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By *exy7 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Going to a club for the first time. I guess it is difficult to know and comfortable and playful I will feel once I am there as it must be a nerve racking the first time. I might end up just wanting to watch some action and wank as I watch couples playing. Is it acceptable? And what is the etiquette when it comes to wanking near couples? Thanks for your help

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Just be polite if possible ask and don't go with high expectations and you will be fine. most people are friendly so socialise if you can and who knows what might happen.

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

my first club visit was on my own and met a few people off here and just chatted my second visit was with a girl I met off here and we played with 3 cpls and there was no looking back ones people know your gen and chat to them on fab you want look back.

get to know people at the clubs first

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Going to a club for the first time. I guess it is difficult to know and comfortable and playful I will feel once I am there as it must be a nerve racking the first time. I might end up just wanting to watch some action and wank as I watch couples playing. Is it acceptable? And what is the etiquette when it comes to wanking near couples? Thanks for your help"

It is nerve wracking but if you treat it as a night out and go with no expectations and prepared to be sociable AND accept a polite "no thank you" graciously then you won't go far wrong.

Not sure what expectations you have of what a club will be like but if you think it will just be a live porn show for you to wank to then you maybe need to think again - one of the pariahs of clubs are the single men who walk round the play areas wanking and getting too close to people who are playing - so if you are going to do so, be aware that it may not be well received, and whatever you do remain a respectable distance or ideally don't do it at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most couples that plays in a open room or on a open beds they like voyeurism so having other guys and couples watching them is a turn on for them and seeing guys wanking in front of them but you never get to close unless they ask you too it’s just about being respectful, but just go and enjoy yourself

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By *exy7 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Thank you everyone for your very useful and friendly messages. Can't wait to go to my first club on Sunday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go without expectations

Enjoy socialising

Don’t assume that because as a single man, you pay a high entry fair...it entitles you to sex/play it doesn’t

Don’t be a wanking zombie

Always ask before you touch

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go without expectations

Enjoy socialising

Don’t assume that because as a single man, you pay a high entry fair...it entitles you to sex/play it doesn’t

Don’t be a wanking zombie

Always ask before you touch "

This is spot on

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By *exy7 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Love the wanking zombie comment. Great!

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