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Am I still classed as young to some of you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone , just a little query I want to discuss . Would you classify meeting a man of 21 to young ? If so what is it that puts you off other than maturity or that turns you on . I won’t be offended to just fire away what it is that makes you feel uncomfortable with a younger man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, for me personally- I'm just not into men younger than me. I prefer men at least a few years older as a general rule.

I can't put my finger on what it is specifically, younger guys just aren't attractive to me.

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By *DGF20Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Don’t worry man, u don’t have to worry with this massive tool

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By *easidegirlWoman
over a year ago

south shore

I only meet younger men, so no not too young to me..love younger guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are younger than my children and that makes me feel very uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 23/08/19 20:36:07]

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By *anutdfan19Man
over a year ago

preston


"I only meet younger men, so no not too young to me..love younger guys "

You can meet me anyday Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 23/08/19 20:36:07]"

At this time I don't find younger than my children attractive sorry

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"You are younger than my children and that makes me feel very uncomfortable"

I think this is very probably the case with a lot of us ladies OP.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

21 yr a kid .. behave

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"You are younger than my children and that makes me feel very uncomfortable"

This for us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer younger men!

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Too young for me, I prefer guys to be older than me

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's not your age that would put me off.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

You are definitely too young for me. Our children are older than you.

Profiles are important too. Most women want to know about the man, not his cock...

Nita

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Can't put my finger on it exactly but I prefer an older guy. I feel I just don't mentally click with younger guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn't be too young for some people but some people have children your age so would put them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are younger than my children and that makes me feel very uncomfortable"

This

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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Although we’re not looking for men, you’re too young for us even if you were a female or couple.

It’s not the age, as such. It’s more to do with likelihood of knowing (and sticking to) the etiquette of swinging. The younger a person is, the more likely they are to talk about things they shouldn’t, such as bragging to mates, pointing us out in public if we crossed paths or sharing photos etc. Not aimed at you specifically of course, it’s hypothetical and just our thoughts on this.

So for us, you’d be way below our lower limit sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, for me personally- I'm just not into men younger than me. I prefer men at least a few years older as a general rule.

I can't put my finger on what it is specifically, younger guys just aren't attractive to me."

No worries . If everyone liked the same thing it would be pretty boring I suppose . Thanks for replying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I only meet younger men, so no not too young to me..love younger guys "

Nice to know thanks for replying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are younger than my children and that makes me feel very uncomfortable"

That’s understandable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 23/08/19 20:36:07]

At this time I don't find younger than my children attractive sorry "

Neither would I

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not your age that would put me off. "

What is it then ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"21 yr a kid .. behave "

You just keep getting your arse out in random places mate ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't put my finger on it exactly but I prefer an older guy. I feel I just don't mentally click with younger guys. "

Thank you for replying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Although we’re not looking for men, you’re too young for us even if you were a female or couple.

It’s not the age, as such. It’s more to do with likelihood of knowing (and sticking to) the etiquette of swinging. The younger a person is, the more likely they are to talk about things they shouldn’t, such as bragging to mates, pointing us out in public if we crossed paths or sharing photos etc. Not aimed at you specifically of course, it’s hypothetical and just our thoughts on this.

So for us, you’d be way below our lower limit sorry. "

I completely understand this , I wouldn’t want the same happening to me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most swingers are in their 40s and wouldn't fuck someone of their kids age so that's where the issue will be.

Also, you might be shit in bed due to lack of experience.

Try and find a cougar and cub night at a club and you'll be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone , just a little query I want to discuss . Would you classify meeting a man of 21 to young ? If so what is it that puts you off other than maturity or that turns you on . I won’t be offended to just fire away what it is that makes you feel uncomfortable with a younger man "

Yes to many on fab you will be too young

But look on the bright side, you will get older, us oldies will never be younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say you are a polite young man! That is always good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A younger guy is extremely unlikely to have the experience and maturity to fit the dynamic with me and my husband. We wouldn't necessarily discount someone because of their age, but the younger guys we have chatted to have never got past the initial chatting stage.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I seem to click better with people around my own age ,that's why i would never meet someone half my age.

I like to get on with and be friends with those I meet,but wouldn't have much in common with someone much younger .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most swingers are in their 40s and wouldn't fuck someone of their kids age so that's where the issue will be.

Also, you might be shit in bed due to lack of experience.

Try and find a cougar and cub night at a club and you'll be good "

I got no problems with meets i was just wandering to some of the older lady’s

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello everyone , just a little query I want to discuss . Would you classify meeting a man of 21 to young ? If so what is it that puts you off other than maturity or that turns you on . I won’t be offended to just fire away what it is that makes you feel uncomfortable with a younger man

Yes to many on fab you will be too young

But look on the bright side, you will get older, us oldies will never be younger "

That’s very true !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I seem to click better with people around my own age ,that's why i would never meet someone half my age.

I like to get on with and be friends with those I meet,but wouldn't have much in common with someone much younger .

Miss"

That’s understandable. I can imagine it hard to get along with someone who hasn’t grown up yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A younger guy is extremely unlikely to have the experience and maturity to fit the dynamic with me and my husband. We wouldn't necessarily discount someone because of their age, but the younger guys we have chatted to have never got past the initial chatting stage. "

Yeah I know what you mean , sorry on behalf of guys my age who act like a nugget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I have pants older than you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I have pants older than you "

Good quality ones I take it then

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham


"You are younger than my children and that makes me feel very uncomfortable"

Same

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"You are younger than my children and that makes me feel very uncomfortable"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I have pants older than you

Good quality ones I take it then "

Bombproof mate

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Nice of you to come back to your thread and reply to people OP. Shows you have manners and maturity, well done.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice of you to come back to your thread and reply to people OP. Shows you have manners and maturity, well done. "

Thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A younger guy is extremely unlikely to have the experience and maturity to fit the dynamic with me and my husband. We wouldn't necessarily discount someone because of their age, but the younger guys we have chatted to have never got past the initial chatting stage.

Yeah I know what you mean , sorry on behalf of guys my age who act like a nugget "

Nothing to apologise for. It's just an age/ experience thing.

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

Exactly this my sons are older than you x

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

For me it’s the connection- I’m sure a 21 year old can have just as good as sex than a forty odd year old, but I’d have more in common with someone nearer my age. Chat about stuff outside the sex act ... x

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Nice of you to come back to your thread and reply to people OP. Shows you have manners and maturity, well done.

Thank you very much "

Just to say, it works at the other end of the spectrum as well, in other words - much too old. But, the consolations are that there are cougars for the young upstarts, and young ladies looking for daddy's, or even granddaddy's at my end.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Hello everyone , just a little query I want to discuss . Would you classify meeting a man of 21 to young ? If so what is it that puts you off other than maturity or that turns you on . I won’t be offended to just fire away what it is that makes you feel uncomfortable with a younger man "

Age is just a number, or so they say. It's true though that age and maturity do not necessarily go hand in hand and younger guys can be mature beyond their years. We would never solely base our focus on one aspect of a persons profile, and then judge them for it.

We understand when people say 'I have kids your age', and base that as a reason not to meet with guys like the OP. Everyone has their own preferences and their can be no arguing with them.

As a couple that only meet with younger guys we have learnt to look at the whole package; by which we mean the offer, the opportunity, the rest of the persons profile, their Fab presence etc. It's very easy to say "I'm mature", but then act very different elsewhere on the site.

Ultimately we each have our preferences, and whether you fit them or not you must accept them, even if one aspect of your profile means that not everyone is into you.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Different people are looking for different things, some just want fuck and go, and therefore you might suit them, but some like myself are looking for a bit more, so having someone more than 20 years younger than myself, I doubt we would have anything in common in which to speak about.

But I'm sure you will find some that will suit what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about me then... at 28? x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"How about me then... at 28? x"

With no public pics, I would say no chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cat is only 2 years younger than you. Lol.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Age is irrelevant! It's just a number. I like to meet socially first.

I have met some 40 year olds who were immature and some 30 year olds who were too mature..... it's all about the person not their age for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is irrelevant! It's just a number. I like to meet socially first.

I have met some 40 year olds who were immature and some 30 year olds who were too mature..... it's all about the person not their age for me."

Totally agree !

Wish people would stop judging me on my age before meeting lol

Where’s the logic behind that ?

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Age is irrelevant! It's just a number. I like to meet socially first.

I have met some 40 year olds who were immature and some 30 year olds who were too mature..... it's all about the person not their age for me.

Totally agree !

Wish people would stop judging me on my age before meeting lol

Where’s the logic behind that ?"

I can tell a lot by the way a message is written.

But everyone on this site is looking for something different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is irrelevant! It's just a number. I like to meet socially first.

I have met some 40 year olds who were immature and some 30 year olds who were too mature..... it's all about the person not their age for me.

Totally agree !

Wish people would stop judging me on my age before meeting lol

Where’s the logic behind that ?

I can tell a lot by the way a message is written.

But everyone on this site is looking for something different."

I’m exactly the same and totally agree.

Also, I’m struggling to believe you're 49, you look inc_edible !!!

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"Age is irrelevant! It's just a number. I like to meet socially first.

I have met some 40 year olds who were immature and some 30 year olds who were too mature..... it's all about the person not their age for me."

Oh wow is me,! I'm even too old for someone who says she is irrelevant

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

Or even woe is me..

Damn autocarrot

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

And 'age' not 'she'

It's me age y'know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of course you are to me i Have children your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have knickers older then you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have knickers older then you OP "
really do they have holes in them?

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Everyone is younger to me....!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have knickers older then you OP really do they have holes in them? "

No,there not crotchless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too young ,not to young lol

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