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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok another thread about single girls continuing from my last one...

what i think we established is that single girls meeting single guys isnt really swinging and only anything more than a threesome is...

so now my thoughts are that actually single men do have it easier than single women... the reason?...

threesomes generally occur if a couple is involved... but most couples if they seek a female only want a Bi one... if they seek a male it tends to be they are looking for a straight or bi male... if they meet a couple then who knows what goes on...

but what if you are a straight single female? how do you then get yourself involved in threesomes or moresomes??

I am purely summating but: couples want a bi women because a. thats what the F wants b. thats what the M wants to see???...couples want a single male a. to service the F b. to play with both parties and service you both BUT the single straight female I dont think would ever be invited because she's not interested in the F and only interested in the M and most F I know would be uncomfortable with that (as would I in that circumstance tbh)

thoughts please!!!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

with reference to the comment "so now my thoughts are that actually single men do have it easier than single women "

all i would say is if i am having it easier then god help the single girls on here !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"with reference to the comment "so now my thoughts are that actually single men do have it easier than single women "

all i would say is if i am having it easier then god help the single girls on here !!"

Amen to that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you was a single straight female why would you want to meet a couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to have a 3some lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women love to watch their husbands with another woman....i do, but must say i would always have to be some what involved in play - even if it was just with my hubby, so single women bi or striaght v welcome here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i cant see the point in meeting a couple if your a straight female why share a guy when there are so many you can have to yourself, or even have a 3sum with 2 guys that you will play with both

maybe im just greedy, but i personally see no point in meeting someone i have no interest in playing with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally i cant see the point in meeting a couple if your a straight female why share a guy when there are so many you can have to yourself, or even have a 3sum with 2 guys that you will play with both

maybe im just greedy, but i personally see no point in meeting someone i have no interest in playing with"

+1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree nymphos... just trying to work out the pecking order on here for my own amusement... And yes maybe the odd mm (or more) f

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is there a pecking order?

I do ok on here and i have no idea where i stand on the ladder lol

If your a women you'll get what your after, there will always be people wanting to meet you so wouldnt worry about it

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"if you was a single straight female why would you want to meet a couple?"

Because it's kinky to share sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok another thread about single girls continuing from my last one...

what i think we established is that single girls meeting single guys isnt really swinging and only anything more than a threesome is...

so now my thoughts are that actually single men do have it easier than single women... the reason?...

threesomes generally occur if a couple is involved... but most couples if they seek a female only want a Bi one... if they seek a male it tends to be they are looking for a straight or bi male... if they meet a couple then who knows what goes on...

but what if you are a straight single female? how do you then get yourself involved in threesomes or moresomes??

I am purely summating but: couples want a bi women because a. thats what the F wants b. thats what the M wants to see???...couples want a single male a. to service the F b. to play with both parties and service you both BUT the single straight female I dont think would ever be invited because she's not interested in the F and only interested in the M and most F I know would be uncomfortable with that (as would I in that circumstance tbh)

thoughts please!!! "

Swinging is a broad term. Once the keys in the fruit bowl at parties finished the 70's view of swinging went too. Singles meeting singles at swingers clubs is hardly dating. I really don't understand why people desperately try and label everything when there is no real need to do so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is a broad term. Once the keys in the fruit bowl at parties finished the 70's view of swinging went too. Singles meeting singles at swingers clubs is hardly dating. I really don't understand why people desperately try and label everything when there is no real need to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging is a broad term. Once the keys in the fruit bowl at parties finished the 70's view of swinging went too. Singles meeting singles at swingers clubs is hardly dating. I really don't understand why people desperately try and label everything when there is no real need to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok another thread about single girls continuing from my last one...

what i think we established is that single girls meeting single guys isnt really swinging and only anything more than a threesome is..."

Sorry to be a stick in the mud, but I dont think we did actually establish that on the last thread

Im as much of a swinger as the person above me, and above them, and so on...i am registered on a swinging site, i am a member of a swinging club, ive played with men, women, couples, and a fair few who looked a bit alien like...you cant say that on Match.com without getting lynched can ya??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ok another thread about single girls continuing from my last one...

what i think we established is that single girls meeting single guys isnt really swinging and only anything more than a threesome is...

Sorry to be a stick in the mud, but I dont think we did actually establish that on the last thread

Im as much of a swinger as the person above me, and above them, and so on...i am registered on a swinging site, i am a member of a swinging club, ive played with men, women, couples, and a fair few who looked a bit alien like...you cant say that on Match.com without getting lynched can ya?? "

as have I and some of it was great and other bits have shaped me into what i am... Lol... Single straight female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"with reference to the comment "so now my thoughts are that actually single men do have it easier than single women "

all i would say is if i am having it easier then god help the single girls on here !!

Amen to that!!!"

+3

She's moaning and no one's told her to grow a thick skin! Lol

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"

I dont think would ever be invited because she's not interested in the F and only interested in the M and most F I know would be uncomfortable with that (as would I in that circumstance tbh)

thoughts please!!! "

This is all true as men and women from my experience seem about equal in jealousy levels. The critical difference however is that men tend to have higher sex drives than women and as a result there are far more single men actively looking for sex partners than there are single women. This has two effects. Firstly, there is greater competition for the single men and secondly, as a direct result of this, many tend to to adopt an 'up for anything at all' attitude to meets to maximise their chancing of finding any kind of sex. I'm sure a lot of the 'bi-curious' men on here are just straight guys willing to put up with a casual fondle from another guy in order to get intimate with his partner.

So despite the fact straight women are limited in what type of couples they can meet, the average single woman, even if you aren't open to 'absolutely anything' like a lot of the men on her are, you will have massively less competition and a much higher chance of getting a meet.

Also, I think there are a lot more couples who seem to object to single guys than to straight women, even if it is just a 'treat' for the hubby.

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"

I dont think would ever be invited because she's not interested in the F and only interested in the M and most F I know would be uncomfortable with that (as would I in that circumstance tbh)

thoughts please!!!

This is all true as men and women from my experience seem about equal in jealousy levels. The critical difference however is that men tend to have higher sex drives than women and as a result there are far more single men actively looking for sex partners than there are single women. This has two effects. Firstly, there is greater competition for the single men and secondly, as a direct result of this, many tend to to adopt an 'up for anything at all' attitude to meets to maximise their chancing of finding any kind of sex. I'm sure a lot of the 'bi-curious' men on here are just straight guys willing to put up with a casual fondle from another guy in order to get intimate with his partner.

So despite the fact straight women are limited in what type of couples they can meet, the average single woman, even if you aren't open to 'absolutely anything' like a lot of the men on her are, you will have massively less competition and a much higher chance of getting a meet.

Also, I think there are a lot more couples who seem to object to single guys than to straight women, even if it is just a 'treat' for the hubby.

"

I think this is what we've basically tryed to say in other threads but still somehow people manage to twist theses facts around ..

So many single women on these sites moan but they have the option to pick and choose and even be fussy no matter how old they are or no matter what they look like.. Many couples and single guys don't have this luxury..

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"personally i cant see the point in meeting a couple if your a straight female why share a guy when there are so many you can have to yourself, or even have a 3sum with 2 guys that you will play with both

maybe im just greedy, but i personally see no point in meeting someone i have no interest in playing with"

if you want group sex surely going to a club is the simplest way

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"So many single women on these sites moan but they have the option to pick and choose and even be fussy no matter how old they are or no matter what they look like.. Many couples and single guys don't have this luxury.. "

Amen to that! We have spoken to guys with a view to meeting who have said that they would meet any woman because it's a shag! Of course most won't admit to this, but it is certainly interesting to look at validations and who they have met!

Steve... Not in Cap this year matey.. Normandy in June.. But who knows what will happen in August/Sept lol

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