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By *old1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Do some of the ladies on here have a distorted view of their desirability or is it just me being a little shallow which I am not, eg a 70 yr old wanting a 30/40 yr old tall muscular male for fun??? But the thing is they get them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different people find different things attractive. To me an ugly personality is the most off putting

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Anyone can ask for anything. Takes two to tango.

I know I'm not all that, but I don't need sex and I don't owe anyone sex. If I don't get what I'm after, I stay home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe it's called supply and demand.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I believe it's called supply and demand."

It is.

I could also ask for a 20 out of 10 if I'm only a 2. Because if I don't get it I can wank.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Do some of the ladies on here have a distorted view of their desirability or is it just me being a little shallow which I am not, eg a 70 yr old wanting a 30/40 yr old tall muscular male for fun??? But the thing is they get them too.

we are so lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all of us have inflated egos

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By *laaaaahMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I believe it's called supply and demand."

Exactly.

Women you'd be embarrassed about leaving your local with get a phenomenal amount of attention on Fab because there's just so many guys for them to choose from.

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By *old1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the place to fill desires.

If that’s a 70 yr with a 20/30 yr old let them get it in. It works both ways

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By *old1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Miss insatiable you are gorgeous anyway I am not aiming this at anyone like you at all.x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yep. I act like I'm a 6 when really I'm a 2 at best

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If they're getting what they ask for them in terms of fab they don't have a distorted view of their desirability.

I don't think you're being shallow but you're not required to meet anyone you find undesirable so it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So who is in the wrong, the women for wanting the men they want or the men for giving it to them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe it's called supply and demand.

Exactly.

Women you'd be embarrassed about leaving your local with get a phenomenal amount of attention on Fab because there's just so many guys for them to choose from. "

That sounds pretty arrogant. Just because you'd be embarrassed to leave your local with them, doesn't mean the next (less arrogant) guy would be.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Thing is why shouldn’t a 70 year old desire a 30/40 year old ? And if they get to meet them surely it’s a win win ?

I personally am under no illusion that most guys I have been lucky enough to play with only see me for a hot sexual encounter but then again that’s exactly how I see them

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Thing is why shouldn’t a 70 year old desire a 30/40 year old ? And if they get to meet them surely it’s a win win ?

I personally am under no illusion that most guys I have been lucky enough to play with only see me for a hot sexual encounter but then again that’s exactly how I see them

Absolutely!

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Different people find different things attractive. To me an ugly personality is the most off putting

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this

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Why we only meet in clubs unless we have met before.

In clubs a very level playing field opens up, not always, however 90% of the time.

A lot of fab is fantasy fun for the imagination I suspect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if they get them; how does that constitute a distorted view of themselves OP? Afraid it is a case of you being a tad/very shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone can ask for anything. Takes two to tango.

I know I'm not all that, but I don't need sex and I don't owe anyone sex. If I don't get what I'm after, I stay home! "

Couldn't have said it better myself

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Who are you to judge people for knowing their own self worth and going after what they want instead of what you think they deserve?

I will only fuck people I'm attracted to, regardless of whatever other people think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why wouldn't they? If the men they want are interested in them should they say no I don't want to because I don't think I'm worthy??

But on a second note I wouldn't meet anyone that wouldn't be seen in public with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posts like this make me sad. Are people really just worth the sum total of how they look? The 70 year old could be a wonderful person with a rich full life... who sucks dick like a goddess. But hey if the OP thinks she is beneath who ever she is fucking that’s all that counts??!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Think there is no wrong or right in this.

Your sub (as in higher modalities , hear touch, taste and smell) the building blocks behind them are sub-modalities.

Sub modalities create effects on your view of people. Was in total lust with a lady I used to talk to regularly on the phone, sub modalities were stunning.

Unfortunately, we met when I visited her company, we didn’t jell that well.

The internet distorts peoples sub modalities in both a positive and negative way.

Why we go to clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you care?

Cougars and Cubs are a fetish for a reason.

I don't care who people want to fuck, I let them get on with it and if it isn't me..that's cool! I move onto the next profile.

If you spent less time worrying about the people who don't want to fuck you and more time messaging the ones that do.. you would be much more satisfied!

Eve. X

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Because they are probably desparate men and any hole is a goal, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s because it’s easier to blame others, than to admit your own faults.

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By *laaaaahMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I believe it's called supply and demand.

Exactly.

Women you'd be embarrassed about leaving your local with get a phenomenal amount of attention on Fab because there's just so many guys for them to choose from.

That sounds pretty arrogant. Just because you'd be embarrassed to leave your local with them, doesn't mean the next (less arrogant) guy would be."

Hmm, maybe a bit arrogant. But I'm really hot, so it's more personal experience.

Don't get triggered, the point I was making is that it seems unattractive women do much better on fab than in real life because they've much more immediate competition in a regular club or pub.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I believe it's called supply and demand.

Exactly.

Women you'd be embarrassed about leaving your local with get a phenomenal amount of attention on Fab because there's just so many guys for them to choose from.

That sounds pretty arrogant. Just because you'd be embarrassed to leave your local with them, doesn't mean the next (less arrogant) guy would be.

Hmm, maybe a bit arrogant. But I'm really hot, so it's more personal experience.

Don't get triggered, the point I was making is that it seems unattractive women do much better on fab than in real life because they've much more immediate competition in a regular club or pub. "

Well I'm not hot and I do fine in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy is bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP reeks of jealousy

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By *old1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Thread has become distorted and insults are unfounded and not required.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We all have people who find us attractive, we all have people who don't.

We all have things we want.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

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By *aisyDDWoman
over a year ago

North West

I get men in their 60s and 70s message me. I’m 40 so what’s the difference.

I guess the difference is the women are more successful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe it's called supply and demand.

Exactly.

Women you'd be embarrassed about leaving your local with get a phenomenal amount of attention on Fab because there's just so many guys for them to choose from.

That sounds pretty arrogant. Just because you'd be embarrassed to leave your local with them, doesn't mean the next (less arrogant) guy would be.

Hmm, maybe a bit arrogant. But I'm really hot, so it's more personal experience.

Don't get triggered, the point I was making is that it seems unattractive women do much better on fab than in real life because they've much more immediate competition in a regular club or pub. "

I don't find you hot.

Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can they have a distorted view of their desirability, if they’re getting exactly what they’re looking for?

This thread seems a bit negative and I get a sense of sour grapes, apologies if I’m wrong, but that’s how it’s coming across.

People are free to like what they like, some get it, some don’t. Good for them, I say.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Thread has become distorted and insults are unfounded and not required."

Tbh I think the thread has gone exactly how I expected it to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thread has become distorted and insults are unfounded and not required.

Tbh I think the thread has gone exactly how I expected it to. "

Exactly. It was a nasty, male chauvinist thread and its shown a lot of little worms for what they are

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