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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

So obviously guys send a lot of messages on fabs. But I was wondering how often women and couples initiate the messaging with guys?

I rarely get messages from anyone other than other guys (understatement).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. Would be nice to get some genuine interest

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By *eds1Man
over a year ago

Salisbury

Yes the same here to

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I send lots of first messages x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s nice to hear

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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

It’s probably the case that they do. But with the ratio as it is then then odds are against being picked out if the crowd.

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

I get certainly more likes and messages from men even though not bi or gay.. but then I guess the proportion of men on this site far outweighs women or couples wanting men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if a lady or couple message you first then you must really stand out so even if you arent interested then take it as a massive compliment. The numbers are not in our favour, simple as really.

I've never had anyone message me first - had one wink but that is it. You just have to accept it and make the most of the opportunities that come up

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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"I think if a lady or couple message you first then you must really stand out so even if you arent interested then take it as a massive compliment. The numbers are not in our favour, simple as really.

I've never had anyone message me first - had one wink but that is it. You just have to accept it and make the most of the opportunities that come up "

Yep, more winks than messages. But I then message them and get nothing back lol.

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By *oetic licenceCouple
over a year ago

Mellor

We send 1st messages. It's not right single guys do all the chasing.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I send out first messages. It’s usually if I’ve seen a pic I appreciate or the profile stands out

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

We block single guys from messaging us as too much traffic and we aren’t always looking. However when we are looking, we then will send a first message to those who interest us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say my inbox tends be -

75% men.

15% suspicious couples where “it’s only the Male here”.

5% women.

5% real couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We send 1st messages. It's not right single guys do all the chasing. "

Nice to hear you message first sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have on occasion sent out first messages mainly to other couples and single women though and it was when our account was new. Since we have had multiple verifications and attend local clubs we get to many messages to cope with at times and there's more than enough potential play partners in those messages if / when we decide to have a meet x

KJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We, like others mentioned here, have sent out messages to guys who took our interest, in the past.

If we find a guy interesting, we initiate contact.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Think ?? I’ve had it once maybe twice a women or cpl have txt me first

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By *r_GirthMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I get more winks from women than messages, if I get a wink, I have a look and might message back.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

No winks 4?me

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By *aughty in TamworthMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

I appreciate any message (well almost any)

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Those guys lie. They don’t want to suck Your cock they just want to wank at the idea of sucking it and then run off back to wifey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never receive a message first or even a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always initiate chat but rarely get a reply off anyone

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