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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So as the above title reads we have a lovely young man coming round tomorrow to play with the Mrs

We are both understandably nervous but also equally exited

Any tips on how to control your nerves on a first meet would be welcome.. what was yours like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck , I hope you have a “smashing” time

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Its hard to control nerves tbh in that situation.

Maybe sit and chat and let nature take its course.

Don’t scare him off though!

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm assuming here you are having him come to your home and it isn't a fuck and go?

If so, start it off as a social - have a drink and a chat and relax that way. Then when you are both ready suggest going to the bedroom. You all want to be friends and comfortable with each other before you get involved after all, so set him at ease too.

As for my first time, much as the above - went round and chatted for a while before it turned to kissing and then the sex itself.

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Don't worry ......he will probably cancel in the morning .! Or disappear off fab altogether.

Good luck !

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

And all makes have been blocked so I can't volunteer to step in ! Lol

She is gorgeous though.

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Males even

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By *lknhungMan
over a year ago

Luton

Have a shot for Dutch courage and remember to enjoy the moment.

What a lucky young man!

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"So as the above title reads we have a lovely young man coming round tomorrow to play with the Mrs

We are both understandably nervous but also equally exited

Any tips on how to control your nerves on a first meet would be welcome.. what was yours like? "
. I think the best way to feel relaxed is a couple of hours before he comes round have a nice soak in the bath followed by a glass wine by the time he comes you round hopefully you will feel fresh and relaxed ready to have s pleasant evening.I hope all goes well for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had our first play in a club but have since moved onto hotel meets, they are always a little nervous early on, I normally ask Mr to nip to the toilet when the guest arrives, normally by the time he comes back we are more comfortable and kissing and engaged

Mr will then watch and join in if asked, he does like to watch and take pics and vids for later use.

I do like there to be a couple of rounds, so after round one, I'll clean up and change outfit, Mr and guest will have a chat and a drink and then will all socialise until we are ready to go again

Relax, enjoy and take it slow.

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

First time is nervous as should be, makes one feel young again The nerves are part of it but as soon as the kissing starts or clothes off then all nerves fade and then the excitement kicks in and next you'll be thinking why didn't we try this sooner. Enjoy and don't forget to tell us how it went.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice and kind comments and we hope all goes well and let you know all the juicy details

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Don't worry ......he will probably cancel in the morning .! Or disappear off fab altogether.

Good luck !"

Hate it when a silver lining has a cloud.

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

have a Plan B in case of a no show then you can relax ...perhaps plan to go to a local club...then the night will still be a good one either way..

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone


"Don't worry ......he will probably cancel in the morning .! Or disappear off fab altogether.

Good luck !

Hate it when a silver lining has a cloud."

But that’s Fab for you!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No no no you can't mention it on the forum's before it's happened it's the kiss of death

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice and kind comments and we hope all goes well and let you know all the juicy details "
if there is alcohol involved just dont get too d*unk..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just treat it as a social. If things aren't clicking you won't want to take things further. If they are clicking then the nerves should have given way to rampant lust ... problem solved.

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By *nlyyours16Couple
over a year ago

Northwest


"Don't worry ......he will probably cancel in the morning .! Or disappear off fab altogether.

Good luck !"

On a serious I have to agree with you - that’s what’s happened to us twice over in this week.

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By *nlyyours16Couple
over a year ago

Northwest


"So as the above title reads we have a lovely young man coming round tomorrow to play with the Mrs

We are both understandably nervous but also equally exited

Any tips on how to control your nerves on a first meet would be welcome.. what was yours like? "

Wishing you all the very best and hope you have a wonderful times. One word of advise, if your booking a hotel ask him if he is coming 100% to avoid disappointment if not playing at hotel, then wish you all the best. Have fun

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.


"have a Plan B in case of a no show then you can relax ...perhaps plan to go to a local club...then the night will still be a good one either way.."

Our first meet was a no show but ended up meeting that night with another!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and K had our first meet this week so we absolutely know how you are feeling (C was particularly nervous). We were fortunate to meet someone who was experienced and incredibly polite and easygoing.

Just take a deep breath and think about the fun that you are going to have, we sat and had a light chat first before going to the bedroom but that was a great icebreaker for us. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck, hope it turns out well. First meets are nerve racking but keep it light at first & everything will be fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

First meet over and just wow it could not have gone any better for us.. We picked a diamond to break our fab virginity x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great to hear it went well.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

L

Glad it went well for you x

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"So as the above title reads we have a lovely young man coming round tomorrow to play with the Mrs

We are both understandably nervous but also equally exited

Any tips on how to control your nerves on a first meet would be welcome.. what was yours like? "

He’ll be nervous too so all chill laugh and then have fun if it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just let it happen naturally. Have a few drinks and a chat and just see what happens. Dont forget you dont have to play if you change your mind

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Sounds like you all had a great night and all the best for the next meeting.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"First meet over and just wow it could not have gone any better for us.. We picked a diamond to break our fab virginity x"

Pleased to hear that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my first meet with my fella we made it clear it was our first time, the guy was gracious and let me lead the night.

I would suggest the same, just be honest and don't put pressure on yourselves, remember to have fun!

I actually enjoy the nervous excitement! Embrace it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoops, a bit late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whoops, a bit late "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alcohol!!

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