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Will you ever stop?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will you ever stop the swinging lifestyle?

I was thinking to myself just know will I ever stop, I have before but the current always seems to suck me back in! Interested to know what you guys think, is it just a stage in your life or is it your lifestyle?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I honestly dont know. I guess it would depend on whether I met Mr Right. Ideally I think I'd like a swinging relationship. Hence why I'm still here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think you ever lose the mind set, whether you can keep swinging in practice until the end of your life is another matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i ever find someone who wants me and who isnt into this then yes i would

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"I don't think you ever lose the mind set, whether you can keep swinging in practice until the end of your life is another matter"

I was trying to think of a good way to put it and this it precisely.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't think you ever lose the mind set, whether you can keep swinging in practice until the end of your life is another matter

I was trying to think of a good way to put it and this it precisely. "

It would be nice to have a circle of friends to kind of grow older with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’m going to be like Jaqueline from Benidorm lol ??

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

We met through swinging so it's a big part of our life. We're not massive players (we go to Chams and organise swing camps) but can't see us ever giving up. It's who we are

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I really don't think so. It's part of who I am and it's a freedom I'd never want to give up. I love it when we come across couples who are 60+. It shows me that Me and My Girl we do not need to be limited by age and are free to keep enjoying the scene whatever age. Oh and by the way (A complete eye opener for me) there are some really banging sexy people 60+. It really give me hope for a long and happy swinging future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I found a man who was great company, gorgeous, and bloody marvellous in bed, I wouldn't need to look elsewhere.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would if the perfect situation came about but that's probably never going to happen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think with me it’s a phase

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon


"If I found a man who was great company, gorgeous, and bloody marvellous in bed, I wouldn't need to look elsewhere. "

See I have that but I don’t see it as looking elsewhere I see it as adding to a great sex life. Oh and I’m greedy

Molly

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon


"If I found a man who was great company, gorgeous, and bloody marvellous in bed, I wouldn't need to look elsewhere.

See I have that but I don’t see it as looking elsewhere I see it as adding to a great sex life. Oh and I’m greedy

Molly

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So right now I would say no

Molly

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I'd like to eventually have the best of both worlds...a swinging partner and also freedom for us both to play alone if desired. I don't see myself leaving the lifestyle for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could start over I would like a man to join me in the lifestyle and experience it together

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

At 70 it's starting to get hard to find cpls to play with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At 70 it's starting to get hard to find cpls to play with "

Don’t worry, it’s not always easy for us younger guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's maybe inevitable that I will eventually come off it, but until that day. I'm gonna enjoy the swinging lifestyle as much as I possibly can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will you ever stop the swinging lifestyle?

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Yes,soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having had one break for over five years, we know we will not be at it for very long. Probably another four-five years, then, hang up our outfits....lol.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"At 70 it's starting to get hard to find cpls to play with "

I can see that age could be a problem but I hope I'm still doing my thing at 70...its not that far away x

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By *illi999Woman
over a year ago

rowley regis

I had a 8yr break and I doubt I’ll stop now , I’d settle down with someone special if we could choose to swing together or be exclusive .

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

We have been swinging for well over thirty years. We totally separate the pleasure we get from sexual activity with others with a commitment and love we have for each other.

For us they are two entirely different scenarios.

When I watch G being serviced by 1/2/3 guys I get immense satisfaction with the visual spectacle and the sense of pride that this lady has devoted her life to me and me like wise.

We see no conflict as love and sex can either be the same thing or two entirely different things.We would venture to suggest that if you can't separate the two notions perhaps you should not be swinging as it could all end in tears.

G&A

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Most will stop in their sixties, definitely seventies. You'll start to look around and think "Am I now that dirty old wo/man I used to observe trying to get off with much younger people?".

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Guess age and infirmity will take their toll, but as long as we are enjoying the lifestyle, we will keep going!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"At 70 it's starting to get hard to find cpls to play with

I can see that age could be a problem but I hope I'm still doing my thing at 70...its not that far away x"

I don't know not saying there's loads but there are a fair few on the scene. It's great to see. Hope for us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came to it later in life and it's probably a phase. I think mindsets can change so when it does that'll be the time to stop and enjoy other things.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I dipped my toe in later in life and have not looked back, when I am no longer gaining satisfaction from swinging I would stop, I do want to work through my sexual bucket list first.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Most will stop in their sixties, definitely seventies. You'll start to look around and think "Am I now that dirty old wo/man I used to observe trying to get off with much younger people?"."

it doesn't have to be with much younger people and I don't think it makes you dirty because you want to express yourself at any age

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Most will stop in their sixties, definitely seventies. You'll start to look around and think "Am I now that dirty old wo/man I used to observe trying to get off with much younger people?"."

. I never look round and think that

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By *oinus1961Couple
over a year ago

Huntingdon

You never know what might be just round the corner. Having discovered this we had SO much fun. But then something happened unexpectedly which had a domino effect and now no sex. At all.

And then you learn what's important.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Always retiring. Keep cumming out of retirement. It has a prolongining effect, rebirth, recycling.

Part of my psyche says return only to end and return again.

God I'm turning into........Dr Who.

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