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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve heard of a few ways of swingers letting other swingers. Know there swingers

Such as ankle bracelets

Ace of space tattoo

Xmas ardinment in the window all year

Do any other swingers know of any more are do any of these

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we all carry round a pot of pampas grass

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

A smile If someone smiles they're a swinger, trust us on that one

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Pretend you’re a guy in swinging club lean over and touch

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"we all carry round a pot of pampas grass"

My parents had pampas grass in the front garden when I was growing up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us do wear ankle bracelet. Sometimes with symbols. Sometimes without. (I can't have symbols as my daughter will google)

But not everyone wearing anklets are swingers. My mate had no idea and she's always wore one.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"we all carry round a pot of pampas grass

My parents had pampas grass in the front garden when I was growing up! "

Hope you’re okay about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Narrow boat folk have a teapot on display

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparantly in South Wales they hang two empty carrier bags on the shopping trolly as you go round the super market.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparantly in South Wales they hang two empty carrier bags on the shopping trolly as you go round the super market. "

Haha really

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol


"we all carry round a pot of pampas grass

My parents had pampas grass in the front garden when I was growing up! "

Looks like the 'Swinger's gene' has been passed down to the next generation

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By *easidegirlWoman
over a year ago

south shore

I have pampass grass..so did my parents..so now I'm thinking...

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By *agenta400Woman
over a year ago

All over the shop


"Narrow boat folk have a teapot on display"

How thoroughly sociable. I hope they make you a cuppa as well. With a biscuit to dunk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol at some if these signs

I’ve heard the pampas grass is a dead cert i bought a house that had in the front garden once lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve heard of a few ways of swingers letting other swingers. Know there swingers

Such as ankle bracelets

Ace of space tattoo

Xmas ardinment in the window all year

Do any other swingers know of any more are do any of these "

Ace of space

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By *uxinteriorMan
over a year ago

south west , continental

Look for the pot of keys. Washing powder OMO in the window!

My little hamlet has Pampas grass! A big one in a grassy turning circle area.

I'm always on the look out for HW ankle bracelets, yet to see any day to day, but have seen a few in clubs.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"I’ve heard of a few ways of swingers letting other swingers. Know there swingers

Such as ankle bracelets

Ace of space tattoo

Xmas ardinment in the window all year

Do any other swingers know of any more are do any of these

Ace of space "

I smiled as well.

I have necklaces and rings with symbols along those lines. Get knowing smiles occasionally.

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By *rs spicyCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield near centre

I often wear an ankle bracelet when I'm on a night out. No one has mentioned it yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve heard of a few ways of swingers letting other swingers. Know there swingers

Such as ankle bracelets

Ace of space tattoo

Xmas ardinment in the window all year

Do any other swingers know of any more are do any of these "

That is 100% me lol.

I even make my own sexy anklets

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By *innerdateMan
over a year ago

Leigh

I remember growing up and the fashion for Pampass grass in front gardens, this was the 70’s so it must have been a continuation of the 60’s free love decade, little did I know at the time, although I was far to young anyway Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chameleons swingers club used to sell car stickers of a chameleon. We had one....until we parked up out on a day trip, and four separate guys asked us how often we visited, and did we go Fridays? Soon got rid of it.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

My wife always wears ankle bracelets on holiday but only as fashion item unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t know there was signs there’s been a few times I’ve met couples where I think dam I wish you were a swinger

Mrscxxx

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By *riAndPrincessCouple
over a year ago

Winsford

We need a sign for regular swingers not hw or spades that's for cucks but what can it be?

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

I’ve got a Chameleon key ring from Chameleons.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"We need a sign for regular swingers not hw or spades that's for cucks but what can it be?"

I saw a man wearing a cho_ker with a lock yesterday.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

But why advertise you are only get idots chatting to you thinking you have something in common or worse wanting to have sex..

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

There's a fish symbol that you can stick on your car, to show that you are fishing for a bit of adult fun.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

There’s a sign which has a big white P in a Blue background. This is usually a sign for places swingers hang out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure I read somewhere that pineapple used to be a sign... pineapple door knockers etc. Who knew!!!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"Apparantly in South Wales they hang two empty carrier bags on the shopping trolly as you go round the super market. "

Upside down pinapple in trolley is the English version

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"We need a sign for regular swingers not hw or spades that's for cucks but what can it be?

I saw a man wearing a cho_ker with a lock yesterday.

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He's into Bdsm. Lock probably means hes owned. Differant collars mean differant things to thise in the D/s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife often wears an anklet when we go out.

I knew if it’s meaning when I got her it. Told her what it can symbolise and she laughed it off. Said she liked it as foot jewellery when she wore her sexy high heels.

I’ve seen her get attention for it. But never approached.

I think they have become just jewellery.

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

An episode of Taggart had a couple using an ornamental garden hedgehog as a sign they were players. Makes you wonder where did the writers get idea from....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need a sign for regular swingers not hw or spades that's for cucks but what can it be?

I saw a man wearing a cho_ker with a lock yesterday.

He's into Bdsm. Lock probably means hes owned. Differant collars mean differant things to thise in the D/s. "

Different collars for different needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Touch your heel with two fingers on your right hand that's a sign I've seen

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By * little bit naughtyCouple
over a year ago

Bedford

We have pampas grass; but it was there when we moved in!

It did make us giggle when the estate agent showed us around!

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

There is a swingers sticker sold and we bought one to put on our caravan. It has the male and female symbols, the female in pink and joined together; the male symbols in blue but only joined to the female symbols (if that makes sense)? They are on the internet.

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"we all carry round a pot of pampas grass

My parents had pampas grass in the front garden when I was growing up!

Hope you’re okay about it"

Swinging is great! And fair play to them, but it’s just the thought of them doing it is a bit euw lol

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"we all carry round a pot of pampas grass

My parents had pampas grass in the front garden when I was growing up!

Looks like the 'Swinger's gene' has been passed down to the next generation "

Who’d have thought it was hereditary hahaha

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Just look out for the people wearing a giant FAB badge, it's a dead giveaway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blue vase in the front window back in the 70’s apparently. We only had a yellow one, phew!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol!! Some of these are hilarious! I've only heard about the pampas grass one! There is a cul de sac near me that has quite a few houses with them.... it was always talked about as being the swingers street!!

PT x

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"We need a sign for regular swingers not hw or spades that's for cucks but what can it be?

I saw a man wearing a cho_ker with a lock yesterday.

He's into Bdsm. Lock probably means hes owned. Differant collars mean differant things to thise in the D/s. "

Precisely.

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog


"We need a sign for regular swingers not hw or spades that's for cucks but what can it be?

I saw a man wearing a cho_ker with a lock yesterday.

He's into Bdsm. Lock probably means hes owned. Differant collars mean differant things to thise in the D/s. "

Suzie wears a collar and we are into BDSM.... but will someone tell us what it means then!

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By *nglishdoodMan
over a year ago

Morristown


"There's a fish symbol that you can stick on your car, to show that you are fishing for a bit of adult fun. "

You're likely to get into all sorts of awkward conversations with devout Christians I think.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

There was a washing powder called OMO. If that was in the kitchen window it stood for, Old Man's Out apparently..

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

His & Hers Sandwich Boards work quite well

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Wearing a black ring on the right hand, ring finger apparently.

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By *riAndPrincessCouple
over a year ago

Winsford

I’ve got it the David Bowie lightening bolt but just one solid colour could be our symbol as it also looks like a sharp S for swingers

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

If you live on a street where the majority of the street are swingers you will spot some trainers or shoes thrown over a telephone wire.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"We need a sign for regular swingers not hw or spades that's for cucks but what can it be?

I saw a man wearing a cho_ker with a lock yesterday.

He's into Bdsm. Lock probably means hes owned. Differant collars mean differant things to thise in the D/s.

Suzie wears a collar and we are into BDSM.... but will someone tell us what it means then!"

I wear collars and am not into BDSM. I wear them to look a little bit scarier. )

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By *incs.cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Holton le Clay near Cleethorpes

Haha love this message thread.

I wear an ankle chain with words that make it obvious, the letters move around sometimes so you have to look careful to read it properly. Also have a necklace with the male, female, male symbols

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

We put a profile on here seems to work ok lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we all carry round a pot of pampas grass"

Brilliant!!

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

Darlaston

I've window stickers on my passion wagon dogging abused daily and my name there's no secret there but it does the trick x

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By *av-RickMan
over a year ago

Nearby


"If you live on a street where the majority of the street are swingers you will spot some trainers or shoes thrown over a telephone wire.

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I always thought this was supposed to signify where dr*gs could be bought!! Wouldn't want to confuse the two!?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"If you live on a street where the majority of the street are swingers you will spot some trainers or shoes thrown over a telephone wire.

I always thought this was supposed to signify where dr*gs could be bought!! Wouldn't want to confuse the two!?"

No laces in the trainers on a swinging street.

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By *ixenandStag69Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

We have a small FAB sticker in our caravan window, only people on here really click on to what it means, and yes it does work, we have been asked a few times discreetly if it is reference to a particular website, fun soon followed, only on other friend has asked we just told them it was on when we got it and was worried it would make a mess trying to peel it off lol

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By *icepair2012Couple
over a year ago

Crewe

Mrs wears ankle bracelets quite a lot at the moment and off and on for a couple of years. One of them has obviously symbols on it that makes us swingers, no one has ever approached her and asked her about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pampas grass is so pretty but it won’t help if your out will it Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've window stickers on my passion wagon dogging abused daily and my name there's no secret there but it does the trick x"

Omg I’ve a car in my street that says “abused daily”

Mrscxxx

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We've tried everything over the years - wearing black rings, 'swingpins', Chameleon bracelets, a sticker with two female symbols entwined with two male symbols on our camper-van... none of this worked! Her ankle-bracelet did once lead to a holiday foursome, though.

Basically you need to get talking to others and drop a few pointed hints. Other interested swingers will pick up on these and respond. THAT has worked for us several times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pampas grass is so pretty but it won’t help if your out will it Mrscxxx "

Just have a sprig of it pinned to your clothes

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By *ake it easy!Man
over a year ago

Burton


"we all carry round a pot of pampas grass"

Where can I buy pampas grass .. I want to give it to the lady next door ... Literally lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we all carry round a pot of pampas grass

Where can I buy pampas grass .. I want to give it to the lady next door ... Literally lol"

Ebay

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Two of my closest friends who've bedn married over 20 years had pampas grass in the front garden of their last house.

I think it was there when they moved in, but I did wonder about it. Then concluded that it was coincidence.

He's FAR too straight-laced for anything like that. Her, on the other hand, I reckon is a slut at heart....

(Probably wishful thinking on my part, because as a huge-chested redhead as she's been my fantasy shag for as long as I've known her )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got rumbled by being on the dance floor in Xtasia.

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Thame


"Mrs wears ankle bracelets quite a lot at the moment and off and on for a couple of years. One of them has obviously symbols on it that makes us swingers, no one has ever approached her and asked her about them. "

To your disappointment? I guess in our minds a gorgeous couple or big handsome hunk subtly starts flirting with you. In reality some creepy guy just follows you around the supermarket not saying anything...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An old sofa dumped in the front Garden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jave a chameleon sticker in van window

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By *aucy SouthernersCouple
over a year ago

Honiton

We love playing the ‘do you reckon thy are swingers’ game when in public - shame we never get to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need a sign for regular swingers not hw or spades that's for cucks but what can it be?

I saw a man wearing a cho_ker with a lock yesterday.

He's into Bdsm. Lock probably means hes owned. Differant collars mean differant things to thise in the D/s. "

Yes I agree he is probably owned/collared in bdsm world

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

A tube of lube on your parcel shelf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we all carry round a pot of pampas grass

Where can I buy pampas grass .. I want to give it to the lady next door ... Literally lol"

Good idea my neighbour is a real hottie too

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

We had pampas grass in the front garden a while back, we had to dig it up as it was so big and taking over, reminded us of “Day of the triffids”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love playing guess the swingers when we are out shopping. We have prob seen at least 50% of the locals on here walking round town. We have never been approached fortunately and the mrs wears an anklet constantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sign in th front window saying beware of dogging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel as if I'm slowly getting sucked into a secret freemason Society

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knickers drop to floor as soon as you shake hands........ I can tell

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester

They all drive Volvos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the US of A, a black wedding ring or ring is a symbol ...

i had t-shirt that said "monogamy sux" when i DJ'd a meet n greet, i reckon that one is a good tell tale lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparantly in South Wales they hang two empty carrier bags on the shopping trolly as you go round the super market.

Upside down pinapple in trolley is the English version"

the man from delmonte he say yesssss. well i tried it and cound only find a tin of pineapple chunks.

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

I know a sign of someone who is not a swinger.....they use the word FAB in sentence without a smirk or a cheeky smile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pampas grass is so pretty but it won’t help if your out will it Mrscxxx

Just have a sprig of it pinned to your clothes "

a bit like the irish guards getting sprigs of shamrock from queen mum on paddy day hehehe?

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley


"Narrow boat folk have a teapot on display"

Narrow boats, swinging *and* tea, all my favourite things at once. I’m off down the Leeds Liverpool right now!

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley


"There's a fish symbol that you can stick on your car, to show that you are fishing for a bit of adult fun. "

I always thought they were christians... how wrong I was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A empty fab ice lolly rapper on the parcel shelf sounds a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we all carry round a pot of pampas grass

My parents had pampas grass in the front garden when I was growing up! "

Mine still does, should I be worried ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we all carry round a pot of pampas grass

My parents had pampas grass in the front garden when I was growing up! "

Mine still do lol should I be worried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a fish symbol that you can stick on your car, to show that you are fishing for a bit of adult fun. "

That's tells people that your a Christian/s ( Religious sign)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A tshirt that says "I'm a swinger"

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

If you lift up our skirts we have fuck me up the arse big boy tattoo’d across our arse . Wink wink

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By *obbly2000Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

Subtle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This way up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enter this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rear entry -----)

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Think this is the first time I’ve actually read every comment on a thread. It’s made me smile this morning. Laughed out loud when I read the first sign of a fish on the car! And the empty carrier bags on the trolly! And I smirk too whenever someone says the word fab in a sentence! My friend has pampas grass, she’s not a swinger but said she’s disappointed no ones knocked on yet!

Have a fab day every one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was going to get some pampas grass and a bigger knocker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rugby fans, they're always singing about swinging and dogging, "swing low sweet chariot cummubg for to carry me home"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A tshirt that says "I'm a swinger""

I actually have one of those...it has a swing on it too...I thought it was amusing

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

Pity I am such a rubbish gardener or I would plant some pampas grass right now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could always shout out across the supermarket ... He ??? loved your pic on FAB Swingers Been there!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have got masses of pampass grass in the new place if anyone wants to come and dig some up.

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By *firsttimeCouple
over a year ago

halifax


"A smile If someone smiles they're a swinger, trust us on that one "

Wish I could private message the both of you xx

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