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"I think we are all disgusting perverts here " love this .lol | |||
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"I think we are all disgusting perverts here love this .lol " . Ah, so that's what DP stands for is it | |||
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"I think we are all disgusting perverts here " Speak for yourself. I'm a beautiful pervert! | |||
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"Bi guys are disgusting perverts" WTF is that supposed to mean? Very Bi here but strictly vanilla. Why is it perverted for men to like men but ok for women to like women? | |||
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"Bi guys are disgusting perverts" And proud of it... Is Judge Judy having the day off and letting you sit in or do you just need to vent? | |||
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"So after being with just guys even though I'm bi and i tell people this on tinder or here i almost certainly get ignored by women, whats everyones view's on this " OK, there is still a deep seated vein of biphobic tropes and of people who think that queerness is unacceptable int he swingign scene. However there are also plenty of lovely, sexy people who aren't like that. As someone else has said, your profile is a tad generic and, whilst you are quite fit loooking in your pics, there's not a lot of it to catch the eye of a woman going past, given that they have a lot to choose from on here. Mr Icebreaker | |||
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"I think we are all disgusting perverts here " Oi! Less of the disgusting thank you very much | |||
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"I think we are all disgusting perverts here " I'm not I'm quite a pleasant pervert | |||
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"Perhaps it's not your bisexuality that is the issue OP - there are a lot of men on here of all sexualities and they outnumber women by around 10 to 1 - so you have to make yourself stand out as best you can by having a decent and well written profile and appealing pics to back it up - I'll not comment on yours directly as you've not asked for profile advice but it's something to consider rather than blaming your sexuality. As a bisexual guy myself my experience has been overwhelmingly positive and my sexuality accepted and even welcomed by most " Well said. | |||
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"Bi guys are disgusting perverts WTF is that supposed to mean? Very Bi here but strictly vanilla. Why is it perverted for men to like men but ok for women to like women?" My thoughts, exactly. | |||
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"So after being with just guys even though I'm bi and i tell people this on tinder or here i almost certainly get ignored by women, whats everyones view's on this " Well I would fuck your cute little arse so enjoy the attention from Men and i am sure some hot older lady will just eat you up in time. | |||
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"You're not talking to the right women " Also, do you lead with the I'm bi line? Is that the one thing about you that defines you? If you feel it is, maybe look at all your other plus points and get them across first I prefer to be judged for me as opposed to by a penchant for occasional random cock Also, respect that bi guys are a niche and that we won't be for everyone Finding someone who enjoys, celebrates and encourages your bisexuality is liberating to say the least | |||
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"Bi guys are disgusting perverts WTF is that supposed to mean? Very Bi here but strictly vanilla. Why is it perverted for men to like men but ok for women to like women?" It was a self deprecating joke. If you look at our profile you'll see I'm bisexual. | |||
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"Iin the main its the person not the sexuality however some women are wary of bi men because many are very promiscuous and are hap hazard with protection. " This is not unique to bi (or gay) men, straight men are equally as bad | |||
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"I'm a bisexual woman but I find bi guys a huge turn off. But as always it's personal preference." Why is this out of curiosity? I find many groups a turn off so not judging | |||
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"We love them, especially with a bi lady " You need a holiday in Spain | |||
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"So after being with just guys even though I'm bi and i tell people this on tinder or here i almost certainly get ignored by women, whats everyones view's on this " We get plenty of approaches | |||
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"Iin the main its the person not the sexuality however some women are wary of bi men because many are very promiscuous and are hap hazard with protection. This is not unique to bi (or gay) men, straight men are equally as bad " | |||
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"So after being with just guys even though I'm bi and i tell people this on tinder or here i almost certainly get ignored by women, whats everyones view's on this " As a bi guy, I find that about 90% of meet requests I receive come from guys and TV/TS but I do get about 10% from women. If you are not getting any, then maybe you need to rethink your profile and / or approach? | |||
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"Bi guys are disgusting perverts WTF is that supposed to mean? Very Bi here but strictly vanilla. Why is it perverted for men to like men but ok for women to like women? It was a self deprecating joke. If you look at our profile you'll see I'm bisexual. " Yeah, sorry I realised that later | |||
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"I don’t mind bi or gay guys, it’s just when they ran it down your throat. " | |||
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"I have lost count of people who have told me to 'pick a side' I love that because someones sexuality is fixed, they have issues with someone elses being fluid The fact they don't understand it really is their problem, not mine" I've been told to pick a side. I usually tell them I'm the referee | |||
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"I've found a bi / pansexual guys biggest problem is clubs. Not all clubs allow or appreciate men having sex with men, but are very happy for bi women to play. Such a contradiction. People go batty because 2 guys play or a couples 4 some and guy sucks off the other guy it's as if someone had stuck a cock up an arse got covered in shit then stuck it in someone's mouth by their disgusted reactions of sex. I'd rather avoid clubs that frown on male on male pleasures. The inclusive clubs are always more fun anyway. Don't want samesex sex don't do it don't want see it don't look, simple as that. Goes the same for don't like fat women don't fuck one, don't like what you see then don't look. Il be happy having my fun People love to complain and show their disgust when it doesn't suit their tastes. Live and let live." Don't like fat women don't fuck one! | |||
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"I've found a bi / pansexual guys biggest problem is clubs. Not all clubs allow or appreciate men having sex with men, but are very happy for bi women to play. Such a contradiction. People go batty because 2 guys play or a couples 4 some and guy sucks off the other guy it's as if someone had stuck a cock up an arse got covered in shit then stuck it in someone's mouth by their disgusted reactions of sex. I'd rather avoid clubs that frown on male on male pleasures. The inclusive clubs are always more fun anyway. Don't want samesex sex don't do it don't want see it don't look, simple as that. Goes the same for don't like fat women don't fuck one, don't like what you see then don't look. Il be happy having my fun People love to complain and show their disgust when it doesn't suit their tastes. Live and let live." Oh fuck pansexual???? Is that when people have sex shoving frying pans up their arses ??? | |||
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"I don’t mind bi or gay guys, it’s just when they ran it down your throat. " Oooooo don’t mind a cock down my throat | |||
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"I've found a bi / pansexual guys biggest problem is clubs. Not all clubs allow or appreciate men having sex with men, but are very happy for bi women to play. Such a contradiction. People go batty because 2 guys play or a couples 4 some and guy sucks off the other guy it's as if someone had stuck a cock up an arse got covered in shit then stuck it in someone's mouth by their disgusted reactions of sex. I'd rather avoid clubs that frown on male on male pleasures. The inclusive clubs are always more fun anyway. Don't want samesex sex don't do it don't want see it don't look, simple as that. Goes the same for don't like fat women don't fuck one, don't like what you see then don't look. Il be happy having my fun People love to complain and show their disgust when it doesn't suit their tastes. Live and let live. Oh fuck pansexual???? Is that when people have sex shoving frying pans up their arses ???" Oh come on be original it's not like I haven't heard that crap before. It's getting boring now, and in insult to pansexual people like myself. First thing people say when you tell someone youre pansexual wish I had a pound for everytime someone said it. | |||
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"I don’t mind bi or gay guys, it’s just when they ran it down your throat. Oooooo don’t mind a cock down my throat " Me neither | |||
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"I'm a bisexual woman but I find bi guys a huge turn off. But as always it's personal preference." No it isn't. | |||
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"I have literally lost track the amount of 'straight' lads who get in touch as single or in a couple who want to explore. Sometimes I get messages from wives/gfs who want to explore me joining them. I think this label is starting to become a bit archaic. I'm a masculine lad very comfortable in my own skin. It's the people who shout from the rafters about being straight that you should avoid ha. " | |||
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"I agree about the playing safe. I think bi men are judged as perhaps indulging in risky sex and more of a gamble to play with. It's a kind of Russian Roulette to play with bi guys and also a fear for some straight men that they will either be turned on by another man or get unwanted advances. " Quite wrongly in my opinion, someone's sexuality has no bearing on whether or not they are reckless when it comes to safe sex, this is not the 1980s | |||
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"I agree about the playing safe. I think bi men are judged as perhaps indulging in risky sex and more of a gamble to play with. It's a kind of Russian Roulette to play with bi guys and also a fear for some straight men that they will either be turned on by another man or get unwanted advances. Quite wrongly in my opinion, someone's sexuality has no bearing on whether or not they are reckless when it comes to safe sex, this is not the 1980s " You're absolutely right and can not believe that prejudice is still so prevalent. I work in NHS and can categorically say that it is those that are not honest with themselves or their partners where risks lie, not their sexual preferences. | |||
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"I agree about the playing safe. I think bi men are judged as perhaps indulging in risky sex and more of a gamble to play with. It's a kind of Russian Roulette to play with bi guys and also a fear for some straight men that they will either be turned on by another man or get unwanted advances. " Must say I strongly disagree with that | |||
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"I agree about the playing safe. I think bi men are judged as perhaps indulging in risky sex and more of a gamble to play with. It's a kind of Russian Roulette to play with bi guys and also a fear for some straight men that they will either be turned on by another man or get unwanted advances. Must say I strongly disagree with that" . Same I've been in 3 long terms and mostly always been safe and always get tested | |||
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"I agree about the playing safe. I think bi men are judged as perhaps indulging in risky sex and more of a gamble to play with. It's a kind of Russian Roulette to play with bi guys and also a fear for some straight men that they will either be turned on by another man or get unwanted advances. Must say I strongly disagree with that. Same I've been in 3 long terms and mostly always been safe and always get tested " I just dont understand the reasoning behind why he thinks that. Few exs are bi and my mates bi/gay. They all play safe..I think girls can be far worse for it. Apart from fab girls that is. | |||
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"It's the stats unfortunately " Statistics show men have higher rates of stds. Saying all bi guys are the ones with higher risk is not exactly true. Men are more likely to refuse to wear a condom yes this is true. But men who think any holes a goal as long as they get their fun regardless of who it is. The ones who use people as objects who think it's all about them and their own pleasures nothing more. They don't have an attraction to men but what difference does it make , an ass is an ass no matter whose ass it is same for mouth. They will complain that condoms spoil their fun and so less likely to use them. I wouldn't call these men bi they have no sexual attraction to men just a means to their desired end. But because they have sex with men they are labelled bisexual Which skews the statistics. It's just sex nothing more than that it would be nicer if they used sex doll instead of treating people as sex toys. Fab is full of these guys who don't care who they fuck as long as they get their happy ending. So I really wouldn't call them bisexual at all. I wouldn't even go as far as to say hetero.flexible either. They have zero attraction or arousal with who they are doing it with just the outcome that they want. I coined the term using people as hands free masturbatory aids. It's all about themselves | |||
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" I think there’s still a stigma attached to bi men where as bi women that’s horny, dunno why but we just be honest and play how we like to suit the situation, if your straight cool we’d love to play, if you’re bi get ready coz things about to get filthy xx" My theory, for what it’s worth, is that men and women who use ‘mainstream’ porn are completely accustomed to and turned on by watching women playing together and that’s why it’s seen as/is horny. As male bi action is more niche it isn’t. And love your attitude - it’s how we like to play too x Jessy | |||
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"I think all men have a bi side.. lock the straightest man in prison for 5 years and he will be turned.." I totally agree x | |||
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"So after being with just guys even though I'm bi and i tell people this on tinder or here i almost certainly get ignored by women, whats everyones view's on this " My opinion on bi guys?? Same as any other guy | |||
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"Surely Pleasure is pleasure regardless of who it's with? We are all grown ups here." That is true. When it comes to reciprocating and mutual pleasures though there's a big difference. | |||
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"It's the stats unfortunately Statistics show men have higher rates of stds. Saying all bi guys are the ones with higher risk is not exactly true. Men are more likely to refuse to wear a condom yes this is true. But men who think any holes a goal as long as they get their fun regardless of who it is. The ones who use people as objects who think it's all about them and their own pleasures nothing more. They don't have an attraction to men but what difference does it make , an ass is an ass no matter whose ass it is same for mouth. They will complain that condoms spoil their fun and so less likely to use them. I wouldn't call these men bi they have no sexual attraction to men just a means to their desired end. But because they have sex with men they are labelled bisexual Which skews the statistics. It's just sex nothing more than that it would be nicer if they used sex doll instead of treating people as sex toys. Fab is full of these guys who don't care who they fuck as long as they get their happy ending. So I really wouldn't call them bisexual at all. I wouldn't even go as far as to say hetero.flexible either. They have zero attraction or arousal with who they are doing it with just the outcome that they want. I coined the term using people as hands free masturbatory aids. It's all about themselves" | |||
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"So after being with just guys even though I'm bi and i tell people this on tinder or here i almost certainly get ignored by women, whats everyones view's on this " Be true to yourself. If those won't meet because of your sexuality then move on to another. Don't be like most on here and hide in the bi closet! Be Bi-Proud! | |||
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"Most men say there straight and get there cock sucked by men and there wife’s never know !! " Sweeping generalisation there - while it's true of *some* men - and while I'd agree a lot of men have at some point "wondered" what it would be like to go with a guy - to say *most* have acted on it is wholly inaccurate and actually quite a disservice to the many many genuinely straight guys. | |||
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"Most men say there straight and get there cock sucked by men and there wife’s never know !! Sweeping generalisation there - while it's true of *some* men - and while I'd agree a lot of men have at some point "wondered" what it would be like to go with a guy - to say *most* have acted on it is wholly inaccurate and actually quite a disservice to the many many genuinely straight guys." I think more and more men are trying their gay side.. | |||
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"Most men say there straight and get there cock sucked by men and there wife’s never know !! Sweeping generalisation there - while it's true of *some* men - and while I'd agree a lot of men have at some point "wondered" what it would be like to go with a guy - to say *most* have acted on it is wholly inaccurate and actually quite a disservice to the many many genuinely straight guys. I think more and more men are trying their gay side.. " No, more and more men may be open to their bisexual side as it becomes more accepted - BUT *most* is still a huge generalisation. | |||
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"To clarify I think every human has capacity for same sex relations" I think you'll find plenty that violently disagree with that statement and they won't be in denial either - I know plenty of guys who are absolutely repulsed by the idea of having sex with another guy | |||
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"I'm a bisexual woman but I find bi guys a huge turn off. But as always it's personal preference." Is it because a guy should only be into women as in a “real man” or is it just the thing of 2 guys together? Understand is personal but find it a common perspective among women | |||
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"I love bi guys! I find ot so horny...im a total bi porn addict lol" I hear you!! Alot of people just dont understand.. but then not sure I do either really...I just do lol | |||
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"To clarify I think every human has capacity for same sex relations I think you'll find plenty that violently disagree with that statement and they won't be in denial either - I know plenty of guys who are absolutely repulsed by the idea of having sex with another guy " They are usually the ones who want it most. | |||
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