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Will I ever meet a couple !

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By *recko OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport

Been looking awhile and whilst I have taste I’m just not getting the hang of getting someone’s ( couple or single attention)

Someboooooooooody help!

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

No public photos. Not many are up for ‘blind dates’.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You haven't asked for profile advice, but that's where I'd look.

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire


"Been looking awhile and whilst I have taste I’m just not getting the hang of getting someone’s ( couple or single attention)

Someboooooooooody help! "

Nope, not without some public photos to give someone an idea of whether you are attractive to them. You are already in a pool of thousands of guys vying for the attention of ladies and couples. You have to stand our from the crowd if you want to have any chance at all.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Most look at the profile first...

If you were part of a couple with hundreds of men to choose from, would you chose you based on your profile?

Maybe try clubs.

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I would add that positivity is attractive, negativity isn't.

Nita

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By *recko OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport

Thank you I can imagine couples have so many people to choose from

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By *recko OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport

Thank you Nita I tried to reply privately for some advise but was unable ..

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I haven't answered a single message for weeks! Reason? Their profiles have been total shite, no public pics, as if I am really going to respond and ask.....get a grip on reality, most people would not want to meet you in the first place, add in your self imposed barriers then you really don't stand a chance do you?

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By *recko OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport

Thank you but I’m not really that type of guy plus I like to stay private so it’s a tough balance

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Thank you but I’m not really that type of guy plus I like to stay private so it’s a tough balance "

Do any of my pictures identify me?

There are ways.

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By *recko OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport

Can you give some ? I’m clueless here!

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By *recko OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport

Trying to respect my privacy as many people here do x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Can you give some ? I’m clueless here! "

Are you asking for profile advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep pictures would help in the first instance they don't have to be face pictures.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Can you give some ? I’m clueless here! "

Take pictures that don't involve your face, tattoos, scars, or identifying marks. It's not difficult.

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"Most look at the profile first...

If you were part of a couple with hundreds of men to choose from, would you chose you based on your profile?

Maybe try clubs.

Nita"

This was my first though, I started off in clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey all

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Ok, I'm assuming that you want profile advice.

Firstly, without any public photos at all, yet insisting on needing to see face pics, you quite frankly haven't got a snowballs chance in Hell.

Secondly, stop moaning. Say what you ars looking for and what you can offer.

Humour is always good, as is being unique in some way.

Men far outnumber couples and women, so you need to stand out from the crowd.

Nita

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You need to sell yourself. Honestly, you know how to best do that. But the less you're prepared to put into your profile, the less you'll get out.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've just read your profile and literally chuckled at what you expect and what you are asking/demanding, people will most definitely pass you by

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I'm not as choosy as most. But your profile has too many negatives and rules.

You need to come across as a happy chap not a miserable bugger.

Why do you expect anyone to send you a face pic before you send one?? And you are demanding that.

Sorry to be harsh but that's what I see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have already given you some great advice in this thread but you haven't as yet acted on any of it.

I've was going to try and give advice but I'd be saying a lot of what's already been said.

If your profile text is truly how you feel and is an accurate reflection of you then don't change it.

KJ x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm not as choosy as most. But your profile has too many negatives and rules.

You need to come across as a happy chap not a miserable bugger.

Why do you expect anyone to send you a face pic before you send one?? And you are demanding that.

Sorry to be harsh but that's what I see. "

Men aren't in a position of power here.

You can ask for anything you like. But realistically as a man, you're not likely to get far with demands.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The simple answer based on your profile is no.

You need to make yourself stand out from the crowd as there are loads of guys on here.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

As above, you are one of a thousand profiles we may come across in the next week, so how do we sift through, first of all we have the simple stuff, age location height build etc ( that’s my basic stuff) then we are down to say 200 profiles so you get 5/10 seconds to stand out, some photos, not fussed about cock pics or faces just general build shape etc and a quick look at profile text, I know this is very general but sadly it’s pretty much how it goes. You might get 15 seconds for us to look and think let’s re read this profile and have a proper look.... stand out, be fun have some pictures

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