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By *berthesadist OP   Man
over a year ago

Ormskirk

Has anyone ever got all the way to a hotel meet to find you have been blocked her account has gone and shes taken your money and run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you asking for a friend?

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By *berthesadist OP   Man
over a year ago

Ormskirk

Nope curious if it's a thing that happens more often than think

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Has anyone ever got all the way to a hotel meet to find you have been blocked her account has gone and shes taken your money and run. "

How did she take your money?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Has anyone ever got all the way to a hotel meet to find you have been blocked her account has gone and shes taken your money and run.

How did she take your money?"

That's what I was wondering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever got all the way to a hotel meet to find you have been blocked her account has gone and shes taken your money and run. "
no, bad luck never assume anything until you meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No why would I give someone I had never met money. Unless of course its so they can transfere £48m from a Nigerian bank account for me

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Has anyone ever got all the way to a hotel meet to find you have been blocked her account has gone and shes taken your money and run.

How did she take your money?"
. And why was you giving her money anyway?.. Add more to the story we think because it sounds on the back of it prostitution gone wrong lol

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By *bbaddonMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Has anyone ever got all the way to a hotel meet to find you have been blocked her account has gone and shes taken your money and run.

How did she take your money?"

I'm assuming he sent her the money to pay for the hotel....and she didn't.

Whilst I sympathise to a small extent, this is a prime example of someone thinking with the wrong head.

If you are going to meet in a hotel, book it yourself, but include the option to cancel without fee, take a pic of the booking confirmation and send it as proof to your intended meet if they need re-assurance that you are genuine.

NEVER send money to anyone on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever got all the way to a hotel meet to find you have been blocked her account has gone and shes taken your money and run.

How did she take your money?

That's what I was wondering. "

Was about to ask the same

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By *nglishdoodMan
over a year ago

Morristown

Maybe he sent money for her to book a hotel room and didn't show up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever got all the way to a hotel meet to find you have been blocked her account has gone and shes taken your money and run. "

I’ve had guys send me money for hotel rooms via PayPal so it doesn’t show on their statements (wives not seeing etc) so money doesn’t always equal prostitution

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By *berthesadist OP   Man
over a year ago

Ormskirk

I see I have been really naive. It seemed logical in my head as she was booking the room. Never mind thanks all

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By *berthesadist OP   Man
over a year ago

Ormskirk


"Has anyone ever got all the way to a hotel meet to find you have been blocked her account has gone and shes taken your money and run.

I’ve had guys send me money for hotel rooms via PayPal so it doesn’t show on their statements (wives not seeing etc) so money doesn’t always equal prostitution "

Cheers still feel like iv been naive

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I see I have been really naive. It seemed logical in my head as she was booking the room. Never mind thanks all "

Yeah, unfortunately it's a lesson learned hopefully.

NEVER trust anyone with money, bank details, personal details etc until you know them well and even then be wary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever got all the way to a hotel meet to find you have been blocked her account has gone and shes taken your money and run. "

How would they take your money?

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

If you dont want it to show on statement get a monzo card

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By *nglishdoodMan
over a year ago

Morristown


"Has anyone ever got all the way to a hotel meet to find you have been blocked her account has gone and shes taken your money and run.

I’ve had guys send me money for hotel rooms via PayPal so it doesn’t show on their statements (wives not seeing etc) so money doesn’t always equal prostitution

Cheers still feel like iv been naive "

Don't worry. It's not the most expensive lesson you'll learn. I consider myself a con-proof cynic and I almost got taken by a Russian woman a few years ago.

Next time book it yourself and when she doesn't show up pretend you're on holiday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever got all the way to a hotel meet to find you have been blocked her account has gone and shes taken your money and run.

How did she take your money?

I'm assuming he sent her the money to pay for the hotel....and she didn't.

Whilst I sympathise to a small extent, this is a prime example of someone thinking with the wrong head.

If you are going to meet in a hotel, book it yourself, but include the option to cancel without fee, take a pic of the booking confirmation and send it as proof to your intended meet if they need re-assurance that you are genuine.

NEVER send money to anyone on here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How was money transferred have I missed something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you sent her money was it bank transfer if so then you have her details and could report the theft to the police.

KJ x

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By *berthesadist OP   Man
over a year ago

Ormskirk


"When you sent her money was it bank transfer if so then you have her details and could report the theft to the police.

KJ x "

Really

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Is it really worth it though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never felt scammed but letdown..

She actually helped me, Now I book a hotel just to get away and if I get a meet and she is looking to play. It's bingo !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fool and their money are soon parted

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By *berthesadist OP   Man
over a year ago

Ormskirk

The bit I dont get is why tall to me for a few days after receiving the money to not show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you won't be the first or the last on here ..Learn from your mistakes and move on .

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Has anyone ever got all the way to a hotel meet to find you have been blocked her account has gone and shes taken your money and run.

How would they take your money?"

This happen to a mate, he had arrange to meet a married women from PoF (with her hubbies knowledge) at a hotel; they claimed to have booked and paid for the room for which my friend would reimburse them half.

My mate met the husband in the lobby, gave him £75 in cash; as the husband wasn't joining them, my friend was told the room number and off he went, unfortunately the numbers stopped at 500, he was told 501; it was at this point that he knew he's been scammed.

As I told him,that's what happens when you think with your dick ... so easy to do when you're horny. The moral of this story... when you're turned on, stay switched on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The bit I dont get is why tall to me for a few days after receiving the money to not show "

Maybe it wasn’t an intentional scam, she may have got cold feet, hubby may have found out etc, you’ll probably never know. Put it down to experience and don’t send any money in future. Just say you’ll pay in cash when you get there.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Why on earth would you give anyone money without knowing them ?

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By *heFuzzMan
over a year ago

Bucks

Maybe just have a social meet first?

Then you get the room...?

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I see I have been really naive. It seemed logical in my head as she was booking the room. Never mind thanks all "

Old Fab proverb. “If something seems too good to be true it normally is”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if she was married, or you are married and trying to hide what you are doing, then a lot of people would consider that your own tough luck and you deserve it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you meet on Fab if so report if paid her by pay pal or card inform and get refund I'd definitely inform the police it's not The money it might happen to others also I bet it's a bloke from Nigeria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An expensive lesson learned. I wouldn't give anyone money unless I was in a long term relationship with the person.

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