FabSwingers.com forum: Clubs as a single guy.

By *aiseaneyebrow OP Man
over a year ago

Fylde

Hi all. Looking for a bit of advice please.

Been around here for a fair number of years and had some lovely times with lovely people. However, I think it may be time to explore the club scene.

I’m based in Blackpool so there’s certainly options, but as a single guy can someone give me an idiots guide.

Unless of course anyone wants to hold my hand on my first visit?

Thanks in advance.

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By *r_GirthMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Treat as any other social gathering.

Chat and respectful banter.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

The advice is always try and chat to people in the bar. In the playrooms dont touch unless you ask permission first or are invited to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in the same situation as you, really keen to try but a little apprehensive for my first visit.

Would much prefer to attend with somebody.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why dont you go together ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat to people!

If you wander around by yourself and sit in corners you will just look like a creepy weirdo and people will avoid.

Socialisebut have no expectations

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By *aiseaneyebrow OP Man
over a year ago

Fylde

Thanks for all of that advice. More about the mechanics really. Assume I need to join? Membership etc? What do people take with them etc?

Daft questions probably I’m sure.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You need photo ID and proof of address eg bank statement or utility bill.

Take condoms in case you get lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all of that advice. More about the mechanics really. Assume I need to join? Membership etc? What do people take with them etc?

Daft questions probably I’m sure. "

Most clubs are members only so you'll need to join. Also many don't allow single guys some nights or you're required to book in. So always contact the club first.

Take whatever you think you'll need. For me, I take a change of lingerie and stockings, condoms, toys, wipes, perfume, makeup, hairbands, the essentials for an evening of play and socialising

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