FabSwingers.com forum: So why people hide their verifications

By *ragon007 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Does not make sense

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

It makes sense to the people hiding them.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Many reasons.

For me it's mostly so that people don't contact the men who've verified me to get around filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I occasionally show mine,but they're usually hidden to stop anyone browsing or contacting people I've met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had alot of crap from others on here regarding the ones I've given veris too and the ones I've received.

Will show club/party veris only now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's a preference. I think like many, I'd like to think people would want to meet based on my profile, pics and chat rather than what others have said

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Because it's nobody else's business. We have the summary up and that's all that's needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to keep the people I’ve met private. I don’t like receiving them anyway but if I do, it’s between me and that person. I’m not a fan of overly sexual ones. They can put me off a guy.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I don’t know .... anyone tell me if mine show on my prom and it’s not just so u have a gas at my profile .. thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many reasons.

For me it's mostly so that people don't contact the men who've verified me to get around filters. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does not make sense "

Just think of why you show them, then reverse those reasons and that may be their reasons.

Or may not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many reasons.

For me it's mostly so that people don't contact the men who've verified me to get around filters.

How do they do that?

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

It uses a persons real name.

It’s tacky and over explicit.

You don’t want people knowing you met that person.

The sender has left the site, so the veri is deleted but it remains on the count.

The people leaving you a veri get harassed by your stalker.

People contact you saying you should meet them because you’ve met X and they’re better looking than X.

Because you want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It uses a persons real name.

It’s tacky and over explicit.

You don’t want people knowing you met that person.

The sender has left the site, so the veri is deleted but it remains on the count.

The people leaving you a veri get harassed by your stalker.

People contact you saying you should meet them because you’ve met X and they’re better looking than X.

Because you want to.

Ahh I see - I've heard conflicting advice as to show or hide x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many reasons.

For me it's mostly so that people don't contact the men who've verified me to get around filters. "

Selfish you don't want other women's to have reliable fun, since you have met and proven

Logically why I want to hide, I met someone, it was just social, it's giving wrong impression to viwer/reader and people will think it was more then social so I can be trusted. But anyway it's personal choice=preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess it's a preference. I think like many, I'd like to think people would want to meet based on my profile, pics and chat rather than what others have said"

This for me....

Plus why read that "I can suck like a pro".... When you could find out yourself.... It's like a plot spoiler

(obviously the above only applies when I do get back to meeting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does it not make sense OP?

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

kells

"Does not make sense "

You’re not showing all yours so you tell us??

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I hide mine because its no one else's business who I have met and I don't need people contacting the guys I met either trying to get info. That happens quite often in here. Once someone is veried that is all that should really matter. And like a poster said I'd want someone to meet me because I of who I am not my veris. Not that mine are explicit anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hide ours when we're not looking, and then show one or two when we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does not make sense "

Why doesn't it?

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By *obandsue 69Couple
over a year ago

north Cornwall

I like to read verifications, and will not met anyone without them unless they are in a club...we are a cuckolding couple and I like to know if we arrange to met someone they have good experience as a bull. We have been fooled by a couple of wannabes and they have been a total let down. Will not have my time wasted again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide mine because its no one else's business who I have met and I don't need people contacting the guys I met either trying to get info. That happens quite often in here. Once someone is veried that is all that should really matter. And like a poster said I'd want someone to meet me because I of who I am not my veris. Not that mine are explicit anyhow. "

And I don't really suck like a pro... It's just my humour...

And a quote that makes me laugh (but don't tell the others on here)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to read verifications, and will not met anyone without them unless they are in a club...we are a cuckolding couple and I like to know if we arrange to met someone they have good experience as a bull. We have been fooled by a couple of wannabes and they have been a total let down. Will not have my time wasted again.

As I express my view

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

Some veris disappear if the users who wrote them have deleted their profile as is the case with a number of mine.

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By *ongleggedfemaleWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

I like to show a few but recently had a bonkers gf of a previous meet messaging all my friends whose verifications I displayed. No one needs that sort of aggro. I can understand that people don't display them.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

To stop the shit stirring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Published verifications often reveal your low standards and bad life choices

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By *ragon007 OP Man
over a year ago

london

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By *ragon007 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Completely agree as time is very precious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are actually I think one person left the site

We are happy for any one to contact any person we met to confirm how we are also it’s put us off if there is no verification or all of them

Are hidden "

I met this couple at op4f, although we didn’t play (due to my partner being shy) I can confirm this couples are 100% genuine. So weather all there veris are displayed or not, trust me they are fully genuine. Yang is a gorgeous Chinese lady with a sexy body

shah is polite and friendly

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By *rygveMan
over a year ago

The Shires

Somebody said it wasn’t tripadvisor which kind of made me think so hidden mine for a bit. Gladly show them if anyone needed to see them before a meet.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I like to show a few but recently had a bonkers gf of a previous meet messaging all my friends whose verifications I displayed. No one needs that sort of aggro. I can understand that people don't display them."
ive had something very similar lately.. so had hidden them. Now slowly putting them all back up

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"I like to keep the people I’ve met private. I don’t like receiving them anyway but if I do, it’s between me and that person. I’m not a fan of overly sexual ones. They can put me off a guy. "
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Absolutely this .... it’s not trip advisor for me th green ticks is all that’s necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does it not make sense OP?"

????

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

kells

"We are actually I think one person left the site

We are happy for any one to contact any person we met to confirm how we are also it’s put us off if there is no verification or all of them

Are hidden

shah is polite and friendly "

I’m not questioning how genuine they are, I’ve no doubt they are.. But they are missing 3 veris from 2 people and wondering why everyone else’s isn’t shown. If I was to question everyone else’s I’d make sure all mine was shown and explain if missing..

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"We are actually I think one person left the site

We are happy for any one to contact any person we met to confirm how we are also it’s put us off if there is no verification or all of them

Are hidden

shah is polite and friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to keep the people I’ve met private. I don’t like receiving them anyway but if I do, it’s between me and that person. I’m not a fan of overly sexual ones. They can put me off a guy. .

Absolutely this .... it’s not trip advisor for me th green ticks is all that’s necessary"

I agree it isn’t trip advisor. For me green ticks are the most important too!!

You look amazing

it’s a shame I’m out of your age range

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By *il73Woman
over a year ago

Hyde

I didnt show a veri because it was a bit rubbish

Lol

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Well for me two reasons. It tends to invite messages to those that have verified me with a

“you’ve met him and he is a) gopping b) riddled with stis c) a crap shag; my mate told me, so you MUST meet me”

Or it invites lies from people I may have upset, turned down or had a relationship with in the past. No one needs my drama (even if I am not the cause of it) so I tend not to show. They are available on request.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

kells

"We are actually I think one person left the site

We are happy for any one to contact any person we met to confirm how we are also it’s put us off if there is no verification or all of them

Are hidden

shah is polite and friendly

9 veris by 7 people shown and

11 veris by 9 people on summary

I meant 2 veris from 2 people missing not 3 veris..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are actually I think one person left the site

We are happy for any one to contact any person we met to confirm how we are also it’s put us off if there is no verification or all of them

Are hidden

shah is polite and friendly

9 veris by 7 people shown and

11 veris by 9 people on summary

I meant 2 veris from 2 people missing not 3 veris.. "

When people who verified you, leave the site ....these verifications are deleted. That would explain the two missing

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"We are actually I think one person left the site

We are happy for any one to contact any person we met to confirm how we are also it’s put us off if there is no verification or all of them

Are hidden

shah is polite and friendly

9 veris by 7 people shown and

11 veris by 9 people on summary

I meant 2 veris from 2 people missing not 3 veris..

When people who verified you, leave the site ....these verifications are deleted. That would explain the two missing "
this. I have loads missing as people have left fab

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

kells

"We are actually I think one person left the site

We are happy for any one to contact any person we met to confirm how we are also it’s put us off if there is no verification or all of them

Are hidden

shah is polite and friendly

9 veris by 7 people shown and

11 veris by 9 people on summary

I meant 2 veris from 2 people missing not 3 veris..

When people who verified you, leave the site ....these verifications are deleted. That would explain the two missing this. I have loads missing as people have left fab "

I know that and OP knows that and that reason is good enough for their profile but yet want to question everyone else?

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

Is it not up to the individual ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I don't want you knowing who I've fucked.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

"Because I don't want you knowing who I've fucked."

This

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

And I don't really suck like a pro... It's just my humour...

And a quote that makes me laugh (but don't tell the others on here)

Hahaha it will be our secret

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By *etskierMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

There’s no right or wrong reply to the original post.

Everyone’s different, some like to show who they have met others like to keep it private for personal reasons.

Happy Fabbing. ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want veris showing on my account...who I'm fucking on here is private to me

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

Had this too, though she wasn't their gf (had never actually met them) and I wasn't displaying my veri's, so she'd just searched through fab trying to track down profiles I'd left a Veri on

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Many reasons.

For me it's mostly so that people don't contact the men who've verified me to get around filters.

How do they do that?"

If they're filtered out for being too young/old/whatever, they message my verifications asking them to pass on messages to me. So it's a pain in the arse for all involved really, simpler to keep them hidden.

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By *reenlanerCouple
over a year ago

bournemouth

"Because I don't want you knowing who I've fucked.

This

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I don't want you knowing who I've fucked.

This

Exactly "

Same. But it’s cool for others to show them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not bothered about people knowing who I've met/fcked. What does annoy me is when I get messages questioning why I met Tom, Dick and Harry over him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funnily we don’t tend to get much drama nowadays over verifications, having taken a back seat from the local club scene where the drama is plentiful, petty, narrow minded and full of lies.

Single ladies tend to attract the most drama over verifications, from petty jealousy to complete lies, hence why lots of single ladies hide there verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide the fun meet veris as some men get jealous after they've read them.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

I show certain veris to show that im real.

the ones that are hidden is no one elses business who ive met up with.

plus like many other sites out there

Theres always people saying wont meet you, Because youve met them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide the fun meet veris as some men get jealous after they've read them."

You make all us men jealous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide the fun meet veris as some men get jealous after they've read them.

You make all us men jealous x"

Do I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only hide the veris that say I'm evil. I show all the good ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide the fun meet veris as some men get jealous after they've read them.

You make all us men jealous x

Do I?"

Oh yes, its those pictures of yours x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I show certain veris to show that im real.

the ones that are hidden is no one elses business who ive met up with.

plus like many other sites out there

Theres always people saying wont meet you, Because youve met them. Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only hide the veris that say I'm evil. I show all the good ones. "

Oh what did you do to make people think your evil?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To stop the shit stirring."
some people on here LOVE doing that.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Don't want you knowing our business cos it's none of yours.

Don't want others knowing we're actively playing. Pushy and demanding to play messages are cut down considerably.

Had messages asking about guys cocks and their performance. None of your business what we did or how the meet went.

"You met them/him/her so we don't want to meet you as we don't like them." Again, none of your concerns who we meet, it's our journey and we play when and with who suits us.

Waay too many reasons why we don't show veris. Bottom line, it's our concern and we run our profile to suit us regardless of how much sense it makes to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It uses a persons real name.

It’s tacky and over explicit.

You don’t want people knowing you met that person.

The sender has left the site, so the veri is deleted but it remains on the count.

The people leaving you a veri get harassed by your stalker.

People contact you saying you should meet them because you’ve met X and they’re better looking than X.

Because you want to.

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only hide the veris that say I'm evil. I show all the good ones.

Oh what did you do to make people think your evil? "

They wouldn't say.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Because of the jealousy, pettiness and vindictiveness of some people on here

Also because it's nobody else's business who i've met.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

Because this site for me is about sexual fun and socialising. Not about rating one and other.

The little symbol is enough to state you've been personally verified in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no need to let everyone know who I've met. I'm a private person. I don't need to explain myself to anyone. I've no desire to communicate with anyone who is bothered by this.

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By *indfkdWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I dont show either verifications or the summary as it's my private life and dont feel the need for everyone to see it

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By *coxy69Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Because I don't want you knowing who I've fucked."

I don’t get it, this whole site is about people fucking other people, that’s why we’re here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I don't want you knowing who I've fucked.

I don’t get it, this whole site is about people fucking other people, that’s why we’re here

Yep and some of us manage to do it discreetly and don't feel the need to shout out to everyone.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Cos all mine are really awful - I’ve left the best two up from Sarah Sahara and Wet Lettuce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had guys who hqve straight on their profile hide their verifications bexause theY are from gay or bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show all mine got nothing to hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show all mine got nothing to hide."

Except your pics

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Makes perfect sense as judgy people often jump to the wrong conclusions without reading the content of them.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"It uses a persons real name.

It’s tacky and over explicit.

You don’t want people knowing you met that person.

The sender has left the site, so the veri is deleted but it remains on the count.

The people leaving you a veri get harassed by your stalker.

People contact you saying you should meet them because you’ve met X and they’re better looking than X.

Because you want to.

All good reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I don't want you knowing who I've fucked.

I don’t get it, this whole site is about people fucking other people, that’s why we’re here

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what's not to get? It's a pretty straightforward reason.

Why do you feel the need to know who I've had sex with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we meet a couple more than once and they give us a second verification then we will publish that one and hide the first. People have all kinds of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I don't want you knowing who I've fucked.

I don’t get it, this whole site is about people fucking other people, that’s why we’re here

Still non of your business. Not all of us is here to fuck around. If I do meet someone, I want it to be something special kept between us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t generally meet people who hide there verifications, what are they hiding? Playing with bareback/unsafe sex players? One offs because they are not great to play with? Basically we don’t care who anyone has played with as long as it’s safe (no guarantee of course) and you can get a good idea how nice people really are by repeat verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good point

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I hide mine because I’m a private person and out of respect for the people I’ve met ..

I’m choosey who I meet and chat to ..

If someone I’m chatting to asks as a security measure then just like a face pic I’d gladly show ..

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By *ragon007 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Because I don't want you knowing who I've fucked.

I don’t get it, this whole site is about people fucking other people, that’s why we’re here

Still non of your business. Not all of us is here to fuck around. If I do meet someone, I want it to be something special kept between us. "

Just a question not sure why people are so defensive and childish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I don't want you knowing who I've fucked.

I don’t get it, this whole site is about people fucking other people, that’s why we’re here

Still non of your business. Not all of us is here to fuck around. If I do meet someone, I want it to be something special kept between us.

Just a question not sure why people are so defensive and childish "

And we have repeatedly said the same thing only to be questioned as to why again.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Does not make sense "

Because some people judge other people by the circle they keep with or shows people standards high or low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does not make sense "

Because we can.

My meets, my business

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

kells

"Because I don't want you knowing who I've fucked.

I don’t get it, this whole site is about people fucking other people, that’s why we’re here

Still non of your business. Not all of us is here to fuck around. If I do meet someone, I want it to be something special kept between us.

Just a question not sure why people are so defensive and childish "

Show all of your veris then, you’re missing 2..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are a couple of my veris that i doubt want the world to know they have been fucked by a man in panties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people like to see veris to see what sort of people that person or couple are meeting, and if heavy swingers or not, the risk factor is a lot on the type of meets you have, weather they been with people who take risks or safe people and how many they go out meeting in a weekly basis or just light swingers, it then gives you the option weather you want to risk meeting that person or not, that is what veris are there for. To show you are not fake and to see if they meet the same category people you would, each to there own but thats why I think they should be on show. Def not to contact peoples veris thats wrong and weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never used to until i found a few people out using my veri's to play silly mind game's even had one guy contact all on my list to warn all others to back off as i was his

id never even met the guy so i hide them now to stop the silly games being played

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Many reasons.

For me it's mostly so that people don't contact the men who've verified me to get around filters.

How do they do that?

Madness !

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By *kbull2000Man
over a year ago

Carluke

Because I've had aggro from past partners not liking others who've also left verifications or prospective partners being put off by verifiers after viewing their profile after mine.

I ended up starting with a clean slate, with the exception of a couple whom I've known for years.

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

If people leave you a veri , then delete their profile, you can't display it any more

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I don’t like the kiss and tell feeling of it. I’ve had problems in the past with veris. I’d rather not have the hassle. I do fine not displaying them, if someone wants to see I will share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey miss i would love to see your verifications x

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

"Hey miss i would love to see your verifications x"

Not shown willy nilly, for good cause.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's ok love your profile and your pics too x

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I don't show mine because

1. It's my choice

2. Who I met, when I met them and what we did is my business not yours

3. It's my choice

4. I don't like people having unsolicited conversations ABOUT me with the men and women I've slept with

5. It's my choice

6. I don't like people having unsolicited conversations WITH me about the men and women I've slept with

7. It's my choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey miss i would love to see your verifications x

Not shown willy nilly, for good cause. "

Agree

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Because I can. What people have wrote is no one's business

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

"I don't show mine because

1. It's my choice

2. Who I met, when I met them and what we did is my business not yours

3. It's my choice

4. I don't like people having unsolicited conversations ABOUT me with the men and women I've slept with

5. It's my choice

6. I don't like people having unsolicited conversations WITH me about the men and women I've slept with

7. It's my choice"

THIS!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I don't show mine because

1. It's my choice

2. Who I met, when I met them and what we did is my business not yours

3. It's my choice

4. I don't like people having unsolicited conversations ABOUT me with the men and women I've slept with

5. It's my choice

6. I don't like people having unsolicited conversations WITH me about the men and women I've slept with

7. It's my choice

THIS!"

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"To stop the shit stirring."

This mainly & jealousy.

Mad considering its supposed to by a site for swinging & peeps should really be more open minded.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"To stop the shit stirring.

This mainly & jealousy.

Mad considering its supposed to by a site for swinging & peeps should really be more open minded.

It is mad but 100% accurate about the jealousy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met 3 couples since new profile, none would do verifications. Some think theres a stigma around having too many and some think the whole reason for being here is to he secretive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It makes sense to the people hiding them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s no one else’s business who I meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does not make sense "

Having looked at your profile hypocrite comes to mind.

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By *ragon007 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Does not make sense

Having looked at your profile hypocrite comes to mind."

And how is that we have not hidden any thing

It’s boring now

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

"Met 3 couples since new profile, none would do verifications. Some think theres a stigma around having too many and some think the whole reason for being here is to he secretive "

We've been turned down by people who've said " you have too many veris". So it's not percevied, it's fact! We only show a handful of recents.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

kells

"Does not make sense

Having looked at your profile hypocrite comes to mind.

And how is that we have not hidden any thing

It’s boring now "

All your veris aren’t shown, what are you hiding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hide ours incase someone we know ie family find us on here they dont need to know the details !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone message the guy whose veri I show asking my name, where I live etc! All very strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Met 3 couples since new profile, none would do verifications. Some think theres a stigma around having too many and some think the whole reason for being here is to he secretive

We've been turned down by people who've said " you have too many veris". So it's not percevied, it's fact! We only show a handful of recents.

We’d rather know if people are narrow minded and judgemental so we can avoid them! Hence we show ours xx

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Not everyone wants to kiss and tell others want to respect others discretion and privacy too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess it's a preference. I think like many, I'd like to think people would want to meet based on my profile, pics and chat rather than what others have said"

This Op. Veris just mean to me you turned up. Except some folk don't give them. I don't read them and switch off when it says how the Fuck was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not everyone wants to kiss and tell others want to respect others discretion and privacy too x"

Again this Op. My sex life will always be private. A verification should be we met and yes they are who they say they are not a description of how his Cock was or how the fanny hung

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted you to start a thread about it.

It looks like I have succeed. I am not a complete failure after all x

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By *ragon007 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I guess it's a preference. I think like many, I'd like to think people would want to meet based on my profile, pics and chat rather than what others have said

This Op. Veris just mean to me you turned up. Except some folk don't give them. I don't read them and switch off when it says how the Fuck was. "

The reason I started this thread was their is couple who wanted to meet in pictures they looked ok but they have 6 verification all hidden

That what did not make sense why they need to hide every single one that why I asked the question as usual people on fab who suppose be liberated and open minded lol what can I say some things never change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are hidden because the men that verified me was nagging all the time for another meet so I blocked them & now their veris have disappeared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many people will hide for different reasons.

I nearly hid mine and my partners veris (most of my older ones are from when my profile was a single fem profile)

However I can see the issues some have, I have had it myself.

People asking to meet and when I politely decline due to age etc they comment about how some of my veri's are from people who have met me but are well out of my range. (not every meet means you fucked them).

Or you get the crazy stalker who will message them asking for details etc.

all down to personal preference

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

"Met 3 couples since new profile, none would do verifications. Some think theres a stigma around having too many and some think the whole reason for being here is to he secretive

We've been turned down by people who've said " you have too many veris". So it's not percevied, it's fact! We only show a handful of recents.

We’d rather know if people are narrow minded and judgemental so we can avoid them! Hence we show ours xx"

Oh, hadnt thought of that. I'll throw this idea past M. And maybe reveiw.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

kells

"I guess it's a preference. I think like many, I'd like to think people would want to meet based on my profile, pics and chat rather than what others have said

This Op. Veris just mean to me you turned up. Except some folk don't give them. I don't read them and switch off when it says how the Fuck was.

The reason I started this thread was their is couple who wanted to meet in pictures they looked ok but they have 6 verification all hidden

You’ve got 100 different answers without asking who you should’ve asked and without saying why you haven’t got all yours shown, then again it’s your own choice not to show if you don’t want to..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does not make sense

Having looked at your profile hypocrite comes to mind.

And how is that we have not hidden any thing

It’s boring now

All your veris aren’t shown, what are you hiding?

Maybe the people have left fab or blocked them. That would explain it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who I meet and what we do is between those I meet and me. I am not aTrip Advisor destination and nor are they.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I sometimes display them then hide them again when the random messages about people I've met start cropping up. Folk are nosey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as above witch doctor.

My verifications are my business. What happens in bed between me and a guy, is our personal business.

Anyway, what I enjoy with one man, I may dislike with the next.

If I feel I was left a verfi that was too much in detail, I'll hide it. I dislike graphic verifications.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Wind people up? Just a question...

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Depends, some of ours are repeat meet verifications, some people have left the site so their verifications are lost on us. A few profiles have subsequently been block so those are lost as well. Finally the we have chose not to display some of our verifications from over 5 years ago as they are really old now and we have much later verifications.

There does that answer your question?

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

kells

"Does not make sense

Having looked at your profile hypocrite comes to mind.

And how is that we have not hidden any thing

It’s boring now

All your veris aren’t shown, what are you hiding?

Maybe the people have left fab or blocked them. That would explain it."

Possibly, so why question everyone else’s?

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By *ultrySiriWoman
over a year ago

Arundel

Because i dont need to show off how many i manage to tick off in a week. No need to prove anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to hide mine or I would be constantly pestered by hordes of rampant fab women.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s my business who I’ve met. The site allows us the option to show verifications or not. The choice is up to the individual and should be respected.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

To protect the privacy of those who met me. Simple.

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By *ultrySiriWoman
over a year ago

Arundel

"To protect the privacy of those who met me. Simple.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Does not make sense "

What doesn't make sense about it? If I don't want to show a verification, I won't show it. Nothing confusing about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fake verification that's public why not iys noce but baffeled why it happened

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Does not make sense "

Just because it makes no sense to you they may have a hundred reasons why it makes perfect sense to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a fake verification that's public why not iys noce but baffeled why it happened "

You are openly admitting you have a fake verification?

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By *n080971Man
over a year ago

Billericay

I hide mine as I prefer to meet a few people often, many of whom become friends. A lot of guys on here will take a veri given to another guy as a green light that the woman in question may be looking for more and hound her with messages. This has happened to a lady I have met. I do not wish to subject friends to this.

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By *ack-rayMan
over a year ago

worthing

"I hide mine as I prefer to meet a few people often, many of whom become friends. A lot of guys on here will take a veri given to another guy as a green light that the woman in question may be looking for more and hound her with messages. This has happened to a lady I have met. I do not wish to subject friends to this."

100% agree , have had messages asking about the someone, which is a bit creepy , I just say message and say hi to them , also it’s nice to let someone make there own opinion of you first then when they ask to see them, then show for a few hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does not make sense "
They're ashamed of them maybe or they've got one from a certain person or the woman I mean women they're chatting to would get jealous or the exact opposite the men would or they are secretive or they just don't want to

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

some straight men don't want you to know how good at cock sucking they are

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Because it's nobody else's business. We have the summary up and that's all that's needed."

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I have hidden a verification, due to the guy doing exactly what we agreed he would not do.

We agreed to safe sex, that included not cumming in my mouth.

He then mentioned about how much of a slut I was, I took his load in my mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some straight men don't want you to know how good at cock sucking they are

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've hidden ones that have used my real name, or my fab name before I changed it x

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney

It's like MP's hiding their expences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my verifications displayed, but after getting a new one yesterday I found I got quite a few messages in my inbox, so have decided to hide all 3 of them now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We recently stopped displaying them, because people we had said we were not interested in, were messaging our friends, asking for advice on how to meet us, or, trying to persuade our friends, to persuade us!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’ve recently hid all mine and now I get loads of messages from accounts accusing me of being a fake account haha

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I’ve recently hid all mine and now I get loads of messages from accounts accusing me of being a fake account haha

Most of mine are hidden. Apparently I have too many, so my summary is always hidden.

Ultimately all I need is a green tick to say I have some.

Hiding them is better than having all the drama llamas moaning and whining.

Also it stops people following the veri trail and messaging people I've met with "well you met him, why won't you meet me?" messages.

Ultimately, my profile, I'll run it my way.

If people make negative assumptions and judgements about me based on my verifications, I didn't want to meet them anyway.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Mine are not hidden, I've just chosen not to display currently.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Mine are not hidden, I've just chosen not to display currently. "

So, they're hidden then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine are not hidden, I've just chosen not to display currently.

So, they're hidden then.

That’s tickled me today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recently hid mine. I go through phases. It usually reduces messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause it's no one's business who I've met the only purpose for them is to show that someone's real/ genuine

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Mine are not hidden, I've just chosen not to display currently.

So, they're hidden then.

That’s tickled me today

My work here is done.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I have a fake verification that's public why not iys noce but baffeled why it happened "

Why not? I'd have reported them, they could be verifying every fake profile that pops up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So they know where they are in morning when they wake up

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