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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see a lot of love for bbw and rightfully so but there seems to be a lot less threads for skinnier

woman with small boobs.

Is this not a thing as I struggle with liking my size and weight, I eat like a horse, and don’t want surgical help with boob jobs etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Charlie likes small boobs x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s presumed that it’s a given that all men like slim women, where as men feel the need to start threads for the larger lady, like they feel they are doing them some kind of a favour.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Unfortunately you’re right, but it’s probably because the media present plenty of thin women as being acceptable already.

What should hopefully come from the stuff on Fab is that no matter what you think of your body shape, there are plenty who find it attractive.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Omg At last !!

Some ladies work hard to look amazing and it’s never mentioned on here ..

Seems it’s on trend to be nice and compliment the BBW’s as they get called..

Small boobs and slim get my vote ..

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

I am a fan. Not really a boob man. I like a nice bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of love for bbw and rightfully so but there seems to be a lot less threads for skinnier

woman with small boobs.

Is this not a thing as I struggle with liking my size and weight, I eat like a horse, and don’t want surgical help with boob jobs etc.

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I struggled with my size when I was a lot younger, now I'm older I don't give 2 hoots what people think.

We are who we are x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I see a lot of love for bbw and rightfully so but there seems to be a lot less threads for skinnier

woman with small boobs.

Is this not a thing as I struggle with liking my size and weight, I eat like a horse, and don’t want surgical help with boob jobs etc.

"

There are threads for slimmer women.

There's a proliferation of bbw threads, started by men in the main, to attract women they think maybe easier to meet.

Reading some of these bbw threads the women talk about them being confidence boosting...then they crash and burn when the bloke disappears after a shag.

The thing is, regardless of size, there are men that will say anything to women on here to get a shag. You could look like a Victoria Secrets model or the Goodyear blimp, by nature of being on this site some will just want to hit it and quit it.

It's up to us to take compliments with a quarry of salt, be kind to ourselves and others and just take it for what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of love for bbw and rightfully so but there seems to be a lot less threads for skinnier

woman with small boobs.

Is this not a thing as I struggle with liking my size and weight, I eat like a horse, and don’t want surgical help with boob jobs etc.

There are threads for slimmer women.

There's a proliferation of bbw threads, started by men in the main, to attract women they think maybe easier to meet.

Reading some of these bbw threads the women talk about them being confidence boosting...then they crash and burn when the bloke disappears after a shag.

The thing is, regardless of size, there are men that will say anything to women on here to get a shag. You could look like a Victoria Secrets model or the Goodyear blimp, by nature of being on this site some will just want to hit it and quit it.

It's up to us to take compliments with a quarry of salt, be kind to ourselves and others and just take it for what it is. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love small boobs and sexy slim bodies

And you have a lovely body with curves in all the right places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like slim ladies as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Throw my penny in ... slim with big boobs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will worried if lady asked for tit fuck and it should reach to her mouth, if boobs are big to reach her mouth I will get comment not long enough

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes please am partial to a perty bum too x

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, dont take things to heart as i am sure you are beautiful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, don't take things to heart as I am sure you are beautiful x"

I don't see bashing just chat of preferences and expressing views (I am just making fun of myself) why I need to be worried about strangers and headless people view? Enough stress in life don't want to carry it to fab and continue (aren't we say fab is not life it's just for fun )

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, don't take things to heart as I am sure you are beautiful x

I don't see bashing just chat of preferences and expressing views (I am just making fun of myself) why I need to be worried about strangers and headless people view? Enough stress in life don't want to carry it to fab and continue (aren't we say fab is not life it's just for fun )

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If you dont see bashing then you are reading the wrong thread mate, as i see a heck of a lot in the bbw threads of people bashing less heavy women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, don't take things to heart as I am sure you are beautiful x

I don't see bashing just chat of preferences and expressing views (I am just making fun of myself) why I need to be worried about strangers and headless people view? Enough stress in life don't want to carry it to fab and continue (aren't we say fab is not life it's just for fun )

"

A lot of slim bashing goes on in the forums tbh ... It's a sad admission of the perpetrator's self and thus makes me laugh but does have the ability to hurt others therefore it is very wrong.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, don't take things to heart as I am sure you are beautiful x

I don't see bashing just chat of preferences and expressing views (I am just making fun of myself) why I need to be worried about strangers and headless people view? Enough stress in life don't want to carry it to fab and continue (aren't we say fab is not life it's just for fun )

"

There is a lot of bashing of slimmer women. Phrases such as 'nobody wants to cuddle a stick' 'a road without bends is boring' 'meat is for men, bones are for dogs' are common and often pass unchallenged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, don't take things to heart as I am sure you are beautiful x

I don't see bashing just chat of preferences and expressing views (I am just making fun of myself) why I need to be worried about strangers and headless people view? Enough stress in life don't want to carry it to fab and continue (aren't we say fab is not life it's just for fun )

There is a lot of bashing of slimmer women. Phrases such as 'nobody wants to cuddle a stick' 'a road without bends is boring' 'meat is for men, bones are for dogs' are common and often pass unchallenged.

"

It's the passing unchallenged that actually is the most upsetting thing in my humble opinion and it's that that has put friends of mine off chatting in the forums because it's very unattractive

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, don't take things to heart as I am sure you are beautiful x

I don't see bashing just chat of preferences and expressing views (I am just making fun of myself) why I need to be worried about strangers and headless people view? Enough stress in life don't want to carry it to fab and continue (aren't we say fab is not life it's just for fun )

There is a lot of bashing of slimmer women. Phrases such as 'nobody wants to cuddle a stick' 'a road without bends is boring' 'meat is for men, bones are for dogs' are common and often pass unchallenged.

"

Makes me want to cuddle their stick with a chainsaw and im not even thin lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, don't take things to heart as I am sure you are beautiful x

I don't see bashing just chat of preferences and expressing views (I am just making fun of myself) why I need to be worried about strangers and headless people view? Enough stress in life don't want to carry it to fab and continue (aren't we say fab is not life it's just for fun )

There is a lot of bashing of slimmer women. Phrases such as 'nobody wants to cuddle a stick' 'a road without bends is boring' 'meat is for men, bones are for dogs' are common and often pass unchallenged.

It's the passing unchallenged that actually is the most upsetting thing in my humble opinion and it's that that has put friends of mine off chatting in the forums because it's very unattractive "

There are a few of us who do challenge it. It's usually met with a feeble response or a claim that they were only joking.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, don't take things to heart as I am sure you are beautiful x

I don't see bashing just chat of preferences and expressing views (I am just making fun of myself) why I need to be worried about strangers and headless people view? Enough stress in life don't want to carry it to fab and continue (aren't we say fab is not life it's just for fun )

There is a lot of bashing of slimmer women. Phrases such as 'nobody wants to cuddle a stick' 'a road without bends is boring' 'meat is for men, bones are for dogs' are common and often pass unchallenged.

Makes me want to cuddle their stick with a chainsaw and im not even thin lol. "

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To be fair women do it too.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

Girl i feel you and trust me when i say it ain't any better for us slim guys, I'd go so far as to say it's a lot harder to get meets as we are generally not that sought after.

But as for you be happy, there are loads of us who love the slimmer frame so don't despair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, don't take things to heart as I am sure you are beautiful x

I don't see bashing just chat of preferences and expressing views (I am just making fun of myself) why I need to be worried about strangers and headless people view? Enough stress in life don't want to carry it to fab and continue (aren't we say fab is not life it's just for fun )

If you dont see bashing then you are reading the wrong thread mate, as i see a heck of a lot in the bbw threads of people bashing less heavy women."

Above your post (about bashing) can you point me who has mentioned? Appreciate your views, but there is a difference between culprit and conviction, later one has to be substantiated with facts, the view cannot be prudent always.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, don't take things to heart as I am sure you are beautiful x

I don't see bashing just chat of preferences and expressing views (I am just making fun of myself) why I need to be worried about strangers and headless people view? Enough stress in life don't want to carry it to fab and continue (aren't we say fab is not life it's just for fun )

If you dont see bashing then you are reading the wrong thread mate, as i see a heck of a lot in the bbw threads of people bashing less heavy women.

Above your post (about bashing) can you point me who has mentioned? Appreciate your views, but there is a difference between culprit and conviction, later one has to be substantiated with facts, the view cannot be prudent always."

It's not wise to mention names in the forum but be assured the phrases I mentioned have been used recently. Just because you haven't seen them in use doesn't mean they haven't

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, don't take things to heart as I am sure you are beautiful x

I don't see bashing just chat of preferences and expressing views (I am just making fun of myself) why I need to be worried about strangers and headless people view? Enough stress in life don't want to carry it to fab and continue (aren't we say fab is not life it's just for fun )

If you dont see bashing then you are reading the wrong thread mate, as i see a heck of a lot in the bbw threads of people bashing less heavy women.

Above your post (about bashing) can you point me who has mentioned? Appreciate your views, but there is a difference between culprit and conviction, later one has to be substantiated with facts, the view cannot be prudent always."

I didnt say specifically in this thread, but in the many bbw threads on here there is, hence why there are other women on this thread agreeing with me, maybe you just choose to ignore it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Anyway op, I think slimmer bodies are great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, don't take things to heart as I am sure you are beautiful x

I don't see bashing just chat of preferences and expressing views (I am just making fun of myself) why I need to be worried about strangers and headless people view? Enough stress in life don't want to carry it to fab and continue (aren't we say fab is not life it's just for fun )

If you dont see bashing then you are reading the wrong thread mate, as i see a heck of a lot in the bbw threads of people bashing less heavy women.

Above your post (about bashing) can you point me who has mentioned? Appreciate your views, but there is a difference between culprit and conviction, later one has to be substantiated with facts, the view cannot be prudent always.

I didnt say specifically in this thread, but in the many bbw threads on here there is, hence why there are other women on this thread agreeing with me, maybe you just choose to ignore it."

I dont ignore neither encourage I will sum up " If someone hates you for no reason, give that fucking a reason so they can screw themselves".

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


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It's the passing unchallenged that actually is the most upsetting thing in my humble opinion and it's that that has put friends of mine off chatting in the forums because it's very unattractive

There are a few of us who do challenge it. It's usually met with a feeble response or a claim that they were only joking. "

We have challenged peoples body shaming comments on threads and since finding the forums, most of our recent blocklist members have come from their ridiculous comments on here

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By *romsgrove1Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

I adore skinny Minnie's with little titties

Hit me up if any of you fancy a chat

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Watch the comedy fleabag on iplayer op, it is very funny and at least one man on there was very appreciative of the leading ladies smaller frame

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By *urpeesandwineCouple
over a year ago

Hove


"Throw my penny in ... slim with big boobs? "

Perfect !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has there tastes. Bbw, skinny, girl next door look, the kinky mistress... ect.

The main thing is on here that it can cater for everyone.

Your only as attractive as the person that thinks ur attractive, that works for everyone.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"

It's the passing unchallenged that actually is the most upsetting thing in my humble opinion and it's that that has put friends of mine off chatting in the forums because it's very unattractive

There are a few of us who do challenge it. It's usually met with a feeble response or a claim that they were only joking.

We have challenged peoples body shaming comments on threads and since finding the forums, most of our recent blocklist members have come from their ridiculous comments on here "

I've challenged a few body shamers over the years and the abuse I received from larger ladies and their admirers in pm's was vile. Says alot about their insecurities tbh.

Body confidence no matter what their size is sexy. Slagging off other ladies is not. Be happy with what you have.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"

It's the passing unchallenged that actually is the most upsetting thing in my humble opinion and it's that that has put friends of mine off chatting in the forums because it's very unattractive

There are a few of us who do challenge it. It's usually met with a feeble response or a claim that they were only joking.

We have challenged peoples body shaming comments on threads and since finding the forums, most of our recent blocklist members have come from their ridiculous comments on here

I've challenged a few body shamers over the years and the abuse I received from larger ladies and their admirers in pm's was vile. Says alot about their insecurities tbh.

Body confidence no matter what their size is sexy. Slagging off other ladies is not. Be happy with what you have."

Or slagging of guys, tv, non binary etc. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just judge on personality and attitude , size is never an issue and should never be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a fit lady to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of love for bbw and rightfully so but there seems to be a lot less threads for skinnier

woman with small boobs.

Is this not a thing as I struggle with liking my size and weight, I eat like a horse, and don’t want surgical help with boob jobs etc.

There are threads for slimmer women.

There's a proliferation of bbw threads, started by men in the main, to attract women they think maybe easier to meet.

Reading some of these bbw threads the women talk about them being confidence boosting...then they crash and burn when the bloke disappears after a shag.

The thing is, regardless of size, there are men that will say anything to women on here to get a shag. You could look like a Victoria Secrets model or the Goodyear blimp, by nature of being on this site some will just want to hit it and quit it.

It's up to us to take compliments with a quarry of salt, be kind to ourselves and others and just take it for what it is. "

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just judge on personality and attitude , size is never an issue and should never be "

Well that's utter bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mr) prefer slim ladies with small boobs. It’s why we only meet those with similar body types to our own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watch the comedy fleabag on iplayer op, it is very funny and at least one man on there was very appreciative of the leading ladies smaller frame"

OMG, they're so TINY!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't think I'm slim, but I definitely notice some people getting annoyed with me as I lose weight.

Like fuck off, it's my body, my life, my health. Your fetish or preference is meaningless to me.

We're all doing the best we can and we're all lovely as we are (at least to some people). We can celebrate diversity without bashing other people.

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By *eading28Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, dont take things to heart as i am sure you are beautiful x"

Try being a slim guy, not just in swinging, in vanilla life. Whilst it would be a disciplinary to mock larger people at work, it seems because being thin is seen as a good thing anything goes. Of course I am not that bothered from a taking offence perspective, just double standards and tiresome lol

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, dont take things to heart as i am sure you are beautiful x

Try being a slim guy, not just in swinging, in vanilla life. Whilst it would be a disciplinary to mock larger people at work, it seems because being thin is seen as a good thing anything goes. Of course I am not that bothered from a taking offence perspective, just double standards and tiresome lol"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I adore skinny Minnie's with little titties

Hit me up if any of you fancy a chat"

Yeah I'd rephrase that if I were you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, dont take things to heart as i am sure you are beautiful x

Try being a slim guy, not just in swinging, in vanilla life. Whilst it would be a disciplinary to mock larger people at work, it seems because being thin is seen as a good thing anything goes. Of course I am not that bothered from a taking offence perspective, just double standards and tiresome lol"

I think you've summed it up nicely there. Calling a woman a 'skinny cow' goes unnoticed, there's even an ice cream named so. Call a woman a 'fat cow' and all hell breaks loose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I obviously go on BBW threads and I too hate it when those horrible remarks are made about slim women. I always call it out, and so do many others. All of us are freaking fabulous in one way or another and deserve all the attention we get.

I do hate this idea that was stated earlier in this thread that men only go for us fat girls because we are easier. Believe me, there are many men that find fat attractive, maybe not a comparable number who find slim women attractive, but we do alright.

Anyway women are gorgeous, whether fat or thin, as long as we celebrate each other and our differences xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own, if we all looked the same or found the same things attractive the world would be a boring place.

As long as you love yourself then who cares what others think.

No one (I don’t think) looks at themselves and loves every part of their body but it’s just about accepting that the majority of us are imperfectly perfect and that’s ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People and their insecurities tend to put down others to make themselves feel better.

I’m very clearly nowhere near slim! (One day )

I find when the nastiness is coming from women it’s down to jealous and insecurity and when it’s coming from men it’s to impress other women they may be into. They think that putting slim women down whilst complimenting larger women will interest us. Quite the opposite actually.

There’s a place for everyone on here and I don’t think anyone should be shamed for their size/height/cock regardless.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, don't take things to heart as I am sure you are beautiful x

I don't see bashing just chat of preferences and expressing views (I am just making fun of myself) why I need to be worried about strangers and headless people view? Enough stress in life don't want to carry it to fab and continue (aren't we say fab is not life it's just for fun )

There is a lot of bashing of slimmer women. Phrases such as 'nobody wants to cuddle a stick' 'a road without bends is boring' 'meat is for men, bones are for dogs' are common and often pass unchallenged.

"

they are passed unchallenged because many slim ladies, like myself are perfectly happy with their bodies and any male sad enough to make such comments can simply be ignored lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of love for bbw and rightfully so but there seems to be a lot less threads for skinnier

woman with small boobs.

Is this not a thing as I struggle with liking my size and weight, I eat like a horse, and don’t want surgical help with boob jobs etc.

"

I used to hate my small tits but since I've started going to dress down clubs, I've had a few positive comments and I now love them.

Though the same can't be said about my tummy... I hate it xx

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By *osmicplusMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

OP you're very sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of love for bbw and rightfully so but there seems to be a lot less threads for skinnier

woman with small boobs.

Is this not a thing as I struggle with liking my size and weight, I eat like a horse, and don’t want surgical help with boob jobs etc.

"

You have an amazing body and I really like it! I’m general my preference is for a slim body with small boobs, because like I always say you’re closer to the heart when you kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like slim small women.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Sometimes wish i was curvier with bigger boobs but on the whole i just accept what i am and embrace what i have. It would be a strange world if we were all made the same shape.

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By *itnkatCouple
over a year ago

in lincs between lincoln grantham boston

Being only 5f6 and 9st which for a guy is small large ladies don't appeal like some lady's like tall muscled men who can lift then slim petite girls for me

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Sometimes wish i was curvier with bigger boobs but on the whole i just accept what i am and embrace what i have. It would be a strange world if we were all made the same shape."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like people, their bodies are by the by if I like their face

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

I think putting anyone down in an attempt to make yourself look better is unacceptable behavior.

I did hear that your attracted most to someone who has a similar body shape to your own. It works for me.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"I obviously go on BBW threads and I too hate it when those horrible remarks are made about slim women. I always call it out, and so do many others. All of us are freaking fabulous in one way or another and deserve all the attention we get.

I do hate this idea that was stated earlier in this thread that men only go for us fat girls because we are easier. Believe me, there are many men that find fat attractive, maybe not a comparable number who find slim women attractive, but we do alright.

Anyway women are gorgeous, whether fat or thin, as long as we celebrate each other and our differences xx

"

I think what is being suggested is that some men go for larger ladies cos they 'think' they are easier. They then are 'shocked' when they discover the opposite is likely. These ladies do have a choice and alot of genuine admirers. This is totally different to suggesting that larger ladies are easy, which I haven't seen on this thread and rarely do on others. The issue is some mens perception v the reality.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I absolutely HATE being fat and have spend 40 years yo yo dieting and have tried everything (and I mean everything) to lose weight. Alas, decades of being fat have taken their toll and even if I lost a significant amount of weight now my body would still look a mess (melted candle springs to mind).

I don't blame men for preferring a slim, toned woman - I think it's the perfect look and I admire slim women (mixed with a huge helping of envy! )

I ALWAYS call out any body shaming (regarding slim or bigger women) whether perpetrated by men or women - what purpose does it serve except to make someone feel bad about themselves and why would anyone decent want to do that?

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Surely body shaming is something that should have been left in the playground (not even acceptable then tbf) but it’s childish behaviour, I can’t get my head around adults insulting or trying to body shame somebody on the forum, what do they gain from it? a giggle off one of their fab admirers at most, surely it makes them feel shitty about themselves afterwards, if not then it should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I obviously go on BBW threads and I too hate it when those horrible remarks are made about slim women. I always call it out, and so do many others. All of us are freaking fabulous in one way or another and deserve all the attention we get.

I do hate this idea that was stated earlier in this thread that men only go for us fat girls because we are easier. Believe me, there are many men that find fat attractive, maybe not a comparable number who find slim women attractive, but we do alright.

Anyway women are gorgeous, whether fat or thin, as long as we celebrate each other and our differences xx

I think what is being suggested is that some men go for larger ladies cos they 'think' they are easier. They then are 'shocked' when they discover the opposite is likely. These ladies do have a choice and alot of genuine admirers. This is totally different to suggesting that larger ladies are easy, which I haven't seen on this thread and rarely do on others. The issue is some mens perception v the reality. "

Yes you are right. I realised that reading it back. It's just something that us fat girls have said to us a lot and I could be hyper sensitive about it x

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"Surely body shaming is something that should have been left in the playground (not even acceptable then tbf) but it’s childish behaviour, I can’t get my head around adults insulting or trying to body shame somebody on the forum, what do they gain from it? a giggle off one of their fab admirers at most, surely it makes them feel shitty about themselves afterwards, if not then it should. "

I'm sure you could never be the victim of body shaming... you're both utterly stunning and have perfect bodies. That isn't said with a hint of anything other than admiration... and a bigger hint of envy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to be nice costs nothing. I compliment women all the time whether thin or bbw, everybody is beautiful in their own way

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"I obviously go on BBW threads and I too hate it when those horrible remarks are made about slim women. I always call it out, and so do many others. All of us are freaking fabulous in one way or another and deserve all the attention we get.

I do hate this idea that was stated earlier in this thread that men only go for us fat girls because we are easier. Believe me, there are many men that find fat attractive, maybe not a comparable number who find slim women attractive, but we do alright.

Anyway women are gorgeous, whether fat or thin, as long as we celebrate each other and our differences xx

I think what is being suggested is that some men go for larger ladies cos they 'think' they are easier. They then are 'shocked' when they discover the opposite is likely. These ladies do have a choice and alot of genuine admirers. This is totally different to suggesting that larger ladies are easy, which I haven't seen on this thread and rarely do on others. The issue is some mens perception v the reality.

Yes you are right. I realised that reading it back. It's just something that us fat girls have said to us a lot and I could be hyper sensitive about it x"

It says more about the men with that attitude to be fair.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I much prefer slim ladies over any size.

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By *hangerMan
over a year ago

brighton

Slender legs, slender waist, pert bum and boobs, not over large are my ideal!

Having said that I am not into over skinny verging on anorexic.

Personal preference and nothing against larger women!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I don't understand why people think it only has to be one or the other, many people like a wide (hehe) range of different sizes and shapes.

Hating on anyone about size, shape, height or any other physical attribute is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just judge on personality and attitude , size is never an issue and should never be

Well that's utter bollocks "

How is that bollocks !!!

Don’t use your standards to comment on my choices !!

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"Surely body shaming is something that should have been left in the playground (not even acceptable then tbf) but it’s childish behaviour, I can’t get my head around adults insulting or trying to body shame somebody on the forum, what do they gain from it? a giggle off one of their fab admirers at most, surely it makes them feel shitty about themselves afterwards, if not then it should.

I'm sure you could never be the victim of body shaming... you're both utterly stunning and have perfect bodies. That isn't said with a hint of anything other than admiration... and a bigger hint of envy "

Thank you for the compliment, although we wouldn’t go that far, we are both far from perfect for sure and definitely not everyone’s cup of tea, for one most people like bigger boobs which I’ve never been blessed with and yes did get a pm message once saying I was a titless wonder with no ass amongst other things but just deleted it, if you rise to it they win don’t they.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Surely body shaming is something that should have been left in the playground (not even acceptable then tbf) but it’s childish behaviour, I can’t get my head around adults insulting or trying to body shame somebody on the forum, what do they gain from it? a giggle off one of their fab admirers at most, surely it makes them feel shitty about themselves afterwards, if not then it should. "

Sometimes it is like being back at school on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slim (slight build) all the way for me...anything over size 10 is not optimum for my tastes.

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By *hangerMan
over a year ago

brighton


"

Thank you for the compliment, although we wouldn’t go that far, we are both far from perfect for sure and definitely not everyone’s cup of tea, for one most people like bigger boobs which I’ve never been blessed with and yes did get a pm message once saying I was a titless wonder with no ass amongst other things but just deleted it, if you rise to it they win don’t they. "

Titless wonder and no arse, what idiot thought that. You have a superb figure in every respect! I would so love to play with both of you!

You definitely did the right thing deleting the message and hopefully blocking them for being such an insulting dunce.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, don't take things to heart as I am sure you are beautiful x

I don't see bashing just chat of preferences and expressing views (I am just making fun of myself) why I need to be worried about strangers and headless people view? Enough stress in life don't want to carry it to fab and continue (aren't we say fab is not life it's just for fun )

"

There are comments along the lines of "not real women" and "bag of bones" etc mostly made by men but unchallenged by women.

I'm one of the few who states it's possible to express a preference without insulting those you are not interested in.

Hardly an onerous ask being civil to others.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Tbh there does seem to be alot of people on fab who think it is acceptable to bash the thinner lady, it does make me angry, no one has the right to make others feel bad about their size.

Op there are definitely people on here who like the thinner lady, don't take things to heart as I am sure you are beautiful x

I don't see bashing just chat of preferences and expressing views (I am just making fun of myself) why I need to be worried about strangers and headless people view? Enough stress in life don't want to carry it to fab and continue (aren't we say fab is not life it's just for fun )

There is a lot of bashing of slimmer women. Phrases such as 'nobody wants to cuddle a stick' 'a road without bends is boring' 'meat is for men, bones are for dogs' are common and often pass unchallenged.

"

Seen that too.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I obviously go on BBW threads and I too hate it when those horrible remarks are made about slim women. I always call it out, and so do many others. All of us are freaking fabulous in one way or another and deserve all the attention we get.

I do hate this idea that was stated earlier in this thread that men only go for us fat girls because we are easier. Believe me, there are many men that find fat attractive, maybe not a comparable number who find slim women attractive, but we do alright.

Anyway women are gorgeous, whether fat or thin, as long as we celebrate each other and our differences xx

"

I made the comment. I'm fat, I doubt anyone would accuse me of being shy, retiring and lacking confidence, but going by the amount of threads alone, started by men who have been told no thanks by bigger women, and the women who post they've gone from hot to trot to hot mess in the time it takes to say "No thanks" I stand by my comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

small for me every time be it with a skinny or curvy girl.

Big boobs just arbt for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of love for bbw and rightfully so but there seems to be a lot less threads for skinnier

woman with small boobs.

Is this not a thing as I struggle with liking my size and weight, I eat like a horse, and don’t want surgical help with boob jobs etc.

There are threads for slimmer women.

There's a proliferation of bbw threads, started by men in the main, to attract women they think maybe easier to meet.

Reading some of these bbw threads the women talk about them being confidence boosting...then they crash and burn when the bloke disappears after a shag.

The thing is, regardless of size, there are men that will say anything to women on here to get a shag. You could look like a Victoria Secrets model or the Goodyear blimp, by nature of being on this site some will just want to hit it and quit it.

It's up to us to take compliments with a quarry of salt, be kind to ourselves and others and just take it for what it is. "

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By *inkykel2000Couple
over a year ago

Here & there...


"I see a lot of love for bbw and rightfully so but there seems to be a lot less threads for skinnier

woman with small boobs.

Is this not a thing as I struggle with liking my size and weight, I eat like a horse, and don’t want surgical help with boob jobs etc.

Slim and small boobs are our preference

"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Surely body shaming is something that should have been left in the playground (not even acceptable then tbf) but it’s childish behaviour, I can’t get my head around adults insulting or trying to body shame somebody on the forum, what do they gain from it? a giggle off one of their fab admirers at most, surely it makes them feel shitty about themselves afterwards, if not then it should.

I'm sure you could never be the victim of body shaming... you're both utterly stunning and have perfect bodies. That isn't said with a hint of anything other than admiration... and a bigger hint of envy

Thank you for the compliment, although we wouldn’t go that far, we are both far from perfect for sure and definitely not everyone’s cup of tea, for one most people like bigger boobs which I’ve never been blessed with and yes did get a pm message once saying I was a titless wonder with no ass amongst other things but just deleted it, if you rise to it they win don’t they. "

You have a great figure in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I obviously go on BBW threads and I too hate it when those horrible remarks are made about slim women. I always call it out, and so do many others. All of us are freaking fabulous in one way or another and deserve all the attention we get.

I do hate this idea that was stated earlier in this thread that men only go for us fat girls because we are easier. Believe me, there are many men that find fat attractive, maybe not a comparable number who find slim women attractive, but we do alright.

Anyway women are gorgeous, whether fat or thin, as long as we celebrate each other and our differences xx

I made the comment. I'm fat, I doubt anyone would accuse me of being shy, retiring and lacking confidence, but going by the amount of threads alone, started by men who have been told no thanks by bigger women, and the women who post they've gone from hot to trot to hot mess in the time it takes to say "No thanks" I stand by my comment. "

I misinterpreted the comment you wrote, I don't disagree with what you said. I have (of course) experienced the men who turn nasty when you say no because a 'fatty' like me should be grateful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slim thread gets taken over by BBW’s.....

Slim shaming is rude on here, it’s a fact, no denying it and it’s pretty pathetic really, the people making these comments are very insecure. Would love to see more people challenge it, but when it comes from a single lady especially no one dare as they’ll ruin the very slim chance they ever had of playing with the perpetrator.

Seems fat people are welcome at any club night but try going to a BBW night as a slimish lady, all evil looks from the BBW’s!

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

The slender ladies still have good curves and still appreciated by many.

Don't take to heart what gets said on the forum.

It's all about what's on the inside more of what's on the outside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of love for bbw and rightfully so but there seems to be a lot less threads for skinnier

woman with small boobs.

Is this not a thing as I struggle with liking my size and weight, I eat like a horse, and don’t want surgical help with boob jobs etc.

"

Your pics look great so don't worry about what others think. Concentrate on the one's that like slim ladies and small tits. There are plenty around that appreciate body shape.

That includes me i love slim ladies and absolutely love small pert tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim thread gets taken over by BBW’s.....

Slim shaming is rude on here, it’s a fact, no denying it and it’s pretty pathetic really, the people making these comments are very insecure. Would love to see more people challenge it, but when it comes from a single lady especially no one dare as they’ll ruin the very slim chance they ever had of playing with the perpetrator.

Seems fat people are welcome at any club night but try going to a BBW night as a slimish lady, all evil looks from the BBW’s!"

I remember a post from a slim lady saying she loves BBW ladies, but she won't go to those nights anymore because of the hassle she got.

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By *ldsvenMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

I love women of all sizes! Big boobs, little boobs, fat, thin, flat bum or big old bootie! The female form is a beautiful thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim thread gets taken over by BBW’s.....

Slim shaming is rude on here, it’s a fact, no denying it and it’s pretty pathetic really, the people making these comments are very insecure. Would love to see more people challenge it, but when it comes from a single lady especially no one dare as they’ll ruin the very slim chance they ever had of playing with the perpetrator.

Seems fat people are welcome at any club night but try going to a BBW night as a slimish lady, all evil looks from the BBW’s!"

The thread has hardly been 'taken over'. All the BBW comments on this thread have been utterly supportive of the OP. Apologies if it has been taken in any other way.

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

Love small boobs they get big when preg anyway so best of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim thread gets taken over by BBW’s.....

Slim shaming is rude on here, it’s a fact, no denying it and it’s pretty pathetic really, the people making these comments are very insecure. Would love to see more people challenge it, but when it comes from a single lady especially no one dare as they’ll ruin the very slim chance they ever had of playing with the perpetrator.

Seems fat people are welcome at any club night but try going to a BBW night as a slimish lady, all evil looks from the BBW’s!

I remember a post from a slim lady saying she loves BBW ladies, but she won't go to those nights anymore because of the hassle she got. "

That is so disheartening. I don't understand why some women tear down other females!

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Slim thread gets taken over by BBW’s.....

Slim shaming is rude on here, it’s a fact, no denying it and it’s pretty pathetic really, the people making these comments are very insecure. Would love to see more people challenge it, but when it comes from a single lady especially no one dare as they’ll ruin the very slim chance they ever had of playing with the perpetrator.

Seems fat people are welcome at any club night but try going to a BBW night as a slimish lady, all evil looks from the BBW’s!"

Oh I've challenged many thro the years who have body shamed slim ladies. The abuse thro pm's was unreal. Mainly from bbw's and their admirers stating how dare I stick up for slim ladies when I'm hardly one myself (I was a size 12/14, 6 day a week gym fanatic/ex PT at the time - so hardly a BBW).Sickening really that if I had body shamed BBW's I would have been lynched, but people shaming slim ladies was somehow seen as fair game.

Body shaming is NOT ok. It says more about your insecurities than those you are trying to shame.

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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"I see a lot of love for bbw and rightfully so but there seems to be a lot less threads for skinnier

woman with small boobs.

Is this not a thing as I struggle with liking my size and weight, I eat like a horse, and don’t want surgical help with boob jobs etc.

"

Hey, mr Abz here...

I am similar to you. I am “the skinniest fat bastard you’ll ever meet”! I eat like crazy but I’m just naturally skinny. I used to care about it and be conscious about it, but it’s who I am and if people didn’t like that, basically, fuck them! Mrs Abz likes who I am as do some from here.

What pisses me off is all the “diet to loose weight” shit. Why is there nothing about gaining weight?! Hehe.

But to answer your question, I suppose it's probably a bit of two things. One that’s been mentioned, assumption that it’s the “norm” so people don’t “need” to mention it, and two, a bit of political correctness, where the worlds gone a bit mad and mentioning “normal” actually means you are anti anything else, which is bloody stupid! Examples: MOBO awards - imagine if there was a MOWO award? And Painting trains and bridges in rainbows to celebrate LGBT. That’s a fantastic thing, but what would the reaction be if someone painted a train to celebrate straightness? Neither are right or wrong, but the point is, that majorities or norms aren’t really allowed to be celebrated because people perceive this as being “anti” the minority.

You are who you are, and you can’t change that. But just cause people don’t publicly post about you or your type, doesn’t mean they don’t think about you xx

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

The thing about these posts that mainly get to me is that people always slate slim women as skinny! We are not skinny, we are slim! We are what our body builds are!

I am 7.2 stone, I am not under weight, I have never had a doctor or nurse question my weight, they just look at me and probably my BMI and thing yeap, in the spectrum.

Yet if I was to use the 'fat' to describe some on here the world would have a bloody meltdown! Stop using the fucking word 'skinny' it is fucking SLIM, my body is in proportion to the rest of me, and stop bloody insulting us just because you feel like it, it is not, big, it is not clever and it makes you look fucking stupid!

So if everyone wants to use the right terminology in order to curry favour or try and get in the knickers of someone else, stop and think about what words you are using! Because the I do find the term 'skinny minnie' really bloody offensive because I am not! I am a size 6 and that is just how I have been made!

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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"The thing about these posts that mainly get to me is that people always slate slim women as skinny! We are not skinny, we are slim! We are what our body builds are!

I am 7.2 stone, I am not under weight, I have never had a doctor or nurse question my weight, they just look at me and probably my BMI and thing yeap, in the spectrum.

Yet if I was to use the 'fat' to describe some on here the world would have a bloody meltdown! Stop using the fucking word 'skinny' it is fucking SLIM, my body is in proportion to the rest of me, and stop bloody insulting us just because you feel like it, it is not, big, it is not clever and it makes you look fucking stupid!

So if everyone wants to use the right terminology in order to curry favour or try and get in the knickers of someone else, stop and think about what words you are using! Because the I do find the term 'skinny minnie' really bloody offensive because I am not! I am a size 6 and that is just how I have been made!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither fat or thin here with small boobs. Never had any problems or complaints.

Just be happy with what you’ve got people

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

If you're happy within your own skin then these petty comments just go straight over your head because to be honest it doesnt matter. Dont sweat the small stuff.

I'm neither slim or overweight just average but it's a nice place to be.

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock

I am slimish with big boobs but nobody has complained yet. Hollie

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"Surely body shaming is something that should have been left in the playground (not even acceptable then tbf) but it’s childish behaviour, I can’t get my head around adults insulting or trying to body shame somebody on the forum, what do they gain from it? a giggle off one of their fab admirers at most, surely it makes them feel shitty about themselves afterwards, if not then it should.

I'm sure you could never be the victim of body shaming... you're both utterly stunning and have perfect bodies. That isn't said with a hint of anything other than admiration... and a bigger hint of envy

Thank you for the compliment, although we wouldn’t go that far, we are both far from perfect for sure and definitely not everyone’s cup of tea, for one most people like bigger boobs which I’ve never been blessed with and yes did get a pm message once saying I was a titless wonder with no ass amongst other things but just deleted it, if you rise to it they win don’t they.

You have a great figure in my opinion."

Well thank you, nice of you to say and likewise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big boobs on an 20yr can look fab but merely represent an "Oh dear" moment that's waiting to happen. Hence an A or B cup represents a far safer hand wrt the long game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big boobs on an 20yr can look fab but merely represent an "Oh dear" moment that's waiting to happen. Hence an A or B cup represents a far safer hand wrt the long game."

What would be the “Oh dear” moment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer smaller boobs, my ex was a b cup and I loved her boobs, her nipples were very sensitive too, I don’t know if that’s related or not, I just know I loved her boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big boobs on an 20yr can look fab but merely represent an "Oh dear" moment that's waiting to happen. Hence an A or B cup represents a far safer hand wrt the long game.

What would be the “Oh dear” moment? "

So, I'm on a vanilla dating site...getting on famously with a great woman...then the texting turns to sexting (As you do!)...She informs that she's a D cup (I wasn't able to see from her initial photos...they were all head and shoulder shots)...my heart sinks ...then the photo arrives....Oh dear, Let's just say time isn't kind to D Cups

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Big boobs on an 20yr can look fab but merely represent an "Oh dear" moment that's waiting to happen. Hence an A or B cup represents a far safer hand wrt the long game."

are you saying that us older women with larger breasts suffer from droopage

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over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Big boobs on an 20yr can look fab but merely represent an "Oh dear" moment that's waiting to happen. Hence an A or B cup represents a far safer hand wrt the long game.

What would be the “Oh dear” moment?

So, I'm on a vanilla dating site...getting on famously with a great woman...then the texting turns to sexting (As you do!)...She informs that she's a D cup (I wasn't able to see from her initial photos...they were all head and shoulder shots)...my heart sinks ...then the photo arrives....Oh dear, Let's just say time isn't kind to D Cups"

Damn I'm 62"and a DD, I'm in trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big boobs on an 20yr can look fab but merely represent an "Oh dear" moment that's waiting to happen. Hence an A or B cup represents a far safer hand wrt the long game.

What would be the “Oh dear” moment?

So, I'm on a vanilla dating site...getting on famously with a great woman...then the texting turns to sexting (As you do!)...She informs that she's a D cup (I wasn't able to see from her initial photos...they were all head and shoulder shots)...my heart sinks ...then the photo arrives....Oh dear, Let's just say time isn't kind to D Cups"

Well. I doubt there are any 85 year old women out there with small perky B cups either!

Gravity takes it toll on all of us eventually, some far quicker than others.

Women get saggy tits, men get saggy balls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big boobs on an 20yr can look fab but merely represent an "Oh dear" moment that's waiting to happen. Hence an A or B cup represents a far safer hand wrt the long game.

What would be the “Oh dear” moment?

So, I'm on a vanilla dating site...getting on famously with a great woman...then the texting turns to sexting (As you do!)...She informs that she's a D cup (I wasn't able to see from her initial photos...they were all head and shoulder shots)...my heart sinks ...then the photo arrives....Oh dear, Let's just say time isn't kind to D Cups"

Oh my. I've got AA cups and they've sagged after I've finish breastfeeding. Better put them away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the sagging (saggers are fine)..but more the "quite a bit of air let out of the previously well inflated football" aesthetic that isn't for my tastes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's not the sagging (saggers are fine)..but more the "quite a bit of air let out of the previously well inflated football" aesthetic that isn't for my tastes."

you're not doing yourself any favours but you are making me laugh.

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Flat or fullsome, what's not to like

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's fine to like or dislike any body type or shape just don't be rude about the ones you don't like is the message of this thread I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not the sagging (saggers are fine)..but more the "quite a bit of air let out of the previously well inflated football" aesthetic that isn't for my tastes.

you're not doing yourself any favours but you are making me laugh. "

I'm not here for favours...just to tell it how it is, in a place where telling it how it is...isn't the norm. Saggy A or B cups for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not the sagging (saggers are fine)..but more the "quite a bit of air let out of the previously well inflated football" aesthetic that isn't for my tastes."

Are you sure they weren't balloons in the bra?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like slim ladies too

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By *estEndGentMan
over a year ago

London

I like slim ladies. Always been a bum and a leg man!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's not the sagging (saggers are fine)..but more the "quite a bit of air let out of the previously well inflated football" aesthetic that isn't for my tastes.

you're not doing yourself any favours but you are making me laugh.

I'm not here for favours...just to tell it how it is, in a place where telling it how it is...isn't the norm. Saggy A or B cups for me."

Fair enough.

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

Skin stretches but doesn`t shrink.

If you loose a lot of weight you will have saggy bits. That`s life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big boobs on an 20yr can look fab but merely represent an "Oh dear" moment that's waiting to happen. Hence an A or B cup represents a far safer hand wrt the long game.

What would be the “Oh dear” moment?

So, I'm on a vanilla dating site...getting on famously with a great woman...then the texting turns to sexting (As you do!)...She informs that she's a D cup (I wasn't able to see from her initial photos...they were all head and shoulder shots)...my heart sinks ...then the photo arrives....Oh dear, Let's just say time isn't kind to D Cups

Oh my. I've got AA cups and they've sagged after I've finish breastfeeding. Better put them away... "

Pls put them away put them on display.

Looking at your pics yours are beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s good to be kind to all body types even while having your own preferences. Big boobs can be saggy even on young women, women who haven’t had children, same as small ones can be. Gravity doesn’t allow larger boobs to be perky, they aren’t all saggy lol they’re heavy.

Thin women with small boobs are gorgeous and no one should be put down, every body is someone’s type.

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By *ran_can_twoCouple
over a year ago


"Omg At last !!

Some ladies work hard to look amazing and it’s never mentioned on here ..

Seems it’s on trend to be nice and compliment the BBW’s as they get called..

Small boobs and slim get my vote .."

( mr GCTwo) here,the above is spot on!! Mrs GCTwo works out 6 days a week to get her slim athletic body and has only recently become happy with her small perky boobs ( down to positive feedback from admirers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg At last !!

Some ladies work hard to look amazing and it’s never mentioned on here ..

Seems it’s on trend to be nice and compliment the BBW’s as they get called..

Small boobs and slim get my vote ..

( mr GCTwo) here,the above is spot on!! Mrs GCTwo works out 6 days a week to get her slim athletic body and has only recently become happy with her small perky boobs ( down to positive feedback from admirers "

Credit to her! shes got the body of someone half her age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I obviously go on BBW threads and I too hate it when those horrible remarks are made about slim women. I always call it out, and so do many others. All of us are freaking fabulous in one way or another and deserve all the attention we get.

I do hate this idea that was stated earlier in this thread that men only go for us fat girls because we are easier. Believe me, there are many men that find fat attractive, maybe not a comparable number who find slim women attractive, but we do alright.

Anyway women are gorgeous, whether fat or thin, as long as we celebrate each other and our differences xx

"

Yep all of the above! I am not easier because of my size and neither is a slim woman!

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

For me the frustrating thing is that in society slim women are the default position in the media for attractiveness and desirability in a woman and has been since Hollywood and the fashion industry became major players.

Fab is one of the few spaces where men actually say they find curvier women attractive. There is a belated effort in adverts to use curvier women. But the women themselves are all attractive and a standard curvaceous shape.

Certainly I don't believe it is right to be critical of any shape, in swinging it is not a competition. But slimness is an unspoken requirement in the western world for attractiveness. Therefore when (a) regularly in Hollywood blockbusters the hero's love object is a plus sized woman, who is shown as an object of desire,and (b) the heroine in a blockbuster is a plus sized woman (and it is not comedy, no Melissa McCarthy or Rebel Wilson) then I will believe there is a genuine change in how plus sized woman are seen.

As for those who workout and restrict their food intake to look slim, congratulations. But you are confusing curviness with calories, and slimness with moral rectitude.

At the end of the day everyone should be happy with what they are for their own sake. Personally when it comes to attraction I have no race, size, height or faith prejudices. But then liking people who they are and not because they conform to a stereotype is strangely seen as being desperate.

I find the world a strange place so places like Le Boudier are understandable but bizarre.

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of love for bbw and rightfully so but there seems to be a lot less threads for skinnier

woman with small boobs.

Is this not a thing as I struggle with liking my size and weight, I eat like a horse, and don’t want surgical help with boob jobs etc.

There are threads for slimmer women.

There's a proliferation of bbw threads, started by men in the main, to attract women they think maybe easier to meet.

Reading some of these bbw threads the women talk about them being confidence boosting...then they crash and burn when the bloke disappears after a shag.

The thing is, regardless of size, there are men that will say anything to women on here to get a shag. You could look like a Victoria Secrets model or the Goodyear blimp, by nature of being on this site some will just want to hit it and quit it.

It's up to us to take compliments with a quarry of salt, be kind to ourselves and others and just take it for what it is. "

well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think slim women get just as much abuse ..

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By *ornyguy169Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Doesn't matter the size if you can handle it deep harp and a little painyour good to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big boobs on an 20yr can look fab but merely represent an "Oh dear" moment that's waiting to happen. Hence an A or B cup represents a far safer hand wrt the long game."

I’m 48 and a h cup. Mine are less saggy than my sis in law that has a b cup. Not having children has probably helped.

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