FabSwingers.com forum: Why cant men be honest

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a single male I cant believe the amount of couples I have contacted on here that have a date up only to find that it is the male half looking to meet males without his partner knowledge. Looking at there profiles it says the male is straight. Why cant males just be honest with there partners and on there profiles. At least everyone would know where they stand. Including the males poor partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cause they men

nuff said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could answer you, but how do you know what I'm saying is true?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cause they men

nuff said

I only wanted some one to come play with my Hornby train set

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a bit naughty. I give up wondering why people cant be honest, it must be just human nature, some lies are worse than others though.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

its not only men who lie or are in some sort of denile .theres plenty of females who arent completely honest about their sexuality or other things . some people will lie just purley to get what they want ,others maybe trying to say what they think is what the other person wants to hear or even trying to come to terms with themself .could be numerous reasons !!! but if you screen meets then if some lie ,untruth or lil fib comes to ligt then at least you can decide then if thats a deal breaker.if it is then move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Notice how the guys responding cant take it seriously. Says it all really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Notice how the guys responding cant take it seriously. Says it all really

What do you think should be done and by who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cause they men

nuff said

I only wanted some one to come play with my Hornby train set"

i'll bring the tunnel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Notice how the guys responding cant take it seriously. Says it all really

That's because it's not a serious thread.. It's a massive generalisation that makes out that all men lie ... Except, perhaps, you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a couple I hope and believe we are honest with each other. People on here are different with different ideas but we like the idea as a couple that we can have everything we want sexualy, the thrill of new often anonomous partners whilst staying best friends, having great sex together still and having a family life. Thats part of what swinging offers us, but having the trust does require honesty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was talking about single males in couples (for those single males out there that are having a rant). When you go into something like this as a couple you have to completly trust each other. When one person is not being honest it can destroy the whole thing.

This site is about exploring your desires so why do be honest about it and do it together openly. You never know it could be fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of guys seem to think that if they don't actually admit to gay/bi to them it means they're not, probably so they can stand in the pub and be homophobic with their mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Notice how the guys responding cant take it seriously. Says it all really

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Ooooo handbags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you've contacted the wrong couples then!

There are idiots/timewasters/messers in all the categories on here:-if you expect not to encounter them you're in the wrong hobby

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry males in couples not single males in couples. And I know its not all of them.

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"As a single male I cant believe the amount of couples I have contacted on here that have a date up only to find that it is the male half looking to meet males without his partner knowledge. Looking at there profiles it says the male is straight. Why cant males just be honest with there partners and on there profiles. At least everyone would know where they stand. Including the males poor partner."

Well I'd guess that the female partner may know or maybe she doesn't ever log into fab and therefore wouldn't see the meet request or any messages... or perhaps doesn't even exist and it's actually a single guy pretending to be a couple...?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always make sure that couples I contact are verified and that there is always reference to the female. I find that once a message has been sent from the male showing his interest in meeting me for Bi fun the message is very quickly delated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bi female i wouldnt mind if master joy was so inclined. He is an open minded guy comfortable with who he is and what he likes. He has said before if he fancied blokes he would give it a go but to date his urges have all been towards women lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Least he can be honest with you. Whitch is a great thing.

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