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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking for advice.

We get lots of compliments on our profile but very few meets. Is it the pictures or the information, or does everyone struggle to make meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found play meets tend to be far and few between. Have made a few friends from here and have social meets every now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for advice.

We get lots of compliments on our profile but very few meets. Is it the pictures or the information, or does everyone struggle to make meet? "

there is definatley nothing wrong with your profile and your pictures are amazing I generally think that's what the site is like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think from experience it’s unclear what sort of play you are looking for!

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

What's wrong with your profile?

Well the pics say you actually have sex with other people! Not just pose for the wank collectors on this site.

So your chances of getting responses is low because you might expect to meet real PEPs in real life (that's tooooo scary) it,'s not what most on here want.

But more POWER to your elbow and other parts . And enjoy yourselves with REAL people. Should we bump into each other anytime say hi.

Happy Swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for advice.

We get lots of compliments on our profile but very few meets. Is it the pictures or the information, or does everyone struggle to make meet? "

A fair few verifications it doesn't look as though you are struggling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing with your profile

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Seems like male half might only play ? Otherwise don’t see you struggling

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking for advice.

We get lots of compliments on our profile but very few meets. Is it the pictures or the information, or does everyone struggle to make meet?

there is definatley nothing wrong with your profile and your pictures are amazing I generally think that's what the site is like "
yep....starting to think this myself. X taa.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking for advice.

We get lots of compliments on our profile but very few meets. Is it the pictures or the information, or does everyone struggle to make meet?

A fair few verifications it doesn't look as though you are struggling. "

Believe it or not justvtryed for 5 weeks to get a couples meet ended up meeting a single male which was fun but not our first choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems like male half might only play ? Otherwise don’t see you struggling "

Think you miss read it, its the female who plays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this site isnt what it used to be unfortunatly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with the pics and profile text to my eyes

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By *otwife and LawyerCouple
over a year ago

Heathrow/Windsor

The site is 95% weirdos,dreamers and fantasists. Good luck finding the 5% that arent

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

Your profile is ambiguous, your on as a couple but only you play, no problem for single guys I'd expect but not a great pull for couples if Mr doesn't play and only watches. No pics of Mr at all which confirms my opinion. Saying that the pics you do have are lush

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

sexy profile, but maybe its the way you message people...which we are not privy to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great profile.

No complaints from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snap..great profile. Folks must be too picky imo

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Fabswingers is hard to find real people just get yourself to a club you'll be inundated with invites.

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By *4tCouple
over a year ago

warrington

we struggle to find time generally what with work and family etc

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

O would love to play with you both but your too far

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By *olexMan
over a year ago

Hull

Nothing wrong with the pics. If i were nearer i'd want to meet.

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By *endheroverMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Jobs fucked

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

Can't see anything wrong with the profile at all - very attractive and sexy looking. It does feel as though you have a narrow band of what you are looking for though (and that's not a criticism at all - after all, we are completely free to choose who we want to meet and what sort of fun we want to have) which can turn things into the more tricky territory of finding meets. Despite the numbers on here, once you apply your filters and then throw in availability and then mutual attraction - it's not hard to see why it can sometimes feel like tumble city. One of the reasons clubs work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for advice.

We get lots of compliments on our profile but very few meets. Is it the pictures or the information, or does everyone struggle to make meet? "

Lots of people struggle. It's definitely not your pictures putting people off. they are very sexy.

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By *stonMTMan
over a year ago

cleveland

Only prob I can see from your profile is distance from me good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for advice.

We get lots of compliments on our profile but very few meets. Is it the pictures or the information, or does everyone struggle to make meet?

there is definatley nothing wrong with your profile and your pictures are amazing I generally think that's what the site is like "

Exactly that

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By *riAndPrincessCouple
over a year ago

Winsford

It’s never easy to make meets work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re not alone. We can’t get arrested on here.

Can’t tell you the last time a couple contacted us seriously. We were also due to meet a single guy at the second attempt tonight. Didn’t happen because he got sent away with work but forgot to message us .

Good old Fab !

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Some lovely pics, i find your profile very attractive. There is a general difficulty in arranging meets with anyone on fab i find, generally life is very busy for everyone these days.

Ever thought about trying your luck with a transwoman?

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"this site isnt what it used to be unfortunatly"

Totally agree, met far more folks through the club scene over the last couple of years.

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By *ithintemptationsCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

your not alone OP,we seem too be having the same problem,and looks too be widespread talking to other couples x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well all i can say is your inbox must be faulty as your profile interests and pics are all great i cant believe you two stugle to get meets

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"Looking for advice.

We get lots of compliments on our profile but very few meets. Is it the pictures or the information, or does everyone struggle to make meet?

A fair few verifications it doesn't look as though you are struggling.

Believe it or not justvtryed for 5 weeks to get a couples meet ended up meeting a single male which was fun but not our first choice. "

Funding couples that play is almost impossible. She our veris. We always put couples as first prioity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" your on as a couple but only you play, no problem for single guys I'd expect but not a great pull for couples if Mr doesn't play and only watches. No pics of Mr at all which confirms my opinion. "

This post illustrates how I interpret your profile.

Mrs

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"The site is 95% weirdos,dreamers and fantasists. Good luck finding the 5% that arent "

I think this sums it up perfectly

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Can’t offer an opinion as we can’t see your profile. Never mind.

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By *azpiz1Man
over a year ago

Camberley

You seem now to be looking for single guys for a hot wife situation. (Me! me! - over here! -waves arms in the air frantically.. ), but have excluded single guys from contacting you...

Is it couples or single guys you want to attract?

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By *azpiz1Man
over a year ago

Camberley

I meant your profile says you aren't looking for single guys in the "looking for" part, but the text says you are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at pics you appear to be doing ok for meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures ard excellent but found the explanation of what you are looking for a little confusing

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

The only problem I could see is... You're too far away from us haha.

I think everyone struggles though we go through spells.

We struggled even in a club no one spoke! Only time we've ever had that was at xtasia the rest of the times we've found play

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

The only problem I could see is... You're too far away from us haha.

I think everyone struggles though we go through spells.

We struggled even in a club no one spoke! Only time we've ever had that was at xtasia the rest of the times we've found play.

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By *urpeesandwineCouple
over a year ago

Hove


"Looking for advice.

We get lots of compliments on our profile but very few meets. Is it the pictures or the information, or does everyone struggle to make meet? "

I think it is a general struggle on here - or at least it is for us anyway!!

We have looked for a weekend meet for the last few weekends (couple meet) and had no luck.

However, we are eternally optimistic and just roll with it and keep looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was local I would certainly want a meet, you're profile is fab.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"Looking for advice.

We get lots of compliments on our profile but very few meets. Is it the pictures or the information, or does everyone struggle to make meet?

I think it is a general struggle on here - or at least it is for us anyway!!

We have looked for a weekend meet for the last few weekends (couple meet) and had no luck.

However, we are eternally optimistic and just roll with it and keep looking"

Sadly we all look for something different than what’s out there. For myself your profile if perfect for myself but I am not what your looking for.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Cant see anything wrong with your profile or pics

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Such a shame we hardly ever get to Conwy (not just because it's a really nice town)

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By *ornycpl2000Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

Come down to South Wales, we are sure you will get a meet or two.

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By *unguy_4_uMan
over a year ago

Kettering

wow amazing pics and profile, the only thing wrong with you in my opinion is your too damn far away from ME!!

Honestly, theres nothing wrong with you and I am sure you will have a blood of messages and invitations now!

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know what you mean, but it's hard finding a couple that we are all happy with.We have tried club's but still find it difficult to break the ice.We will try a club again and just go for it, never give up hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. We struggle (well actually non so far!) to find meets on Fab and clubs can be hit and miss. Been to Chams some nights and had loads of fun and others we've not even broke sweat!!

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By *outh Wales HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Hobbiton

Nothing wrong with your profile at all. Very sexy pictures. Dont see why you dont get meets. It says hubby joins in on occasions. It's just this site sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your photos are amazing! Show you to be a fun and experienced couple.

Depends on lots of things for meets - availability is a big one. Willing to travel or accommodate. Just plain timings

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Fuck lick fondle kiss and more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other than you being a long way from me, the fact that you cannot accommodate would put me off. But your profile is great! Hope you have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all get our share of timewasters frauds etc but would say to you all hang in there as we have made some fantastic lifelong friends . Often happens when you least expect it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are the same plenty of people looking, winking and messaging to arrange meets then they cancel at last minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what happens to everyone x

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By *irvana999Man
over a year ago

city


"Looking for advice.

We get lots of compliments on our profile but very few meets. Is it the pictures or the information, or does everyone struggle to make meet? "
,All looks great to me ,only wish I was closer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great pics OP good profile. Only thing I found when reading it was a little confusing with who wants what. Bit like a c.v. I'd relax it a bit more don't make it so complicated..... good luck

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By *ordo320Man
over a year ago

Gatwick

I’m another to say great pics and good profile.

Love the fact that you want to be a hot cuckhold wife

You know what you want, but your message filters are also very exact with regards to ages. Sometime you need to have them more open and then filter down from those who message to who you would like to chat with further. Age isn’t everything!

I’d love to come and meet you but I can’t get past the message filter!

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