FabSwingers.com forum: Being more dominant

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

One thing I've found out from meetings on this site is that I have a mild dominant side that I really enjoy exploring.

To the dominant or submissive out their, what (practical) things do you enjoy about that kind of dynamic?

For me, I've loved using belts and restraints, blindfolds and toys with a bit of physical play as well.. Like hair pulling, spanking etc.

What is it that you enjoy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male here - I never really had a dominant side until we got together, Mrs F loves to be quite sub, and I must say it's opened my eyes as I enjoy it more every time we do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Male here - I never really had a dominant side until we got together, Mrs F loves to be quite sub, and I must say it's opened my eyes as I enjoy it more every time we do it."

I know what you mean about something sparking it. I met someone who was submissive but absolutely intoxicating and when she pushed me to be more dominant with her I loved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Male here - I never really had a dominant side until we got together, Mrs F loves to be quite sub, and I must say it's opened my eyes as I enjoy it more every time we do it.

I know what you mean about something sparking it. I met someone who was submissive but absolutely intoxicating and when she pushed me to be more dominant with her I loved it.

That's it exactly, think she likes pushing the boundaries more every time too, not gonna grumble tho

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

My fantasy is to be lead into a fully equipped dungeon, but if a guy decides to use his initiative (been done before) and use his wife's panties for a gag instead of ball gag, stockings instead of cuffs, hairbrush instead of paddle, belt instead of flogger, footboard instead of spreader bar... when being used it still has the desired affect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My fantasy is to be lead into a fully equipped dungeon, but if a guy decides to use his initiative (been done before) and use his wife's panties for a gag instead of ball gag, stockings instead of cuffs, hairbrush instead of paddle, belt instead of flogger, footboard instead of spreader bar... when being used it still has the desired affect

Dungeons, leather chaps etc are all too heavy for me and don't really appeal.

I'm basically just a watered down and significantly skinter version of Christian Grey

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Male here - I never really had a dominant side until we got together, Mrs F loves to be quite sub, and I must say it's opened my eyes as I enjoy it more every time we do it.

I know what you mean about something sparking it. I met someone who was submissive but absolutely intoxicating and when she pushed me to be more dominant with her I loved it.

That's it exactly, think she likes pushing the boundaries more every time too, not gonna grumble tho

Go with the flow mate, she looks

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Dont think i could dominate a lady but want a lady to dominate me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a switch

I can be both Dom and sub with females I prefer to be sub but with men I prefer to be in control

I do like to play sub and Dom with hubs if the mood suits him but he hates playing Dom I would never let another man control me

Mrscxxx

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