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Is it just me that's never met anyone on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm polite, I don't send unsolicited dick picks, I'd like to think I'm ok looking...I don't seem to ever get a reply though, unless it's to tell me that I'm a catfish......oh, and the men. So many, many, many men offer me blowjobs...where are all the talkative ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm polite, I don't send unsolicited dick picks, I'd like to think I'm ok looking...I don't seem to ever get a reply though, unless it's to tell me that I'm a catfish......oh, and the men. So many, many, many men offer me blowjobs...where are all the talkative ladies?"

You're not alone mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of people haven’t met anyone.

There could be many reasons why someone isn’t interested in you.

If you don’t want men messaging you, change your message filters.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's a tough gig for guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Plenty of people haven’t met anyone.

There could be many reasons why someone isn’t interested in you.

If you don’t want men messaging you, change your message filters. "

There could indeed, it would just be nice to know why, you know? Maybe I'm being rude and just don't know it ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a tough gig for guys on here. "

I've noticed ?? Ahh well, probably for the best...I really should be laying bricks instead of being on here...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Women often get heaps of messages and can afford to be picky. You need to stand out.

I haven't looked at your profile, but this might help. https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/910950

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

You’re not alone no, especially in the early days, for those that persevere and keep at it you will eventually get a meet and then being meet verified and with people saying you’re ok it becomes easier

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By *oxladMan
over a year ago

WORKSOP

Me neither

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Try a social event. About 80% on here havnt met

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By *arkmanMan
over a year ago

hounslow

To quote Micheal Jackson. “you are not alone, we are here with you.........”

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Iv met quite a few took a long time before I did just don't be pushy it takes time for for some to trust you

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

there are avenues open to people...

there are enough social events up and down the country....

you live in the middle of a lot of different clubs.....

its a case of making use of all the different things out there.... do you?

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"I'm polite, I don't send unsolicited dick picks, I'd like to think I'm ok looking...I don't seem to ever get a reply though, unless it's to tell me that I'm a catfish......oh, and the men. So many, many, many men offer me blowjobs...where are all the talkative ladies?"

Ive looked at your profile and it says you had a meet a month ago?

There are lots of tips about how to help your profile and approach on the forums. It is hard for men but good and effort go a long way x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah...turns out that was my friend from up the road...she already knew who I was but I diddnt know it was her (no pics) ?? still, we had fun so I can't complain!

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I mean that bit on the bottom of your profile pretty much stops anyone from bothering to talk to you....

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We haven't met anyone off here yet either, it's hard to find people who are interested after we tell them what we are looking for or they expect us to drop everything as soon as they want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you have a meet Veri? I'm confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never mind I just read up a bit.

Don't sweat it many men don't get a meet for ages patience pays off

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"But you have a meet Veri? I'm confused"

I was just about to say that lol maybe he forgot he met someone and got verified, or maybe it's a fake verification

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"It's a tough gig for guys on here. "

It's hard for couples too. We had 3, yes 3 no shows Sat night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you messaged me, I would delete your message based on your profile write up.

It's confusing and contradictory. Almost like you don't even know what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm polite, I don't send unsolicited dick picks, I'd like to think I'm ok looking...I don't seem to ever get a reply though, unless it's to tell me that I'm a catfish......oh, and the men. So many, many, many men offer me blowjobs...where are all the talkative ladies?"

Meeting others

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you messaged me, I would delete your message based on your profile write up.

It's confusing and contradictory. Almost like you don't even know what you want. "

Me too, especially the last paragraph.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had a proper meet, other than on cam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean that bit on the bottom of your profile pretty much stops anyone from bothering to talk to you...."

Why would that stop women from wanting to chat with him?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I mean that bit on the bottom of your profile pretty much stops anyone from bothering to talk to you....

Why would that stop women from wanting to chat with him? "

I was wondering the same thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you messaged me, I would delete your message based on your profile write up.

It's confusing and contradictory. Almost like you don't even know what you want.

Me too, especially the last paragraph."

How is that confusing and contradictory!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you messaged me, I would delete your message based on your profile write up.

It's confusing and contradictory. Almost like you don't even know what you want.

Me too, especially the last paragraph.

How is that confusing and contradictory!?"

He's changed his profile write up. If you read what he originally had up, I'm sure you would agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you messaged me, I would delete your message based on your profile write up.

It's confusing and contradictory. Almost like you don't even know what you want.

Me too, especially the last paragraph.

How is that confusing and contradictory!?

He's changed his profile write up. If you read what he originally had up, I'm sure you would agree"

Oh, I gotcha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you messaged me, I would delete your message based on your profile write up.

It's confusing and contradictory. Almost like you don't even know what you want.

Me too, especially the last paragraph.

How is that confusing and contradictory!?

He's changed his profile write up. If you read what he originally had up, I'm sure you would agree"

Ofcourse I changed it, it's what people advised to do...in fairness though, I deleted one tiny bit and rewrote the rest (mostly)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a tough gig for guys on here. "

That is a FACT.

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By *ibsonVicMan
over a year ago

Minworth

I hardly ever get a meet on here - but every now and again, I do. A wonderful night in Greece with a married couple was one of the best nights I have ever had. Totally out of the blue.

So don't give up! Keep trying. There are way too many guys v women/couples on here, so you just have to keep going and be there in the right place at the right time.

It is easier to meet guys. I do from time to time. I've met some really pleasant guys as well. Not quite what I was after when I first joined here, but at least someone likes me

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"I mean that bit on the bottom of your profile pretty much stops anyone from bothering to talk to you....

Why would that stop women from wanting to chat with him?

I was wondering the same thing...

"

Because you've changed it since I wrote that......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I mean that bit on the bottom of your profile pretty much stops anyone from bothering to talk to you....

Why would that stop women from wanting to chat with him?

I was wondering the same thing...

Because you've changed it since I wrote that......"

I did put that a few messages ago...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Go to a social, go to a club (and you don’t need to go with anyone), join in on here and be patient, be yourself, don’t diss anyone’s sexuality.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Go to the BROWSE section of the site and using 'Username search' search for 'Percy Veer'. His profile is a good example of how to be successful.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

Found this site to be the best overall for meets although i will confess things have been a tad dry since rejoining, too much quality competition since moving area is what I'm chalking it up to

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