FabSwingers.com forum: Suspicious

By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

Does anyone else automatically get a tad suspicious when a single lady messages - particularly to another lady ?

You know the accounts ... just a couple of veris , a really attractive woman that’s relatively new

Can’t help but automatically set the alarm bell off in my head lol

Or am I just far too sceptical haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% haha

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I’d like get suspicious.. no lady ever messages me out of the blue lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why? I just think it's a lady messaging me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are an attractive woman and we don't see any reason to be suspicious - hope you enjoy and we aren't wrong - only one way to find out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely have ladies message me - unless they're from the forum.

I'm more suspicious that they're part of a couple profile and theres a man lurking in the background somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a female friend who was in here.

But had this issue when messaging people.

She left. Luckily she still plays.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I get suspicious when I get a message from an apparently very sexy rocking couple and the questions being asked immediately identify it as the male. So when you ask where’s your partner. She’s always out

I feel your pain because it’s a major pain in the ass having to press the block button. Why can’t they put it in a more convenient place

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"100% haha"

I hate being suspicious but for every 1000 messages I get only 1 would be a woman and normally it’s just a friend type of message

As soon as it’s a sexual one I totally start thinking fake lol

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Hs happened on a few occaisons to us very recently and politely declined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"100% haha

I hate being suspicious but for every 1000 messages I get only 1 would be a woman and normally it’s just a friend type of message

As soon as it’s a sexual one I totally start thinking fake lol "

Thats us haha! If they ask for our kik or snap straight away thats also alarm bells...its a mine field out here!

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Yes! And men hlseem to have no idea how women speak in a textual context, what we say etc... I think it's normally pretty easy to tell...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes! And men hlseem to have no idea how women speak in a textual context, what we say etc... I think it's normally pretty easy to tell..."

Ahhh yes is such a give away right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a 33 year old lady message me asking to meet. At the time new to site and unverifed. I thought fake and ignored it. A month later she had 10 verifications from different guys :-0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad I just take everything at face value ... don't think negatively until all is revealed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would get suspicious.

The first thing I think when a woman messages me out of the blue, is how much do she want lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offer a phone chat to make yourselves genuine, it's amazing how quickly they go quiet and ignore you haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No women ever mail me anyway. So, l would not know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So a single woman sending messages raises suspicion even when she can verify herself via phone or cam....kinda no point then being here then

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I had a 33 year old lady message me asking to meet. At the time new to site and unverifed. I thought fake and ignored it. A month later she had 10 verifications from different guys :-0 "

I got a message from a very well endowed guy who at the time I thought “mmm that’s nice, let’s see where this goes”. He then told me he thought I was a fake.

Now he knows I’m not but he’s blown it so I wouldn’t meet him now.

As someone who gets accused ALL THE TIME, I give people the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else automatically get a tad suspicious when a single lady messages - particularly to another lady ?

You know the accounts ... just a couple of veris , a really attractive woman that’s relatively new

Can’t help but automatically set the alarm bell off in my head lol

Or am I just far too sceptical haha "
no when a lady messages me I have a party

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west

We’ve had a few messages from “single women “ and every time , it’s the same “do you have kik?”, male pic hunters is my guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve had a few messages from “single women “ and every time , it’s the same “do you have kik?”, male pic hunters is my guess "

Why does kik make you a male pic hunter?

I use it to picture and cam verify without having to give someone my phone number. If they prove genuine then I’ll exchange numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve had a few messages from “single women “ and every time , it’s the same “do you have kik?”, male pic hunters is my guess "

That's our take on it too as we get that a lot, it's like on the 2nd message too before they've even asked anything at all, it amazes us how they go quietly away when you say no just looking for their next victim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get suspicious when anyone messages me..especially couples!

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

Well I think my suspicions are proving right haha

Having the funniest convo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kik is good to verify.live pics not downloaded from someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve had a few messages from “single women “ and every time , it’s the same “do you have kik?”, male pic hunters is my guess

Why does kik make you a male pic hunter?

I use it to picture and cam verify without having to give someone my phone number. If they prove genuine then I’ll exchange numbers "

This is what I do too and kik can send live pic that you know was taken there and then as opposed to one obtained anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Had a very pretty mid 20’s girl messaging me, then asked to chat in kik which I did but I got very suspicious that it was a hairy arsed fella. She was just far too keen to be a genuine girl and she kept sending me the same pics and videos and making excuses when I asked for live ones so to speak.

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By *ifornowCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

We get messages from "single" women now and again, but it usually transpires that she has a partner lurking somewhere in the background and he would like to meet first !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Offer a phone chat to make yourselves genuine, it's amazing how quickly they go quiet and ignore you haha."

Although you have to be careful with this. I won't speak to people on the phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a single lady mess ge me to say.. "Your pics are good.. Bet you get inundated" That was it. I didnt take it to be anything more than a simple statement.

Dont analyse too much on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it sounds or looks too good to be true...it usually is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else automatically get a tad suspicious when a single lady messages - particularly to another lady ?

You know the accounts ... just a couple of veris , a really attractive woman that’s relatively new

Can’t help but automatically set the alarm bell off in my head lol

Or am I just far too sceptical haha "

No you aren't the only one who gets suspicious and usually the suspicions are right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a 33 year old lady message me asking to meet. At the time new to site and unverifed. I thought fake and ignored it. A month later she had 10 verifications from different guys :-0

I got a message from a very well endowed guy who at the time I thought “mmm that’s nice, let’s see where this goes”. He then told me he thought I was a fake.

Now he knows I’m not but he’s blown it so I wouldn’t meet him now.

As someone who gets accused ALL THE TIME, I give people the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise

Just checked your Instagram, how do you find so much sun in Liverpool? It's always raining when we go haha.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We had a message from a single lady

And when it turned out to be real !

We didn't know what to do with ourselves !!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I used to, normally it was someone pretending to be friendly but really they were interested in or had met someone I'd met and were fishing for info. I don't get it so much when my verifications aren't on show.

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"We had a message from a single lady

And when it turned out to be real !

We didn't know what to do with ourselves !!"

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"100% haha

I hate being suspicious but for every 1000 messages I get only 1 would be a woman and normally it’s just a friend type of message

As soon as it’s a sexual one I totally start thinking fake lol "

Hear you loud and clear.

They tend to have the same air of certainty about them too, that both myself and B instantly want to get down n dirty with "her", because it's always first messages like "when are we meeting?"

"What are you gonna do to me when we meet?"

Who the fuck says we are or even want to you entitled little prick whoever you may be?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!! Especially when she is hot lol

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"100% haha

I hate being suspicious but for every 1000 messages I get only 1 would be a woman and normally it’s just a friend type of message

As soon as it’s a sexual one I totally start thinking fake lol

Hear you loud and clear.

They tend to have the same air of certainty about them too, that both myself and B instantly want to get down n dirty with "her", because it's always first messages like "when are we meeting?"

"What are you gonna do to me when we meet?"

Who the fuck says we are or even want to you entitled little prick whoever you may be?!

That’s exactly it ... too sexual , too quickly , too ‘written like a man’ lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"100% haha

I hate being suspicious but for every 1000 messages I get only 1 would be a woman and normally it’s just a friend type of message

As soon as it’s a sexual one I totally start thinking fake lol

Hear you loud and clear.

They tend to have the same air of certainty about them too, that both myself and B instantly want to get down n dirty with "her", because it's always first messages like "when are we meeting?"

"What are you gonna do to me when we meet?"

Who the fuck says we are or even want to you entitled little prick whoever you may be?!

That’s exactly it ... too sexual , too quickly , too ‘written like a man’ lol "
not all men write sexually now come here and ride me to oblivion or 58 the high St whichever is closer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than likely a fake especially if it’s not pic verified and verified by a guy literally straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"100% haha

I hate being suspicious but for every 1000 messages I get only 1 would be a woman and normally it’s just a friend type of message

As soon as it’s a sexual one I totally start thinking fake lol

Hear you loud and clear.

They tend to have the same air of certainty about them too, that both myself and B instantly want to get down n dirty with "her", because it's always first messages like "when are we meeting?"

"What are you gonna do to me when we meet?"

Who the fuck says we are or even want to you entitled little prick whoever you may be?!

That’s exactly it ... too sexual , too quickly , too ‘written like a man’ lol "

Yes!! Even if it actually was a female, that would be enough to turn me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel free to point them in my direction, I'm still waiting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your are kind of fit go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cripes! I have to stop messaging with "FAF?" in my opening messages

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By *utonguy2023Man
over a year ago

luton

Do womem message on here then??

Yet to encounter that luxury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huh

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"100% haha

I hate being suspicious but for every 1000 messages I get only 1 would be a woman and normally it’s just a friend type of message

As soon as it’s a sexual one I totally start thinking fake lol

Hear you loud and clear.

They tend to have the same air of certainty about them too, that both myself and B instantly want to get down n dirty with "her", because it's always first messages like "when are we meeting?"

"What are you gonna do to me when we meet?"

Who the fuck says we are or even want to you entitled little prick whoever you may be?!

That’s exactly it ... too sexual , too quickly , too ‘written like a man’ lol

Yes!! Even if it actually was a female, that would be enough to turn me off

Haha you found like me !! I’m racy I find it quite scary if it is actually a woman

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"I would get suspicious.

The first thing I think when a woman messages me out of the blue, is how much do she want lol"

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I had a 33 year old lady message me asking to meet. At the time new to site and unverifed. I thought fake and ignored it. A month later she had 10 verifications from different guys :-0

I got a message from a very well endowed guy who at the time I thought “mmm that’s nice, let’s see where this goes”. He then told me he thought I was a fake.

Now he knows I’m not but he’s blown it so I wouldn’t meet him now.

As someone who gets accused ALL THE TIME, I give people the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise

Just checked your Instagram, how do you find so much sun in Liverpool? It's always raining when we go haha."

Haha lots of my photos are taken in Greece and Italy . I travel a lot! Although, we had a few weeks of gorgeous weather recently and I made the most of that!

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Yes i do. I often reverse image pics and suggest they get photo verified to show they r genuine. And when they start sexting i know its very unlikely a woman when ive told them im straight ( which i had with 1 today)!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do womem message on here then??

Yet to encounter that luxury"
lol...very true

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Does anyone else automatically get a tad suspicious when a single lady messages - particularly to another lady ?

You know the accounts ... just a couple of veris , a really attractive woman that’s relatively new

Can’t help but automatically set the alarm bell off in my head lol

Or am I just far too sceptical haha "

Yep, it's generally a fella.

Sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

Even to the point I had one an hour ago, brand new profile, saying she lives in my village and needs friends and would I like to swap numbers to meet up ...

Pretty sure it's my ex husband playing some game.

Byeeeee Felicia

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

If it's legit..she just wants my wardrobe anyway lol

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"If it's legit..she just wants my wardrobe anyway lol"

That lols like a pretty big wardrobe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a 33 year old lady message me asking to meet. At the time new to site and unverifed. I thought fake and ignored it. A month later she had 10 verifications from different guys :-0

I got a message from a very well endowed guy who at the time I thought “mmm that’s nice, let’s see where this goes”. He then told me he thought I was a fake.

Now he knows I’m not but he’s blown it so I wouldn’t meet him now.

As someone who gets accused ALL THE TIME, I give people the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise

Just checked your Instagram, how do you find so much sun in Liverpool? It's always raining when we go haha.

Haha lots of my photos are taken in Greece and Italy . I travel a lot! Although, we had a few weeks of gorgeous weather recently and I made the most of that!

Should have messaged me instead and iv had replied to you haha. Id have believed you were genuine. If werent youd trip yourself up at some point haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a 33 year old lady message me asking to meet. At the time new to site and unverifed. I thought fake and ignored it. A month later she had 10 verifications from different guys :-0

I got a message from a very well endowed guy who at the time I thought “mmm that’s nice, let’s see where this goes”. He then told me he thought I was a fake.

Now he knows I’m not but he’s blown it so I wouldn’t meet him now.

As someone who gets accused ALL THE TIME, I give people the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise

Just checked your Instagram, how do you find so much sun in Liverpool? It's always raining when we go haha.

Haha lots of my photos are taken in Greece and Italy . I travel a lot! Although, we had a few weeks of gorgeous weather recently and I made the most of that!

Girl1234xxx I can’t lie when you first made your profile I thought you were a definite fake lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else automatically get a tad suspicious when a single lady messages - particularly to another lady ?

You know the accounts ... just a couple of veris , a really attractive woman that’s relatively new

Can’t help but automatically set the alarm bell off in my head lol

Or am I just far too sceptical haha "

We get the same , soon as we ask for a chat on the phone & just like that they’ve vanished from the planet

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

So this fem said she saw me st a club 3 weeks ago that I haven’t been to in a year , that she goes to said club every other week but doesn’t know anyone there cos she’s too busy taking on 11 guys in a private room. Is straight on profile but wants to meet me

And then I ask for her WhatsApp and she’s never to reply again

Hahaha

I think she just be real right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So this fem said she saw me st a club 3 weeks ago that I haven’t been to in a year , that she goes to said club every other week but doesn’t know anyone there cos she’s too busy taking on 11 guys in a private room. Is straight on profile but wants to meet me

And then I ask for her WhatsApp and she’s never to reply again

Hahaha

I think she just be real right ? "

Hahahahahhaha she’s as real as it gets tbh looool

Expose her profile name (or shall I say his)

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I had a 33 year old lady message me asking to meet. At the time new to site and unverifed. I thought fake and ignored it. A month later she had 10 verifications from different guys :-0

I got a message from a very well endowed guy who at the time I thought “mmm that’s nice, let’s see where this goes”. He then told me he thought I was a fake.

Now he knows I’m not but he’s blown it so I wouldn’t meet him now.

As someone who gets accused ALL THE TIME, I give people the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise

Just checked your Instagram, how do you find so much sun in Liverpool? It's always raining when we go haha.

Haha lots of my photos are taken in Greece and Italy . I travel a lot! Although, we had a few weeks of gorgeous weather recently and I made the most of that!

Girl1234xxx I can’t lie when you first made your profile I thought you were a definite fake lol"

Don’t worry, everyone does

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

And then I ask for her WhatsApp and she’s never to reply again

Hahaha

I think she just be real right ?

Hahahahahhaha she’s as real as it gets tbh looool

Expose her profile name (or shall I say his)"

That’s the worst thing .. prob moved onto some other unsuspecting fabber

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