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Have you told friends you swing?

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By *oneyjule65 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

We have told a few as if we are on a social meet with a guy we don't want them to be shocked if I have a sneaky kiss with the guy. The response has been positive & they are curious as to the lifestyle. At our local pubs the staff know what we do & are great. At times if we are on our own they ask us if we will be having company...however we are careful if we see work colleagues...that's a different thing altogether.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

A few of our best friends know. They're non-judgmental, some have asked what we actually do but we don't go into details other than say swapping partners.

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By *andsome_Chef88Man
over a year ago

London

Nope. I've been caught out though by a family member. But it's cool we laugh about it and go on meets together for mmf sometimes (the family member is a Male cousin)

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

No and hopefully they will never find out

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By *liceinWonderland38Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

I have a friend who knows, she is the one I tell when I’m meeting new people as my safety measure. Other than that I think the world would be shocked

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I am pretty open about it, would like to pretend my sister and parents don’t know but I’m guessing they probably do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some. But those guys are on the fetish scene, so it's just like saying "so, I'm going to this different club now, you should come along to the social and see the dungeon, it's amazing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm extremely shy couldn’t possibly tell others omg social outrage

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Genrally not, apart from freinds on the scene obvisoly. I have a couple of close freinds who know. It's not something I'm ashamed of (quite the opposite) but my sexual exploits are my private buisness.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

None... I've kept this separate from my friends and colleagues

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By *heEpicureanMan
over a year ago

Warminster

My friends know. The way I told them wasn’t the best.

I was bored at a dinner party, of hearing about my friends wife thinking she was wild in bed. My friend had fucked her in front of a mirror which led her to believe she had the best sex life on that table. I told her how vanilla she actually was and that she can speak about her “wild sex life” again until she has taken two or more cocks at the same time. Stunned silence and an awkward hug when I left but it was worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope but then it never really has a chance to come in conversation either.

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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

We’ve not told anyone but we do wonder which of our friends might also be! We recon even if some of our friends are swingers, they’d be shocked that we are, so really we can’t rule anyone out

There should be a phrase that changes monthly that you could drop into conversation to see if your friends react. Maybe something like “orange bananas “ - something totally non sexual but something you’d never just say... it should change monthly though or word would get out...

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By *ultrySiriWoman
over a year ago

Arundel

Couple of friends know and are fully supportive. It's safer for me this way. I don't use them for debrief as such... just its nice to know you have people around with who you don't have to 'wear a mask'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My bestie knows - shes not surprised either

She doesn't know the nitty gritty but she knows that I used to have a thing going with a couple.

I think she thinks I'm poly - which is actually something that appeals to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck no!!!

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

A few friends and family know, I'm not ashamed lol it's my life and my choices xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of our friends know, a few of our colleagues know.

I've found that generally, I wish they didn't. Some family eventually found out and I hate that. People tend to make assumptions on our marriage and I really feel uncomfortable being around the family that know, especially if they crack jokes.

That's just me ha ha.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not ones I wouldn’t want to bring onto the scene. I have told a few I went to a party where it turned into an orgy to test the water. They were all ‘get in’ ‘good lad’ ... etc. I suggested they come to the next... the excuses flowed faster then Victoria falls.

It’s best to keep it separate imho - I have swing friends and regular friends. Rare it crosses over. Great when it does. My local club was like a pub to me. I can’t go so much anymore which is a shame.

C

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By *pa and dCouple
over a year ago

Barnet

We generally keep our lives separate, but inevitably there are a couple of friends who we've grown close enough to know we won't feel the wrath of dissaproval from & so we've opened up more to them.

We do find however we have fuckbuddies and friends. If a fuckbuddy becomes too much of a friend then it complicates things a bit too much for us. I think we're just after fantasy fun & want to keep real life far away.

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By *oneyjule65 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"My friends know. The way I told them wasn’t the best.

I was bored at a dinner party, of hearing about my friends wife thinking she was wild in bed. My friend had fucked her in front of a mirror which led her to believe she had the best sex life on that table. I told her how vanilla she actually was and that she can speak about her “wild sex life” again until she has taken two or more cocks at the same time. Stunned silence and an awkward hug when I left but it was worth it. "

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

My sister and best friends know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its my dirty secret.

Wish I was braver to be more open!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a non swinging FB Becky who I work with when over in the states she knows other than that its my little seperate life

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I don't broardcast, but neither do I keep it secret

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, I haven't told them I enjoy being restrained in leather and flogged either.

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

We have told a few close friends

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a close friend but we're both little monkeys so he knew already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of my friends know. I'm a very private lady!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell someone when I meet for safety reason, the who’s and where etc, I say my close friends and family that I haven’t openly told would not be suprised in the slightest anyway

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