Didn't read my profile before messaging

Sorry rant over

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By *rs RavensongWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham, Gloucestershire

"For us

1. Arrogance

2. Bad hygiene

3. Dirty chat before we have even spoken

4. 150 cock pics in all different angles

5. Submissive men

Mrs"

That about sums it up for me too, although I could add a few:

6. Being called babe or hun.

7. A list of credentials and sexual preferences as an introductory message.

8. Negative/whiny statuses or forum posts.

I could be here all night...

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women in a bath of cum.

Women with cum slut written on their arse.

Pushy men

102 cock pics

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By *ibob300Couple
over a year ago

north east

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By *exysexedupCouple
over a year ago

Bristol chams darlaston

Photo's that are years old ! People who block their profile and keep looking at yours liars cheats etc

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

To add to the list: gimp masks... each to their own but not my thing;

Women wanting ‘daddy play’. I don’t see it often but it makes me want to run away.

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"straight" men messaging me.

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

people who won,t meet unless you have photos and have none on their profile.

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock

Someone once called me fresh meat at a party total turn off. Hollie

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By *ornographic ArtsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not being addressed as a couple or if they do it's done in a disparaging way (such as implying we're lacking something and clearly need them).

Another thing is when people put themselves down when contacting, self-pity is not very attractive and we all doubt ourselves.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Pestering, when youv've not lead them on, on any level, you've said 'no', yet they keep on going.

What then disturbs me, is if they don't get the message where you've had to become essentially rude, would they stop if you said no on a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

poor hygiene. lots of cock shots all looking the same,

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

‘You look like a good slut’ literally got that in my inbox

fuck you and blocked. It actually says on my profile what I’ll do with that sort of message.

No issue if you like it, but I fucking don’t!

Rant over (feel better now

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"Someone once called me fresh meat at a party total turn off. Hollie "

I got "You are the best one here". The best WHAT?!

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Graphic veri’s make me heave. The terminology used by some guys is degrading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No turned off by much really.

If you don’t like it, who else are you going to blame for looking at it?

People complaining about negativity etc. The fact that you are complaining is hardly positive now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who are always negative and derisory to others is a big turn off to me.

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